Reaching Minds - ‘Thoughts for your Life Journey’

Nita Sharma

Welcome to Reaching Minds – Thoughts for Your Life Journey, a podcast designed to spark curiosity and expand your understanding of the everyday moments that shape your path. Each episode delves into common human experiences, offering fresh perspectives that invite you to think deeper and see the world in new ways. From the seemingly mundane to the profoundly meaningful, we explore topics that ignite your interest and inspire reflection. Join us as we offer insights and thoughtful discussions to enrich your life journey and expand your mind, one thought at a time.

  1. How Neuroscience Shapes Us - with Christopher Samsa

    FEB 23

    How Neuroscience Shapes Us - with Christopher Samsa

    In this episode of Reaching Minds: Thoughts for Your Life Journey, we explore something that shapes every decision we make - our brain. I’m joined by Christopher Samsa, positive psychologist specialising in applied neuroscience and Professor of Executive Education at Hult International Business School. Together, we unpack how understanding the brain can help us lead with greater clarity, empathy and intention. Neuroscience can often feel complex or distant from everyday life. In this conversation, Chris demystifies the science and makes it deeply practical. We explore how our brains operate in either a “toward” (reward) state or an “away” (threat) state — and how those states influence our thinking, creativity, collaboration and decision-making. We also examine: How growth and fixed mindsets map onto brain states Why leaders struggle under pressure The neuroscience of habit formation and why change feels uncomfortable How implementation intentions (“if–then” plans) can support behavioural change The importance of self-awareness and feedback in senior leadership Why legacy thinking can shift how leaders show up The intersection of neuroscience and positive psychology The difference between happiness and contentment Chris shares practical insights for anyone navigating leadership, personal growth, or organisational change - and reminds us that growth is always possible when we understand how our brains are wired. This episode is for leaders, professionals and anyone curious about how to work with their brain rather than against it. If this conversation resonates, I’d love to hear from you.

    42 min
  2. Supervision as a Practice

    FEB 9

    Supervision as a Practice

    In this episode of Reaching Minds: Thoughts for Your Life Journey, we explore supervision as an essential yet often overlooked pillar of ethical, sustainable practice. When we work as coaches, facilitators or consultants, we are frequently the container for our clients’ complexity, emotions and organisational dynamics. But the question rarely asked is: who holds the space for the space-holders? I’m joined by Steve Hearsum, consultant, supervisor, coach and author of No Silver Bullet, a book that challenges organisations’ addiction to quick-fix solutions for complex problems. Steve is also a board member at the Tavistock Institute of Human Relations and former Co-Chair of the Organisation Development Network Europe. Together, we unpack what supervision really is — and what it is not. We explore why supervision is more than a check-in or business review, how it supports ethical decision-making, protects against burnout, and helps practitioners work consciously with power, shame, projection and unconscious dynamics. In this conversation, we explore: Why supervision remains a blind spot in coaching and consulting The difference between supervision, coaching and mentoring Parallel process and unconscious dynamics in client work How supervision supports clearer boundaries and ethical practice Why supervision becomes more important, not less, as we become more senior What to look for in a supervisor who will challenge, not collude How supervision benefits not only the practitioner, but clients and organisations This episode is for practitioners who want to deepen their work, organisations who care about ethical practice, and anyone curious about what happens beneath the surface of professional helping roles.

    39 min
  3. Risk, Fear and the Undeterred Self - with Claudia Crawley

    JAN 26

    Risk, Fear and the Undeterred Self - with Claudia Crawley

    In this episode of Reaching Minds: Thoughts for Your Life Journey, I’m joined by Claudia Crawley, executive coach, mentor and award-winning author of Undeterred. Together, we explore how our relationship with risk, failure and fear can either limit our growth or become a catalyst for meaningful development. Claudia shares insights from her coaching work with women navigating leadership, visibility and progression, particularly Black and Brown women working within systems not designed with them in mind. We talk openly about fear of failure, imposter syndrome, mental saboteurs and the internal narratives that quietly hold people back from stepping into their full potential. This conversation also examines the wider organisational and societal context, including race and gender equity, allyship, code-switching, and the emotional labour of navigating professional spaces. Claudia introduces the success equation explored in Undeterred: determination, resilience, resistance, purpose and reinvention, and how these qualities support women to stay anchored in who they are while moving forward with clarity and confidence. This episode is an invitation to reflect on your own relationship with risk and to consider what it means to become undeterred, not by ignoring fear, but by choosing growth anyway. If this conversation resonates, I’d love to hear from you.Explore more episodes and resources at www.nitasharma.com

