Rich Woman Rising

Eloise Tomkins

Each week, Eloise shares unfiltered conversations and psychology-backed insights on money, power, identity, leadership, nervous system regulation, and the subconscious patterns shaping the way women move through business and life. This podcast is designed to help you stop slowing yourself down around money and start moving through success with more certainty, authority, ease, and freedom. So you can lead bigger, make bolder decisions, create extraordinary wealth, and actually enjoy the life you’re building along the way. eloisetomkins.substack.com

  1. 46. The Sneaky Way You Inherit Other People’s Financial Drama

    08/12/2025

    46. The Sneaky Way You Inherit Other People’s Financial Drama

    Other people’s money fears can sneak into your nervous system, not because you “absorb the vibe,” but because your brain is literally wired to copy what it sees. Through mirror neurons, your body rehearses other people’s doubts, scarcity, and stress as if they’re your own. If you’ve ever: Left a conversation feeling smaller than when you walked in Started doubting your goals after hearing someone else’s money struggles Felt your body tense when talking about wealth, even when things are going well …this episode is for you. You’ll learn: 💥 What mirror neurons are and how they influence your money mindset 💥 Why other people’s micro-actions trigger your nervous system more than their words 💥 How to protect your goals from being unconsciously downsized 💥 Practical ways to choose whose money energy you mirror ******************************* Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach & Psychologist helping women in business stop letting fear and conditioning run the show, and start remembering who the f**k they are, so their business, bank account, and body finally feel aligned. 🎧 Want more? Subscribe to the podcast Join the Wealthy AF Vault: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/wealthy-af-vault Follow Eloise on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    27 min
  2. 45. She Got Rich Without Playing Nice

    07/21/2025

    45. She Got Rich Without Playing Nice

    The patriarchy is designed to pit women against each other, through early gender socialisation, scarcity narratives, and competitive dynamics. ultimately disconnecting women from their power, wealth, and authentic desires.  This podcast episode is a fiery call-out on how patriarchal conditioning keeps women broke, burnt out, and in competition with each other instead of rising together. We unpack how social conditioning starts before you're even born (yes, gender reveals count), why the “good girl” narrative is keeping you small, and how your nervous system has been wired to fear success, wealth, and visibility. If you’ve ever felt like: You compare yourself to other women in business You hold back from selling or taking up space You secretly panic when someone else succeeds ...this episode is for you. You’ll learn: 💥 How scarcity mindset is embedded in our culture 💥 Why women compete instead of collaborate (and how to change that) 💥 How nervous system regulation is the missing link to unapologetic wealth 💥 What it takes to build a regulated, rich AF business on your terms *** Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it. 🎧 Want more? Subscribe to the podcast Join the Wealthy As F**k Membership: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/wealthy-af-vault Follow Eloise on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/  This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    25 min
  3. 44. How Brook McCarthy's Nervous System Hijacked Her Big Money Energy

    07/15/2025

    44. How Brook McCarthy's Nervous System Hijacked Her Big Money Energy

    Join me as I sit down with Brook McCarthy, a high-performing woman in business who’s done all the right things... and still found herself stuck in an invisible income glass ceiling.   We unpack the money rules she didn’t know she was living by, the identity clash between the part of her that wants more and the part of her that’s terrified to be seen wanting, and how over functioning is often just a nervous system clinging to safety.  From early beliefs about being the “good girl” to unconscious loyalty to her family’s money patterns, Brook’s story will hit you in the places your mindset work couldn’t reach.   *** Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.   Join Fire and Fortune here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset   Follow along on Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_   *** Connect with Brook:   Website: https://brookmccarthy.com/ Linked in: https://au.linkedin.com/in/brookmccarthy   This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    59 min
  4. 43. This Is Your Permission to F**k the Money Rules and Get Rich

