Hard Working Dad

Curtis Leong

Hardworking Dad: Balancing Hustle and Home Life hacks for dads who do it all! Join hosts RJ and Curtis as they navigate the wild world of fatherhood while crushing it at work. Each week, we bring you: 🎯 Practical tips for work-life balance 👨‍👧‍👦 Real talk about parenting challenges 💼 Career advice for ambitious fathers 🧘‍♂️ Self-care strategies (because dads need love too!) 😂 Dad jokes that'll make your kids roll their eyes Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned pro, "Hardworking Dad" is your go-to resource for thriving in both your career and family life. Tune in Sunday's

  1. May 3

    When Should I Consider Therapy or Counseling for My Child?

    Has your gut been telling you something’s off with your kid? You’re not overreacting — and you’re not alone. In this episode, Curtis and RJ sit down for one of the most important conversations parents of tweens and teens need to have: when is it time to consider therapy or counseling for your child — and how do you actually make it happen? RJ opens up about his own experience with his two adult children — Amanda’s quiet withdrawal that snuck up on him slowly, and Josh’s outward anger that he almost wrote off as ‘boys being boys.’ Two very different kids. Two very real wake-up calls. In this episode you’ll learn: The emotional and behavioral signs that signal your child may need more support Why therapy isn’t just for crisis situations — and the mindset shift that changes everything What to say (and what NOT to say) when your kid pushes back on going Life events that almost always benefit from professional support Practical steps to find the right therapist for your child When it’s a crisis — and what to do immediately This episode is warm, honest, and yes — there’s a dad joke. Because parenting is hard, and you deserve to laugh a little too. 🚨 Crisis Resources Mentioned: 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline — call or text 988 Crisis Text Line — text HOME to 741741 📌 Resources Mentioned: Find a therapist: psychologytoday.com  |  Join our community: parentsupportcircle.com Chapter Markers / Timestamps  0:00   —  Intro & cold open 2:00   —  Why therapy isn’t just for crisis situations 5:00   —  Emotional signs: Amanda’s story (the slow fade) 9:00   —  Behavioral signs: Josh’s story (the loud struggle) 13:00  —  What to do when your kid refuses to go 16:00  —  When it’s a crisis: resources to call right now 18:00  —  How to find the right therapist 19:30  —  Key takeaways & close

    15 min
  2. Apr 12

    "That's So Unfair!" — What Consequences Actually Work for Tweens

    Does "That's SO unfair!" sound familiar? If you're parenting a tween, it probably does. In this episode of Parent Support Circle, host Curtis sits down with co-host RJ — a dad who's been through the tween years twice with his now-adult kids Josh and Amanda — to unpack one of the most common parenting flashpoints: consequences. What makes a consequence actually fair? What's the difference between punishing your kid and teaching them something? And when your tween pushes back and says you're being unfair... are they sometimes right? We dig into all of it — natural consequences, logical consequences, why proportionality matters more than you think, and how to have the kind of conversations that keep your tween actually talking to you through the hard years. You'll walk away with:✅ A clear way to tell the difference between punishment and real consequences✅ Real examples of fair consequences for common tween situations — school, curfew, lying, chores✅ How to respond when you overcorrect (yes, it happens — and it's okay)✅ Why giving your tween a voice in the rules makes them more likely to follow them✅ 3 things you can do THIS week to handle discipline with more connection and less conflict Whether you're in the thick of the tween years or just trying to get ahead of them, this one's for you. 🎙️ New episodes every week. Subscribe so you never miss one. Join the Circle here #ParentingTips #FamilyLife #RealParenting #ParentingAdvice #RaisingResponsibleKids #MiddleSchoolMom #PreteenParenting #ParentingCommunity #MomLife #DadLife

    25 min
  3. How to Teach Accountability and Natural Consequences of an Eleven-Year-Old Daughter (A Parent’s Guide)

    Apr 5

    How to Teach Accountability and Natural Consequences of an Eleven-Year-Old Daughter (A Parent’s Guide)

    How do you teach your child responsibility without constant nagging, power struggles, or punishments that don’t stick? In this episode, Curtis is joined by RJ—a father of two independent adult children, Armanda and Josh—who shares real-life parenting experiences and practical strategies that actually work. Together, they break down how to teach accountability to an 11-year-old using natural consequences, clear expectations, and calm, consistent guidance. You’ll hear relatable parenting moments, honest conversations, and simple shifts that can transform the way your child responds to responsibility. From forgotten homework and messy rooms to attitude and pushback, this episode gives you tools you can start using immediately. If you’re raising a pre-teen and want to build independence, confidence, and responsibility—without daily battles—this conversation will give you a clear path forward. 🎧 In this episode, you’ll learn: How to teach accountability without punishmentThe difference between natural and logical consequencesReal-life examples that actually stick with kidsHow to stop over-rescuing and start building independenceWays to handle attitude without escalating conflictWhat truly prepares your child for the teenage yearsThis is real parenting advice—practical, honest, and proven over time. 🛒 Strong Coffee Company - Protein Coffee 💰 Get 20% OFF | Promo Code: HELPFULL https://strongcoffeecompany.com/discount/HELPFULL

    9 min

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Hardworking Dad: Balancing Hustle and Home Life hacks for dads who do it all! Join hosts RJ and Curtis as they navigate the wild world of fatherhood while crushing it at work. Each week, we bring you: 🎯 Practical tips for work-life balance 👨‍👧‍👦 Real talk about parenting challenges 💼 Career advice for ambitious fathers 🧘‍♂️ Self-care strategies (because dads need love too!) 😂 Dad jokes that'll make your kids roll their eyes Whether you're a new dad or a seasoned pro, "Hardworking Dad" is your go-to resource for thriving in both your career and family life. Tune in Sunday's