Kicking The Door Down

Debbie Airey

Dedicated to supporting saleswomen within Industry, the good, the bad and the down right scary! 

  1. 2d ago

    Kicking the Door Down with Clare Nash: Retrofitting Architecture: Sustainability, Women in Architecture & Building the Future

    Kicking the Door Down: How Retrofit Architecture Can Transform Our Spaces In this insightful episode of Kicking the Door Down, host Debbie is joined by Clare Nash, an architect specializing in retrofit architecture. Together, they explore the importance of retrofitting in the architectural landscape, particularly in the UK, and discuss the unique challenges and opportunities it presents. If you’re curious about how retrofitting can not only preserve but enhance existing structures, this post is for you. ### What is Retrofit Architecture? Retrofitting refers to the process of modifying existing buildings to improve energy efficiency, safety, or aesthetics without tearing them down. As Clare explains, the UK is at a critical juncture where retrofitting is not just beneficial but necessary due to the increasing demand for sustainable living solutions. This approach not only extends the life of buildings but also aligns with environmental goals by reducing waste and promoting sustainability. ### The Journey into Architecture Clare’s journey into architecture began with a unique blend of art and mathematics, encouraged by a teacher who recognized her talents. Growing up in a farming environment, she gained hands-on experience in construction, which demystified building sites for her. Clare initially ventured into interior architecture, realizing its potential but also the limitations placed on the profession, particularly in the UK. This realization led her to pursue a more comprehensive architectural education, ultimately culminating in her specialization. ### The Need for Change in Architectural Education One of the most significant insights from Clare’s experience is the disparity between architectural education and real-world practice. In the UK, the path to becoming an architect can take up to seven years, with many students feeling unprepared for the practical challenges they face in the industry. Clare argues that while design skills are essential, understanding the practical aspects of construction is equally crucial. This gap in education can lead to frustrations among new architects who find themselves ill-equipped to handle the realities of their jobs. ### Addressing Gender Disparities in Architecture A vital aspect of the discussion revolves around gender disparities in the architecture field. Clare highlights how women often face additional challenges in their careers, especially when balancing family life and demanding work schedules. The industry can be unforgiving, with long hours and high-pressure environments contributing to a significant drop-off of women after they enter the workforce. Clare advocates for a more inclusive and supportive workplace culture that recognizes the contributions of all architects, regardless of gender. ### The Impact of Mental Health on the Architectural Profession Additionally, Clare sheds light on the mental health challenges prevalent in architecture. The pressure to perform and the blame culture often found in traditional practices can lead to burnout and stress. By fostering an environment of collaboration and understanding, Clare’s practice seeks to combat these issues. She emphasizes the importance of normalizing mistakes and creating a supportive culture where architects can thrive without the fear of blame. ### Conclusion Through her passion for retrofit architecture and dedication to creating a positive work environment, Clare Nash is reshaping the architectural landscape. Her insights serve as a reminder of the importance of sustainability, inclusivity, and mental well-being in the profession. For those interested in learning more about the transformative power of retrofitting and the future of architecture, Claire’s work offers valuable lessons and inspiration. Want to delve deeper? Watch the full conversation with Clare Nash on Kicking the Door Down, and explore how we can all contribute to a more sustainable future through architecture. https://clarenasharchitecture.co.uk/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/clarenasharchitect/ Kicking The Door Down

    Kicking the Door Down with Clare Nash: Retrofitting Architecture: Sustainability, Women in Architecture & Building the Future
  2. Jul 18

    Kicking the Door Down with Emma Riley: Let's Help Find The Veterans Who Don't Know They're Entitled

    ⚠️ Content & Trigger Warning This episode contains discussions of historical discrimination, homophobia, trauma, mental health, sexual assault, rape, bullying, coercive questioning, and suicide-related themes. Some listeners may find the content distressing. Please listen with care and take a break if you need to. Episode Description What happens when the very organisation you dedicate your life to serving turns against you? In this deeply moving episode of Kicking the Door Down, I sit down with Emma Riley, a former Royal Navy veteran whose life was changed forever by the UK's ban on LGBT+ personnel serving in the Armed Forces. After confiding in someone she trusted that she thought she might be gay, Emma was arrested, interrogated, humiliated and discharged from the Royal Navy under a policy that has since been ruled illegal by the European Court of Human Rights. But this conversation isn't only about history. It's about the trauma that follows people for decades. The shame they were made to carry. The relationships affected. The identities stolen. And the extraordinary courage it takes to tell that story today. We also discuss the UK Government's LGBT Veterans Financial Recognition Scheme, why so many eligible veterans are still not coming forward, and why this conversation matters now more than ever. The scheme closes on 12 December, meaning time is running out for many people to receive both financial recognitiohttps://www.gov.uk/government/publications/veterans-of-the-lgbt-ban-financial-recognition-scheme/lgbt-financial-recognition-scheme-guide-how-to-apply-for-a-financial-recognition-paymentn and, perhaps more importantly, validation for what happened to them. Whether you have served, know someone who has, work alongside veterans, or simply believe in fairness and dignity, this is an episode that deserves to be heard. If you know someone who served in the UK Armed Forces before 2000 and may have been affected by the ban on LGBT+ personnel, please share this episode. It could change their life. Please contact Emma Riley for more information linkedin.com/in/emma-riley-vdc emmariley.uk  https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/veterans-of-the-lgbt-ban-financial-recognition-scheme https://www.fightingwithpride.org.uk/reparations/lgbt-financial-recognition-scheme/ Kicking The Door Down

