The Eremos Podcast

EREMOS

The official podcast of EREMOS, a Nashville based nonprofit, explores faith, spirituality, and emotional health in the 21st century. Hosted by cofounders Zach (a spiritual director and life coach) and Brian (a therapist and former preacher), the show blends wisdom, authenticity, and humor to explore faith, grief, resilience, and finding purpose. Rooted in contemplation and community, this is your space for connection, growth, and healing. Whether you’re rethinking faith, seeking encouragement, or simply looking for deeper connection, you are welcome here!

  1. God Doesn’t Want to Ctrl+Alt+Delete You | Deconstruct with Jesus # 7

    08/11/2025

    God Doesn’t Want to Ctrl+Alt+Delete You | Deconstruct with Jesus # 7

    Welcome back! In this episode of the DwJ series, Zach and Brian explore chapters 6–8 of Deconstruct with Jesus: “Take Me Back to Eden,” “The Wounded Healer,” and “We’re in the Endgame Now.”They unpack the opening chapters of Genesis—not as a science debate, but as a poetic, theological vision of God’s intent for creation, humanity’s vocation, and what went wrong. Along the way, they reframe sin as a shortcut and a sickness to be healed, wrestle with the hope that God’s endgame is restoration, and offer practical ways to resist despair in a chaotic world. Timecodes [00:00] – Intro: Why combine chapters and move beyond literalism debates [06:00] – Genesis as ancient myth: God’s intent for creation and humanity’s role [14:00] – Not perfect—just good: why perfection was never the point [20:00] – Humanity’s vocation: expanding the garden with God [23:45] – The fall as shortcut: wanting good things in the wrong way and time [33:00] – Gratitude as the antidote to temptation [36:30] – Consequences, exile, and the hope embedded from the beginning [43:00] – Deconstruction and letting go of old Bible baggage [49:00] – The Wounded Healer: reframing sin as sickness, not crime [52:30] – Salvation through solidarity: Christ as the one who takes on our sickness to heal us [55:00] – The endgame: choosing hope over despair and nihilism [58:30] – Signs of hope in the world (even if they don’t make the news) Key Takeaways ​Genesis offers a symbolic vision of God’s intention for creation and humanity’s calling, not a science textbook.​Sin is best understood as taking shortcuts—grasping for good things before their time—instead of trusting God’s process.​Viewing sin as sickness shifts the focus from judgment to healing, with Christ entering our brokenness to restore us.​Faith in God’s “endgame” invites hope and purposeful living, even when the world feels chaotic. Buy The Book!Deconstruct with Jesus by Zachary Bryant More podcasts and resources at eremosnashville.com If you found this episode meaningful, leave a review, share it with a friend, or support our work at eremosnashville.com/donate.

    1h 6m
  2. Paul Needs A Hug! | Deconstruct with Jesus # 6

    03/21/2025

    Paul Needs A Hug! | Deconstruct with Jesus # 6

    Welcome back! In this episode of the DwJ series, Zach and Brian dive into Chapter 5, “Paul Needs a Hug.” They explore how the theology behind "total depravity" has shaped the way many Christians view themselves—and why it might be time to let it go. Through humor, honesty, and deep reflection, they reframe grace as something we don’t have to grovel for and invite listeners to see themselves as already beloved. [00:00] – Intro: Why this conversation might ruffle some feathers[04:55] – Is Jesus changing God's mind about us… or ours about God?[10:25] – “What a wretched man I am”: Was Paul writing doctrine or just having a rough day?[14:54] – The Bible is for you, but it wasn’t written to you[20:19] – Redefining grace: God doing for us what we can’t do for ourselves[24:30] – Do we actually deserve God’s love? Reframing worthiness and gift-giving[35:22] – Identity matters: why believing you're beloved changes how you live[53:01] – Practicing receptivity: silence, stillness, and sitting in the loving gaze of God Some Memorable Quotes from the Episode “What makes you deserving of a gift is the giver’s desire to give it.” – Zach “We’re not totally depraved. We’re totally loved.” – Zach “All God asks of us is regular consent to do for us what we can’t do for ourselves.” – Zach “If your theology isn’t emotionally and psychologically healthy, maybe it’s not good theology.” – Brian Buy The Book! Deconstruct with Jesus by Zachary Bryant More podcasts and resources can be found at eremosnashville.com If you found this episode meaningful, leave a review, share it with a friend, or support our work at eremosnashville.com/donate.

