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Lotus shares her unfiltered thoughts—Black woman to Black woman. For the grown, the wise, and the effortlessly refined. Timeless truths, poured like good wine. 🍷✨ Continue the conversation at girllisten2this.wordpress.com.

  1. JAN 27

    Episode 2026.3: Reframing the Idea of Being the Bigger Person

    The idea of being the "bigger person" has been weaponized to silence survivors. In this episode, Lotus describes how this concept can be reframed. Join the conversation at ⁠⁠⁠⁠girllisten2this.wordpress.com/community/ .

    13 min

  2. JAN 20

    Episode 2026.2: Other People's Disappointment Does Not Define You

    For some of us, knowing someone is disappointed in us or having someone harshly criticize us can color our sense of our own worth or ability. But we need not and should not define ourselves according to the people who have a low opinion of us. Join the conversation at ⁠⁠⁠girllisten2this.wordpress.com/community/⁠.

    15 min

  3. JAN 13

    Episode 2026.1: Balancing Wanting to Be Saved vs. Hyper-Independence

    It can be challenging to walk the tightrope between wanting to be rescued from life's challenges and wanting to never depend on anyone ever again. But that is part of the work of being a well-adjusted adult. Join the conversation at ⁠⁠girllisten2this.wordpress.com/community/⁠.

    18 min

  4. 11/25/2025

    Episode 2025.20: Reevaluating Gospel Music - I'll Fly Away

    I grew up singing hymns like "I'll Fly Away" and feeling inspired by the promise of a better future after death. But while I still enjoy this song for the nostalgic feelings it stirs in me, I have reevaluated what role this hymn should play in my approach to life. Join the conversation at ⁠girllisten2this.wordpress.com/community/⁠.

    16 min

  5. 11/17/2025

    Episode 2025.19: Reevaluating Gospel Music

    Gospel music was the soundtrack of Lotus' life well into adulthood. But as she has evolved in recent years she found herself reevaluating whether it could fit into her life at all. Join the conversation at girllisten2this.wordpress.com.

    19 min

  6. 10/13/2025

    Episode 2025.18: What You Do Matters

    In the grand scheme of things, it may seem as though you don't matter much. But for the people in your life, what you do matters a great deal. Learn more about this podcast and join the mailing list at girllisten2this.wordpress.com.

    13 min

  7. 09/18/2025 · BONUS

    Episode 2025.17: Ground Yourself

    The times when it feels like your world is on fire are when you most need to make time to stop, breathe, and ground yourself. That pause can help you get in touch with the hope you need to keep going. Learn more about the podcast at girllisten2this.wordpress.com.

    13 min

  8. 09/02/2025

    Episode 2025.16: The Importance of Defining Yourself

    When you have a strong sense of self, you are less likely to allow other people to project their lazy assumptions onto you. Learn more about the podcast at girllisten2this.wordpress.com.

    14 min
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Lotus shares her unfiltered thoughts—Black woman to Black woman. For the grown, the wise, and the effortlessly refined. Timeless truths, poured like good wine. 🍷✨ Continue the conversation at girllisten2this.wordpress.com.

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  • Creator
    Lotus
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    41
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Lotus
  • Show Website
    Girl, Listen to This!