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Heather Jolley and Nicole Barr

Join Heather and Nicole as we discuss all things Gen-X with personal nostalgia, current events, and an advocacy for the rights of all humans.  From music to movies to television and so much more, revisit the generational trauma we all experienced as we talk about it all. Take a break from today and travel back to the long hot summer days of the 80s and 90s.  Come on slackers, f**k around and find out with us!

  1. 4d ago

    This Episode Sucks

    Dracula wasn’t born in a castle, and he definitely wasn’t born sparkling. We start with the real-world roots of the myth in Vlad the Impaler, then follow the vampire story as it migrates through European folklore, Bram Stoker’s Dracula, and the film versions that lock the character into our collective brain. Along the way, we call out the weird details that make this legend stick, from “vampire panic” misunderstandings about decomposition to the way blood becomes a shortcut for fear, desire, and danger.  Then we make it personal and very Gen X. The late 70s, 80s, and 90s don’t give us one Dracula, they give us a whole vampire food court: comedy, horror, romance, cartoons, and cult classics. We talk Love at First Bite, Count Von Count somehow becoming a kid’s first Dracula, and why the 80s are the undefeated decade for cool vampires with swagger. From Fright Night to Once Bitten to The Lost Boys, vampires stop being dusty aristocrats and become stylish outsiders with soundtracks, trauma, and attitude.  The 90s flip the genre again by making vampires romantic and tragic. We get into Bram Stoker’s Dracula (1992) and how it ties the Vlad connection into a love story, then zoom out to Anne Rice’s huge influence on modern vampire fiction. We also hit TV staples like Buffy the Vampire Slayer and the pop culture moment when everyone knows the rules well enough to parody them. We wrap by mapping the major vampire archetypes, including Blade’s action makeover, and we land on the real reason Dracula survives: every generation builds the version it needs.  Subscribe, share the show with a fellow Gen Xer, and leave a review if you want more deep dives with side-eye. What’s your all-time favorite vampire movie? Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

  2. Oct 23

    Keaton Keaton Keaton

    A toddler shoplifts candy at Wawa in broad daylight, a great white launches out of the ocean like it’s auditioning for Shark Week, and somehow that’s still only the warm-up before we go all-in on Michael Keaton. We’re Nicole and Heather, and our brains work exactly like a Gen X group chat: horror streaming, true crime burnout, coastal storm chaos, and then a hard pivot into the movies we can quote from memory. We trace Keaton’s path from Pittsburgh roots and Mr. Rogers’ Neighborhood to early film swings like Night Shift and the forever-classic Mr. Mom. Then we hit the roles that shaped a whole era of 80s and 90s pop culture: Beetlejuice, the Tim Burton connection, and the Batman and Batman Returns run that still sparks arguments about the best Batman. We also talk about how Burton builds a loyal creative “crew,” why that vibe is so recognizable, and where Keaton’s darker edge fit perfectly. From there, we look at the later chapters, including the Birdman comeback story and the Spotlight moment, plus a rapid-fire set of Keaton fun facts and roles he turned down. We wrap with a real-life vent about USPS election mail scrutiny, shipping label mistakes that trigger postage due, and what it’s like trying to do the job when everyone assumes the worst. If you love Michael Keaton, Tim Burton movies, Gen X nostalgia, or just honest friend-talk with detours, hit play, subscribe, share the show, and leave a review. Then email us your favorite Batman and tell us why you’re right. Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

  3. Oct 22

    These Aren't The Ads You're Looking For

    One movie scene can turn a “whatever” product into a permanent part of culture, and once you notice it, you can’t unsee it. We start with our usual real life swirl, the SpaceX “space squid,” an update on endurance legend Carl Bushby, and a surprisingly honest detour into life insurance, death plans, and the oddly comforting idea of donating your body to science. Then we go deep on product placement in movies, the kind Gen X grew up breathing in through VHS rewatches. We break down the marketing alchemy behind Reese’s Pieces in E.T., how Ray Ban Wayfarer sales were revived by Risky Business, and why Top Gun made aviator sunglasses feel like an identity instead of an accessory. From Vans checkerboard slip ons in Fast Times at Ridgemont High to a Baby Ruth moment in The Goonies, we track how brands become emotional shortcuts when they actually belong in the story. We also hit Twinkies in Ghostbusters and Zombieland, White Castle turning into a true destination thanks to Harold and Kumar, Toy Story using real toys as real characters, and the strangest win of all: PBR getting a counterculture boost from Blue Velvet. If you love 80s movies, 90s movies, consumer culture analysis, and the way nostalgia messes with your shopping cart, you’ll have a lot to argue with us about. Subscribe, share the episode with a fellow movie nerd, and leave a review so more listeners can find us. Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

