Carl and Heather Present

Carl and Heather Cartee
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Carl and Heather Present: Marriage, Faith and thriving with your total opposite. We are taking on the humor, challenges, highs and lows of staying married to someone who is nothing like you, while holding to the hope that marriage is worth it all.

  1. 4D AGO

    Episode 82: Sexless Marriage?

    No one plans to end up in a sexless marriage…  But a lot of couples quietly drift there. It’s not loud.  It’s not explosive.  It’s silent—and that’s what makes it so dangerous. In this episode, Carl and Heather talk about the hidden struggle many couples face:  two people who love each other… but have lost connection. You’ll hear:  The real reasons intimacy fades (and why it’s rarely just about sex)  The physical, emotional, and spiritual impact of disconnection  Why unresolved conflict and poor communication are often at the root  Practical ways to begin rebuilding intimacy—without pressure or shame Because sex isn’t the foundation of marriage…  but it is a vital expression of a healthy one. This episode is for couples who:  Feel distant but don’t know why  Struggle to talk about intimacy  Want to reconnect but don’t know where to start 💬 A reminder: A sexless marriage isn’t the end of your story—  it’s an invitation to rebuild something deeper. 🙏 Need prayer? Email us anytime: hi@carlandheather.com 🌍 Join us in making an impact We’re raising support to build a maternity ward in South Sudan.  👉 transformsouthsudan.org/maternity Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    28 min

  2. APR 28

    Episode 81: Two Leaders, One Marriage, Now What?

    What happens when both spouses are strong leaders? Chris and Maribeth Dodd join us to talk about the tension, beauty, and challenge of building a Christ-centered marriage when both husband and wife are high-capacity leaders. We cover leadership, submission, differences in pace and personality, and what it really looks like to become one—without losing who God made you to be. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    34 min

  3. APR 21

    Episode 80: Parenting The Anxious Generation

    Something has shifted—and our kids are feeling it. In this episode, we’re talking about what it looks like to parent in the age of rising anxiety. From the explosion of smartphones to the loss of play-based childhoods, we unpack why this generation is struggling—and what we can do about it. We explore:  The difference between a play-based vs. phone-based childhood  How constant comparison is shaping identity  Why resilience is declining (and how to rebuild it)  Practical ways to disciple technology, not fear it  Creating a home where kids can process instead of perform  Anchoring our children in truth, not just tools We’re not raising kids for comfort—we’re raising them for strength. This episode will help you move from reacting to anxiety… to leading your kids through it with clarity, confidence, and faith in Jesus. To help us build a maternity ward in South Sudan, go to Transformsouthsudan.org/maternity and give. It costs $85,000 but a donor has already given a matching gift of up to $42,500 so every dollar you give is doubled. Thanks for helping us make a difference. Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    30 min

  4. APR 14

    Episode 79: The Roommate Trap

    The Roommate Trap What if your marriage isn’t falling apart… but it’s quietly drifting? In this episode of Carl and Heather Present, we’re talking about a season almost every couple experiences—but few know how to name: the roommate phase. It’s when life gets full, conversations become transactional, and connection slowly fades into the background. You’re not fighting.  You’re functioning.  But you’re also not really seeing each other anymore. We’ve lived this.  And after a season of travel, ministry, and a packed schedule, we’re feeling the pull ourselves—and we know we’re not alone. We’ve heard the same question over and over on recent panels:  “What if we don’t have anything in common anymore?”  “What do we do if we feel more like roommates than lovers?” In today’s episode, we talk honestly about:  What the “roommate trap” actually looks like in real life  Why busy seasons quietly disconnect us  How small, intentional shifts can rebuild connection  The role of unresolved hurt in creating distance  Simple, practical ways to start reconnecting todayBecause marriage was never meant to just share space—it was meant to share souls. “You don’t drift into connection. You drift away from it.”And the good news? You can choose your way back. Try this tonight: Ask one real question. Start there. 💛 Partner With Us This year, we’re partnering with Transform South Sudan to help build a maternity ward at the Ahick Women’s Clinic in Lietnom, South Sudan. We’re believing to raise $85,000, and a generous donor has already committed a $42,500 matching gift. You can be part of bringing life-saving care to women and babies:  👉 transformsouthsudan.org/maternity 📩 Prayer requests: hi@carlandheather.com  🎧 New episodes every Tuesday Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    30 min

