Kincraig Cares

Suzy Bashford Haworth
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The podcast all about the colourful characters and community of Kincraig Village in the Cairngorms National Park in the Scottish Highlands. It's a tribute to, and celebration of, the people and places on our doorsteps and an exploration of the power of community spirit and why it's more important than ever today.

  1. Meet bereavement manager Louise Mainland: how she’s taken her own grief and uses it to support others with theirs and, ultimately, live (and die) better

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    Meet bereavement manager Louise Mainland: how she’s taken her own grief and uses it to support others with theirs and, ultimately, live (and die) better

    Life has been busy lately so I haven’t had time to do my wee community podcast Kincraig Cares. But I was recently reminded at my friend Helen Ekerot’s funeral in January how important it is we make time for the things, and people, that matter in our lives.  I know Helena’s passing hit a lot of people in our community hard because her death seemed so untimely and so unfair. I’ve thought about her a lot since saying goodbye at the beginning of January - about her grace, her calmness, her serenity and the way she loved and embraced life with her sunshine smile and bright colours. I wanted to do something to honour her memory and to also help our community move forward after difficult deaths like Helena’s. And how we, as a community, can best support those most affected. How we can - as the minister said at her funeral - take the essence of what we loved about a person and allow it to live on, flourish even, in us. I had the privilege having this amazing, life affirming, rollercoaster of a conversation with another brilliant local lady - Louise Mainland. Someone who I’ve actually wanted to sit down with for ages for a proper meaty chat as I’ve admired the way she lives, and thinks, from afar for years. Lou is bereavement services manager at Highland Hospice (amongst many other things!); a role she was drawn to after her personal experience of tragic baby loss. I’m really grateful to Lou for her time, her words really helped me, and I hope they help any of you struggling with grief and/or also wanting to remember Helena. Also very grateful that Lou was so open and honest - the conversation does get teary at points and we don’t shy away from difficult feelings or topics. But, ultimately, this is a joyful, uplifting conversation which I helps others in our community (and outwith) go forward from loss. We also discuss loss in many different forms. Lou also mentions many different local resources: Highland Hospice Simba (baby loss charity) Held in our hearts (baby loss charity) Cruse (bereavement support) Grief brief animation Please listen and share with anyone else that may benefit from this conversation.  00:00 Welcome to Kincraig Cares 00:52 Meet Louise Mainland 02:44 Why This Conversation Matters 04:13 Louise’s Loss Story1 1:07 From Grief to Purpose1 3:08 Talking About Death 18:05 Processing Emotions 20:06 Adults and Playful Healing 26:13 Support Services Available 28:17 Guilt and Grief Hierarchies 34:35 Funerals and Saying Goodbye 36:55 Rituals and Enduring Bonds 39:55 Permission and Planning Ahead 42:23 Planning a Fun Funeral 44:39 Wills and Family Conflict 47:38 Journaling and AI for Grief 50:16 Energy and Afterlife Beliefs 53:05 Rituals and Collective Mourning 58:53 Everyday Connection Matters 01:04:18 How to Support the Bereaved 01:06:02 Estrangement and Living Loss 01:14:14 Medicalized Death and Longevity 01:18:29 Happiness Values and Legacy 01:20:27 Final Takeaways and Goodbye Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    1h 22m
  2. Meet 28 year old community chief Alice Fogg: why she believes solving the world's problems is best done at grassroots level, and we can all play our positive part

    07/14/2025

    Meet 28 year old community chief Alice Fogg: why she believes solving the world's problems is best done at grassroots level, and we can all play our positive part

    Alice Fogg is only 28 but already has landed a job she was dreaming of having later on in her career: Chief Officer of 'VABS', which stands for voluntary action in Badenoch & Strathspey. VABS supports local community and voluntary groups to realise their ambitions, and Alice is well placed to lead as her entire adult life has been about community and grassroots change. We talk about what drives this fire in her belly to put so much energy in community - and why her degree at Durham University, studying big concepts like global geopolitics, actually made her realise that the biggest difference can be make at the micro, not macro, level. And, also, why working at this level can bring the biggest joy and sense of satisfaction, too. She talks about her childhood being a triplet, her existential breakdown, feeling isolated at Uni due to coming from a state not private school, why she came to the Highlands and how she built her resilience to deal with the many challenges young people growing up in this crazy world face. Ultimately a really inspiring conversation and one that really consolidated by growing view that charity (and progress) really does work better if it starts at home, on our doorsteps. It's also much better for our mental health than constantly scrolling the disastrous events happening around the world that we can often feel powerless over. I hope you enjoy getting to know Alice as much as I did. Do say hello if you see her around; even better, why not check out www.vabs.org.uk and see if there's any way you can get involved with the local charities and community initiatives in our area, or contact her directly. Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    1h 9m
  3. Meet Nicol Sinclair: the chainsaw wielding philosopher

