The Wisdom of Sex with Dr. Wisdom

Dr. Heather Wisdom, PsyD LMHC
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Welcome to ”The Wisdom of... with Dr. Heather Wisdom,” the podcast that takes you into the world of relationships and intimacy. Get on the couch with the doctor as she explores everything that makes us human. With open, honest discussions and a dash of curiosity, she’s here to break the silence and shine a light on topics that matter and don’t get nearly enough attention. Tune in every Monday.

  1. 02/03/2025

    020 A Brief Talk about Kink and Fetish

    For the grand finale of this season, we're diving into a topic that’s often whispered about but rarely understood—kinks and fetishes. What’s the real difference? Why are some people drawn to leather, feet, or voyeurism? And most importantly, how can you explore your desires safely and without shame? In this episode, we break down the stigma, normalize common fetishes, and give you practical tips on embracing what turns you on. Ready to talk about it? Let’s go there! Products: This Valentine’s Day, give the gift of unforgettable memories with our "Date Night Cards"! Code: 8Q39CSNO Deal Price: $4.99 Original Price: $9.99 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DHCNDRTP?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.2Z1X1YRDWC7PO&linkCode=tr1&tag=heatherwisdom-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.2Z1X1YRDWC7PO_1738165964896   Buy Dr. Wisdom's books THE WISDOM OF SEX…FOR MEN: ⁠amzn.to/4h6zWyR⁠ THE WISDOM OF SEX FOR THE NEURODIVERGENT AND DISABLED: ⁠https://amzn.to/3DA4ry1⁠ MESSY MIND, BRILLIANT LIFE: A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO THRIVING WITH ADD/ADHD: https://amzn.to/40TtXaT   YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@thewisdomof⁠ Dr. Wisdom’s Website: ⁠drheatherwisdom.com⁠ X: ⁠x.com/drheatherwisdom⁠ Facebook: ⁠facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679⁠ TikTok:  ⁠tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠ Dr. Wisdom’s Amazon Store ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/thewisdomofsex?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_DEGM5GBZPQFYSJN78T99⁠   Who is Dr. Wisdom? Dr. Wisdom is a seasoned Licensed Mental Health Counselor with nearly 20 years of experience in the field. With a Doctor of Psychology in Grief Counseling and a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Dr. Wisdom has dedicated their career to exploring the depths of human emotions and relationships. “Be open, be curious, don’t be rude, know your limits and stay wise.

    9 min

  2. 01/29/2025

    019 Polyamory: Realities, and Setting Boundaries

    What happens when polyamory goes from paradise to chaos? Is jealousy really unavoidable? And how do you handle it when your partner wants an open relationship, but you're not on board? Today, we’re diving into the messy, complicated side of polyamory—the myths, the truths, and how to navigate tough conversations without losing yourself. Stick around—it’s going to get real. Products: This Valentine’s Day, give the gift of unforgettable memories with our "Date Night Cards"! Code: 8Q39CSNO Deal Price: $4.99 Original Price: $9.99 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DHCNDRTP?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.2Z1X1YRDWC7PO&linkCode=tr1&tag=heatherwisdom-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.2Z1X1YRDWC7PO_1738165964896   Buy Dr. Wisdom's books THE WISDOM OF SEX…FOR MEN: ⁠amzn.to/4h6zWyR⁠ THE WISDOM OF SEX FOR THE NEURODIVERGENT AND DISABLED: ⁠https://amzn.to/3DA4ry1⁠ MESSY MIND, BRILLIANT LIFE: A PRACTICAL GUIDE TO THRIVING WITH ADD/ADHD: https://amzn.to/40TtXaT   YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@thewisdomof⁠ Dr. Wisdom’s Website: ⁠drheatherwisdom.com⁠ X: ⁠x.com/drheatherwisdom⁠ Facebook: ⁠facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679⁠ TikTok:  ⁠tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠ Dr. Wisdom’s Amazon Store ⁠https://www.amazon.com/shop/thewisdomofsex?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_DEGM5GBZPQFYSJN78T99⁠   Who is Dr. Wisdom? Dr. Wisdom is a seasoned Licensed Mental Health Counselor with nearly 20 years of experience in the field. With a Doctor of Psychology in Grief Counseling and a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Dr. Wisdom has dedicated their career to exploring the depths of human emotions and relationships. “Be open, be curious, don’t be rude, know your limits and stay wise.

