Midwife Life: Midwifing you through health, motherhood, and the sacred mess of life’s transformations with Diane Ortega

Welcome to The Midwife Life—part podcast, part revolution that empowers and educates women on all things related to pregnancy, birth, postpartum care, and careers in healthcare. Whether it's understanding the options available to you, advocating for yourself in a health care setting, or simply knowing that you're not alone, I want you to leave each episode feeling stronger and more equipped.

  1. 6d ago

    You Don't Need Permission

    There is a life a lot of women are living that looks completely fine from the outside. Maybe even wonderful. And it is quietly draining the life out of them. This week, Diane gets honest about the thing nobody says out loud: you do not need permission to change your mind, change your life, or admit that the version of yourself you have been performing no longer fits. Not from your partner. Not from your kids. Not from the woman you were ten years ago when you built all of this. This episode is for the woman who has been waiting for someone to tell her she is allowed to want something different. It is also for the woman who can no longer remember what she wanted in the first place, because the daily grind has been loud for so long that her own voice has gone quiet underneath it. This is not a how-to. It is a witness. In This Episode, We Cover: Why the life that looks great from the outside can still be the wrong one The specific fear underneath every big change: if I let this version of me go, who am I? How the daily grind does not just exhaust you, it numbs you, and what that costs What it means that your dreams are still there, just buried Why the first step is not a plan. It is getting still enough to hear yourself again Key Takeaway You are not waiting for permission. You are waiting to remember that you never needed it. Ready to go deeper? If this episode named something you have been carrying quietly, I made a workbook for exactly this season. The one where something is shifting and you can feel it, but you are not sure yet what is on the other side. The In-Between Workbook: http://dianeortega.gumroad.com/l/the-in-between Share This Episode Know a woman who has been waiting for someone to say it is okay to want something different? Send her this one. Connect with Diane Website: themidwifelife.coInstagram: @‌the.midwife.life.co

    15 min
  2. Jun 22

    You Are the Medicine: Holly Million on What Blossoms After the Fire

    Some people arrive at their power quietly. Others pass through fire, more than once, before they understand what they are actually made of. In this episode of The Midwife Life, Diane sits down with Holly Million, shaman, artist, herbalist, and founder of Soul Arts Workshop, to talk about what it means to move through spiritual emergence and come out different each time. Holly came from a dark place, rebuilt herself into a guide and a master builder, and right now is in what she calls the best phase of her life. This conversation is not a look back. It's a live dispatch from the middle of becoming.   In This Episode, We Cover:  What it means to move through spiritual emergence, more than once, and come out different each time How Holly rebuilt herself after coming from a dark place What Natural Intelligence is and why it matters for women in transition The Crone Rangers and the kind of sacred irreverence that sets women free What she means when she says: you are the medicine   You are the medicine. Not a destination. Not a person you're waiting to become. The medicine is already in the becoming. Ready to go deeper?   If this episode stirred something in you, I made a workbook for exactly this season. The one where something is shifting and you can feel it, but you're not sure yet what's on the other side.   The In-Between Workbook: dianeortega.gumroad.com/l/the-in-between   Share This Episode   Know a woman who's been searching for something she can't quite name? Send her this one.   Connect with Diane   Website: themidwifelife.co Instagram: @the.midwife.life.co   Guest Resources   Website: hollytheshamanartist.com Instagram: @holly.million.soulartsworkshop YouTube: @hollymilliontheshamanartist Substack: @hollytheshamanartist Podcast: The Crone Rangers Podcast

    49 min
  3. Jun 15

    When the Life You Built No Longer Fits

    What happens when the woman who has held space for a thousand others finally lets someone hold space for her? Jennifer Hoeprich spent over a decade as a licensed homebirth midwife, witnessing the raw, sacred threshold of new life. And then she reached her own threshold. Leaving clinical practice wasn't just a career change. It was an unraveling, a metamorphosis, and ultimately a rebirth into something she couldn't have planned. In this episode, Jen and I talk about what it really means to leave a calling you love to answer a deeper one, and what that kind of honesty costs and gives back. What we cover: The "pretty wild story" of why Jen left clinical midwifery after years of practice What it means to "midwife in a different way" and why that reframe changes everything Sister circles, sacred containers, and why women resist being held even when they're desperate for it The through-line between a new mother and a woman in her 40s or 50s, and what they're both in the middle of What Jen is still figuring out in her own midlife metamorphosis What she wishes someone had told her before she burned all the way down This is not a finished story. Jen is in it. And that's exactly what makes it worth listening to. Connect with Jennifer Hoeprich: Website: magical-mama.com Instagram: @magicalmamacircles Facebook: @magicalmama Mentioned in this episode: Rebirth Conversations: A monthly in-person gathering for women navigating change, identity shifts, and the season between who they were and who they're becoming. This is the room where you get to be honest. Join us: https://themidwifelife.kit.com/rebirthconversations The In-Between Workbook: A guided companion for the season between. If something in this episode stirred something in you, start here. Get it: https://dianeortega.gumroad.com/l/the-in-between The Midwife Life Podcast is for women navigating transition, identity shifts, and the quiet courage of becoming. If this episode meant something to you, share it with a woman who needs to hear it.