  4. Oct 9

    Get Off My Lawn

    National Grouch Day exists, it lands on October 15, and we are absolutely claiming it. We take our favorite kind of nostalgia, the kind with sharp edges, and use it to build a Gen X hall of fame for legendary grouches. Think Oscar the Grouch energy, but expanded into sitcom dads, cartoon villains, and the characters who taught us that complaining can be a craft. We dig into where National Grouch Day came from (a sixth-grade prank aimed at a grouchy teacher) and then roll through the icons: Fred Sanford’s glorious crankiness, Archie Bunker as a complicated cultural time capsule, Al Bundy’s working-class doom humor, and Sophia Petrillo’s wisecracking truth bombs. We also get weirdly invested in Gargamel vs. the Smurfs, because if you rewatch as an adult, you might start asking uncomfortable questions about tiny blue creatures infesting your life. Then Nicole pulls out a real diary-era story: defending herself on the school bus, getting punished anyway, and why that kind of unfair rule enforcement sticks with you. We round it out with Mr. T’s rise from real-life respect politics to Rocky III and The A-Team fame, plus bonus grouches like Garfield and the unbeatable Statler and Waldorf. Hit play, laugh with us, and then tell us your take: are the Smurfs harmless, or are they the problem? Subscribe, share with your grouchiest friend, and leave a review so more Gen X nostalgia lovers can find us. Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

  5. Oct 2

    Keeping It 100 GenX Style

    Aliens aren’t a new obsession for Gen X, they’re practically part of our operating system, and we prove it on our (very on brand) hundredth episode. We start where we always start: real life chaos. From birthday side eye to VMAs takes to a full rant about coastal storm flooding and out of town concert crowds acting like Ocean City invented water, we set the scene for why “unexplained” is basically our comfort zone. Then we go out of this world, but keep it grounded in stories you can actually argue about at a bar. We run through celebrities who swear they’ve seen UFOs or been abducted, including Dan Aykroyd’s lifelong deep dive, Tom DeLonge’s wild path from Blink-182 to helping push Navy UFO videos into public view, Muhammad Ali’s repeated sightings, Goldie Hawn’s cosmic encounter, Fran Drescher’s matching scar claim, and Kurt Russell’s connection to the Phoenix Lights. It’s funny, it’s nostalgic, and it’s weirdly compelling. We also dig into why aliens “make sense” to our generation: the NASA heavy childhood, Challenger-era trauma, and a media diet of The X-Files, Unsolved Mysteries, E.T., Alien, Men in Black, and more. From there we connect the dots to modern UAP talk, congressional hearings, and that nagging question about how technology leaped so fast it almost feels like somebody planted the seeds. Hit play, share it with your favorite skeptic, and subscribe, rate, and review so more Gen X weirdos can find us. Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

  6. Sep 25

    Built Ford Tough

    That moment when you hit play expecting Lizzie Borden and end up watching a completely different show? Yeah, we went there. We break down why the new Netflix Lizzie Borden series feels so off for true crime fans: the loose relationship with facts, the chaotic story choices, and the bigger problem of streaming “true crime” leaning on famous names while wandering miles away from the real case. If you care about true crime accuracy, this one will either validate you or fire you up. Then we shift into pure Gen X reality: watching our icons get older, feeling weird about time, and admitting the money side of aging is no joke. We talk retirement anxiety, paycheck-to-paycheck life, and that Gen X habit of still feeling like we’re 18 at a bonfire even when the calendar says otherwise. From there we dig into history with Gerald Ford and Betty Ford. We walk through Ford’s unusual rise to president after Watergate, the Nixon pardon that defined his legacy, and the way politics used to allow disagreement without total dehumanization. And we give Betty Ford the credit she deserves: her public honesty about breast cancer, her outspoken views on Roe v Wade and the Equal Rights Amendment, and how her experience with prescription drug addiction helped lead to the Betty Ford Center and a lasting impact on addiction recovery. We also get into AI fears and a surprising assistive technology bright spot with Meta glasses, then end with Philadelphia true crime headlines and a reminder that one person stepping in can change everything. Subscribe, share with a friend who loves history and true crime, and leave us a review so more people can find the show. Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

