Letters to Our Unborn Children

Letters to Our Unborn Children / We Own This Town

An Exploration of a Woman’s Decision to Remain Child-Free by Choice

  1. 07/19/2025

    Wrap-Up

    This episode concludes the “Letters” mini-podcast. Based on their collaborative visual arts project “Letters to Our Unborn Children: An Exploration of a Woman’s Decision to Remain Child-Free by Choice,” hosts Sarah Saturday and Tarri Driver reflect on their podcast journey. Tarri Driver is a lifelong creative artist with a wide range of independent, academic, professional and therapeutic arts experience. Her decade of work as an art therapist in Nashville (in public schools and a children’s hospital) — along with her experience teaching college-level art therapy courses and later years as an independent art instructor—inform both her worldview and her art. Since relocating from Nashville to a small town in East Tennessee, she has retired from her career as an art therapist and re-embraced artmaking from her home studio, where she writes, illustrates, publishes original work, designs commissions and devises new creative projects. Forthcoming works include writing and illustrating the third children’s book in her Lunar Mooner Lula series, and a new book of short stories for adults, (working title) Pursuing Terra Firma. Sarah Saturday is an innovative musician and multimedia performance artist based in Nashville, TN. Over the past 15 years, Sarah has made a name for herself with her boundary-pushing artistic expression, combining music, film, dance, spoken word, and visual art into immersive, interdisciplinary experiences. Her work spans numerous albums, film scores, and performance pieces, and she has collaborated extensively with artists across mediums. A 2024 recipient of the Tennessee Arts Commission Individual Artist Fellowship, Sarah’s work is celebrated for its emotional depth, conceptual richness, and striking visual language. Since 2007, she has performed over 200 shows throughout the U.S. and Canada, with her music featured in films, TV shows, and commercials. Her film scoring credits include the Discovery Channel’s Dark Side of the Sun and the independent film Superpowerless. After relocating from Los Angeles to Nashville in 2012, Sarah expanded her artistic practice by incorporating film and choreography into her live performances. Her latest project, Voyage, premiered to sold-out audiences in Nashville (2023) and Los Angeles (2024). Recorded on May 8, 2025 Additional Links: Official Letters Project Website: letterstoourunbornchildren.com Tarri’s Artist Website: tarridriver.com Sarah’s Artist Website: sarahsaturday.com

    27 min
  2. 05/17/2025

    Menfolk

    On this special episode, hosts Sarah Saturday and Tarri Driver interview three men who have decided not to have children to find out more about the male / non-female perspective on this complicated topic. They are joined by Chris Driver, Daniel Jones, and Jeremy Lister. Chris Driver, a professional writer/editor since 2010, has written about science at Oak Ridge National Laboratory since 2023. Before his writing career finally began, he did several restaurant tours of duty, drove a truck to deliver and repossess portable storage barns, sold computers and sporting goods, dabbled in landscaping, parked cars at fancy parties in Nashville, toured most of the USA in a punk rock band, and worked construction and cleaned fishing boats in Alaska. Virtually no one has read the book he wrote about all of that. He enjoys a variety of rock and jazz music, loves to read widely and is a bit of a film geek but isn’t much of a podcast guy. Happily married since 2006 to his best friend, the artist Tarri Driver, he has reluctantly agreed to invest further in that happiness by talking on her public podcast about his personal feelings. Daniel Jones is a Nashville-based creative producer, dramaturg, writer, and director passionate about facilitating shared live arts experiences that ignite social change. In 2022, the Nashville Scene named him “Best Advocate for Artists.” He serves as the Associate Director of Programming & Partnerships at OZ Arts Nashville where he has supported hundreds of visiting artists from around the world, including companies from Brazil, Japan, Chile, Germany, South Africa, France, and more. He also works closely with Nashville artists as they develop new works in OZ’s unique 10,000 square-foot creative warehouse, including the annual Brave New Works Lab. Additionally, as the Co-Founder & Producing Artistic Director of the nonprofit organization Kindling Arts, Daniel has worked with hundreds of Nashville-based artists to launch more than 120 unique artistic experiences since the organization was founded in 2018. Kindling’s programming has been hailed by the Nashville Scene as “freewheeling, uncensored and full of heart, pushing the boundaries of what we imagine performance art to be.” Daniel’s creative producing credits include The Naughty Tree, an interdisciplinary, queer retelling of the Garden of Eden creation story; two installments of Heroic Couplets: Poetry into Film Collaborations with Defy Film Festival; and HAUNTED, a multimedia, immersive experience inspired by the deadliest train crash in American history. He is joyfully living child-free, which allows him lots of time to create art and invest in his local community. He plans to remain childless until he is in the grave. Jeremy Lister is a songwriter with Big Yellow Dog, a background vocalist for Post Malone, and a founding member of Street Corner Symphony from NBC’s The Sing-Off. Beyond music, he co-owns Blister Hot Sauce with his brothers and is an avid runner, having completed two 100-mile ultramarathons. Most importantly, he is happily married to the most beautiful and brilliant person on the planet: Sarah Saturday. Recorded on Mar 20, 2025 Additional Links: Chris Driver: hardbarned.com/ Daniel Jones: kindlingarts.com/ Jeremy Lister: @jeremyblister blisterhotsauce.com jeremylister.com Find more about the Letters project at letterstoourunbornchildren.com

    1h 5m
  3. 03/30/2025

    The Healer

    This episode introduces the next of 12 letters from their collaborative visual arts project “Letters to Our Unborn Children: An Exploration of a Woman’s Decision to Remain Child-Free by Choice.” Hosts Sarah Saturday and Tarri Driver discuss the “Healer” archetype behind the Letter, and share their research and insights around the themes in the letter. They also interview Marcia Drut-Davis, one of the original contemporary childfree by choice advocates. Marcia has used her experience, strength, and wisdom to encourage, mentor, and advocate for women all over the world. Marcia Drut-Davis is a woman who believes that life is about taking risks. On her website, Childfree Reflections, she writes that “choosing paths for ourselves is often frightening, but without risking, you stay where you are.” She’s the author of the 2013 memoir “Confessions of a Childfree Woman: A Life Spent Swimming Against the Mainstream,” and the book “What?! You Don’t Want Children?” that was published in 2020. She’s famous (or infamous) for her 1974 “60 Minutes” interview about her decision to not have children, after which she received death threats and lost the teaching job she had been in for fifteen years. She’s been interviewed on numerous childfree podcasts, has been the keynote speaker at The NotMom summit, and has been featured on two documentaries (To Kid Or Not To Kid and My So-Called Selfish Life). For over 5 decades, Marcia has helped pave the way for women who are childfree by choice. She is a living legend! Recorded on Jan 2, 2025 Additional Links: Marcia Drut-Davis on Instagram: @childfree_guru Marcia’s Official Website: childfreereflections.com Find more about the Letters project at letterstoourunbornchildren.com

    1h 6m

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An Exploration of a Woman’s Decision to Remain Child-Free by Choice