Food is My Friend

holaclarity

Food is My Friend is a space where we dig into the ups and downs of our relationship and connection with food and learn how to keep it from running the show. If you've felt stuck in a cycle of dieting, people-pleasing, or body image battles, this is the podcast for you. Join me each week for refreshing conversations and practical advice on how to build a supportive, guilt-free relationship with food. You deserve to feel at peace with every bite!

Episodes

  1. 04/16/2025

    How to Actually Rewire Your Inner Critic

    Did you know that your inner critic isn’t a personality flaw, it’s just a mental habit? And the good news? Habits can be rewired. This week, I’m breaking down exactly how to do that using The Model, one of the most powerful mindset tools I teach inside the EmpowerHER program. It’s not about positive affirmations or pretending everything’s fine. It’s about understanding where those critical thoughts come from, why they feel so convincing, and how to shift them - on purpose. In this episode we’ll be covering: What The Model actually is and how to use it to unpack your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors How your inner critic keeps you stuck in the “start over Monday” cycle—and what to do instead A personal story of how one cupcake triggered a whole shame spiral (and how I coached myself out of it) The daily mindset practice that takes less than 5 minutes and helps you rewire your inner dialogue over time What it really means to become the thinker of your thoughts—and why that is where your power lives Plus, I’m giving you a simple challenge for the week that will help you shift out of self-judgment and into self-trust (no toxic positivity required). Other episodes you might love: Your Diet Isn't the Solution and You're Not the Problem What is Your Relationship With Food The Myths Diet Culture Fed Us 💜 Love this episode? Tap the follow button so you never miss what’s next. 💌 DM me on Instagram @holaclarity if you try the one-a-day Model this week—I’d love to hear what you uncover. 💫 Whether you’re looking for support, resources, or your next step, head to https://stan.store/holaclarity

    13 min
  2. 12/02/2024

    Your Diet Isn’t the Solution and You’re Not the Problem

    Feeling like a failure every time a diet doesn’t work? Spoiler alert: It’s not you—it’s the diet. In this episode, I break down why most diets are designed to fail and how they keep you stuck in a cycle of frustration and guilt. I also share a fresh perspective on creating sustainable, empowering changes that actually feel good and fit into your real life. If you’re ready to ditch the diet rollercoaster and start feeling at peace with food, this episode is for you. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: Why diets don’t work long-term: The rigid rules, inevitable exhaustion, and why they’re not built for real life. The truth about willpower: Why it’s not the key to success and what your body is really trying to tell you. How to reframe your approach: Shift your focus from external pressures to internal motivators that align with how you want to feel. Actionable tips to get started: From tuning into hunger cues to adding nourishing foods, find small changes that actually work for you. Empowerment in Practice: Journal Prompt Take a few minutes to reflect on this question: 💡 What does feeling healthy and strong mean to you, beyond the number on the scale? Write down your thoughts, stay curious, and see what insights come up! Enjoyed this Episode? If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend who might need it too. And if you’re feeling inspired today, leaving a quick review can help more amazing women like you discover this podcast and begin their own journey to peace and empowerment. You’ve got this! Let’s Work Together If you’re ready to navigate every day with a sense of calm and confidence, I’d love to support you. My 1:1 coaching program is designed to help you feel strong, empowered, and at peace with food, your body, and your life. ✨ Let’s chat! Head to www.holaclarity.com/work-with-me to book a free discovery call. Resources & Links: Download my 5 Powerful Questions guide HERE Instagram: @holaclarity Website: www.holaclarity.com

    9 min
  3. 11/25/2024

    Thanksgiving Survival Guide: Handling Family, Food & Finding Peace

    Thanksgiving! It's a day filled with food, family, gratitude, and, let’s be real—a fair share of stress. Whether it’s navigating tricky family conversations, dealing with food pushers, or trying to avoid grazing on snacks all day long, it can feel like a lot. But guess what? You can enjoy Thanksgiving without guilt, overwhelm, or second-guessing yourself. In this episode, we’re breaking it all down with simple, doable strategies to help you stay grounded and confident—so you can focus on what truly matters. Here’s what we’re covering: How to handle emotional interactions with family (yes, even when your cousin side-eyes your plate or your aunt asks you if you're going to have more kids). Kind but firm ways to say no to food pushers—without feeling bad about it. A simple strategy to avoid mindless eating and enjoy your favorite dishes intentionally. This is your guide to reclaiming Thanksgiving on your terms. So grab your coffee (or wine—no judgment here!) and tune in for tips you can use today to feel calm, in control, and completely at peace. What You’ll Learn: The “Pause, Reframe, Pivot” method to handle family drama without engaging in the chaos. Phrases to kindly but confidently decline food without guilt. The “Pause and Plate” strategy to avoid grazing and truly savor your food. Let’s Work Together: Thanksgiving is just one day, but if you’re ready to navigate every day with the same sense of calm and confidence, I’d love to help. My 1:1 coaching program is all about helping you feel strong, empowered, and at peace with food, your body, and your life. ✨ Let’s chat! Head to holaclarity.com to book a free discovery call. Resources & Links: Download my 5 Powerful Questions exercise Work with Me Let’s connect on Instagram Enjoyed this Episode? If this episode resonated with you, please share it with a friend who might need it too. And if you’re feeling extra thankful today, leave a quick review! It helps amazing women like you find this podcast and start their own journey to peace and empowerment. Wishing you a joyful, peaceful Thanksgiving—you’ve got this!

    11 min
  4. 11/18/2024

    Food Doesn’t Run the Show Anymore

    Do you ever feel like food is running the show in your life? Like it’s dictating your decisions, emotions, or even your self-worth? In this first episode, we’re diving into why that happens and how to shift the narrative so food no longer holds that power. I’m sharing a relatable personal story about my love of fall donuts, revealing practical strategies for recognizing and reframing your relationship with food and leaving you with a little something to practice this week so you can start to reclaim your power around meals. What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to recognize when food is holding too much control in your life. Small mindset shifts to reframe food as something neutral, not controlling. Why self-compassion is key to a healthier relationship with food. A simple practice to feel more in control of your eating decisions. Resources & Links: Free Resource: 5 Powerful Questions  Learn More About 1:1 Coaching Follow Me on Instagram Let’s Connect! I’d love to hear how this episode resonates with you! Share your reflections or questions by leaving a review or connecting with me on social media. And if you’re ready to dive deeper into transforming your relationship with food, reach out to learn more about my one-on-one coaching program. Don’t Forget to Subscribe! Make sure you subscribe to Food is My Friend so you never miss an episode. This is just the beginning of the journey, and I can’t wait to see where it takes us!

    12 min

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About

Food is My Friend is a space where we dig into the ups and downs of our relationship and connection with food and learn how to keep it from running the show. If you've felt stuck in a cycle of dieting, people-pleasing, or body image battles, this is the podcast for you. Join me each week for refreshing conversations and practical advice on how to build a supportive, guilt-free relationship with food. You deserve to feel at peace with every bite!