Sam And Gen Got Divorced

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We're Sam and Gen, a formerly married couple currently navigating the complex landscape of divorce. Our journey has been filled with heartache, confusion, and doubt, but it has also been a path to healing, growth, and hope. Together, we're on a mission to create a space where those experiencing divorce can find support, understanding, and practical guidance. We're committed to sharing our stories and insights to help others on their own journeys. #divorce #healing #marriage #relationships #mentalhealth

  1. 4d ago

    Ep. 43 - Forgiving the Unforgivable - Pt. 1

    In this episode, Sam and Gen are joined by guest host Cindy, a personal friend and fellow therapist to Gen, to tackle the difficult topic of forgiving the unforgivable. The group explores their personal definitions of forgiveness, describing it as letting go of the right to be vindictive and choosing to free yourself from an emotional "cage". The conversation also covers whether forgiveness is a conscious choice, if it requires forgetting the offense, and the distinct difference between extending forgiveness and rebuilding trust. -- ☎️ Have a question you'd like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ Connect with Cindy: https://instagram.com/cindy.jmcinfo@leadinginfluence.com 👀 Follow Gen: https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/ https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam: https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾 Follow The Podcast: https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced/

  2. Aug 29

    Ep. 42 - They Stayed Together! Pt. 2

    *Gen said we'd have key takeaways in the description this time - find them below In this episode, Sam and Gen sit down with guests Dean and Jackie (founders of Strategy Life Center) to dismantle the "perfect marriage" façade often projected in faith communities and online. Celebrating 24 years of marriage, Dean and Jackie get real about what happens when the initial honeymoon phase fades, sex goes dry, and emotional exhaustion sets in—specifically around their challenging 10-year mark. Together, they explore why marriages need a shared, developmental assignment rather than relying solely on societal expectations or temporary feelings. From Jackie navigating feelings of identity loss and emptiness to Dean pivoting from physical intimacy to emotional connection and curiosity, this conversation breaks down what personal accountability, role-flexibility, and true empathy look like when a relationship hits the fire. Key Takeaways: Moving Beyond the Façade: Why hiding marital struggles behind a mask harms couples, and why authentic vulnerability earns far more respect than performative perfection.Transitioning to Purpose-Driven Marriage: How to cultivate a shared "assignment" and vision that sustains a relationship long after initial attractions or traditional milestones fade.Pivot from Physical to Emotional Connection: Dean’s shift from seeking physical intimacy to leading with curiosity and empathy when Jackie experienced deep burnout.Navigating Identity & Burnout: How personal accountability and open communication saved their marriage when dissatisfaction and emotional exhaustion made walking away feel like the easy option.Flexibility in Leadership Roles: How switching traditional roles during hard seasons—like financial loss—can keep a partnership standing when one partner needs to step back.☎️ Have a question you'd like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence?DM us on Instagram! @samandgengotdivorced 👀 Connect with Dean & Jackie:Website: Strategy Life CenterBook: Faith is the Foundation: ABCs of Kingdom Living (Available on Amazon) 👀 Follow Gen:Instagram: @cornercounsellor | Genevieve Alao 👋 Follow Sam:Instagram: @samueltheconnector | linkedin.com/in/sr3ms 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨 Follow The Podcast:Instagram: @samandgengotdivorcedYouTube: Sam and Gen Got Divorced If this conversation resonated with you, please like, subscribe, and leave a review. Your support helps us reach more people navigating their own paths toward healing and growth.

  3. Aug 10

    Ep. 41 - They Stayed Together! Pt. 1

    In this episode, Sam and Gen welcome Dean and Jackie Richards, a couple who have been married for 24 years, for a candid conversation about what it actually takes to stay together. Dean and Jackie share the highs and lows of their marriage, including the unmet expectations, unresolved trauma, and painful patterns that nearly brought their relationship to an end. They reflect on what had to change, what they had to confront, and how healing became possible when they stopped pretending everything was fine. Jackie also shares how God checked her attitude and challenged the way she was showing up in her marriage. Together, the conversation explores faith, humility, responsibility, forgiveness, and the difference between simply staying married and actually rebuilding connection. Sam and Gen also reflect on why they continue to do this podcast, what they hope others can learn from their divorce, and why conversations like this matter for couples who still have a chance to choose healing before it is too late. -- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ 👀 Follow Gen:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam:https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾 Follow The Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced/

  4. Jun 20

    Ep. 40 - Sam Tells... Some?