    17 min

  3. 01/20/2025

    018 ASMR — Why Are People So Infatuated with It?

    Ever feel a tingle down your spine when someone whispers in your ear? Or maybe the sound of gentle tapping sends a shiver straight through you. You’re not alone. Millions of people are obsessed with this phenomenon — it’s called ASMR. But why? And that’s what we’re discussing today. Welcome to the Wisdom of Sex. Why do some people find it soothing while others find it downright strange? And what does it reveal about our need for intimacy, connection, and care? Today on The Wisdom of Sex, we’re diving deep into the world of ASMR — exploring why it triggers such intense emotions, what it does to your brain, and why people can’t get enough. Get cozy, grab your headphones, and let’s unlock the secrets behind the tingles. Product/Sponsor NUTRAHARMONY: Vitamin B12 Drops - Energy, Metabolism, Brain Health https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CDLWCVQ7?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.3DY9B5PCH6UH5&linkCode=tr1&tag=heatherwisdom-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.3DY9B5PCH6UH5_1735682697753   Buy Dr. Wisdom's books The Wisdom of Sex…for Men: amzn.to/4h6zWyR The Wisdom of Sex for the Neurodivergent and Disabled https://amzn.to/3DA4ry1   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thewisdomof Dr. Wisdom’s Website: drheatherwisdom.com X: x.com/drheatherwisdom Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679 TikTok:  tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Dr. Wisdom’s Amazon Store https://www.amazon.com/shop/thewisdomofsex?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_DEGM5GBZPQFYSJN78T99     Who is Dr. Wisdom? Dr. Wisdom is a seasoned licensed mental health professional. Counselor with nearly 20 years of experience in the field. With a Doctor of Psychology in Grief Counseling and a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Dr. Wisdom has dedicated their career to exploring the depths of human emotions and relationships.

    12 min

  4. 01/13/2025

    017 Benching Zombies and Pocketing Paperclips: New Age Dating

    Have you ever felt strung along by someone’s mixed signals, like you’re chasing crumbs of affection? Or maybe you’ve been ghosted—only for them to reappear like some kind of emotional zombie. And let’s not forget the pain of being someone’s secret, hidden away from the world. These aren’t just bad dating days; they’re toxic trends—breadcrumbing, zombieing, and pocketing—and they’re wreaking havoc on modern relationships. Today, we’re breaking them down and talking about why they happen, how they hurt, and what you can do to protect your heart. YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thewisdomof Dr. Wisdom’s Website: drheatherwisdom.com X: x.com/drheatherwisdom Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679 TikTok:  tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Dr. Wisdom's Store: drheatherwisdom.com/my-favorite-things Dr. Wisdom’s Amazon Store https://www.amazon.com/shop/thewisdomofsex?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_DEGM5GBZPQFYSJN78T99 Buy Dr. Wisdom's book: The Wisdom of Sex...For Men Dr. Wisdom's Book: amzn.to/4h6zWyR   Who is Dr. Wisdom? Dr. Wisdom is a seasoned Licensed Mental Health Counselor with nearly 20 years of experience in the field. With a Doctor of Psychology in Grief Counseling and a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Dr. Wisdom has dedicated their career to exploring the depths of human emotions and relationships. “Be open, be curious, don’t be rude, know your limits and stay wise.”

    25 min

  5. 01/06/2025

    016 Torn Between Two Lovers: Loving Two People: Navigating Affairs, Emotions, and the Path Forward

    What happens when you’re caught in the emotional whirlwind of loving two people—your partner and the person you had an affair with? Is it possible to reconcile, rebuild, or move forward without losing yourself? In this deep dive into one of the most complex emotional dilemmas, Dr. Wisdom unpacks the raw truths of infidelity, the challenges of navigating love and guilt, and how to find clarity amidst chaos. In this thought-provoking episode of The Wisdom of Sex, Dr. Wisdom explores what happens when an affair leaves you loving two people. With a mix of psychological insight, real-life anecdotes, and practical advice, she guides listeners through understanding the emotional dynamics, making difficult decisions, and finding a path that aligns with their values. Whether you’re healing a marriage, embracing a new relationship, or reevaluating your own needs, this episode is a must-listen.   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thewisdomof Dr. Wisdom’s Website: drheatherwisdom.com X: x.com/drheatherwisdom Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679 TikTok:  tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Dr. Wisdom's Store: drheatherwisdom.com/my-favorite-things Dr. Wisdom’s Amazon Store https://www.amazon.com/shop/thewisdomofsex?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_DEGM5GBZPQFYSJN78T99 Buy Dr. Wisdom's book: The Wisdom of Sex...For Men Dr. Wisdom's Book: amzn.to/4h6zWyR

