The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved

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Join Alex Croxford on The Deeper Love Podcast as she guides women healing after betraying someone they loved. Through raw, compassionate conversations, The Deeper Love Podcast dives beneath the affair to the silence, the self-betrayal, and the parts of yourself you’ve forgotten. This is your space to release shame, face the truth, and begin again. With honest stories, intimate interviews, and deep guidance, The Deeper Love Podcast will help you rise from the ashes into love that feels safe, soft, and true.

  1. 1d ago

    Am I damned for eternity & have to suffer for the rest of my life for what I’ve done?

    🌻This episode is taken from The Sanctuary - a private online community for women who’ve had an affair. Find out more and join today at https://www.alexcroxford.com/the-sanctuary  . The part of you that feels like the worst person alive - the part that's been waiting for someone to confirm that yes, you deserve every moment of this - that's who this episode is for. In this episode, Alex goes directly at one of the most urgent questions in the aftermath of an affair: whether suffering is the price you have to pay to become a good person again.  She talks about the difference between real accountability and self-punishment, why punishment keeps you stuck rather than changed, and what it actually means to meet the part of you that acted out - not condemn her. Listen to this when: You're caught in a loop of shame and can't see a way out of it You feel like you have to keep suffering to prove you're sorry You're doing everything "right" on the outside and still feel like you don't deserve to be okay Someone is punishing you and part of you thinks you have it coming This is not reassurance, but is is an invitation to stop using shame as a substitute for the real work. . Ready to go deeper? If this resonated, and you’re ready to be supported in the real healing, the kind that shifts you at a soul + nervous system level, you’re so welcome inside The Sanctuary. It’s where we soften the survival strategies, and make space for a new kind of love to land.🔗 Learn more about The Sanctuary at ⁠https://www.alexcroxford.com/the-sanctuary⁠ Instagram: @iamalexcroxfordWebsite: www.alexcroxford.com

    Am I damned for eternity & have to suffer for the rest of my life for what I’ve done?

  2. Aug 11

    Should I stay & rebuild with my husband or leave and start again without him?

    🌻This episode is shared from The Sanctuary - a private online community for women who’ve had an affair. Find out more and join today at https://www.alexcroxford.com/the-sanctuary  — It's the question that keeps so many women awake at night. Stay or go. Rebuild or walk away. And the more you turn it over in your mind, the more impossible it feels to answer. This week's question is one I suspect many of you are carrying right now — and the honest truth is, I can't tell you what to do. But what I can tell you is why the answer isn't coming yet, and what actually needs to happen before it can. In this conversation we explore: why your mind cannot find the answer you're looking for, no mattter how hard it works what it really means when you say you can't trust anyone anymore why staying or leaving without doing this work first will lead you to the same place how years of self-abandonment disconnect you from the part of you that already knows why the panic you're feeling is a nervous system response, not a life sentence how to begin coming back into your body so that truth can find you what it means to make a decision from ground rather than from fear This episode is not about choosing a direction. It's about finding the ground to stand on before you do. If you are spinning in your head right now, searching for the answer outside of yourself - this one is for you. . Ready to go deeper? If this resonated, and you’re ready to be supported in the real healing, the kind that shifts you at a soul + nervous system level, you’re so welcome inside The Sanctuary. It’s where we soften the survival strategies, and make space for a new kind of love to land. 🔗 Learn more about The Sanctuary at https://www.alexcroxford.com/the-sanctuary Instagram: @iamalexcroxford Website: www.alexcroxford.com

  3. Aug 4

    How To Have The Difficult Conversations After An Affair (with Eve Stanway)

    Nobody tells you how to have the conversations that come after an affair. The reveal is the biggest, followed by the questions that come after and the conversations that go round and round in circles and leave you both completely destroyed. The ones where you give every single detail, because you think that's what accountability looks like. In this episode, I'm joined by Eve Stanway - psychotherapist, divorce coach, bestselling author, and one of the leading experts in difficult conversations. Eve has worked with couples, with men, with families - all navigating some of the hardest moments a relationship can go through. And she brings something to this conversation that I think is genuinely rare: real compassion for both people in the room, and a practical framework for how to actually navigate these conversations without destroying yourself or each other in the process. We talk about what people get most wrong when they walk into the reveal conversation. Why the impulse to confess everything - to answer every question, share every detail - actually re-traumatises both people rather than helping. Why your needs and your partner's needs are in complete misalignment in those early conversations, and what to do about that. And Eve shares her five-step framework for structuring a difficult conversation - something I genuinely wish I'd had access to when I was in the middle of it. We also get into the idea that affairs don't happen in relationships where there is healthy conflict, emotional intimacy, and both people are having their needs met. That the affair isn't the beginning of the problem. And that the invitation of all of this pain, if you're willing to accept it, is to finally start having the conversations that should have been happening all along. This one is practical, honest, and full of things nobody else is saying out loud. I think you're going to want to listen to it more than once. What people get most wrong when they walk into the reveal conversation Why the impulse to confess everything re-traumatises both people, and what to do instead Why your needs and your partner's needs are completely misaligned in those early conversations Eve's five-step framework for structuring a difficult conversation, and how to use it even if you've already had the reveal Why you don't have to answer every question there and then, and how to say that with care Why affairs don't happen in deeply connected relationships, and what that means for both of you The grief cycle and why both the person who cheated and the person who was cheated on are going through it Why morality and affairs are not as connected as the world would have you believe Website: evestanway.co.uk Podcast: Dare to Speak: Difficult Conversations that Change Everything All socials: @evestanway The Aftermath Survival Guide (free) — your first step if you're right in the middle of it: [link] The Sanctuary — my private monthly community for women in the aftermath: alexcroxford.com/the-sanctuary The Healed Heart™ — my six-month group programme for women ready to go to the root: [link] 1:1 Coaching — fully personalised six-month work with me: click here to book a call https://www.alexcroxford.com/1-to-1-coaching

  4. Jul 28

    S2#051 – 6 Things I Believe About Affairs That No One Else Is Saying

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved

    S2#051 – 6 Things I Believe About Affairs That No One Else Is Saying

  5. Jul 21

    S2#050 – How To Forgive Yourself For Cheating (And Why That's Not Actually What You Need)

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved

    S2#050 – How To Forgive Yourself For Cheating (And Why That's Not Actually What You Need)

  6. Jul 14

    S2#049 – "Once A Cheat, Always A Cheat" Actually True?

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved

    S2#049 – "Once A Cheat, Always A Cheat" Actually True?

  7. Jul 7

    S2#048 – The Year We Tried To Save Our Marriage After My Affair

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved

    S2#048 – The Year We Tried To Save Our Marriage After My Affair

  8. Jun 30

    S2#047 – How My Spiritual Awakening Helped Me Heal The Shame Of My Affair

    The Deeper Love Podcast: For the Woman Healing After Betraying Someone She Loved

    S2#047 – How My Spiritual Awakening Helped Me Heal The Shame Of My Affair
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Join Alex Croxford on The Deeper Love Podcast as she guides women healing after betraying someone they loved. Through raw, compassionate conversations, The Deeper Love Podcast dives beneath the affair to the silence, the self-betrayal, and the parts of yourself you’ve forgotten. This is your space to release shame, face the truth, and begin again. With honest stories, intimate interviews, and deep guidance, The Deeper Love Podcast will help you rise from the ashes into love that feels safe, soft, and true.

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