Recharge Psychology - with Zac Erickson

Zac Erickson

Knowing what would help and actually doing it are, annoyingly, two different things. I’m Zac Erickson, a Registered Psychologist, and Recharge Psychology is where we talk about the messy reality of being a person: ADHD, anxiety, burnout, relationships, and that persistent feeling that you should have figured this out by now. Why is it so hard to do something you genuinely care about? How do you stop being hard on yourself without letting yourself off the hook? And how do you build a good life when you’re already tired from keeping up with the one you have? Each episode takes a familiar struggle and gets curious about what’s underneath it. Expect practical psychology, stories, some humour, and probably a nerdy metaphor that goes further than it needs to. The goal isn’t to turn you into a perfectly optimized human who meditates at sunrise and never loses their keys. It’s to help you understand yourself, find something useful to try, and make more room for what matters to you. Let’s figure out what actually helps.

Episodes

  1. 03/07/2025

    #006: ADHD in Relationships: Five Essential Rules for Success (ADHD Real Talk)

    Send us Fan Mail Navigating relationships while managing ADHD presents unique challenges that can either strengthen or strain your partnership. Drawing from 17 years of marriage and extensive experience as a psychologist specializing in ADHD, I've distilled five essential rules that transform how couples approach common relationship obstacles. The cornerstone of successful ADHD relationships begins with assuming good intentions rather than malice. When your partner forgets important dates or arrives late, recognizing this as a manifestation of their neurodevelopmental condition—not neglect—changes everything. This shift from blame to understanding creates space for collaborative problem-solving instead of resentment. Communication failures often trigger relationship conflicts, but verbal reminders rarely stick in the ADHD brain. The solution isn't repetition or nagging but establishing external systems both partners use consistently. Shared calendars, written notes, and other visual cues work with the ADHD brain rather than fighting against it, reducing frustration for everyone involved. Many couples struggle with mismatched energy levels—one partner craves stimulation while the other needs quiet downtime. Finding balance doesn't mean someone always sacrifices; it means creative compromising and sometimes pursuing separate activities while maintaining connection. Similarly, emotional intensity requires thoughtful management from both sides, with non-ADHD partners learning not to escalate when emotions run high and ADHD partners developing strategies to recognize and regulate overwhelming feelings. Perhaps most importantly, successful partnerships distribute responsibilities based on strengths rather than forcing a perfect 50-50 split. This might mean the non-ADHD partner handles more administrative tasks while the ADHD partner contributes in different ways. When couples stop defining fairness as identical contributions and start acknowledging different abilities, resentment decreases dramatically. These strategies represent a fundamental shift away from the "just try harder" mentality that fails both partners. Instead, they'll help you create a relationship where ADHD is acknowledged without becoming the dominant force in your partnership.

  2. 11/01/2024

    #003: Harnessing AI: Empowering ADHD Management Strategies (ADHD Real Talk)

    Send us Fan Mail What if AI could be the secret weapon for managing ADHD? Join me, Zac Erickson, as I have an entruiging conversation with a robot! Along with my AI guest, ChatGPT, we explore this fascinating question in our latest episode of ADHD Real Talk. Discover how large language models like ChatGPT are becoming allies in tackling executive functioning challenges, offering practical support in organizing tasks and thoughts. With the help of major tech players like Apple, Google, and OpenAI, AI is woven into our daily lives, yet it's not without its quirks and concerns. We dive into the realities of AI's limitations, including the fears of job replacement and the unpredictability of AI outputs. Plus, catch an experimental segment with a special guest, where we put AI to the test in real-time. In the second half of our discussion, we shift focus to the delicate balance between AI assistance and human connection, especially in a world dominated by technology. Learn how to integrate AI tools into your daily routine to support organization and time management without overshadowing genuine human interactions. We'll share practical tips for getting started with AI, highlight its strengths in brainstorming and organizing, and emphasize responsible use. Stick around for a special resource I've prepared just for you, accessible in the show notes—a step toward empowering you to harness AI effectively, while keeping the human touch alive.

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Knowing what would help and actually doing it are, annoyingly, two different things. I’m Zac Erickson, a Registered Psychologist, and Recharge Psychology is where we talk about the messy reality of being a person: ADHD, anxiety, burnout, relationships, and that persistent feeling that you should have figured this out by now. Why is it so hard to do something you genuinely care about? How do you stop being hard on yourself without letting yourself off the hook? And how do you build a good life when you’re already tired from keeping up with the one you have? Each episode takes a familiar struggle and gets curious about what’s underneath it. Expect practical psychology, stories, some humour, and probably a nerdy metaphor that goes further than it needs to. The goal isn’t to turn you into a perfectly optimized human who meditates at sunrise and never loses their keys. It’s to help you understand yourself, find something useful to try, and make more room for what matters to you. Let’s figure out what actually helps.