Lucky In Love with Kari Hoskins

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Welcome to Lucky in Love with Kari Hoskins, M.A., Certified Relationship Coach. This is the show where we tell the messy truth about relationships. Because most relationships don’t end in one dramatic moment. They fade out slowly… from the conversations that never happen, the hurts that don’t get repaired, and the distance that becomes normal. Lucky in Love is where we stop tiptoeing and start talking. We'll name the patterns that are keeping you stuck and get practical tools and guidance you can use immediately to plus guest experts and real conversations.   infidelity, rebuilding trust, mismatched desire, sex and intimacy issues, resentment, emotional shutdown, conflict loops, communication and heartbreak. If you’re ready to feel lucky in love, you’re in the right place.    

  1. 3D AGO

    Episode 38: The One Thing All Divorces Have In Common

    In this episode of Lucky in Love, I’m talking about the one thing almost every divorce has in common—and it’s not what most people assume. Most marriages don’t end because of one dramatic moment. They end because of tiny turning points—small decisions that quietly change the direction of the relationship… and then get repeated until distance feels normal. I share a personal story from my first marriage—the day things shifted (years before divorce was even on the radar). And then I’ll walk you through the questions I use to help people get real clarity about what’s happening in their relationship right now. If any of this feels familiar, this episode will land: You’re not in constant conflict… but you don’t feel close.You feel that quiet loneliness even though you’re “together.”The little connection habits faded, and nobody really named it.You can’t point to one big event—just a drift you can’t un-feel anymore.This isn’t about blame. It’s about direction—and catching the turning point sooner. Free download mentioned in the outro (VFO):  “Stop the Spiral: 3 Mistakes Couples Make When They’re Mad (and what to do instead)” — a practical guide to help you stop the downward spiral and have a better conversation even when you’re angry. Website / freebie link: kahoskins.com Subscribe for new episodes and practical relationship tools. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    12 min

  2. JAN 27

    Episode 37: How To Stop Having Rehashing Conversations With Your Anxious Partner

    Is your partner a chronic worrier or do they struggle with anxiety?  In this episode of 'Lucky in Love', we discusses the often overlooked impact of anxiety on relationships. I emphasize that anxiety affects not only the individual but also their partner, leading to exhaustion and frustration. Through real-life examples, I explains the withdrawal-pursuit cycle that can develop in anxious relationships and offers practical strategies such as implementing a 'worry window' to manage anxiety.  I also highlight the importance of effective communication and setting boundaries to maintain a healthy relationship dynamic.     Takeaways   Anxiety affects both partners in a relationship. Chronic worrying can lead to exhaustion for both individuals. The withdrawal-pursuit cycle creates disconnection in relationships. Implementing a worry window can help manage anxiety. Effective communication is key to resolving anxiety-related issues. Setting boundaries is essential to prevent burnout. Reassurance is crucial for the anxious partner. Partners should not be each other's therapists. Naming the worry helps in addressing it effectively. Seeking external support can strengthen the relationship. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    21 min

  3. JAN 20

    Episode 36: Why You Pick Fights You Don't Really Want

    Have you ever led with sarcasm instead of just saying what you wanted or needed?  Started a fight you didn’t really want by asking a question you already knew the answer to— just to prove a point? Or began the conversation with a “joke” that wasn’t really a joke - or if your significant other does— this episode of Lucky In Love is for you.  I’m breaking down why we pick fights we don’t actually want—and what those “random” arguments are really doing for us.  And, I’m teaching you how to stop.  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    18 min

  4. JAN 12

    Episode 35: The Secret To Mindblowing Sex in Long Term Relationships

    Do you have a mind-blowing sex life? Do you want one? In this episode, we are talking about common problems couples struggle with when it comes to sex.  We’ll talk about pressure, resentment, desire gaps, and the quiet patterns that shut sex down… and then we’ll get into some practical, real-life suggestions that help sex and intimacy feel connected, playful, and yes—spicier. This episode starts mild and heats up as we go, so consider this your friendly warning. If you want better sex that feels natural instead of forced—and you’re open to a few spicy ideas along the way—press play!  Free PDF Download Stop The Spiral: https://kari-hoskins-coaching-llc.kit.com/stopthespiral The Art of Dirty Talk: https://www.elevatedintimacy.com/store Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    36 min

  5. 11/14/2025

    Episode 34: Is My Partner Unhappy? Warning Signs.