    49 min
  4. Journalling as a Reflective Writing - with Jackee Holder

    JAN 5

    Journalling as a Reflective Writing - with Jackee Holder

    In this episode of Reaching Minds: Thoughts for Your Life Journey, I’m joined by my colleague and friend Jackee Holder to explore the transformative power of journaling as a reflective practice and life companion. Journaling is often seen as a simple habit, yet in this conversation we uncover how expressive and reflective writing can become a profound tool for healing, self-understanding and personal growth. Jackie shares her own lifelong relationship with journaling, tracing it back to childhood, and reflects on how writing has helped her navigate trauma, creativity, leadership and identity. Together, we explore how journaling helps us work beneath the surface, giving voice to what sits in the subconscious, allowing unprocessed emotions to be acknowledged, and supporting healthier endings, clarity and renewal. We discuss how journaling doesn’t require perfect language or polished sentences, and how drawing, poetry, letters and colour can all become meaningful forms of expression. This episode also looks at journaling in professional contexts, particularly in leadership, coaching and organisational life, where reflective writing can help people slow down, make meaning, and show up with greater presence and compassion. As we look ahead to 2026, Jackie also shares what she is being called to create next, including new work through the School of Journaling and a forthcoming book. This is a thoughtful, generous and deeply human conversation for anyone curious about reflection, creativity and the power of writing to support a more conscious life.

    58 min
  5. Action Learning For Complex Problems

    12/08/2025

    Action Learning For Complex Problems

    Welcome to Reaching Minds: Thoughts for Your Life Journey. In today’s episode, we explore the discipline and philosophy of Action Learning Questions - what they are, why they matter, and how this approach helps individuals and organisations navigate challenges that don’t have straightforward answers. Action learning was originally shaped by Reg Revans and grew out of scientific inquiry, experimentation, and a willingness to work from a place of “not knowing”. Today, the methodology remains highly relevant. We live in a world saturated with quick fixes and instant expertise, yet many of the issues leaders face are not puzzles with predefined solutions. They are complex, multi-layered problems influenced by social, technical, economic and cultural realities. To help us unpack this, I’m joined by Dr Richard Hale, co-founder of Know Will Do Action Learning Network and creator of the Action Learning Question approach. Richard has spent more than 25 years developing and implementing this methodology for governments, global organisations, and business schools. He has published widely in the fields of learning relationships, coaching, mentoring and organisational development, and brings a rich historical and practical perspective to this conversation. Together, we look at: Why action learning is essential for tackling today’s intractable problems The difference between puzzles and problems The courage required to say “I don’t know” in professional settings The value of multiple truths and diverse perspectives The role of knowledge mapping (sky, ground, underground) How organisations such as the Civil Service have used Action Learning Questions to drive real change The personal capabilities people develop through this work, including deeper listening, reflective practice and working constructively with uncertainty Why sponsorship and alignment with real business challenges are vital for success Richard also shares the evolution of the Postgraduate Certificate in Action Learning Facilitation, a unique qualification accredited through York St John University, and the importance of creating facilitators who can mobilise, catalyse and sustain learning across organisational systems. This is a rich, reflective and practical conversation for anyone working in leadership, coaching, development, systems change or organisational transformation.

    52 min
  6. The Overuse of Leadership Strengths

    11/17/2025

    The Overuse of Leadership Strengths

    Welcome to this episode of Reaching Minds: Thoughts for Your Life Journey. Today, we will be exploring what happens when leaders overuse their strengths, and how personality and persona shape that dynamic—and what the impact of this can have on self and on others. We also look into of leaders recognising when they overuse their strengths, potentially leading to negative consequences  About Joseph Ogbonna Joining me today is my very good colleague, Joseph Ogbonna. Joseph is a leadership and executive coach, a PCC with the ICF, and an FRSA. He treasures wisdom and has expertise in mind-shift strategic thinking. Joseph also has a special interest in African affairs and the movement of our bodies. Joseph, welcome—and thank you for being here. Questions we pose in the podcast: What do we mean by strength?  We often talk about ‘playing to our strengths’—but Joseph, what do we actually mean when we say a strength can be overused? What are the positive trait (e.g., confidence, empathy, drive) becomes a liability when over-relied upon How does someone’s personality influence the kinds of strengths they lean on—and overuse? Mention assessments (like MBTI, Big Five, Enneagram) if useful How do you see persona shaping a leader’s behaviour over time?” What do you think the real consequences are—on individuals, teams, or culture—when leaders don’t notice they’re overusing a strength?” So how do we help leaders become more aware of when a strength is becoming a liability? What tools or practices help here?” Joseph, have you ever found yourself overusing a strength—even with the best intentions? What did that teach you? To our listeners—what’s one strength you might be overusing right now? And what would it look like to lead with more balance and intention?” Resources: https://www.talentsage.com/our-tools/the-5step-profile-report-tool/ https://www.gallup.com/cliftonstrengths/en/286556/ndys.aspx  https://www.hogandarkside.com/ https://inemmo.com/lumina-learning-psychometrics/lumina-spark-self-awareness-growth/ https://www.theguardian.com/books/2025/oct/09/book-authenticity-jodi-ann-burey