    56 min
  4. Jun 8

    You Were Always Creative: Reclaiming Your Potential with Lydia Phelps-Alexander

    What if creativity wasn't something you had to find, but something you never lost? In this episode, I'm talking with Lydia Phelps-Alexander, an art education consultant who has spent 18 years and thousands of hours reminding people - especially women - that their creative potential is not gone. It was never gone. It just got buried under everything life piled on top of it. Lydia grew up as a minority in a rural community, often lonely, often on the outside. But her parents gave her something powerful: time, materials, and space to make things. In that solitude, she didn't just find art, she found herself. And what she discovered changed everything about how she sees human potential. This is a rebirth conversation- the kind where we trace the thread back to who you were before the world told you who to be. We go deep into creativity as identity, boredom as a gift, the lie that you're "not creative," and what it actually means to reclaim the parts of yourself that got quiet. If you've been waiting for permission to create,  to make something, to become something, this is the episode. I think you're going to love her. Let's get into it. In this episode: How growing up isolated in a rural community became the foundation of Lydia's creative life Why boredom is a gift…and what overstimulation is costing us The belief that every single person has creative potential (yes, you) How art becomes a container for identity, healing, and reinvention What it means to listen to your own inspirations before the moment passes Building a consulting business rooted in joy, curiosity, and community About Lydia: Lydia Phelps-Alexander is an adjunct art professor and art education consultant with over 18 years of experience who has developed arts programs for more than 58,000 students. She believes creativity is not a talent reserved for a few - it's a birthright belonging to everyone. Through her work, she helps people rediscover the joy, curiosity, and potential that have always been inside them. Connect with Lydia: Website: visionaryartsolutions.com Instagram: @visionaryartsolutions LinkedIn: Lydia Phelps-Alexander Special Offer for Listeners: Lydia is currently offering museum workshops — use code MIDWIFE at checkout for 11% off. Visit visionaryartsolutions.com to learn more. Rebirth Conversations: If this conversation resonated with you, I want to personally invite you to Rebirth Conversations, a new monthly in-person gathering for women navigating change, reinvention, and identity shifts. Whether you're questioning what's next, feeling called toward something new, or simply sensing that the life you've built no longer fits quite the same way, this is a space for honest conversation, reflection, and connection. ✨ First gathering: June 18, 2026 ✨ Monthly in-person gatherings ✨ Thoughtful conversations for women in seasons of transition. Reserve your seat for the first conversation Connect with Diane & The Midwife Life: Instagram: @themidwifelife Website: themidwifelife.com If this episode moved you, share it with a woman who needs to hear that she was always creative. And if you're ready to go deeper-  leave a review, subscribe, and come back next week. And if you're ready to explore what might be waiting beneath the roles, expectations, and identities you've outgrown, join us at Rebirth Conversations.

    55 min
  5. Jun 1

    The Next Page Is Coming

    Who am I when the thing that has defined me for years no longer fits? This week I removed “birth center owner” from my Instagram bio. What looked like a simple profile update turned into something much bigger: a conversation about identity, grief, reinvention, and who we become when the roles that once defined us no longer fit. In this episode, I’m sharing what it feels like to let go of an identity you’ve carried for years, navigate the uncertainty between chapters, and trust that the next version of yourself is emerging even before you can fully see her. In this episode, I discuss: Why changing my Instagram bio felt far more emotional than I expected The grief that can accompany growth and transformation Releasing identities that once served us The uncomfortable space between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming Why rebirth often begins before clarity arrives What I’m learning about trusting the next chapter If you’re navigating a season of change—whether in your career, relationships, motherhood, health, or sense of self—I hope this episode reminds you that you’re not alone. The next page is coming. And maybe you don’t need to have it all figured out before you turn it. ✨ Join Rebirth Conversations If this episode resonates with you, I’d love to invite you to join me for the first Rebirth Conversation—a gathering for women standing between chapters. 📅 June 18, 2026🕕 6:00 PM📍 Jasmine Jo Coffee & Rowan Tree Flowers, Tempe, AZ Reserve Your Seat → https://themidwifelife.kit.com/rebirthconversations Connect with Diane: Website: themidwifelife.co Instagram: @the.midwife.life.co If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with a woman who may be standing between chapters herself.

