Friends with (therapy) Benefits

Elizabeth Carr

Friends with (therapy) benefits is the mental health podcast for people who are self-aware… but still somehow spiraling in the Target parking lot. Hosted by Elizabeth Carr— a licensed professional counselor, this show explores burnout, boundaries, anxiety, identity, relationships, people-pleasing, and what it actually looks like to heal in real life—not just in therapy quotes on Instagram. This isn’t a “10 steps to fix your life” kind of podcast. It’s more like a therapist-informed group chat, poolside conversation, and existential crisis debrief all rolled into one. We talk about the stuff high-achieving women quietly struggle with: why you can explain your patterns but still repeat themwhy rest feels unsafewhy setting boundaries feels like guilt with a calendar invitewhy success doesn’t automatically create self-worthand why being “the strong one” is exhaustingSome episodes are funny. Some are vulnerable. Some feel like the conversation you wish someone would’ve had with you years ago. If you’re trying to become a healthier, more authentic version of yourself—without toxic positivity or pretending to have it all figured out—you’re in the right place. New episodes weekly. Reach out to Elizabeth directly at ecarrlpc@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episodes

  1. The Strength to Stop: Breaking Free from the Superwoman Complex

    11/21/2024

    The Strength to Stop: Breaking Free from the Superwoman Complex

    The Strength to Stop: Breaking Free from the Superwoman Complex In this episode of Friends with (Therapy) Benefits, we’re tackling the cultural expectation to be a “superwoman”—always excelling, always giving, and never pausing. Inspired by Simone Biles’ decision to prioritize her mental health during the Tokyo 2020 Olympics, we’ll unpack the damaging effects of the superwoman complex, especially on women of color who face additional layers of societal pressure. We’ll explore the hidden costs of always saying “yes,” the symptoms of burnout, and why rest isn’t the opposite of resilience—it’s part of it. I’ll also share my own struggles with letting go of the “superwoman” mindset, the turning points in my journey, and practical steps to help you prioritize your own mental health. If you’re feeling overwhelmed or stuck in the cycle of doing it all, this episode will remind you that it’s okay to take off the cape and choose yourself. Topics Discussed: What is the superwoman complex, and how does it show up in our lives?Simone Biles’ story: Redefining strength and resilience.Personal insights on recognizing and overcoming the need to “do it all.”Practical steps to help you prioritize your mental health and create balance. 🎧 Tune in to rediscover what real strength looks like. Subscribe to The Michigan LPC Supervisor's Blog to gain access to this post and downloadable tipsheet. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    31 min
  2. Blending Theory with You: Creating Your Therapy Style

    10/07/2024

    Blending Theory with You: Creating Your Therapy Style

    Ever feel like you’re playing dress-up in someone else’s therapist role? You’re not alone. In this episode of Friends with (Therapy) Benefits, Elizabeth dives into the messy yet rewarding process of finding your authentic therapist style—one that blends who you are as a person with the techniques you’ve spent so much time mastering. She’ll talk about integrating approaches like DBT, Person-Centered Therapy, and Motivational Interviewing in a way that doesn’t feel forced or scripted, but instead, genuinely you. Whether you’re fresh out of grad school or simply feeling disconnected from your “therapist voice,” this episode offers both encouragement and practical tips to help you move beyond textbook theory and embrace your unique strengths. You’ll leave with prompts to guide your self-reflection, ideas to experiment with, and the reminder that finding your style is a journey, not a destination. Tune in and start crafting a version of therapy that feels right—for both you and your clients. Link to the journaling prompt and blog post with key takeaways from this episode can be found HERE #TherapistStyle #AuthenticTherapy #NewTherapistTips #TherapistGrowth #TherapyJourney #TherapistIdentity #MentalHealthPodcast #FindYourVoice #TherapistLife #TherapyForTherapists #TherapistImposterSyndrome #MichiganLPC #MichiganLPCClinicalSupervision Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    28 min

About

Friends with (therapy) benefits is the mental health podcast for people who are self-aware… but still somehow spiraling in the Target parking lot. Hosted by Elizabeth Carr— a licensed professional counselor, this show explores burnout, boundaries, anxiety, identity, relationships, people-pleasing, and what it actually looks like to heal in real life—not just in therapy quotes on Instagram. This isn’t a “10 steps to fix your life” kind of podcast. It’s more like a therapist-informed group chat, poolside conversation, and existential crisis debrief all rolled into one. We talk about the stuff high-achieving women quietly struggle with: why you can explain your patterns but still repeat themwhy rest feels unsafewhy setting boundaries feels like guilt with a calendar invitewhy success doesn’t automatically create self-worthand why being “the strong one” is exhaustingSome episodes are funny. Some are vulnerable. Some feel like the conversation you wish someone would’ve had with you years ago. If you’re trying to become a healthier, more authentic version of yourself—without toxic positivity or pretending to have it all figured out—you’re in the right place. New episodes weekly. Reach out to Elizabeth directly at ecarrlpc@gmail.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.