    In this episode of Lucky in Love, I'm breaking down the sneaky, often-missed signs your partner is unhappy in your relationship—even if you feel fine.  I  explain how mismatched expectations, unresolved resentment, and outside stress can quietly widen the gap between you, showing up as pulling away from rituals, more solo time, short answers, less affection, and a fading sex life.  You’ll learn what to watch for and how to start a calm, honest conversation before you end up blindsided by a breakup or divorce. Want some info on working with me? Visit my website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    16 min

  6. 11/06/2025

    Episode 33: My Partner Says They're Unhappy. Now What?

    When your significant other says, “I’m unhappy,” it can feel like a gut punch. In this episode, I break down exactly how to respond—without panicking, dismissing, or scrambling. Learn the three-step framework: take it seriously, get curious and listen, then create a real plan of action together. What You’ll Learn Why “panic or brush-off” responses make things worseThe mindset shift: unhappy ≠ out; unhappy = asking for changeHow to listen without defending, explaining, or justifyingThree curiosity questions that open the conversationHow to move from promises to a concrete, shared planWhy “if nothing changes, nothing changes” is the real bottom line Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    10 min

  7. 10/30/2025

    Episode 32: More Date Nights Won't Save Your Marriage-- Here's Why...

    I’m sure you’ve heard it: “You two just need more date nights.” It’s well-intentioned advice, but when a marriage or relationship is struggling, it can actually make things worse. In this episode of Lucky in Love, I’m breaking down why more dinners out and weekend getaways won’t fix what’s really going on underneath—and what to do instead. Because the truth is, the problem usually isn’t how much time you spend together; it’s how you’re showing up when you’re together. I explain three ways date nights can backfire when a relationship is on shaky ground and walk you through what can actually help you start turning things around.   Whether you’re in a rough season yourself or want to support a friend who is, this episode offers a compassionate reminder: you can’t pour romance over unresolved conflict and expect it to stick. But with small, intentional changes, you can start rebuilding the connection that makes those date nights meaningful again. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    13 min

  8. 09/26/2025

    Episode 31: How To Use Both/And Thinking To Change Your Relationship

    Have you ever been stuck in gridlock with your partner or spouse? Unable to find a solution you can both agree on?  Instead of getting stuck in right-vs-wrong battles, I teach you how a simple mindset shift allows you to hold two truths at the same time — creating space for connection, collaboration, and creative solutions. We will talk about how either/or thinking fuels defensiveness, resentment, and stonewalling, while both/and thinking softens conversations, helps both partners feel heard, and opens the door to solutions that work for everyone.  I give you  real-life scenarios — from dividing chores to handling money stress to parenting differences — showing how this simple shift can completely change the feel of a relationship. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karihoskinscoaching/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kari.lifecoaching/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC4A7XJcQEYfTh3E43IIw7Bg/about Website: https://www.karihoskinscoaching.com

    15 min
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Welcome to Lucky in Love with Kari Hoskins, M.A., Certified Relationship Coach. This is the show where we tell the messy truth about relationships. Because most relationships don’t end in one dramatic moment. They fade out slowly… from the conversations that never happen, the hurts that don’t get repaired, and the distance that becomes normal. Lucky in Love is where we stop tiptoeing and start talking. We'll name the patterns that are keeping you stuck and get practical tools and guidance you can use immediately to plus guest experts and real conversations.   infidelity, rebuilding trust, mismatched desire, sex and intimacy issues, resentment, emotional shutdown, conflict loops, communication and heartbreak. If you’re ready to feel lucky in love, you’re in the right place.    

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  • Creator
    Kari Hoskins
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    39
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Lucky In Love with Kari Hoskins
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