    17 min
  6. May 25

    63: The Women I’m Most Drawn to Right Now

    What happens when ambitious women stop trying to perform perfection - and start craving deeper, more honest connection instead? In this reflective solo episode, Diane shares what surfaced during a recent “Build Your Dream Network” challenge and the unexpected realizations it brought up about community, self-reliance, visibility, generosity, and receiving support. This conversation explores: Why high-capacity women often struggle to receive support The hidden loneliness beneath competence and achievement The exercise that revealed the gap between how deeply we give and how difficult it can feel to receive The power of reconnecting with people already in your orbit Audacious asks, visibility, and allowing yourself to be witnessed The kinds of women Diane feels most drawn to in this season of life Why spaces rooted in honesty, reflection, and becoming matter more than ever Diane also shares more about the heart behind Rebirth Conversations — intimate gatherings designed for women navigating identity shifts, reinvention, burnout, motherhood, ambition, grief, rebuilding, and the beautiful in-between seasons of life. This episode is less about networking…and more about the kinds of relationships that help us remember who we are becoming. Reflection Questions: Where does giving flow naturally for me? Where do I struggle to receive? What support, opportunity, or connection might I be unintentionally blocking? What kind of women and conversations am I craving right now? What version of myself might exist on the other side of deeper community? ✨ Rebirth Conversations will officially begin launching in June. If you’re craving deeper conversations, intentional community, and rooms where women can arrive honestly in the middle of becoming — make sure you’re following along for updates and first invitations. If this episode resonated with you, share it with a woman you’ve been thinking about lately — or someone you’d love to reconnect with. Connect with Diane: Website: The Midwife Life Instagram: @the.midwife.life.co Substack: The Rebirth Letters

    16 min
  7. May 11

    Bonus Replay: Confessions of a Midwife: Stories, Healing & the Human Side of Birthwork with Brielle Jenson

    In this bonus replay, I sit down with Brielle Jenson, a psychiatric mental health nurse practitioner, a midwife with over 20 years of experience, an IBCLC, and the author of the stunning new book Confessions of a Midwife. Brielle has worked in hospitals, home births, and birth centers, bringing a rare, unfiltered perspective on the challenges, triumphs, and deeply human moments of birthwork. Her work has been recognized in the field of midwifery, including a nomination for the ACNM Media Award in 2025, highlighting her dedication to sharing authentic stories and elevating maternal health conversations. In this episode, we dive into: The raw realities of being a midwife—beyond the perfect Instagram birth stories The emotional toll and healing power of birthwork Insights into perinatal mental health and supporting mothers through complex postpartum experiences Brielle’s journey to writing her book and why sharing these stories matters The balance of professional expertise and deep compassion in modern midwifery This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the human side of birth, whether you’re a parent, a birth professional, or simply fascinated by the art and science of midwifery. Key Takeaways / Reflection Prompts: What myths about birth and midwifery have you believed that might need reframing? How can compassion—for yourself or others—transform challenging experiences? In what ways can storytelling and shared experiences help heal communities of mothers and birth professionals? Next Step: Take the Sacred Reset Quiz Feeling inspired to reflect on your own energy, growth, and next steps? Try my Sacred Reset Quiz to discover: Which area of your life is ready for a reset Personalized insights to help you release what no longer serves you Clear guidance on the next steps for your transformation 🎯 Take the quiz here: ⁠What are you ready to reset?⁠ Resources & Links: Brielle Jenson’s Book: ⁠Confessions of a Midwife⁠ ⁠Good News: More Data on the Use of ADHD Medications During Pregnancy - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠National Pregnancy Registry for Psychiatric Medications © - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠Withdrawal Symptoms in Newborns Exposed to SSRIs - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠Study Supporting the Reproductive Safety of Gabapentin During Pregnancy - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠Allison Baker, MD on the Specialized Care of Pregnant and Postpartum Women with ADHD - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠Essential Reads: Breastfeeding and ADHD Medications - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠Psychiatric Disorders During Pregnancy - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠Psychiatric Disorders During Pregnancy - MGH Center for Women's Mental Health⁠ ⁠Fact Sheets - Pregnancy and Breastfeeding Exposures | MotherToBaby⁠ ⁠Twin Cities Midwifery | Planning your Best Postpartum Babymoon⁠ ⁠Good Moms, Scary Thoughts – Happiest Baby⁠ ⁠Changes in your relationships after having a baby | NCT⁠ ⁠Psyched Mommy⁠ ⁠Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts – MOMBOX⁠ ⁠The Modern Mom: Embracing Motherhood In 2024 | Motherhood Center⁠ ⁠Order | Sanity School® for Parents⁠ ⁠the essential guide to raising complex kids - Search Shopping⁠ ⁠Home - Dr. Shefali⁠ 🎧 Check out more episodes of The Midwife Life: ⁠Listen Here⁠ 🌿 Connect with Diane & The Midwife Life Community: ⁠Check it out!

    41 min
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Welcome to The Midwife Life—part podcast, part revolution that empowers and educates women on all things related to pregnancy, birth, postpartum care, and careers in healthcare. Whether it's understanding the options available to you, advocating for yourself in a health care setting, or simply knowing that you're not alone, I want you to leave each episode feeling stronger and more equipped.

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