My Perfect Romance

Valerie, Courtney & Lisa

Valerie, Courtney and Lisa share and discuss all things romance whether it be books, movies, love stories or your stories.

  1. Bad Marriage Advice with author Monica Tanner | Mar 4, 2026 077

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    Bad Marriage Advice with author Monica Tanner | Mar 4, 2026 077

    In today’s fast-paced world, maintaining a happy and healthy marriage can be challenging. Many couples find themselves stuck in patterns that lead to dissatisfaction and resentment. In this podcast, we explore valuable insights shared by relationship coach Monica Tanner, whose mission is to help couples transform their marriages through effective communication and connection strategies.  Monica Tanner is a certified relationship coach and the host of the popular podcast "Secrets of Happily Ever After." With years of experience in helping couples navigate the complexities of marriage, she aims to lower divorce rates and improve marital satisfaction through practical advice and engaging content. Her recent book, "Bad Marriage Advice," has resonated with many, offering a fresh perspective on common misconceptions about relationships. Check out Monica's best-selling book, Bad Marriage Advice and her top-rated podcast, Secrets of Happily Ever After If you'd like to share your love story, suggest a movie or book to review, ask us what would you do?, or if you've written a published book and would like to do an interview, please reach out to us! You can go to our website at: www.myperfectromance.com Chapters (00:00:00) - THE PERFECTION OF ROMANCE(00:00:25) - Bad Marriage Advice(00:05:53) - Bad Advice For Married Couples(00:09:29) - How to Compromise in Your Marriage(00:15:13) - Choosing the Right School for Your Child(00:17:39) - Relationship Coach: What is RLT?(00:20:37) - Introspection and Relationship Therapy(00:25:09) - What's It Like Being a Coach?(00:26:52) - The Power of Compassion in Relationships(00:32:28) - Be Curious About Your Relationships(00:37:51) - What Do You Need To Know About Relationships?(00:39:13) - Monica Tanner

    41 min
  2. A Big, Bold, Beautiful Journey starring Margot Robbie & Colin Ferrell | Feb 25, 2026 076

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    A Big, Bold, Beautiful Journey starring Margot Robbie & Colin Ferrell | Feb 25, 2026 076

    Val, Courtney, and Lisa delve into the complexities of love, relationships, and personal growth, sparked by a discussion of a romantic fantasy film. They explore the idea of shameful moments in life and how they can impact future relationships, emphasizing the importance of honesty and vulnerability. Val shares a personal experience of creating a list of past mistakes to present to a new partner, highlighting the significance of transparency in building trust. The conversation shifts to the film's plot, where two characters embark on a journey that forces them to confront their pasts and learn valuable lessons about love and connection. Through various pivotal moments, they reflect on their choices and the importance of sharing experiences with others, ultimately leading to a deeper understanding of themselves and each other. If you'd like to share your love story, suggest a movie or book to review, ask us what would you do?, or if you've written a published book and would like to do an interview, please reach out to us! You can go to our website at: www.myperfectromance.com Chapters (00:00:00) - THE PERFECTION OF ROMANCE(00:00:32) - The Shameful Things I Did In My Life(00:04:50) - When Did You Start Drinking?(00:05:26) - 2025 Movie Review(00:08:36) - He Stole Her Car From Her Own Driving(00:11:58) - Where Do Your Choices Take You?(00:12:21) - The Play That Wasn't His(00:15:21) - The Importance of 'The Key'(00:17:27) - David Confesses His Love To Sarah in Love's Plays(00:20:34) - David and Sarah's Love Letter(00:24:10) - The Love Letter He Didn't Write For His fiance(00:27:45) - The Play For Your Life(00:31:35) - Sarah's Mom On Her Love Life(00:35:30) - The Wedding In The Desert(00:40:52) - What About Just Going In The Flow?(00:41:50) - Sometimes You Just Have To Be By Yourself(00:43:03) - Mitski on To Let My Love Open the Door(00:43:59) - Can You Ever Get A Lifetime Together?(00:49:04) - Send Me Your Love Story!

