Looking for Evidence

Shelby Wagner & Khara Collins

Looking for Evidence is hosted by Khara Collins and Shelby Wagner. We're two Voxer besties who enjoy sharing how we use different tools like Astrology, Enneagram, or Human Design, to make sense of who we are and tackle the challenges we face in day-to-day life. There are plenty of places to learn about the different tools, and we want to be a space where you can hear how to actually use them in your everyday life. Listen in!This pod is a real time conversation between Khara Collins & Shelby Wagner, who are sharing what's happening in their lives and how they use different tools like Enneagram, Somatics, Astrology, Human Design and more, to better understand the hard and celebratory moments in their lives. There are so many places in the world that teach you about different systems and tools, but there aren't many spaces that talk about what it looks like to use this wisdom in everyday life.  How do they help us  make decisions? How can they remind us to slow down, pause and celebrate where we are now and feel curious about what hasn't happened yet? Tune in to each episode to hear what's happening in their lives and how they're making sense of it all! 

  1. AUG 14

    How Can Synchronicity Lead You From Frustration to Flow?

    Send us a text In this episode, Khara Collins and Shelby Wagner dive into personal growth, creative breakthroughs, and the messy, magical moments that spark clarity. From surviving mechanical mishaps during Mercury retrograde to navigating emotional ups and downs, they share how challenges can actually guide us toward insight and creative flow. Khara reflects on a meditation and a transformative art experience that helped her repurpose her past, while Shelby opens up about integrating her career with her creative life—exploring dance, a career stories workshop, and the tension between freedom and opportunity. They also explore Khara’s unexpected excitement about teaching art at her son’s school, showing how new doors can appear when you least expect them. Tune in for a conversation full of synchronicity, reflection, and those “aha” moments that remind us why creativity, clarity, and following your path matter so much. Key Takeaways How mechanical failures and life disruptions can highlight growth opportunitiesTransformative power of meditation and journaling in clarifying your pathIntegrating career goals with creative expression and personal freedomThe dance between fear of losing freedom and stepping into new opportunitiesRepurposing past experiences into meaningful creative workDiscovering unexpected opportunities, like teaching art at your child’s schoolSynchronicity as a guide in personal and professional developmentFind Shelby and Khara on instagram: Shelby Khara Shelby's interactive journal: The Identity Field Guide

    54 min
  2. JUL 3

    Have You Made Space for a Breakthrough?

    Send us a text What story is asking to be reclaimed in your life right now? Is there a thread be it joy, grief, or creativity that’s weaving itself through your spiral of healing? This episode is a masterclass in embodied integration. Shelby revisits her reconnection to dance how a prompt cracked open a story she hadn’t told before: that of a girl who learned to love herself through movement. What began as a wayfinding insight has unfolded into ritual, aliveness, community, and even spiritual reclamation. She speaks about dancing with her inner teenage self at an archetypal coronation and how dance has become her new form of breathwork. Khara reflects on the depth of grief after the death of her dog, Bindi, and how that experience cracked open layers of unprocessed emotion from miscarriage, identity shifts, and motherhood transitions. We talk about how ritual and presence made space for healing. Themes of slowing down, practicing presence, and releasing the addiction to “the chase” re-emerge. Khara shares a realization that her pattern of always seeking “what’s next” has softened, especially since becoming pregnant again. She describes a day where she flowed between rest, creation, and nourishment recording five hypnosis sessions (finally acting on a long-held desire), cooking, and cleaning all without force. The conversation spirals into boundaries, self-witnessing, emotional rewiring, and the deeper truth that transformation often revisits us in familiar forms but with new wisdom. Shelby beautifully describes this as not circling back but rising up a spiral staircase, seeing the same “signs” with new eyes. Key Topics: Dance as soul reclamation & embodimentGrief as a portal to joyPregnancy & deconditioning from hustleLetting life flow without chasingHypnosis, creativity & aligned easeFamily boundaries & ancestral healingWitnessing your own evolution through voice notes, journaling, and presence Find Shelby and Khara on instagram: Shelby Khara Shelby's interactive journal: The Identity Field Guide

    1h 3m
  3. 12/11/2024

    The Power of Connection and Reflection

    Send us a text __ Ever felt like the universe is pressing the rewind button on your life? Join Shelby & Khara as they take you through Mercury retrograde and its uncanny effect on personal growth. They promise insights into embracing patience during life's chaotic rewinds and finding harmony in the juggling act of family birthdays and holidays. Shelby & Khara also delve into the emergence of self-acceptance, a fascinating exploration of redefining success beyond financial constraints. Through the concept of "emergence," they share how integrating different facets of ourselves leads to a more powerful identity. This conversation celebrates the wholeness that comes from embracing life's lessons, illustrating that true success is measured not by wealth but by the richness of self-awareness and internal work. Their discussion also illuminates the connection between joy and disappointment, exploring how safely processing these emotions can lead to a more fulfilling life experience. They share how seemingly small choices can lead to significant transformations and the importance of cultivating a supportive community. From meditations predicting life events to the joy of creating intentional spaces for connection, this episode is a heartfelt celebration of growth, discovery, and the transformational power of embracing change. Episode Links: Inner Expeditions Amy Lea Kaitlyn Kaerhart Manifestor Community Chani App This episode was produced by: Six-Two Studio Find Shelby and Khara on instagram: Shelby Khara Shelby's interactive journal: The Identity Field Guide

    1h 17m

About

Looking for Evidence is hosted by Khara Collins and Shelby Wagner. We're two Voxer besties who enjoy sharing how we use different tools like Astrology, Enneagram, or Human Design, to make sense of who we are and tackle the challenges we face in day-to-day life. There are plenty of places to learn about the different tools, and we want to be a space where you can hear how to actually use them in your everyday life. Listen in!This pod is a real time conversation between Khara Collins & Shelby Wagner, who are sharing what's happening in their lives and how they use different tools like Enneagram, Somatics, Astrology, Human Design and more, to better understand the hard and celebratory moments in their lives. There are so many places in the world that teach you about different systems and tools, but there aren't many spaces that talk about what it looks like to use this wisdom in everyday life.  How do they help us  make decisions? How can they remind us to slow down, pause and celebrate where we are now and feel curious about what hasn't happened yet? Tune in to each episode to hear what's happening in their lives and how they're making sense of it all!