Not So Secret Lives

Chantell Edwards and Karina Dustin
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Not So Secret Lives

Get ready for unfiltered conversations about dating, life, love, sex, and relationships with two best friends who have truly been through it all. From epic dating fails and steamy confessions to the ups and downs of finding real connection, we’re sharing our most raw and relatable stories with plenty of laughs and zero judgment. Whether you’re navigating the single life, figuring out love, or diving back into the dating pool, join us as we explore every twist and turn with honesty, humor, and heart. Stay Connected! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives TikToc: @not.so.secret.lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives Don’t forget to share your thoughts and tag us! We’d love to hear from you.

  1. Dating in Your 40s – A Complete Dumpster Fire

    FEB 25

    Dating in Your 40s – A Complete Dumpster Fire

    Well, it happened. We don’t know how we got here but, here we are! Dating in your 40s! Buckle up, because it’s a wild ride! In this episode, we dive into the absolute chaos that is modern dating at this stage in life—the red flags, the disappointments, the rare gems, and the hilarious horror stories. But of course, things take a turn when our audio guy decides to put us in the hot seat, asking some unexpected and personal questions about what it’s like to date us. Things get messy, real, and ridiculously funny—just how we like it! Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives TikTok: @not.so.secret.lives

    1h 10m
  2. Swinging State of Mind: Love, Lust & ENM

    FEB 18

    Swinging State of Mind: Love, Lust & ENM

    Ever wondered what it really means to be in an open relationship? In this episode, we sit down with the author of For Better or Even Better -Lauren Hayes, who is also a swinger and ENM (Ethical Non-Monogamy) lifestyle and relationship coach. She takes us deep into the world of ENM, sharing the truths, myths, breaking down misconceptions, and spicy details about love without limits. We also dive into her book, exploring how couples can thrive in unconventional relationships. Trust us—this one is unfiltered, eye-opening, and seriously steamy… or at least spicy vanilla 😉 The link to Laurens book – For Better or Even Better: 7 Lessons on Love & Life from a Non-Monogamist on amazon - https://a.co/d/47lEil1 Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives TikTok: @not.so.secret.lives

    1h 5m
  3. Dating Do’s & Don’ts: The Internet Said It, We Judge It

    FEB 12

    Dating Do’s & Don’ts: The Internet Said It, We Judge It

    Look, we’re not experts… but we’ve got Google to help us out! We took a deep dive into the internet’s list of dating do’s and don’ts, and let’s just say… we have thoughts. In this episode, we’re breaking down all the so-called “rules” of dating—and giving our unfiltered, and slightly chaotic opinions. Some we totally agree with, and others? Yeah, not so much. Expect plenty of laughs, opinions, debates, and probably a few side-eye moments as we give our take on what’s actually good advice and what’s just straight-up ridiculous. Tune in for the laughs, the lessons, and maybe even a little tough love. Don’t be the walking red flag—press play now! 🎧💘 Got a dating fail? Slide into our DMs—we might just share it on air! 😉 Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives TikTok: @not.so.secret.lives

    48 min
  4. New Studio, New Dates, Same Hot Mess

    FEB 3

    New Studio, New Dates, Same Hot Mess

    After a 2 week break and a couple recording hiccups were back baby! We’re officially in the studio, and we’re bringing the same raw, unfiltered energy with us! In this episode, we spill the tea on our recent dates—some good, some… well, let’s just say memorable. We dive into our dating styles, how emotional attachment plays a role when sex is involved.... or does it?! Lots of laughs and some side commentary from our new partner in audio, Sean! Grab your drink, get comfy, and join us for another juicy convo about dating, lust, and everything in between!

    52 min
  5. Swiping, Sniffling, and Laughing: Our Adventures Back on Dating Apps

    JAN 13

    Swiping, Sniffling, and Laughing: Our Adventures Back on Dating Apps

    In this episode, we're diving back into the world of dating apps and trying to navigate finding love (or at least a good laugh) while juggling our crazy schedules. Between sharing hilarious messages from the apps, and recording while under the weather, we’re embracing the messy reality of modern dating. We had some scheduling conflicts so next week episode we will be shooting the shiz with our special guests from the podcast A Little Bit Of Me In You! Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Stay Connected! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives TikTok: @not.so.secret.lives

    1h 1m
  6. New Year New You – Self Confidence Baby!

    JAN 6

    New Year New You – Self Confidence Baby!

    Let’s kick off the new year with confidence! In this episode, we dive into the power of self-confidence, affirmations, and positive self-talk. Learn how to be kinder to yourself, embrace your worth, start over stronger than ever, and let go of anything that no longer serves you. It's time to start fresh and step into your best self! Book recommendations in this episode (We are not sponsored or affiliated with either book recommendation) The Universe has your back by Gabrielle Bernstein Coffee Self Talk by Kristen Helmstetter Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Stay Connected! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives TikTok: @not.so.secret.lives

    1h 12m
  7. The Science of Sex and Random Facts

    12/23/2024

    The Science of Sex and Random Facts

    In this episode, we dive into the fascinating science behind sex! From surprising fun facts to the quirks of human biology, we’re exploring what makes our bodies and minds tick in the bedroom. Join us for hilarious conversations, unexpected discoveries, and our signature dose of candid humor. Whether you’re here for the knowledge or the giggles, this episode will leave you entertained and enlightened. Don’t miss it! Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all of the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Stay Connected! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives TikTok: @not.so.secret.lives Don’t forget to share your thoughts and follow us! We’d love to hear from you.

    59 min
  8. Why We're Single

    12/09/2024

    Why We're Single

    Ever wonder why we’re still single? In this episode, we’re spilling all the tea on our single status, breaking down the good, the bad, and the downright hilarious reasons why we haven’t settled down. Spoiler alert: we’re picky, we have high standards, and we’re patient enough to wait for the right one. From navigating red flags to knowing our worth, we’re keeping it real and raw. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a little self-reflection as we dive deep into the single life Thank you for all of your support! We are so thankful for all of the wonderful feedback, likes comments, shares, and overall ego pumps! Stay Connected! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives TikTok: @not.so.secret.lives Don’t forget to share your thoughts and follow us! We’d love to hear from you.

    1h 13m
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About

Get ready for unfiltered conversations about dating, life, love, sex, and relationships with two best friends who have truly been through it all. From epic dating fails and steamy confessions to the ups and downs of finding real connection, we’re sharing our most raw and relatable stories with plenty of laughs and zero judgment. Whether you’re navigating the single life, figuring out love, or diving back into the dating pool, join us as we explore every twist and turn with honesty, humor, and heart. Stay Connected! Want to keep the conversation going? Follow us on social media! Instagram: @not_so_secret_lives TikToc: @not.so.secret.lives Facebook: Not So Secret Lives Podcast YouTube: @notsosecretlives Don’t forget to share your thoughts and tag us! We’d love to hear from you.

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  • Creator
    Chantell Edwards and Karina Dustin
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    Not So Secret Lives

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