Reconnect with Laira Thomas

Laira Thomas

Whether you are on the road to self-discovery, on the dating scene or in a long-term relationship, we all want better connections. Re/connect will dive into each of these areas with great guests who specialize in their field. Hosted by Laira Thomas, a Facilitator talking about connections, intimacy and sex. Re/connect will get you thinking about the ways we can examine our behavior, form stronger relationships and figure out what kind of changes we can make to get what we want out of life.

Episodes

  1. 02/13/2025

    Intimacy, Desire & Complexities of Sexual Connection with Carlyle Jansen

    In this episode of Reconnect with Laira Thomas, we dive deep into intimacy, desire, and the complexities of sexual connection with psychotherapist and registered sex therapist Carlyle Jansen. From understanding libido differences to navigating sexual communication, this conversation is full of insights that can help you strengthen your relationship. We explore:✨ Spontaneous vs. Responsive Desire – What’s the difference, and why does it matter?✨ How to Address Libido Differences – Finding balance when one partner wants sex more often than the other.✨ The Importance of Non-Sexual Touch – Why physical affection outside of sex is crucial.✨ Scheduling Intimacy – How planning sex can actually make it better.✨ Communicating About Sex Without Shame – How to discuss desires, needs, and boundaries openly. Whether you struggle with mismatched libidos, feel disconnected in your relationship, or simply want to improve intimacy, this episode provides practical advice on fostering a stronger emotional and physical connection. Connect with Laira Thomas:🌐 LairaThomas.com📸 Instagram - @LairaThomas Join us for an open, informative, and emotionally supportive conversation about relationships, intimacy, and the power of communication. 🔊 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform — and don’t forget to leave a review to help keep us connected! 00:00 Intro 07:09 Transitioning from Retail to Therapy 09:38 Understanding Libido and Desire in Relationships 13:29 Navigating Differences in Sexual Desire 18:14 Acceptance and Communication in Sexual Relationships 24:27 Transitioning to a Sexual Mindset 26:48 The Role of Communication in Relationships 27:39 Expressing Vulnerability and Honesty 30:50 Initiating and Declining Intimacy with Compassion 35:23 Non-Sexual Touch and Affection 38:51 Common Issues in Sexual Relationships 41:13 Personal Reflections and Advice

    45 min
  2. 12/19/2024

    Love in the Time of Swipe: Dating in The Digital Age with Jen Kirsch

    In this episode of Reconnect with Laira Thomas, we dive deep into the modern dating landscape with relationship expert and journalist Jen Kirsch. From decoding dating app profiles to embracing vulnerability, Jen shares practical advice on how to present your true self, avoid dating burnout, and cultivate meaningful relationships.   We explore: ✨ How to create an authentic dating profile that sparks real conversations ✨ The art of moving from online chats to real-life connections ✨ Why rejection isn’t about you — and how to build emotional resilience ✨ Navigating breakups, rediscovering yourself, and finding love again   Whether you're navigating dating apps or seeking personal growth after a breakup, this episode is packed with empowering insights and heartfelt advice.   Connect with Jen Kirsch: 📸 Instagram - @Jen_Kirsch   Connect with Laira Thomas: 🌐 LairaThomas.com 📸 Instagram - @LairaThomas   Join us for an open, honest, and emotionally supportive conversation about love, loss, and finding your way back to yourself.   🔊 Listen now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favorite platform. Don’t forget to leave a review — your support keeps us connected! 00:00 Intro 02:55 Navigating the World of Dating Apps 07:38 Meeting People Organically 13:02 Presenting Yourself Online 21:28 Communicating in Relationships 32:57 Authenticity in Online Dating 35:04 Connecting with Others in Everyday Life 39:42 Navigating Divorce and Breakups 43:29 The Importance of Self-Awareness

    56 min
  3. 11/07/2024

    How Sue Johanson Changed Sex Education Forever with Filmmaker Lisa Rideout

    In this episode, Laira sits down with award-winning filmmaker Lisa Rideout to discuss her acclaimed documentary Sex with Sue. The film offers a deep dive into the life and legacy of Sue Johanson, Canada’s pioneering sex educator. Known for her fearless approach to discussing sexuality, Sue reshaped conversations about sex, making challenging topics accessible to audiences of all ages. Lisa shares her creative journey in bringing Sue’s story to life, from collaborating with Sue’s daughter, Jane Johanson, to preserving Sue’s humor, honesty, and groundbreaking commitment to sexual education. Laira and Lisa reflect on Sue’s impact in creating a safe, inclusive space for people to discuss sexual health without shame or judgment. Learn more about Lisa Rideout at lisakrideout.com. Follow Reconnect with Laira Thomas on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen to podcasts. Like, subscribe, and leave a quick review to support the show! Stay connected with Laira: Website: lairathomas.com Instagram: @lairathomas 00:00 Intro 04:56 Challenges and Controversies 10:59 Sue's Unique Approach and Humor 15:59 Modern Sex Education and Influences 22:45 Personal Reflections and Future Generations 28:53 Modeling Comfort and Honesty in Sex Education 34:10 The Evolution of Sex Education 38:38 Accessing the Documentary and Its Global Reach 40:19 Rapid Fire Questions and Personal Insights 42:13 Sue's Timeless Influence and Final Thoughts

    47 min

About

Whether you are on the road to self-discovery, on the dating scene or in a long-term relationship, we all want better connections. Re/connect will dive into each of these areas with great guests who specialize in their field. Hosted by Laira Thomas, a Facilitator talking about connections, intimacy and sex. Re/connect will get you thinking about the ways we can examine our behavior, form stronger relationships and figure out what kind of changes we can make to get what we want out of life.