Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40, My Story.

Kole Whitty
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Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40, My Story Ready to embrace parenthood on your own terms? This is for the person who: 🤚 Refuses to let society dictate their timeline. 🦋 Knows their body is wise and powerful. 👩‍🍼 Craves a conscious and empowered pregnancy journey. 🪢 Wants to create a family that reflects your deepest values. ✍️ Is ready to rewrite the rules and embrace the magic of parenthood after 40. Join Kole Whitty, as she shifts from successful business owner to pregnancy, listen as she shares her raw and honest journey of self-discovery, fertility, and conscious creation. In "Beyond the Clock," you'll discover: ⭐️ How to cultivate deep self-trust and intuition. ⭐️ Practical tools for navigating the emotional and spiritual aspects of pregnancy and parenting. ⭐️ Inspiring stories from medical to magical folks that are helping her along the way. ⭐️ Expert advice on everything from fertility to postpartum healing. It's time to ditch the fear, embrace your power, and create the path you've always dreamed of. Subscribe now

  1. Jul 6

    Ep14 Moved To Spain to Have a Baby! Update On Our Conception Journey Over 40 (and 50)

    Kole returns to Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40 with a long-overdue update from Turia Park in Valencia, Spain, after several months of major change. Here is the Substack Update  She recounts moving to Spain on Feb. 10, getting scammed out of their savings, being forced from Barcelona to Valencia, and rebuilding stability, including borrowing money and finding a new flat. After taking three months to acclimate, she began acupuncture and had her first gynecologist visit, with bloodwork underway and a uterine polyp noted to review in September due to Spain's August shutdown. She reflects on leaving the Condor Approach, chronic stress, miscarriages, grief, financial strain, and learning true relaxation while building community through free meetups, doing Pilates, resting, eating well, and rediscovering creativity through music and stand-up comedy. Now 43, she believes natural conception is still possible and plans further fertility testing while settling into a permanent apartment and life in Valencia. 00:00 Beyond the Clock Intro 01:17 Seven Month Update 01:53 Valencia Park Check In 02:36 Spain Move Scam 03:40 Doctors and Fertility Steps 05:48 Learning to Relax 08:08 Service and Community 11:44 Work Stress and Loss 14:34 Independence and Ancestry 17:05 Why Spain for Baby 20:02 Trust the Calling  21:18 Grief and Self Sacrifice 27:00 New Home New Self 27:55 Stand Up and Creativity 30:26 Fertility Plan Ahead 31:58 Closing from Turia Park

  2. 12/17/2025

    Ep13 How Far Would You Go To Have A Baby? (I'm moving across the world)

    We Are Moving to Spain! In this episode of Beyond The Clock, Kole Whitty shares her journey of becoming a first-time mom in her forties and restructuring her life. She discusses the reasons behind her move to Spain, emphasizing how it aligns with her values and supports her well-being. Kole delves into the logistical and emotional aspects, including the benefits of Spain's healthcare system and the overall lifestyle. She reflects on her personal growth, her experiences, and the steps she's taking to make this transition. Kole invites listeners to reflect on their own choices and seek alignment in their lives. 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock  01:38 The Journey to Spain Begins 02:28 Unexpected Challenges and Reflections 03:22 Aligning with the Spanish Lifestyle 05:13 Healthcare Comparisons: US vs Spain 06:29 Embracing Change and Letting Go 20:43 The Financial Benefits of Moving to Spain 23:33 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

  3. 11/24/2025

    Ep12 Self-responsibility NOT self blame.

    Self-responsibility NOT self blame. In this episode of 'Beyond the Clock,' Kole Witty shares her deeply personal journey of preparing for her first baby in her 40s.   She discusses the transformative process of healing from chronic pain, embracing self-responsibility, and restructuring her life for a new chapter in Spain.   Kole recounts the struggles and triumphs, including dealing with medical conditions, trauma, and her powerful experiences in animal rescue and motivational speaking.   Through candid storytelling, Kole emphasizes the importance of alignment, safety, and rhythm over biology in her fertility journey and highlights her commitment to creating a nurturing environment for her future child.   00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock   01:34 Day Four: Sharing My Fertility Journey   02:35 Challenges and Inspirations   06:38 Healing Journey and Self-Responsibility   11:08 Facing Past Traumas and Finding Safety   14:29 Turning Points and Radical Self-Responsibility   19:58 Struggles and Realizations   24:28 Accepting Self-Responsibility   30:37 Life Choices and Personal Boundaries   31:29 Building a Dream Relationship   32:27 Self-Responsibility and Healing   33:07 Understanding Body Signals   35:38 Emotional Triggers and Communication   38:02 Balancing Life and Self-Care   48:45 Financial Struggles and Adaptations   55:11 Fertility Journey and Future Plans   01:00:23 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