    39 min

  6. 12/27/2024

    015 Chess or Checkers? Narcissism or Machiavellianism or something else

    Is your partner playing mind games you can’t quite put your finger on? Do you feel like you’re caught between intense love and subtle manipulation? You might be dating a narcissist — or worse, a Machiavellian. While both can leave you questioning your sanity, their playbooks are completely different. In this episode, we’ll show you how to tell the difference, the red flags to watch for, and the tests you can use to spot which one you’re dealing with. If you’ve ever felt like you’re on an emotional rollercoaster — or a pawn in someone else's chess game — this one’s for you.   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thewisdomof Dr. Wisdom’s Website: drheatherwisdom.com X: x.com/drheatherwisdom Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679 TikTok:  tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Dr. Wisdom's Store: drheatherwisdom.com/my-favorite-things Dr. Wisdom’s Amazon Store https://www.amazon.com/shop/thewisdomofsex?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsfshop_DEGM5GBZPQFYSJN78T99

    25 min

  7. 12/24/2024 ·  Bonus

    The Wisdom of Sex for Neurodiverse and Disabled Individuals

    Today’s episode is a special one. We’re diving into the insights and key messages from my latest book, The Wisdom of Sex for Neurodiverse and Disabled: Unlocking Confidence, Building Connections, and Redefining Sexuality for Those with Neurodivergent Diagnoses or Disabilities. Order your copy now: https://amzn.to/4iJqcLQ

    11 min

  8. 12/23/2024

    #014 Pain, Pleasure, and Performance: Understanding Dyspareunia and E.D

    Sex is supposed to be pleasurable, but for many people, it can be painful or stressful. Today, we're talking about the realities of painful sex and erectile dysfunction—the causes, the stigma, and, most importantly, what you can do to regain comfort and confidence in your intimate life. Join the Doctor on the couch and let's dive in. Who is Dr. Wisdom? Dr. Wisdom is a seasoned Licensed Mental Health Counselor with nearly 20 years of experience in the field. With a Doctor of Psychology in Grief Counseling and a Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, Dr. Wisdom has dedicated their career to exploring the depths of human emotions and relationships. “Be open, be curious, don’t be rude, know your limits and stay wise.” Dr. Wisdom's Website drheatherwisdom.com     Sponsors:   Tru Power Shot, Pre Workout Extra Strength Energy Shots with BCAAs https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CXF22J4F?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.3OWL0X8OTU74Y&linkCode=tr1&tag=behavioralh09-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.3OWL0X8OTU74Y_1731785027337     Bean Products Zafu and Zabuton Meditation Cushion Set https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00J3ZVD0Y?ref=t_ac_view_request_product_image&campaignId=amzn1.campaign.Y9ZDWD3B42GT&linkCode=tr1&tag=behavioralh09-20&linkId=amzn1.campaign.Y9ZDWD3B42GT_1731784944213     Links Dr. Wisdom's Website⁠ drheatherwisdom.com⁠ X ⁠x.com/drheatherwisdom⁠ Facebook ⁠facebook.com/profile.php?id=61564972856679⁠ TikTok ⁠ tiktok.com/@thewisdomofsex?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠ Dr. Wisdom's Store ⁠drheatherwisdom.com/my-favorite-things⁠ Buy Dr. Wisdom's book, The Wisdom of Sex...For Men Dr. Wisdom's Book ⁠amzn.to/4h6zWyR⁠

    12 min
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Welcome to ”The Wisdom of... with Dr. Heather Wisdom,” the podcast that takes you into the world of relationships and intimacy. Get on the couch with the doctor as she explores everything that makes us human. With open, honest discussions and a dash of curiosity, she’s here to break the silence and shine a light on topics that matter and don’t get nearly enough attention. Tune in every Monday.

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  • Creator
    Dr. Heather Wisdom, PsyD LMHC
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Dr. Heather Wisdom, PsyD LMHC
  • Show Website
    The Wisdom of Sex with Dr. Wisdom