  7. Sep 18

    From Hull To Eternity: Karl VS. Goliath

    A laptop dies, the internet lies about being connected, and somehow that turns into the question we can’t stop asking: if AI is supposedly going to end humanity by 2030, what does that even look like in real life? We talk through the headline panic, the quieter risks people ignore (water use, energy draw, and companies skipping basic containment), and the oddly calming point a smart NPR guest makes: you can unplug it, you can air gap it, and you can choose to log off when the noise gets too loud. From there we swing into the kind of tech talk that feels like daily life now: Apple hype, Samsung déjà vu, and why a foldable phone sounds more annoying than futuristic. We also get painfully specific about earbuds, ripped tips, and the curse of tiny ear canals, plus the weirdly tempting promise of bone-conduction headphones. It’s a Gen X comfort zone, laughing at gadgets while still being a little haunted by what’s coming. Then we hit the story that dwarfs everything: Karl Bushby and the Goliath Expedition. In 1998 he starts walking from Punta Arenas, Chile, determined to walk home to Hull, England. That means the Darien Gap, North America’s car-first roads, Alaska, a Bering Strait crossing with shifting sea ice and polar bears, and years of Siberia and visa math that ends in a Russian re-entry ban. When geopolitics shuts doors, he finds another way, including a 31-day open-water swim across the Caspian Sea, and finally reaches France with just the English Channel left. Eurotunnel says no, French law complicates a swim, and then an exception opens a path to finish. If you’ve ever needed proof that stubbornness can be its own kind of map, this is it. Subscribe wherever you listen, share this with a friend who loves impossible true stories, and leave a review. What do you think is harder, the miles or the paperwork? Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

  8. Sep 11

    Hit Me Baby One More Time

    Some of what happened in Gen X classrooms sounds fake until you say it out loud: hygiene inspections in front of everyone, paddles hanging in the office, teachers who could shame you publicly and nobody blinked. We’re Nicole and Heather, and we’re taking you back to school in the 1970s and 1980s to talk about the rules, punishments, and power dynamics that were once considered “normal” and would get a teacher fired today. Along the way, we share real-life updates, including a brand-new kayaking obsession and a very Gen X “get off my lawn” moment about customer service and phone culture. We also pause to remember September 11 and to thank first responders, while talking honestly about how many were failed afterward when it came to long-term medical support. Then we get into the heart of it: Gen X school discipline and how different public school and private school could be. We break down corporal punishment, corner time, aggressive yelling, bathroom restrictions, writing lines, dress code enforcement, confiscation, detention, and even the era when smoking around school spaces was just part of the background. We also talk about academic failure, ADHD, anxiety, and how much better today’s intervention systems can be when they’re done right. And we end on what still matters most: the rare teachers who saw us clearly and left words we carry decades later. If this brings back a memory you haven’t thought about in years, subscribe, share the episode with a fellow Gen Xer, and leave a review so more people can find us. What was the wildest rule or punishment at your school? Send us an email Support the show #genx #80s #90s https://youtube.com/@likewhateverpod?si=ChGIAEDqb7H2AN0J https://www.tiktok.com/@likewhateverpod?_t=ZT-8v3hQFb73Wg&_r=1

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Join Heather and Nicole as we discuss all things Gen-X with personal nostalgia, current events, and an advocacy for the rights of all humans.  From music to movies to television and so much more, revisit the generational trauma we all experienced as we talk about it all. Take a break from today and travel back to the long hot summer days of the 80s and 90s.  Come on slackers, f**k around and find out with us!