  5. APR 7

    Episdoe 78: Transforming South Sudan

    What does hope look like in one of the most desperate places on earth? In this powerful episode, we sit down with Mike Vogt, director of Transform South Sudan, to hear firsthand what God is doing in South Sudan—the poorest country in the world by nearly every measure. From unimaginable challenges to stories of resilience, faith, and transformation, Mike shares how the Gospel is bringing real, tangible change to communities in crisis. But this conversation isn’t just about awareness—it’s about action. Right now, there is an urgent opportunity to help build a life-saving maternity ward that will care for mothers and babies who otherwise have little to no access to medical care. We’re raising $85,000, and by God’s provision, a generous donor has already offered a $42,500 matching gift—which means every dollar you give will be doubled. This is your chance to be part of something eternal. 👉 Give now: transformsouthsudan.org/maternity Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    32 min

  6. MAR 31

    Episode 77: Is Your Phone Killing Your Connection?

    Is your phone quietly destroying your connection? We carry them everywhere. We check them constantly. And without even realizing it… our phones may be becoming the third presence in our marriage. In this episode, we introduce the idea of the “pocket toddler”—the device that demands attention, interrupts conversations, and slowly pulls us away from the person sitting right next to us. We’re talking honestly about how technology: Shuts down real communication Keeps us from truly listening Trains us to prioritize distractions And slowly erodes emotional and physical intimacy But this isn’t about guilt—it’s about awareness and change. We’ll share real-life moments from our own marriage, unpack why this matters spiritually, and give you simple, practical ways to take your connection back—starting today. If this episode encouraged you, don’t just move on—join us. Subscribe and turn on notifications 🔔 so you don’t miss conversations that are helping couples fight for what matters most—their marriage, their family, and their walk with God. If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment 💬 and tap like 👍—it helps more couples find this message. Need prayer? We’d truly be honored to stand with you. 📧 hi@carlandheather.com And if you’re looking to invest in the health of marriages at your church or event, we’d love to serve you. ⛪💍 Submit a request at carlandheather.com/booking Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    30 min

  7. MAR 24

    Episode 76: Porn & Your Marriage Replay

    Pornography isn’t just a private struggle—it’s quietly wrecking marriages, eroding trust, and disconnecting us from both our spouse and God. We’re hearing it everywhere we go—conferences, conversations, real stories—and the impact is undeniable. So we’re bringing this conversation back to the surface. In this episode, we revisit one of our most important discussions to help you fight for intimacy, healing, and a deeper connection in your marriage. If this episode encouraged you, don’t just move on—join us. Subscribe and turn on notifications 🔔 so you don’t miss conversations that are helping couples fight for what matters most—their marriage, their family, and their walk with God. If this episode spoke to you, drop a comment 💬 and tap like 👍—it helps more couples find this message. Need prayer? We’d truly be honored to stand with you. 📧 hi@carlandheather.com And if you’re looking to invest in the health of marriages at your church or event, we’d love to serve you. ⛪💍 Submit a request at carlandheather.com/booking Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    29 min

  8. MAR 17

    Episode 75: Parenting Children with Extraordinary Needs feat. Mandi Moseley

    What does parenting look like when your child has extraordinary medical needs—and how does that affect your marriage? This week we’re joined by our friend Mandi Moseley, whose daughter Ellie was born with Edwards Syndrome. Against the odds, Ellie’s life has become a profound answer to prayer and a testimony of God’s faithfulness. Mandi shares candidly about navigating medical complexity, the strain and strengthening it brings to a marriage, and the ways God has used Ellie’s story to draw their family closer together. It’s a conversation about faith, resilience, and discovering hope in the places you least expect it. To hear Mandi's Podcast, search "A Little Extra Momming" and to give to what she is building, visit GoFundMe https://gofund.me/2e5f01b16 Please Drop a comment 💬, tap like 👍, hit the bell 🔔 Send your prayer requests to 📧 hi@carlandheather.com — we’d be honored to pray for you 🙏 Curious about Carl and Heather coming to speak at your church or marriage event? ⛪💍 Fill out the Speaker Request Form at carlandheather.com/booking to start the conversation 🎤💬 Send us Fan Mail Looking to connect with Carl and Heather? Start here... www.carlandheather.com @carlcartee @heather.cartee

    35 min
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Carl and Heather Present: Marriage, Faith and thriving with your total opposite. We are taking on the humor, challenges, highs and lows of staying married to someone who is nothing like you, while holding to the hope that marriage is worth it all.

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  • Creator
    Carl and Heather Cartee
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    86
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 Carl and Heather Present
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