    52 min
  3. WWYD #13 | Feb 18, 2026 075

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    WWYD #13 | Feb 18, 2026 075

    Val, Courtney, and Lisa explore the complexities of financial independence and emotional support within relationships, particularly focusing on a listener's experience of feeling vulnerable after major life changes. The discussion highlights the importance of maintaining personal autonomy, understanding control dynamics, and the necessity of emotional support in partnerships. It emphasizes the need for individuals to plan for their future and build independence, especially in situations where they feel their security is compromised. If you'd like to share your love story, suggest a movie or book to review, ask us what would you do?, or if you've written a published book and would like to do an interview, please reach out to us! You can go to our website at: www.myperfectromance.com Chapters (00:00:00) - THE PERPETUAL ROMANCE(00:00:32) - Should I Stop Working In My Marriage?(00:05:19) - Domestic Abuse Survivor on Money(00:09:39) - Married People Sell Their Home(00:11:25) - How To Get Out Of An Apartment(00:14:08) - How To Get Out Of A Divorce(00:17:03) - How To Prevent a Domestic Abuse Scandal(00:20:52) - Married Woman: She's Not Okay With Being A Housewife(00:25:03) - Separate Bank Accounts For Married People(00:29:42) - Married Couple on Divorce and Money Issues(00:31:18) - Married People Don't Need Child Support(00:35:40) - Why It's So Important for Women to Have Choices in Life(00:40:15) - On Being Emotically Supported(00:43:01) - Penny on Having a Child(00:45:59) - How To Get Out Of A Relationship(00:49:48) - A Perfect Romance for Those in a Hard Spot(00:50:56) - Okay. Love You.

    51 min
  4. Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte | Feb 11, 2026 074

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    Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte | Feb 11, 2026 074

    Val, Courtney, and Lisa discus Emily Bronte's 'Wuthering Heights,' exploring its complex characters, themes of love and revenge, and the societal pressures of Victorian England. The hosts delve into the tumultuous relationship between Heathcliff and Catherine, the impact of societal norms on personal choices, and the timeless nature of Bronte's storytelling. If you'd like to share your love story, suggest a movie or book to review, ask us what would you do?, or if you've written a published book and would like to do an interview, please reach out to us! You can go to our website at: www.myperfectromance.com Chapters (00:00:00) - The Perfect Romance(00:01:22) - Wuthering Heights(00:04:14) - Wuthering Heights Character Explained(00:07:43) - Kathy on Being Unruly in Church(00:11:54) - Child Recalls Breaking Into Homes When He Was Younger(00:14:54) - Cousins Kissing In The Attic(00:17:00) - The Story Of The Woman Who Was Locked Up In The attic(00:20:01) - How The Bronte Sisters Tame Their Sister(00:23:30) - Heathcliff the Elephant(00:24:31) - Kathy's Maid role in The Innocents(00:28:17) - The Maid of Gloucester(00:31:14) - The Inventor's Daughter's Fight Over Her Family(00:32:27) - Wuthering Heights: What Would Her Life Be Like With Heath(00:35:31) - Heathcliff vs Catherine in The Narcissist(00:37:41) - Catherine and Heathcliff(00:41:00) - Read aloud: To Kill A Mockingbird(00:43:14) - The Book of The Wicked(00:44:29) - Wuthering Heights

    45 min
  5. Paper Roses by Debby Show | Feb 4,2026 074

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    Paper Roses by Debby Show | Feb 4,2026 074