    07/02/2025

    Meet Nicol Sinclair: the chainsaw wielding philosopher

    I'm calling today's guest, Nicol Sinclair, a 'philosopher' because I was struck, more than anything else, by how much this man absorbs information, thinks about it & then forms his own opinions on it. Exactly what we need in the age of AI! This is true on SO MANY subjects - life, love, relationships, community, technology, feminism, marriage, kids, gender... which meant this chat was wide ranging and full of references to good stuff he's read, seen and heard. Have your notebook to the ready... Honestly, if anyone every says to you 'men can't do emotion' or 'men aren't emotionally intelligent', send them this podcast link. And, by the way, the 'chainsaw' reference comes in, not because he's some violent street serial killer !(!!), but because he works in forestry, and wielding a chainsaw was his childhood dream from 12. Also because it's his precious time in nature which is so fundamental to processing his thoughts and to his mental health. Being a community podcast, this also covers his views on community which often stem from his (I'm gonna say it) idyllic, wholesome childhood where playing outside was the FOMO of the day. Expect lots of references to Top of the Pops, choppers and other such nostalgia. I hope you enjoy getting to know Nicol as much as I did. Do say hello if you see him around! Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    1h 15m
  4. Meet hill-loving, dream-chasing Lorna Bray: on the beauty & struggle of building a new life in the Highlands

    06/19/2025

    Meet hill-loving, dream-chasing Lorna Bray: on the beauty & struggle of building a new life in the Highlands

    Today’s guest is the lovely Lorna Bray and I loved this chat because it just shows how, as neighbours, we can live so near each other.... and yet not know how much we have in common, until we sit down and have a proper, meaty conversation.  Turns out we are both big fans of being honest and keeping it real in a world of insta-perfect grids; even though Lorna is actually an expert in curating these grids, with her popular account @gurl_on_the_hill and in her comms work at Education Scotland. We get straight into the meat and no topic is taboo here: the struggle to make friends as an adult; building back after divorce; dealing with her daughter’s diagnosis; dealing with her own anxiety; therapy; falling in love and second marriage; the challenge of moving to a small community where your other half is already well known and a big personality…  And more! Of course, being a community podcast we also talk about where Lorna has got her appreciation of community and why she, pretty much on moving to Kincraig, took on writing the village News and Events Facebook page. I hope you enjoy getting to know Lorna as much as I did. Do say hello if you see her around; she loves nothing more than hearing a bit of Kincraig news :)  Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    1h 5m
  5. Meet Colin: the man behind the Badenoch Men's Shed, on a mission for better men's health

    06/10/2025

    Meet Colin: the man behind the Badenoch Men's Shed, on a mission for better men's health

    Today’s guest is the perfect person to have on this Men’s Health Week (9-16th June) because he is doing so much in our community to improve the lives of local men.  Even if you’re not based in the Cairngorms, or don’t have links with it, what he says about supporting men’s health in a community is SO valuable and he’s full of inspiring, transformative ideas. One I’m particularly excited about is how the ‘shedders’ are supporting Kingussie High School pupils. At a time when there’s so much negativity about masculinity in the mainstream media, it’s so refreshing and important to big-up the positive male role models in our midst - of which Colin is certainly one, and there are many others, as this conversation makes clear. It also makes clear that - yes, men may be from Mars and women from Venus - but for our society to thrive, we need to collaborate and support each other better. And he has lots of ideas of how. So. Many. Truthbombs. (As my teen boys might say, and a few are even from them, though no fear of them listening to their mum’s podcast!). We talk about all sorts: the privilege of growing up here and what it gave Colin, the culture shock of leaving, the power of storytelling and mentoring, how men and women socialise and make friends so differently, how to get men to talk about feelings, loneliness, being true to yourself, how women can support men (spoiler alert: encourage them to things like Men’s Sheds and to get health screened!). If you have a man in your life that you care about - and that’s the vast majority of us, luckily - then please, please listen to this episode and pass it on. What Colin, and the Men’s Sheds and similar networks are so valuable and it would be great to raise awareness and support for this important causes. Thank you!  Episode also contains a lot of information about how you can get involved with Community Connections, as a volunteer, from befriending to driving. Follow Badenoch Men’s Shed on Facebook here, or email badenochmenshed@gmail.com  Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    59 min
  6. Special ep! Supporting people with cancer in our communities better