  4. 11/23/2025

    Ep11 Micro Miracles And Fighting For Limitations

    In this episode of Beyond The Clock, Kole Witty shares the journey of becoming a first-time mom in her forties. Kole discusses her past struggles with chronic pain, healing from trauma, and finding alignment and safety in preparation for a new chapter in life. She highlights the importance of radical self-responsibility, effective communication, and listening to one's body. Kole also delves into her relationship dynamics, the process of overcoming limitations, and the significance of making choices that align with one's authentic self. This episode offers deep insights into her transformative path and the preparation for moving to Spain with her husband while stepping into a fertility journey. 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock  01:33 Going Live on Social Media 02:01 My Healing Journey 03:21 Struggles and Realizations 05:50 Finding My True Path 07:22 Embracing My Authentic Self 11:08 The Turning Point 15:38 Preparing for a New Chapter 18:38 The Power of Love and Timing 20:51 Navigating Relationship Dynamics 22:00 Building a Strong Foundation 22:55 Effective Communication Strategies 23:21 Cultural and Personal Backgrounds 24:02 Commitment to Growth 28:39 Health and Personal Transformation 30:32 Tracking and Accountability 31:59 Radical Self-Responsibility  33:06 Managing Emotional Triggers 36:09 Daily Micro Transformations 39:27 Final Thoughts and Inspiration

  5. 11/21/2025

    Ep10 Creating Space: My Path to Becoming a Mom in My Forties

    Creating Space: My Path to Becoming a Mom in My Forties From chronic pain and shutdown to real healing — this is why I'm doing this now, and why I'm documenting the whole journey. Your body always tells the truth before your mind will. Follow for the full 30-day series. Kole shares her personal story of overcoming chronic pain, restructuring her life, healing, and running a business with clarity. She discusses her decision to have a baby later in life, the societal pressures women face, and the emotional and physical challenges that come with it. Kole also talks about her unique approach to marriage, her supportive relationship with her husband, and their plans to move to Spain. Throughout, Kole emphasizes the importance of creating a nurturing environment and maintaining emotional and physical health for a successful fertility journey. 00:00 Introduction to Beyond the Clock 02:16 The Journey to Motherhood Begins 03:12 Fertility Challenges and Societal Pressures 04:22 Personal Reflections and Decisions 07:33 Marriage and Annual Vows Renewal 09:03 The Decision to Have a Baby 10:45 Healing and Preparing the Body 13:48 Emotional and Physical Health 22:27 Tracking Fertility and Future Plans 25:12 Adjusting to the Journey of Conceiving 26:13 Health and Fertility Challenges 27:32 Shifting Business and Lifestyle for Pregnancy 28:20 Moving to Spain for a Better Life 31:38 Managing Stress and Fertility 34:47 Intuition and Instincts in Parenting 35:47 Overcoming Societal Expectations 41:28 Building a Supportive Relationship 46:04 Creating an Optimal Environment 48:58 Conclusion and Future Plans

