Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast

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Real couples. Real conversations. Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler keep it honest about marriage, money, and everything in between. From communication and budgeting to handling stress, raising kids, and staying connected, each episode brings laughs, lessons, and a reminder that love and money are always a work in progress.

  1. 5D AGO

    Episode 55: Skipping the Holidays After a Loss & Financial Steps to Take After the Loss of a Family Member

    Grief does not take a break for the holidays. In this episode, Lindsey and Brett talk about whether it is okay to skip holiday traditions after a loss, how grief shows up differently for everyone, and ways to navigate the season with less pressure and more support. They also cover the financial realities families face after losing a loved one. Brett shares a clear step by step overview of what to do next, including life insurance, beneficiary accounts, inherited IRAs, and common pitfalls. This episode offers both emotional reassurance and practical guidance for anyone walking through loss. Submit a question or request a 15 minute consultation at financially4everafter.com.

    28 min

  2. DEC 17

    Episode 54: Listener Questions About Surviving the Holidays & How to Budget for All of Those Gifts

    In this holiday themed episode, Lindsey and Brett answer listener questions about surviving the holidays with both relationships and finances intact. They discuss how couples can navigate family expectations, set boundaries, and keep long term relationships feeling connected during a busy season. Brett also shares practical tips for managing holiday spending, including budgeting for gifts, deciding when to use credit cards, and handling pressure to overspend. If the holidays bring financial stress or relationship tension, this episode offers simple and realistic guidance. Submit a question or request a 15 minute consultation at Financially4everafter.com.

    34 min

  3. DEC 10

    Episode 53: The 3x3 Rule in Marriage & the Importance of Choosing the Right Life Insurance

    Lindsey and Brett talk about the 3x3 Rule in marriage and why carving out intentional time both together and apart can make a meaningful difference. They share how the rule works, why it matters most in the busy seasons of parenting, and how routines, alone time, and planned connection hours can strengthen relationships. Brett then dives into common life insurance mistakes and what families need to understand before choosing a policy. From exclusions to lapses to choosing between term and whole life, he breaks down real examples and simple guidance to help you potentially avoid costly errors. Questions about relationships or life insurance? Drop them here. Follow us on Instagram and Facebook Watch full episodes on YouTube

    34 min

  4. DEC 3

    Episode 52: Growing Apart, Can the Relationship Be Rekindled? & More Ways to Save on Your Taxes

    Lindsey and Brett talk about something many couples face quietly. What happens when you care about each other, but the connection no longer feels alive? They break down the signs of growing apart, why it can happen even in strong relationships, and how to figure out whether it can be rekindled. They also cover: • How to recognize when your relationship has shifted• Why routines can replace connection• Ways to rebuild emotional closeness• When counseling or a neutral voice can help• How to decide if the relationship still has room to grow Then Brett shares more tax strategies you can use before the end of the year, including how itemized deductions work and when bunching deductions can save money. Visit financially4everafter.com to send in a question or request a 15 minute consultation with Brett.

    28 min

  5. NOV 26

    Episode 51: Emotional Burnout, How to Cope, & Tips for Lowering Your Taxable Burden

    Feeling drained or disconnected from your partner? This episode is for you. Lindsey and Brett talk through emotional burnout, how it shows up in relationships, and simple ways to refill your cup without guilt. They also answer a listener question about seeming distant while simply being overwhelmed from work. Brett follows the conversation with practical year end tax strategies, including: • Using your 401(k) and Roth 401(k) wisely• Saving money through an HSA• What tax loss harvesting means• How charitable giving can reduce your taxable income Submit a question or request a 15 minute consultation with Brett at Financially4everafter.com.

    31 min

  6. NOV 19

    Episode 50: Quiet Luxury Date Nights & Answering More Listener Financial Questions

    This episode is all about the rise of quiet luxury date nights and why staying in can feel more meaningful than going out. We talk about choosing connection over cost, how simple nights can feel special, and how to be intentional with spending as a couple. We also answer listener financial questions including how much to put toward retirement savings, when to prioritize debt payoff over investing, and how to balance lifestyle expenses with long-term goals. A mix of real-life relationship talk and practical money conversations. Submit your questions for a future episode here.

    35 min

  7. NOV 12

    Episode 49: Answering Listener Relationship & Financial Questions

    Answering Listener Questions: When Love Languages, Husker Football & Inflation Collide What happens when your love language doesn’t match your partner’s? Or when your paycheck doesn’t stretch quite as far as it used to? In this week’s episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love & Money Podcast, Lindsey and Brett Shunkwiler get real about relationships, finances, and everything in between. 💬 In this episode: • Listener questions on love languages, communication, and quality time • How to stop keeping score in arguments (and actually keep the peace) • Real talk about budgeting when prices go up but paychecks don’t • Discussion about about AI stocks, crypto, and whether it’s too late to invest • Nebraska football heartbreaks and why the volleyball team still gives us hope 🎧 Listen & connect: Ask your own questions at Financially4EverAfter.com or follow us on Instagram, Facebook, TikTok, and YouTube for more episodes.

    33 min

  8. NOV 5

    Episode 48: How to Approach Challenging Topics with Your Significant Other & Unlocking Financial Growth

    Ever tried to have a serious conversation with your partner only for it to spiral into frustration? In this episode of Financially 4 Ever After: A Love and Money Podcast, Brett and Lindsey share how to approach difficult topics without starting a fight, plus how understanding your money can strengthen your relationship. 💛 Relationship takeaways:• Choose the right time for hard talks and avoid moments of stress or distraction• Use “I feel” statements instead of “you always” or “you never”• Focus on connection, not being right• Learn how validation can calm tension and rebuild trust 💰 Financial takeaways:• Why Roth accounts are often best left to grow tax-free• The “Rule of 100” and what it means for your investment balance• How to find the right mix of safe versus risky investments• Why diversification and timing matter for long-term growth This episode is packed with relatable stories, practical communication tools, and financial tips that help you grow together in love and money. 🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube to learn how better communication and smarter investing can transform your relationship. Submit your questions for a future episode here. #Financially4EverAfter #LoveAndMoney #MarriageAndMoney #RothIRA #RelationshipAdvice #InvestingTips #Podcast

    29 min
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Real couples. Real conversations. Brett and Lindsey Shunkwiler keep it honest about marriage, money, and everything in between. From communication and budgeting to handling stress, raising kids, and staying connected, each episode brings laughs, lessons, and a reminder that love and money are always a work in progress.

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