    06/01/2025

    Special ep! Supporting people with cancer in our communities better

    Today’s episode is a special one-off to mark National Cancer Survivors Day (1st June), and is actually with someone from my previous community - Rachel Westwood. Rachel has been very open about her experiences going through cancer treatment in order to improve understanding of what it’s like, and how others can best help. She has a particularly interesting insight, being a pharmacist, a wife, a mother of three, someone who's always prioritised her health and a linchpin character in her community.  Knowing what to say to someone with cancer, and what to do, can be really tricky, which is why some people shy away from doing or saying anything. I’m so grateful to Rachel today for sharing her thoughts so openly and honestly on how our communities can better support those going through cancer. Hope you enjoy this episode and find it useful - and find Rachel as inspiring as I do. Please pass it on to anyone who might benefit from hearing it. Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    23 min
  7. Why local group Women Support Women is more important than ever in today's CRAZY world

    04/24/2025

    Why local group Women Support Women is more important than ever in today's CRAZY world

    I (Suzy!) co-run a group called Women Support Women locally - at our last hike I was asked about the idea behind the group, and why I feel so strongly about putting my time and energy into it. I answered that SO BADLY. In fact I went off on a rant about the brilliant polymath nun Hildegard von Bingen and female orgasms (they are, actually related... she was basically the Beyonce of the Middle Ages and wrote the first recorded account.... but that's for another podcast, eh!). Because I left more local women confused than clear about the group (some thought they had joined some kind of X rated club on arrival!), I thought I'd do a podcast episode about it, for anyone in the Strath potentially interested in the group. This episode covers why (I think) it's so important to bring women together in supportive environments in this CRAZY time we're living in :). It also covers a few myths about me, as a person, about why I do it. So, if you'd be interested in meeting new people in our wonderful homeland, have just moved here, have a business you'd like help championing, a hobby/talent you'd like to share or would like a supportive environment to grow your skills/ confidence/ personal development... please listen to this and see if anything resonates :) Similarly, if you know anyone who might benefit from a local group like this PLEASE pass it on. Loneliness is a huge issue today, as are mental health problems and associated lack of confidence... all of which I've experienced, and one reason why I believe in this group.  Maybe you have a mum, sister, friend, neighbour.... who might appreciate a group like this - please pass it on! And for any men thinking it's unfair to focus on the fairer sex like this.... I've read about the Men's Shed recently, which sounds like a great local initiative AND we do have some plans at Women Support Women to do some events also including men. Watch this space! In the meantime, encourage your wife / daughter / sister along! I hope the origins, ethos and purpose of Women Support Women are now clearer now! And if you have any other suggestions of characters in Kincraig to interview on this podcast, please email me on ⁠⁠⁠suzy@bigjuicycreative.co.uk⁠⁠⁠ Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    28 min
  8. Meet Tamasina Cassidy: how this gutsy, globe trotting gal travelled the world but chose the Cairngorms & the Rowan Tree Hotel & Restaurant to call home

    04/06/2025

    Meet Tamasina Cassidy: how this gutsy, globe trotting gal travelled the world but chose the Cairngorms & the Rowan Tree Hotel & Restaurant to call home

    Today’s guest is the gutsy, globe trotting Tamasina Cassidy, who runs the Rowan Tree Hotel and Restaurant with her husband Jonny. In this episode, she tells us why she downed tools in London – after 9 ski seasons and with 2 kids in tow – and headed for the hills. Specifically the Cairngorm Mountains to take over the Rowan Tree, which is situated just outside Kincraig between here and Aviemore and next to the gorgeous loch Alvie.  It's abundantly apparent that her ability to reframe situations into positives and her tendency to get stuck in have stood her in very good stead. She talks about why she loves this area so much and how she believes that collaboration could raise the bar for the area even more. She also shares some of her hobbies, and the joy they give her, from beekeeping to table dancing! Hope you enjoyed meeting Tamasina – do say hello if you see her out and about in Kincraig or, even better, why not drop into the Rowan Tree for a drink or dinner, I can thoroughly recommend ! And if you have any other suggestions of characters in Kincraig to interview on this podcast, please email me on ⁠⁠⁠suzy@bigjuicycreative.co.uk⁠⁠⁠ Kincraig Cares podcast is being made on a shoe string out of love, so is very grateful for free resources which make this possible, like the intro and out music which is called 'Holiday Ukulele' by MaxKoMusic, promoted by www.chosic.com/free-music/all/ and part of the Creative Commons Attributions-ShareAlike 3.0 Unported (CC BY-SA 3.0)

    56 min
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The podcast all about the colourful characters and community of Kincraig Village in the Cairngorms National Park in the Scottish Highlands. It's a tribute to, and celebration of, the people and places on our doorsteps and an exploration of the power of community spirit and why it's more important than ever today.

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  • Creator
    Suzy Bashford Haworth
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    19
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Suzy Bashford Haworth
  • Show Website
    Kincraig Cares