Thanks for reading Pondering with Purpose! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work. Mirroring this Reality Think back to the game you would play growing up where you would mirror what someone else was doing. They would raise their right hand and you would raise your left. They would wink and you would wink. Do you remember? So my point is that when I ask someone to mirror me, to imitate me, you can do a pretty good job. And in our lives, we actually do this a lot with people that we love. We imitate our really good friends. Maybe we make the same jokes they do. Maybe we talk like they do. Our families, or if we’re in a relationship, you start talking like them. We do this with the people that we love. And our whole section right now in Ephesians is all about imitating God. Not because God walks up to us and says, “Copy me,” right, like it’s some silly exercise. No. Because we love Him, and He’s our Father. And so we want to be like Him. Because we see that the things about Him that are good and beautiful, and we want to do those things too. So this whole section is about mirroring this reality. Just to remind us where we are in the book of Ephesians: we finished all of the first half o the book - those first three chapters - and then we started looking at the implications. We did chapter four, and now we’re in this section here, chapter 5 through the end of Ephesians 6:9. As your Ephesians 5:3-6:9, I want you to think about this idea of “mirroring this reality” around these four points: * Walking in Light * Walking in Wisdom * Imitating Christ * Submitting to the Lord We’ve sat with three chapters of this beautiful reality of who God is, Father, Son, and Spirit, what the gospel is, and what God has done in and for us. And now, as we continue looking at the implications of this reality (this reality that is actually real, that is the truest thing in the universe) we’re asking: What does that mean for me? What does that mean for you? What does that mean for today, and tomorrow? Why does it actually matter? And one of the implications of this reality is that we begin to mirror it. If we see it to be true, and we see it to be good, then we start taking it on as well. We begin to imitate like a child. We watch, and then we do. This reality is the truest thing in the universe, and so it begins to reshape our minds and our imaginations. We look out at the world and we say, “Oh, they’re doing it that way but I know a different way.” And that is because I belong to a different family. I’m under a different King. I believe in a different reality. Not everything they say is true. And so as we move forward, what we’re going to see is what it looks like when this reality actually starts shaping the way we live. Walking In the Reality of Light v. 3-14 V. 8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light So Paul starts here by basically saying: you are light in the Lord, so live like it. If you are light, then live like light. There are some more things in this section that need to be laid aside because they are not in keeping with God’s new family and the culture of that family. It’s kind of like when you start hanging out with a new group of people and you realize that some of your previous habits and behaviors are out place, “Oh we don’t do that here. We don’t do that here.” That’s what Paul is saying. He’s saying, “We don’t do that here”. V. 3 But fornication and all uncleanness or covetousness, let it not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints; So in verse 3 he starts another list. He says fornication, “porneia” in Greek, which is a word that applies to any inappropriate sexual activity. Then he says “uncleanness”, which is just dirtiness, anything that feels morally dirty. Then “covetousness”, which is greed and desiring more and more. And he says these things should not even be named among you, as is fitting for saints. Saints: meaning God’s people who are holy people set apart to God. These things are so not part of who we are that why would we even talk about them? Why would we even give them mental space? V. 4 neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor coarse jesting, which are not fitting, but rather giving of thanks. Then he goes on in verse 4 and keeps the list going: neither “filthiness”, which is obscenities, shameful talking, having a dirty mind and dirty talk nor “foolish talking”, which is silly, meaningless talk, nor coarse jesting, jokes that are rude or harsh or dirty. And then he gives a contrast. Instead of all these things practice thanksgiving. Rather, giving of thanks. Our minds should be filled with things that are beautiful, right, and good, and thanksgiving to God for them. That’s the contrast. Not this, not this, not this but instead, thanksgiving. And if we’re focused on who God is and what He has done, it should naturally bring about thanksgiving. Like Paul in some of his prayers, you can tell he just starts thinking about God and then he can’t stop himself from thanking Him. V. 5 For this you know, that no fornicator, unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God Then in verse 5 he says, “For this you know,” that no fornicator, unclean person, or covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and God. These people have a different culture. They do not fit in with what God is doing and what God has begun to do and will continue to do. V. 6 Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of these things the wrath of God comes upon the sons of disobedience. In verse 6 he says, “Let no one deceive you with empty words.” Anyone who says otherwise, who says, “Oh no, no, it’s fine, you can keep doing that, it’s all good”, they are deceiving you. They might be deceived themselves, but they are telling you a lie. These things are not part of the kingdom of God. These things draw the wrath of God. And the wrath of God is something that some Christians are really scared of, because we know what human wrath looks like. Maybe we’ve had a wrathful parent, or someone who explodes in anger. That is not what Scripture means by the wrath of God. The wrath of God is this handing over - the releasing of someone to the results of their own actions. We see this really clearly in Romans 1:18–27. Paul says that as people continue to push against God, God says, “Okay. If that’s what you want, I’m going to release you to that.” And it’s not going to be good for you. But God is gracious. He’s not forcing Himself on anyone. So when Paul talks about the wrath of God here, he’s talking about the effects of those actions without God holding them back - without God protecting us from chaos and darkness and evil. God saying, “If you want to keep walking this direction and rejecting me over and over again, I release you.” V. 7 Therefore do not be partakers with them. Then in verse 7 he says, “Therefore, do not be partakers with them.” We’ve moved into a new culture. We used to live that way, but no longer. It wouldn’t make sense to keep living that way now that we belong to something new. V. 8 For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Walk as children of light Verse 8 gives this stark contrast: “For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord.” You didn’t used to be in darkness, rather you were darkness. You weren’t just surrounded by darkness; you were a source of it. And now you are light”. Not just in the light but the light has so transformed you that you actually are light. We are light people, and so we should live as light people. There was a recent movie that came out called Elemental. It’s about different elements that are people: fire people, water people, wind people. And the movie shows how you cannot live as a different element than you are. A fire person cannot live in a water pool. It puts them out. That’s what Paul is saying. You are light. It does not work for you to live as darkness anymore. You are light whether you believe it or not in Christ, and so you bring that light wherever you go. Paul isn’t making this up either. Jesus calls His followers the light of the world in the Sermon on the Mount. But Jesus also says that He is the light of the world. So there’s this idea that we are light only insofar as we reflect His light. Jesus is the sun, and we are the moon. We really are light but not independent of our light source. V. 9 (for the fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth), Then in verse 9 Paul explains what this light looks like, what it entails. The fruit of the Spirit is in all goodness, righteousness, and truth. Goodness is benevolence—being kindhearted, helpful, doing good deeds. Righteousness is right-relatedness—doing what is right based on the relationship you’re in. And truth is being a truthful, honest kind of person—with yourself and with others. V. 10 finding out what is acceptable to the Lord. In verse 10 he says, “finding out what is acceptable to the Lord.” In Greek this is the idea of testing and approving what is pleasing to God. It’s discernment. We don’t always have a clear statement for every situation, so we test and approve by bringing our plans to the Lord and seeing where there is peace, where there is clarity, where Scripture and wise counsel line up. V. 11 And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. Verse 11 says to have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness. We don’t participate anymore. And by living as people of light, we shine light into the world, and that exposes darkness. This doesn’t mean that every time someone does something wrong, we walk up to them and tell them they’re wrong. Paul didn’t do that. Jesus didn’t