    Kicking the Door Down with Emma Riley: Let's Help Find The Veterans Who Don't Know They're Entitled
  3. Jun 26

    Kicking the Door Down with Chrissie Knapp

    Kicking the Door Down with Chrissie Knapp: bullying, boundaries, confidence and finding your voice This week on Kicking the Door Down, I’m joined by Chrissie Knapp — a brilliant woman many of you in health and safety will already know from HSM and the wider events and publishing world. But in this episode, we go beyond the shows, the magazine and the industry reputation, and talk about Chrissie. What I loved about this conversation is that it gets right underneath the surface of confidence. Because when people see Chrissie now, they see someone calm, capable, connected and brilliantly good at what she does. What they don’t necessarily see is the journey it took to get there. We talk about bullying at school, how those early experiences shaped her, and how she went from being a quiet, withdrawn teenager to someone who can walk into any room, hold her own, build relationships and command a stage. We talk about confidence, boundaries, the art of reading people, and the way women so often have to assess situations in real time — especially in male-dominated spaces. We also get into careers, publishing, the health and safety industry, networking, relationship-building, and the brilliant work Chrissie is doing to create more visibility for women through the Women in Safety and Health Awards. This is a conversation about finding your voice, building resilience, learning where your boundaries are, and becoming the version of yourself that younger you probably never imagined was possible. In this episode, we cover:  Chrissie’s experience of bullying and isolation at school  How confidence is built, not born  Why boundaries matter — in work, life and male-dominated environments  Going from a shy teenager to a confident industry figure  The power of relationship-building and human connection  Women in health and safety and why visibility matters  The story behind the Women in Safety and Health AwardsA really honest conversation with one of the best people in the industry — and proof that the person people see now is often the result of a battle they never knew happened. Kicking The Door Down

    Kicking the Door Down with Chrissie Knapp
  4. Jun 24

    Kicking the Door Down with Vince Pizzoni FIhE CEng FCMI AFWES FEI MIET SWE SPE CDI

    Episode Title: Kicking the Door Down with Vince Pizzoni: Mentoring, Engineering, Confidence and Breaking the Rules on Age In this episode of Kicking the Door Down, I’m joined by the brilliant Vince Pizzoni for a conversation that is honest, energising and packed with wisdom. Vince has had a remarkable career spanning engineering, leadership and mentoring, and in this episode we dive into everything from growing up in working-class families, early graft and ambition, through to imposter syndrome, women in STEM, ageism, confidence and what it really takes to build a career with purpose. We talk about the importance of getting more women into STEM — but just as importantly, helping them stay there. We also discuss why young people need better guidance, why representation matters, and how one conversation can genuinely change the direction of someone’s life. Vince shares his own journey from chemical engineering into a portfolio career focused on mentoring the next generation, and we explore the realities of leadership, visibility, resilience, and what it means to keep pushing forward at every stage of life. This is a conversation about hard work, honesty, backing yourself before you feel fully ready, and why experience should never be written off. In this episode we cover:  Vince’s route into engineering and leadership  Why mentoring matters so much  Women in STEM and the challenge of staying in the room  Imposter syndrome, confidence and visibility  Ageism in work and why experience still matters  Leadership, communication and learning how to back yourself  Why sport, discipline and resilience all connect If you’ve ever questioned whether you’re ready, whether you belong, or whether your voice matters — this one’s for you. Kicking The Door Down

    Kicking the Door Down with Vince Pizzoni FIhE CEng FCMI AFWES FEI MIET SWE SPE CDI
  5. May 29