    Author Debby Show discusses her novel "Paper Roses," which intricately weaves themes of family, trauma, and resilience. The book, inspired by true events, follows the life of Abby, whose world is turned upside down when her sister is arrested for a serious crime. As Abby delves into her family's past, she uncovers deep-seated secrets that span generations, exploring the impact of trauma on familial relationships. The discussion highlights the emotional depth of the characters, particularly how their experiences shape their identities and choices. Debby shares insights into her writing process, emphasizing the therapeutic nature of storytelling and the importance of creating relatable characters that resonate with readers. Throughout the discussion, Debby reflects on the complexities of love, family dynamics, and the struggle for self-identity amidst chaos. She articulates the notion that love can exist in various forms, even when relationships are fraught with challenges. The conversation also touches on the significance of boundaries in familial relationships, particularly when dealing with toxic dynamics. Debby's candidness about her own experiences adds a layer of authenticity to the discussion, making it relatable for listeners who faced similar challenges in their lives. If you'd like to reach out to Debby Show you can find her at: https://debbyshow.com/ or meet up with her on X at: https://x.com/DebbyShowAuthor If you'd like to share your love story, suggest a movie or book to review, ask us what would you do?, or if you've written a published book and would like to do an interview, please reach out to us! You can go to our website at: www.myperfectromance.com Chapters (00:00:00) - THE PERPETUAL ROMANCE(00:00:33) - Paper Roses Review(00:01:42) - Dear Abby: We Loved Your Book(00:04:57) - 2021 Book Review(00:05:53) - How To Write a Novel(00:09:37) - In the Elevator With My Family(00:12:49) - Writing Down My Sister's Trauma(00:16:28) - In the Dark: Alba's Story(00:19:28) - Forgive and Forget: Lorianne Hart on The Healing(00:23:03) - Yasmina's Love Story(00:27:57) - Sai and Cy and Abby(00:29:09) - "The Mother of My Story"(00:31:15) - The Real Story of Nanette's 8 Children(00:35:53) - Bina on Being a Teen Mom(00:39:02) - What Was The Hardest Character Write?(00:43:36) - "A Family Leaves You a Scar"(00:45:25) - Nanette and Yasmina(00:50:20) - What Does Love Mean to You?(00:52:52) - What do you hope that readers take away from this book?(00:54:48) - Book Marketing in the Elevator(00:56:55) - Debbie Lawson on Going on the Road(00:58:25) - Debbie's My Perfect Romance

    1 hr
  6. Interview with Scarlett Xavier author of Welsh Tides of Change | Jan 14, 2026 070

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    Interview with Scarlett Xavier author of Welsh Tides of Change | Jan 14, 2026 070

    Scarlett Xavier discusses the concept of love at first sight and its portrayal in storytelling. She reflects on her personal experiences with instant attraction and contrasts it with the idea of slow-burn romances, emphasizing her preference for the former in her writing. Scarlett's experience with publishing offers valuable insights for aspiring authors. She emphasizes the importance of considering literary agents before approaching publishers, as they can provide essential guidance and support. Her own journey began with a contest that led to her first publication, demonstrating that opportunities can arise unexpectedly. This experience serves as a reminder that persistence and openness to new paths can lead to success in the literary world. If you'd like to connect with Scarleet Xavier you can go to her website: https://scarlettxavier.com/ or connect with her on socials: https://www.instagram.com/scarlettxavier_author/  If you'd like to share your love story, suggest a movie or book to review, ask us what would you do?, or if you've written a published book and would like to do an interview, please reach out to us! You can go to our website at: www.myperfectromance.com Chapters (00:00:00) - THE PERFECT ROMANCE(00:00:38) - Welsh Tidal Waves(00:01:40) - In the Elevator With Elizabeth Suggs(00:02:40) - How To Write A Romance Story(00:05:49) - How To Write a Book(00:08:00) - How to Write a Novel(00:09:09) - How To Write a Book(00:10:25) - In the Elevator With Celtic Men(00:12:49) - Did You Rise? By Rhys(00:15:01) - There Was A Guy In Wales(00:17:50) - Pushing the Story of 'The Good Doctor'(00:18:45) - How Much Did the Characters Change In The Final Draft?(00:21:19) - How To Write a Story With No Ending(00:22:08) - "This isn't about love," Emily Realizes About Her Relationship(00:24:27) - "Your Story": Finding Your Identity(00:25:36) - In the Elevator With My Character(00:27:48) - Chemical Love in The Dark(00:31:38) - "The Slow Build Of Psycho"(00:33:23) - Adaptation From The Book(00:35:37) - Writing Tips for Romance Writers(00:37:11) - Celtic Men author on writing in Utah(00:41:02) - Jane Austen on Her New Book(00:44:10) - Scarlet Xavier on Her Website

    46 min

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Valerie, Courtney and Lisa share and discuss all things romance whether it be books, movies, love stories or your stories.