    07/06/2025

    43. This Is Your Permission to F**k the Money Rules and Get Rich

    In this episode, I'm getting real about why "doing" isn't enough when it comes to money, why we ALL have money trauma (yes, even that seemingly small stuff from childhood), and exactly why your body keeps sabotaging your financial success even when your brain knows better. I'm also sharing my own story of hitting an upper limit in my business and what it took to actually breakthrough (it wasn't more strategy). If you're tired of beating yourself up for not having your money stuff "figured out" yet, this episode is for you.  Fair warning: I drop some F-bombs and get a little spicy about the basic money advice that's keeping you broke. *** Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it. Join Fire and Fortune here: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    18 min
  5. 42. Stop Trusting Your Gut About Money

    06/29/2025

    42. Stop Trusting Your Gut About Money

    In this episode I'm going to share with you something that's going to make some of you uncomfortable.   You say you want to trust your intuition, that you're listening to your inner wisdom when you make business decisions. Well, here's the thing - you've been lied to. Not intentionally, but those well-meaning people telling you to 'trust your gut'? They're keeping you stuck.   And I'm going to explain exactly why in this episode!    ***   Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it.    Join Fire and Fortune here for $27: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/somatic-money-reset  Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    36 min
  6. 41. What If Money Actually Wants to Be Easy?

    06/22/2025

    41. What If Money Actually Wants to Be Easy?

    You can know every money strategy in the book and still make terrible financial decisions. In this episode, I dive into why knowledge alone won't fix your money problems and what actually will. Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn't just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it. Money Capacity Quiz: www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz  Discovery Call: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call Website: www.eloisetomkins.com Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_   This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    26 min
  7. 40. How Phoebee Walpoole made $100K in 5 days using this one nervous system shift

    06/16/2025

    40. How Phoebee Walpoole made $100K in 5 days using this one nervous system shift

    Join me as I chat with business coach Phoebe Walpole to explore how childhood can fuel both incredible success AND devastating burnout.  From growing up with addiction, domestic violence, and "never enough money" to building multiple six-figure businesses, Phoebe's story will give you chills. She opens up about becoming the "parent" at age 12, how she turned adversity in childhood into an unstoppable drive for success, and the shocking moment she realised her biggest strength was also her biggest limitation. Eloise Tomkins is a Money Coach and Psychologist who helps women in business who feel stuck in financial stress rewire their nervous system’s response to wealth, so they can finally make, keep, and enjoy their money. Want to go deeper? Book your Alignment Call here → https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call      FREEBIES! 🧠 Take the Nervous System Money Quiz! Which of the 4 hidden money identities is your nervous system defaulting to? https://www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz  Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_/  Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/eloisetomkinscoaching  Connect with Phoebe Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bestlifephoebee/  Website: https://www.phoebeewalpole.com/  This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    52 min
  8. 39. Have you Actually Decided to be Wealthy?

    06/01/2025

    39. Have you Actually Decided to be Wealthy?

    You say you want more income, to make more impact... More freedom to live life at your own damn pace. But have you actually decided to be wealthy? In this episode, I’m talking about the quiet, sneaky reason you’re still not making the money you know you’re capable of. It's not because you aren't working hard enough or cos you're not capable. It’s because there’s a part of you that still hasn’t fully decided. And if you haven't fully decided... you're going to find yourself holding back. *** Eloise Tomkins is a Money Mindset Coach & Psychologist who helps women in business rewire their relationship with money so they can build a regulated business that doesn’t just make money, but actually lets you feel good having it. Nervous system money quiz: www.eloisetomkins.com/quiz Discovery Call: https://www.eloisetomkins.com/discovery-call Website: www.eloisetomkins.com Insta: www.instagram.com/eloisetomkins_  This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit eloisetomkins.substack.com

    29 min
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Each week, Eloise shares unfiltered conversations and psychology-backed insights on money, power, identity, leadership, nervous system regulation, and the subconscious patterns shaping the way women move through business and life. This podcast is designed to help you stop slowing yourself down around money and start moving through success with more certainty, authority, ease, and freedom. So you can lead bigger, make bolder decisions, create extraordinary wealth, and actually enjoy the life you’re building along the way. eloisetomkins.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Eloise Tomkins
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Eloise Tomkins
  • Show Website
    Rich Woman Rising