    56 min
  3. Does God Get What God Wants? | Deconstruct with Jesus # 5

    03/06/2025

    Does God Get What God Wants? | Deconstruct with Jesus # 5

    In this episode, Zach and Brian continue their series on Deconstruct with Jesus, diving into Chapter 4: No Whipping Boy, No Mermaid, Just Love. This discussion explores how our understanding of God’s justice and love is often shaped by atonement theories—particularly penal substitutionary atonement—and whether that framework truly aligns with the heart of Jesus. Zach and Brian unpack the idea that many Christians grow up believing in a God who is inherently wrathful, with Jesus stepping in to shield us from divine punishment. They challenge this view by looking at Jesus’ own teachings, asking whether God’s justice is primarily about punishment or about restoration. They also explore how this affects our ability to trust God’s love, and whether Jesus’ mission was truly successful if most people are still lost. Using metaphors from history (the whipping boy) and pop culture (The Little Mermaid), they illustrate how distorted views of God’s nature lead to fear-based faith rather than real intimacy. Ultimately, they wrestle with the question: Does God always get what God wants? And if not, what does that mean for us? The "whipping boy" metaphor—Does Jesus take punishment on our behalf, or is something else happening?The problem with a wrathful God vs. loving Jesus dynamicJesus as the full revelation of God—why this changes how we understand divine justiceIf God desires none to perish (2 Peter 3:9), why do so many?Why many Christians struggle to feel loved by God despite believing in His love Get Deconstruct with Jesus by Zachary Bryant on Amazon Visit eramosnashville.com for blogs, events, and spiritual direction resources. Support the show with a tax-deductible donation Share this episode and leave a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform. Thanks for listening!

    47 min
  4. Your God Sucks! | Deconstruct with Jesus # 3

    02/13/2025

    Your God Sucks! | Deconstruct with Jesus # 3

    In this episode of the Eremos Podcast, Zach and Brian dive into Chapter 2 of Deconstruct with Jesus—The God I Don’t Believe In. They tackle the gods they were handed—the vengeful, the transactional, the distant—and why rejecting those gods doesn’t mean rejecting God altogether. What if the God we’ve deconstructed wasn’t God at all? What if there’s a God more loving than we ever imagined? They explore the emotional weight behind deconstruction, the dangers of a faith built on fear, and why some people cling to the idea of hell so fiercely. If you’ve ever felt like the version of God you were given is more harmful than holy—this episode is for you. 📖Get the book!Deconstruct with Jesus by Zachary Bryant →Amazon Link 📩Join the conversation: Have thoughts or questions? Email us atcontact@eremos.community 🌎Visit Us Online:EremosNashville.com Timecodes 00:00 – Welcome to the Eremos Podcast00:41 – The Problem with God: Deconstructing harmful beliefs 02:22 – Polytheism & Atheism? The many gods we reject03:35 – The Emotional Arguments Against God: Why most deconstructions aren’t about logic04:54 – The “God Must Think Like Me” Trap: How we project our expectations onto God06:33 – Your God Sucks, But That Doesn’t Mean God Isn’t Real 09:07 – The God of My Understanding: What we get wrong about belief12:33 – Progressive Revelation: Why our understanding of God is meant to evolve18:23 – Jesus as the Way, Not Just the Destination 28:09 – The False Gods We Believed In: Genie God, Kidnapper God, Mascot God & More31:02 – If God is Love, Why Do We Believe He’s a Monster? 36:28 – What if Hell is the One We Create? A new perspective on salvation42:08 – Religion as Control: How theology has been weaponized50:48 – Why Do Some Christians Cling to Hell? (Hint: It’s not about theology) 57:10 – Jesus Is Not Your Mascot: How faith gets hijacked by politics 1:02:59 – The Invitation to Rethink, Not Reject, Faith

    1h 7m

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The official podcast of EREMOS, a Nashville based nonprofit, explores faith, spirituality, and emotional health in the 21st century. Hosted by cofounders Zach (a spiritual director and life coach) and Brian (a therapist and former preacher), the show blends wisdom, authenticity, and humor to explore faith, grief, resilience, and finding purpose. Rooted in contemplation and community, this is your space for connection, growth, and healing. Whether you’re rethinking faith, seeking encouragement, or simply looking for deeper connection, you are welcome here!