Ministry Mix

Phil Gifford & Richard Pope

Real conversations for the strategies and souls of ministry leaders. Our goal is to bring you a mix of conversations on topics you are thinking about to help you lead more strategically and care for your soul more intentionally. Phil is the pastor of Connecting Church in Abingdon, MD. He also trains church planters with the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware and serves as an adjunct instructor at Liberty University. Phil is married to Pam and has three children. Richard is the pastor of Canvas Church in Salisbury, MD. He also serves as the Church Planting Leader for the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware and as a Multiplying Pastor with Send Network. Richard is married to Payton and has a dog.

  1. JAN 30

    Connecting with Gen Z

    Gen Z is one of the most spiritually curious yet institutionally skeptical generations we’ve ever seen. Many churches want to reach them but aren’t sure where to start or what actually connects. In this episode of Ministry Mix, Phil Gifford and Richard Pope have a real, a little unhinged and unfiltered conversation about what actually works when it comes to connecting with Gen Z. Not trends. Not gimmicks. Practices rooted in real ministry experience, pastoral care, and gospel conviction. If you’re a pastor or ministry leader trying to understand Gen Z, disciple them, or create space for them to belong and lead, this episode is for you.  What We Talk About Why Gen Z values authenticity over polishHow vulnerability builds trust without compromising leadershipListening before lecturing and why it matters more than everAnswering the real questions Gen Z is asking about faith, doubt, and ScriptureUsing digital media as a front door, not a church bulletin boardWhy mental and emotional health must be part of discipleshipEmpowering Gen Z to lead now, not somedayCreating relational environments, not just big servicesHow justice conversations fit within a gospel-centered frameworkWhy Gen Z is more missionally motivated than we often assumeKey Takeaways Gen Z is not allergic to faith. They’re allergic to fake.You don’t need better production. You need deeper trust.Churches grow when young leaders are empowered, not sidelined.Questions aren’t threats. They’re invitations to shepherd well.Ministry to Gen Z requires presence, patience, and pastoral courage.Who This Episode Is For Pastors and church plantersMinistry leaders working with young adults or college studentsChurches wanting to engage the next generation meaningfullyLeaders who want to combine conviction with compassionConnect With Us If this episode helped you, we’d love to continue the conversation. Join our Ministry Mix Facebook GroupFollow us on social media for clips and future episodesShare this episode with a leader who’s wrestling with reaching Gen Z

    34 min
  2. JAN 21

    4 Dangers of Growing a Church

    Church growth is something most pastors pray for. We want to see more people reached, more lives changed, and more momentum. But what happens when growth actually starts to happen? In this episode of Ministry Mix, we talk honestly about the hidden dangers that can quietly creep in as churches grow. These aren’t necessarily problems outsiders usually see, but pressures leaders feel deeply. We discuss how growth can subtly reshape your definition of success, distort motivation, increase ministry weight, and even impact your soul if you’re not paying attention. This conversation isn’t anti-growth. It’s about growing faithfully, guarding your heart, and leading in a way that keeps Jesus at the center and people genuinely cared for. If you’re a pastor, church planter, or ministry leader who feels the tension between reaching more people and shepherding well, this episode is for you. What We Cover in This Episode Why church growth always comes with unseen weightHow numbers can quietly become an idolThe emotional toll of tying success to attendanceWhy preaching to more people isn’t the same as pastoring more peopleHow to pursue growth without losing faithfulness or joyWho This Episode Is For Pastors and church plantersMinistry leaders navigating momentum or plateauLeaders feeling stretched, tired, or conflicted about growthAnyone who wants to lead a church that grows without losing its soulAbout Ministry Mix Ministry Mix is a podcast for pastors and ministry leaders who care about both the health of their soul and the strategy of their ministry. Honest conversations. Practical leadership. Gospel-centered perspective.

