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Our 226 NextGen Podcast is a resource for parents as they navigate the NextGen Roadmap at FBC Boerne and the various phases of parenting. 226 comes from Proverbs 22:6, "Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he grows older he will not abandon it." In these podcasts, we will discuss general observations on what each phase on the Roadmap means for your child, practical advice on how you can come alongside your child during this phase, and resources available through First Baptist Church Boerne for you and your child.

  1. Oct 27

    Ep. 019 // Enjoying the Holidays

    Send us Fan Mail The holidays are full of joy and wonder, but for many families they also bring busy calendars, money pressure and difficult family situations. In this episode, Garrett, Daniel and Staci talk about how parents can do more than just survive the season. They share ways to enjoy it and use it to point their kids toward Jesus. In this episode: Clarify your purpose: Decide what you’re celebrating, like gratitude at Thanksgiving and Christ’s birth at Christmas. Then look for ways your traditions, even the cultural ones, can point to it. Before the calendar fills up, sit down and list the five or six things your family most wants to do this season.Manage expectations: Let your purpose shape your plans instead of feeling pressure to top last year. Talk with extended family early, clearly and kindly about your schedule. Setting boundaries is about protecting your own household, not pushing extended family away.Navigate family drama: The holidays won’t fix long-standing conflict, so make a plan ahead of time. Sometimes that means setting your frustrations aside to show up and love well. Other times it means drawing a firm line to protect your kids. Either way, let your kids see what forgiveness and reconciliation look like.Resources The Jesus Storybook Bible by Sally Lloyd-Jones: read through it in the weeks before Christmas, ending with the birth of Jesus on Christmas EveNeed prayer or wisdom this season? Reach out to the team at FBC Boerne. Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/

  2. Oct 22

    Ep. 018 // The Heart and How of Discipline

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode, Garrett and Daniel look at what Scripture says about disciplining our children and how to put it into practice at every age. Hebrews 12:10 says God disciplines those He loves “for our good, that we may share in his holiness.” Starting there, they make the case that discipline is an act of love that aims at the heart, not just at behavior. In this episode: The purpose of discipline: Discipline is about shaping a child’s heart, not just changing their behavior, and the way parents discipline shapes how kids see God.Restorative discipline: A good correction ends with the relationship restored, and with toddlers that looks different than it does with teenagers.Clear discipline: Set expectations ahead of time, use consistent language, and know when a moment calls for consequences and when it’s a chance to show mercy.The parent’s heart: Check your own motives (frustration, inconvenience, embarrassment) and stay rooted in your walk with the Lord and in community. Take a pause when you need one.Resources Habits of the Household by Justin Whitmel Earley: see the chapter on the practice of disciplineParenting: 14 Gospel Principles by Paul David Tripp: the chapters on the heart and on disciplineNeed support? Reach out to the team at FBC Boerne. Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/

  3. Jun 2

    Ep. 015 // What is God's Will for my life?

    Send us Fan Mail Graduation season brings a lot of big questions: Where should I go to college? What career should I pursue? What if I make the wrong decision? For many students, seeking God’s will can feel overwhelming, especially when life suddenly opens up with more options than ever before. In this episode of the 226 NextGen Podcast, Garrett sits down with Andrea and Pastor Jason to talk about how parents can help their students make major life decisions with wisdom, humility, and trust in the Lord. They discuss why God’s will is not a hidden trapdoor, how to take pressure off students, and how parents can guide conversations without controlling the outcome. Pastor Jason also shares a simple process for making big decisions: pray, look to Scripture, use wisdom and logic, seek wise counsel, surrender your motives, and trust God with the outcome. Whether your student is graduating this year or still years away from launching into adulthood, this conversation will help you build a biblical framework for guiding them toward faithfulness, wisdom, and confidence in God’s care.  Key Takeaways: Parents can help students by being honest about their own uncertainty and past decisions. God’s will is not a guessing game where one wrong move ruins your life. Scripture gives clear boundaries for faithfulness, but there is often freedom within those boundaries. Students need wise, trusted people who can speak truth into their lives. Parents are called not to control their kids, but to help launch them into adulthood as people who can hear from the Lord and make wise decisions. Resources Mentioned: Kevin DeYoung, Just Do Something Discussion Questions for Parents: How have I talked about God’s will in a way that may create pressure or fear for my student? Where does my student need freedom to make a wise decision without feeling like they must find the “perfect” path? Who are the wise voices my student has in their life right now? Am I helping my student learn to follow the Lord, or am I mainly trying to control the outcome Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/

  4. Feb 5

    Ep. 012 // Brave Parenting w/ Kelly Newcom

    Send us Fan Mail This week, we’re joined by Kelly Newcomb—pharmacist, foster/adopt mom of seven, and founder of Brave Parenting—to talk about what’s actually happening in the digital world our kids are growing up in. Kelly shares the real story that launched her ministry (including a terrifying wake-up call involving online grooming and the very real threat of trafficking), and why she shifted her focus from “just data” to discipleship. We cover: Why the best strategy for young kids is delay, delay, delay (especially personal handheld devices)The hidden way screens shape kids through isolation, not just “content”What’s happening with gaming and why it can function like addiction (and why it often escalates)Practical steps for parents who feel like they’ve already opened “Pandora’s box” (what to do if your teen already has a phone)The biggest red flags to watch for—TikTok and Roblox—and why they’re uniquely concerningMoving from tech “savvy” to tech wisdom: forming kids who can think, discern, and follow Jesus in a noisy worldA surprisingly helpful tool for young families: the Tin Can kid-safe home phoneKelly also points parents to resources you can use immediately—including app guides, her parent curriculum, and a new student study coming soon. Resources mentioned: BraveParenting.netBrave Parenting PodcastManaging Media, Creating Character (Parent Small Group Study Guide)Managing Media, Creating Character (Student Study Guide — coming soon)If you’ve felt overwhelmed, behind, or unsure how to lead your family through technology without fear—or without giving in—this episode is for you. Thank you for joining us! Want more information? Check out our website: Kids: https://www.fbcboerne.org/kids/ Youth: https://www.fbcboerne.org/youth/

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Our 226 NextGen Podcast is a resource for parents as they navigate the NextGen Roadmap at FBC Boerne and the various phases of parenting. 226 comes from Proverbs 22:6, "Train up a child in the way he should go, even when he grows older he will not abandon it." In these podcasts, we will discuss general observations on what each phase on the Roadmap means for your child, practical advice on how you can come alongside your child during this phase, and resources available through First Baptist Church Boerne for you and your child.