    29 min
  7. What Happened to you. – Dealing with Trauma

    11/10/2025

    What Happened to you. – Dealing with Trauma

    Welcome to Reaching Minds: Thoughts for Your Life’s Journey. In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into a topic that affects so many of us yet is still often misunderstood trauma. How in our social media-driven world, the term ‘trauma’ is often overused and misapplied, potentially diluting its real significance Now, Traumatising experiences don’t always look the way we expect. They are not always singular, acute, life-altering events, incorporating also complex, relational difficulties that can start in childhood. The long-term effects are far-reaching and can shape everything from how we interact with others to how we view and navigate the world as adults. Adding even more nuance is the fact that what is traumatising to one person may not be at all to another, depending on how they were raised, whether they’ve experienced overwhelming threats more than once, and other factors, so it could be said that trauma expresses on something of a spectrum.  In this episode we will unpack some of  these ideas, with special focus on the impact of complex trauma and how relational wounds — like neglect or witnessing violence — leave lasting scars. We’ll explore resilience, the role of environment in healing, and why understanding the root causes of trauma is so crucial with the  pioneering work that has been done  in this field, like Bessel van Der Kolk and Gabor Maté. About Charlotte Nicholson I’m joined by a truly remarkable guest, Charlotte Nicholson, who is a teacher, guide and facilitator trained in numerous styles of yoga and other embodied practice modalities adapted for addressing trauma. She has offered therapeutic support using trauma sensitive yoga to individuals living through anxiety, depression, compulsions, dysregulated eating and complex PTSD – all expressions of suffering and attempts to find coping mechanisms - offering both one-on-one and small group sessions, both in-person and online. She also brings her work into the field of psychedelic-assisted therapy, a promising frontier in trauma healing. She currently divides her time between the UK and Peru, where she training to facilitate ayahuasca retreats with veterans and other individuals seeking recovery. Questions we will pose in understanding Trauma:  There’s increasing use of the term ‘trauma’ in everyday life. What’s your take on that? How would you define trauma, and how has that definition evolved in recent years? What’s one misconception about trauma you'd like to clear up for our listeners? How do you differentiate between trauma and stress, especially in therapeutic settings? How do social, environmental, and relational factors like racism, wars etc influence how trauma is processed? Is there a danger in pathologizing normal emotional responses? How do we find a balance? What are some of the most misunderstood symptoms of trauma? What does trauma healing really look, and why is it often non-linear? How important is the body in trauma recovery, and what role do somatic therapies play? Are traditional talk therapies sufficient for trauma, or do we need to rethink how we approach treatment? Resources:  https://www.charlotte-nicholson.com/about - Charlotte is happy to have an initial  conversation  The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk | 24 Sept 2015  Dr Gabor Maté 5 Books Collection Set (When the Body Says No, Hold on to Your Kids, In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts, Scattered Minds & The Myth of Normal) 2022 Trauma Sensitive Yoga Practitioners  The Embody lab - https://www.theembodylab.com Roadmap for trauma and response change for organisations in Scotland Interested in Working with me! Contact me on Linkedin if you wish to explore what I offer. https://www.linkedin.com/in/nita-sharma-cpcc-pcc-78b1a22/ If you interested in One-to-One coaching contact me through LinkedIn or through my website www.nitasharma.com

    48 min

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Welcome to Reaching Minds – Thoughts for Your Life Journey, a podcast designed to spark curiosity and expand your understanding of the everyday moments that shape your path. Each episode delves into common human experiences, offering fresh perspectives that invite you to think deeper and see the world in new ways. From the seemingly mundane to the profoundly meaningful, we explore topics that ignite your interest and inspire reflection. Join us as we offer insights and thoughtful discussions to enrich your life journey and expand your mind, one thought at a time.