    25 min
  3. 12/17/2025

    8 Reminders for Helping a Hurting Person

    Hurting people are not a disruption to ministry. They are the ministry. In this episode of Ministry Mix, Phil Gifford and Richard Pope walk through eight practical and pastoral reminders for caring well for people who are suffering. Whether the hurt comes from grief, sin, trauma, broken relationships, or life in a fallen world, ministry leaders must learn how to offer real care that reflects the heart of Jesus. This conversation moves beyond clichés and quick fixes and helps leaders slow down, listen well, and shepherd people with wisdom, truth, and compassion. If you lead people in any capacity, this episode will help you care for hurting people without burning out, enabling sin, or minimizing pain. What You’ll Learn in This Episode Why hurting people are unavoidable if you’re doing ministry faithfullyHow to affirm God’s love when people are tempted to doubt itWhy presence often matters more than perfect wordsHow to ask better questions and listen more effectivelyWhen and how to bring Scripture into moments of painWhy careless Bible verses can do more harm than goodHow to speak hard truths with grace and clarityWhy consistency and community are essential for long-term careKey Quote: “Shepherding the flock means more than teaching truth. It means applying truth to tears, doubts, and wounds.” Connect With Us If this episode helped you, make sure to: Subscribe to Ministry MixLeave a review to help others find the showJoin the Ministry Mix Facebook Group to continue the conversationJoin our GroupMe

    28 min
  4. 12/03/2025

    When God Closes the Door w/ Joshua Bowers

    In this episode of The Ministry Mix Podcast, Phil and Richard sit down with their friend Josh, pastor of Cross & Anchor Church in Detroit, to explore a story filled with calling, closed doors, disappointment, grit, and God’s surprising redirection. Josh shares the compelling journey he and his wife walked—from serving in Montana, to believing God was calling them to plant a church in London, to being unexpectedly detained at Heathrow Airport, sent back to the U.S., and forced into a two-year season they never anticipated. Through moments of shock, grief, confusion, and wrestling, Josh describes how God reshaped their hearts, refined their calling, and ultimately led them to Detroit. His story offers deep encouragement for pastors and ministry leaders who feel stuck, discouraged, or tempted to quit. This is a raw, honest, hope-filled look at what it means to discern God’s will in uncertainty, endure the dark-room seasons of development, and keep moving forward when quitting feels easier. Key Themes: 1. When Calling Collides with Reality 2. The “Dark Room” Season of Development 3. How Do You Know When to Push Through or Pivot? 4. Why You Shouldn’t Quit on Your Worst Day 5. God’s Provision on the Other Side of Obedience Key Quotes: “What you sow doesn’t come to life unless it dies.”  “Don’t quit. You can’t see the fulfillment of the dream if you quit.” “God develops us in the dark room so we can carry what He gives us later.” “Quit on Monday if you need to, but show back up on Tuesday.”  Who This Episode Is For: Church planters navigating uncertainty Pastors wrestling with discouragement Leaders dealing with roadblocks or doubt Anyone trying to discern the difference between perseverance and redirection Ministry teams needing a reminder that God is faithful through “the in-between”

    34 min
  5. 11/26/2025

    Memento Mori

    In this vulnerable and refreshing conversation, Phil and Richard sit down to talk about the surprising ministry impact of Richard’s poetry book Memento Mori. What began as private reflections written while facing cancer has become a ministry tool touching people who feel unseen, forgotten, or spiritually disconnected. This episode unpacks how creativity intersects with calling, how the Psalms teach us to process real emotion with God, and why the church must make space for honest faith rather than polished performance. Whether you’re a pastor, ministry leader, or someone carrying private hurt, this episode invites you into the kind of raw, grace-filled reflection that leads to deeper discipleship and authentic connection. What We Talk About in This Episode • The unexpected origin of the book • How poetry opened doors for ministry • A powerful testimony from a poetry reading • When Christianity becomes too polished • Why the Psalms give us permission to be honest Takeaways for Ministry LeadersCreativity can be a ministry tool, even if it begins as personal processing.People hunger for spiritual spaces where honest struggle is welcomed, not hidden.Your deepest wounds can become bridges to someone else’s healing.Emotionally healthy discipleship requires teaching people how to bring their full selves to God.Authenticity—not polish—is often what opens the door for gospel conversations.Links & ResourcesMemento Mori – Richard’s poetry book (click for link)Connect with Ministry Mix on Instagram: @ministry.mix