    ⚠️ Trigger Warning: This episode discusses addiction, childhood abuse, trauma, and the impact these experiences can have on marriage and relationships. (Note that Sam goes more deeply into the exact nature of addiction and the specific effects it had on his marriage in the episodes that follow. ) This was a difficult episode for Sam to record. In this one-on-one conversation, Shereen sits down with Sam to ask about parts of his story that have only been touched on briefly until now. Sam shares when he first began to understand his struggles through the lens of addiction, how his childhood and upbringing shaped him, and how trauma affected the way he showed up in marriage. The conversation also explores whether Sam believes he was predisposed to addiction, how early experiences shaped his coping mechanisms, and what it has taken for him to begin telling the truth about his own story. -- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram!https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ 👩 Follow Shereen:https://instagram.com/perspectivestudioproductions/ 👀 Follow Gen:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam:https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾 Follow The Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced/

  5. Apr 2

    Ep. 39 - Situationships, Pt. 2 - Are They Ever Healthy?

    In this episode, Sam and Gen sit down for a candid conversation about what people are really looking for when they say they do not have capacity for full commitment.Gen shares why a situationship can make sense in a season where long term investment is not possible, but the desire for connection, affirmation, romance, and companionship is still very real. Sam reflects on his own version of that dynamic, including what he calls a “holy grail friend with benefits,” while also arguing that situationships may be more convenient than healthy.The conversation explores clarity, honesty, unmet needs, and the tension between what feels good in the moment and what actually builds strong relationships over time. Sam and Gen also wrestle with whether situationships are helping people relate more honestly, or simply giving them a more socially acceptable way to stay in undefined spaces.-- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/👀Follow Kwesi:https://www.instagram.com/kwesi_jamaal👀 Follow Gen:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/👋🏾 Follow Sam:https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾 Follow The Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced/

  6. Mar 21

    Ep. 38 - Situationships, Pt. 1

    Our funniest episode yet... Join Sam, Gen, and guest host Kwesi as they share their perspectives on situationships and the value (or harm) they bring, as well as their own situationship experiences post-divorce.

  7. Mar 7

    Ep. 37 - Grieving a Divorce, Pt. 2

    In this episode, Sam and Gen are joined by guest host Shereen for Part 2 of their conversation on grieving divorce. Sam reflects openly on his regrets surrounding children, legacy, and the future he once imagined. Gen shares how her parents’ marriage and divorce shaped her expectations of commitment, conflict, and what love was supposed to look like. Together, they explore how early narratives influence adult decisions, and how grief often extends far beyond the end of a relationship. The former couple discuss regret, generational patterns, and the tension between accepting what happened and mourning what never did. This is a conversation about loss, perspective, and the slow work of healing after a shared dream ends. -- ☎️ Have a question you’d like Sam and Gen to answer about divorce, relationships, or emotional intelligence? DM us on Instagram! https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/ 👩🏾 Follow Shereen: 👀 Follow Gen:https://www.instagram.com/cornercounsellor/https://www.facebook.com/genevieve.alao.5/ 👋🏾 Follow Sam:https://www.instagram.com/samueltheconnector/https://www.linkedin.com/in/sr3ms/ 👩🏿‍🤝‍👨🏾 Follow The Podcast:https://www.instagram.com/samandgengotdivorced/https://tiktok.com/@samandgengotdivorced/

  8. Feb 6

    Ep. 36 - Grieving A Divorce, Pt. 1

    In a deeply relatable episode for anyone who has been touched by divorce, whether their own or that of a loved one , Sam and Gen outline how their respective grieving processes started before the marriage ended, and share the aspects of grief that are still with them today.

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We're Sam and Gen, a formerly married couple currently navigating the complex landscape of divorce. Our journey has been filled with heartache, confusion, and doubt, but it has also been a path to healing, growth, and hope. Together, we're on a mission to create a space where those experiencing divorce can find support, understanding, and practical guidance. We're committed to sharing our stories and insights to help others on their own journeys. #divorce #healing #marriage #relationships #mentalhealth

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  • Creator
    Sam and Gen
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    45
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Sam and Gen
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    Sam And Gen Got Divorced