  6. 11/20/2025

    Ep 9 Undoing My Pain Body and Moving To Spain

    Ep 9 Undoing My Pain Body and Moving To Spain My Journey to Motherhood After 40: A Personal Health Transformation Host Kole Whitty announces a 30-day live streaming series on TikTok and Instagram where she will discuss her personal journey, health, and fertility after 40. Kole shares her story of dealing with chronic pain, self-loathing, and societal pressures, and how she turned her life around through self-care, fitness, and emotional healing. Kole also speaks about her podcast 'Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40,' her relationship with her husband, and their decision to have a baby. The episode outlines the couple's steps to prepare for parenthood, including changing their lifestyle, relocating to Spain, and prioritizing physical and mental well-being. 00:00 Introduction to the 30-Day Live Challenge 00:24 Starting the Podcast: First Baby After 40 00:31 Fertility Journey and Personal Reflections 03:36 Deciding to Have a Baby 07:30 Health Challenges and Lifestyle Changes 13:28 Breaking Free from Toxic Jobs 18:39 Moving to Austin and New Beginnings 21:26 Rediscovering Joy Through Music and Community 23:12 Embracing Creativity and Overcoming Pain 24:50 Facing Past Traumas and Finding Happiness 26:09 Living Simply and Finding Freedom 27:38 Radical Self-Responsibility and Health Transformation 33:54 Fitness Journey and Meeting My Husband 37:26 Emotional Healing and Helping Others 40:03 Preparing for a New Chapter: Fertility Journey

  7. 02/16/2025

    Ep8 Raising A Child In Today's World Our Way

    Beyond the Clock | First Baby After 40 Kole Whitty and her husband Tah discuss their experiences after a three-month since the ast episode. The couple highlights life events, such as losing family members, relocating, and growing their businesses. They share their fertility journey, including their decision not to undergo traditional testing, the emotional nuances of conception, societal pressures regarding age, and the evolving dynamics in their relationship. The discussion extends to their perspectives on raising a child in today's world, educational philosophies, and shifting societal norms regarding parenting and gender. The episode promises deep insights into their holistic approach to life and family. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back 00:35 Life Updates and Challenges 01:34 Fertility Journey and Conception 04:10 Emotional and Physical Changes 09:53 Reflections on Parenthood 14:38 Legacy and Parenting Philosophy 16:43 Thoughts on Age and Parenting 19:27 Gender and Parenting Choices 22:18 Education and Schooling Views 26:34 The Evolution of Human Normalcy 27:58 Technological Impact on Human Evolution 29:58 Shifts in Education and Parenting 30:46 Personal Reflections on Parenting 32:32 Navigating Life's Challenges Together 35:26 Embracing New Ways of Being 37:39 The Importance of Self-Care and Support 51:49 Final Thoughts and Future Plans

  8. 11/15/2024

    Ep7 Geriatric Pregnancy?! Ew.

    Geriatric Pregnancy?!  Ew. Host Kole Whitty breaks down the outdated and offensive concept of 'geriatric pregnancy,' sharing her personal journey of conceiving after 40. She discusses the cultural and medical stigmas surrounding pregnancy later in life, the importance of mental and physical health, and the significance of creating a stress-free environment. Kole emphasizes the role of mindset, spirituality, and self-awareness in overcoming societal fears and misconceptions about fertility and pregnancy as one ages. 00:00 Introduction and Personal Journey 00:40 Debunking Geriatric Pregnancy 02:52 Personal Experiences with Birth Control 03:25 Fertility Fears and Misconceptions 08:51 The Importance of Safety and Mindset 12:26 Understanding the Nervous System 17:12 Impact of Stress on Pregnancy 18:38 Mindful Approach to Conception 20:08 Intentional Self-Care and Preparation 22:40 Navigating Relationships and Support Systems 23:23 Rejecting Negative Terminology 25:01 Personal Reflections and Future Plans 30:47 Encouragement and Resources 32:20 Final Thoughts and Upcoming Topics

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Beyond the Clock: First Baby After 40, My Story Ready to embrace parenthood on your own terms? This is for the person who: 🤚 Refuses to let society dictate their timeline. 🦋 Knows their body is wise and powerful. 👩‍🍼 Craves a conscious and empowered pregnancy journey. 🪢 Wants to create a family that reflects your deepest values. ✍️ Is ready to rewrite the rules and embrace the magic of parenthood after 40. Join Kole Whitty, as she shifts from successful business owner to pregnancy, listen as she shares her raw and honest journey of self-discovery, fertility, and conscious creation. In "Beyond the Clock," you'll discover: ⭐️ How to cultivate deep self-trust and intuition. ⭐️ Practical tools for navigating the emotional and spiritual aspects of pregnancy and parenting. ⭐️ Inspiring stories from medical to magical folks that are helping her along the way. ⭐️ Expert advice on everything from fertility to postpartum healing. It's time to ditch the fear, embrace your power, and create the path you've always dreamed of. Subscribe now

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