    31 min
  6. 11/19/2025

    How to Tell Someone's Story w/ Tony Hudson

    In this episode of Ministry Mix, Phil and Richard sit down with Tony Hudson, a filmmaker and master storyteller. Tony shares how learning to see people through the lens of love transforms not only how we tell stories, but how we do ministry. Tony reminds us that good storytelling isn’t about technique; it’s about paying attention, loving deeply, and letting God write the narrative. This episode will encourage leaders, and creatives who feel stuck in the grind to rediscover the holy art of listening and to remember that stories are one of the most powerful ways to communicate the gospel. Key Takeaways “You can’t tell someone’s story if you don’t like them.” Ministry begins with compassion. The best storytellers are the best listeners.“Every story can be boiled down to one sentence.” Simplify your message. Clarity leads to impact — whether you’re preaching, leading, or creating.“We’re not the storytellers — God is.” Our role is to hold the pen for a few pages, trusting the Author with the rest.“If your church really knew each other’s stories…” The result would be deeper worship, stronger community, and more empathy.In This Conversation How storytelling builds empathy and connection in the churchWhy authenticity is more powerful than polishThe difference between telling a story and telling your storySeeing pain through the lens of God’s goodnessWhat happens when leaders start paying attention again Quotes Worth Sharing “Fall in love with the story you’re telling and the person you’re telling it about.” “If everybody in the church knew each other’s stories, worship would blow the roof off the building.”

    38 min
  7. 11/12/2025

    5 Ways We will Do "Better-ish" in Season 2

    We’re back!  In the Season 2 opener, Phil and Richard kick things off with honesty, humor, and a fresh desire to grow. After an unplanned break (and a few ministry curveballs), the guys share five ways they’re aiming to do ministry better-ish — because improvement matters, but perfection isn’t the goal. They unpack lessons learned from the past year, talk about the importance of prioritizing family and soul health, and share what’s ahead for Ministry Mix: more authentic conversations, deeper community, and even some new ideas like “micro-conferences” designed for ministry leaders who are tired of being overproduced and under-encouraged. Whether you’re a pastor, church leader, or creative trying to balance calling and chaos, this episode will make you laugh, nod, and maybe even rethink how you’re defining “better.” 5 Highlights from the Conversation 1) “We love you listeners, but my family and our church come first.” Healthy leaders prioritize what matters most. Boundaries are biblical. 2) “We’re never going to be the most produced podcast — we’re just real conversations.” Authentic > impressive. Leaders crave honest spaces to think and process. 3) “We’re moving from a podcast about ministry to a ministry with a podcast.” The vision for Ministry Mix is expanding — from content to community. 4) “What if conferences were short, powerful, and real?” The idea of micro-conferences — bite-sized, intentional gatherings for real growth. What You’ll Hear Why Season 2 took a pause (and why that’s okay)How to avoid burnout by focusing on what mattersThe danger of measuring ministry by production valueWhat it means to build a ministry community, not just an audienceA sneak peek at what’s coming this yearQuotes Worth Sharing “You don’t need polish to have purpose.” “Better doesn’t mean bigger — it means healthier.” “When ministry feels dead, remember: resurrection is kind of God’s thing.” Listen, Laugh, and Rethink “Better” If you’re a ministry leader who’s tired of trying to keep up, this episode will remind you that growth happens in grace — and that sometimes better-ish is exactly where God wants you. Connect with Ministry Mix

    23 min
4.6
out of 5
9 Ratings

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Real conversations for the strategies and souls of ministry leaders. Our goal is to bring you a mix of conversations on topics you are thinking about to help you lead more strategically and care for your soul more intentionally. Phil is the pastor of Connecting Church in Abingdon, MD. He also trains church planters with the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware and serves as an adjunct instructor at Liberty University. Phil is married to Pam and has three children. Richard is the pastor of Canvas Church in Salisbury, MD. He also serves as the Church Planting Leader for the Baptist Convention of Maryland/Delaware and as a Multiplying Pastor with Send Network. Richard is married to Payton and has a dog.