    Kicking the Door Down with Louise Humpington: Mycelium, Megalomania and Mayhem

    The Mycelium Network of Leadership: Building Connected, Resilient Organisations Have you ever wondered how the natural world can guide us toward better workplace connectivity and resilience? In this podcast, we explore the fascinating analogy of the mycelium network—nature's incredible underground communication web—and how it offers powerful lessons for governance, leadership, and organisational culture. If you've ever questioned traditional hierarchical structures or struggled with communication gaps within teams, this insight might just transform your perspective. Drawing from this powerful and insightful interview with Louise Humpington, a specialist in organisational ecosystems inspired by fungi communication networks, we'll delve into how embracing a networked approach can improve psychological safety, inclusivity, and risk management in workplaces. By understanding and applying these natural principles, you can foster a more adaptive, resilient, and human-centered organisation. Unlocking the Power of the Underground: What is the Mycelium Network? The concept of the mycelium network originates from the world of fungi and forests. Louise Humpington explains that mycelium is the underground web connecting fungi, trees, insects, and plants—a sophisticated 450-million-year-old system that enables communication, resource sharing, and mutual support.  Imagine this network in your workplace: Each employee or team represents a node within the ecosystem, interconnected through a web of relationships, communication channels, and shared knowledge. When one part of the system encounters stress or harm, the others come together to rebuild and support. This interconnectedness ensures not only survival but also adaptability and growth.The Key Lessons from Nature's Communication Web   Every node (person or team) is connected  Damage to one node triggers support from others  Knowledge sharing is continuous and reciprocal  Gaps or risks in communication can threaten the entire ecosystem  Louise emphasises that this natural network is a model for how organisations should operate: fostering interconnected relationships, transparent communication, and collective resilience. Cultivating Psychological Safety and Inclusion Through the Network One of the most significant benefits of a mycelium-inspired approach is creating psychological safety—a workplace environment where individuals feel safe to speak up, admit mistakes, and share concerns without fear of criticism. Louise highlights how psychological safety is crucial for innovation, risk mitigation, and inclusion.Without the ability to voice concerns—whether about AI bias, safety issues, or personal challenges—organizations risk harm, legal liabilities, and loss of talent. Embedding inclusion as a normative aspect of organizational culture ensures that differences are valued, supported, and protected, rather than tolerated or ignored.Practical Steps to Build This Ecosystem   Embed psychological safety into core policies and practices  Promote open communication and active listening  Encourage diversity of perspectives and experiences  Create safe spaces for feedback and dissent  Louise advocates for leadership that acts as a gardener—nurturing connections and removing barriers that hinder growth and understanding. The Risks and Rewards of a Networked Governance Approach Traditional governance models are often linear—causal, hierarchical, and sequential. Louise challenges this by proposing a dynamic, networked approach that maps relationships and risks across all nodes, including silos and cross-functional interactions.In her view, these interconnected systems reveal risks that linear models overlook, such as the gaps between teams or underrepresented voices. When one part of the network comes under stress, the entire system's resilience depends on how well the nodes support each other.Key Strategies for Networked Governance   Map relationships and knowledge flows within your organization  Recognize and address gaps or silos that may cause vulnerabilities  Foster cross-team collaboration and shared accountability  Use data and feedback to identify early signs of stress or harm  This approach allows organisations to be proactive rather than reactive—avoiding the 'glitches' that can escalate into bigger failures, much like adding damaging DNA into a biological system. Challenging Old Models: From Storming to Rewilding Teams Louise and I critique the traditional "Storming, Norming, Forming" model of team development, arguing that it’s outdated in the context of diverse, neurodiverse, and AI-enabled workplaces. Instead, she advocates for a ‘rewilded’ view—embracing complexity, difference, and continuous learning.Modern teams are ecosystems with fluid relationships, where inclusion of varied genders, backgrounds, and neurodiversity enriches performance. Leaders must shift from control-based models to facilitative, trust-based systems that allow for experimentation, failure, and growth.Creating Adaptive Teams   Recognise and leverage individual differences  Encourage safe experimentation and learning from failure  Rethink onboarding as a sandbox for growth  Promote trauma-informed leadership—acknowledging unseen challenges  This requires a fundamental mindset change: leaders as cultivators of connections, not command-and-control enforcers. The Hidden Dangers of Over-Reliance on AI and Data While AI presents exciting opportunities, https://www.linkedin.com/in/louisehumpington/ Kicking The Door Down

    Kicking the Door Down with Louise Humpington: Mycelium, Megalomania and Mayhem
  6. Apr 17

    Kicking the Door Down with Yasmin Barlow-Mills: Financial Planner, giving women their indipendance back.

    Unlock the power of financial independence and break through the stigma holding women back from taking control of their money. Yasmin Barlow-Mills, a seasoned financial planner, reveals how she's helping women overcome imposter syndrome, fear, and cultural barriers to become confident decision-makers—empowering them to thrive in all life stages. In this episode, Yasmin shares her inspiring journey from feeling like she didn’t belong in the finance industry at 18 to becoming a passionate advocate for women’s financial empowerment. She discusses the real challenges women face—fear of finances, societal stereotypes, and how trauma and emotional hurdles often keep them trapped. Plus, Yasmin explains how her upcoming podcast, On Her Terms, aims to demystify finance, making it accessible, relatable, and inspiring for women who want to take control of their futures. You'll discover tangible insights on how to shift your mindset around money, the importance of emotional support in financial planning, and how to build the confidence to make decisions that truly serve your goals. Yasmin offers practical advice for navigating major life changes—divorce, bereavement, career shifts—and explains why understanding your finances is the ultimate act of self-empowerment and independence. This episode is an essential listen for women feeling overwhelmed by finances, aspiring entrepreneurs, or anyone who recognizes that financial literacy is the key to freedom. Yasmin’s genuine, heartfelt approach provides a new perspective on what it means to take control of your money—and your life.Join us to break down barriers, challenge old stigmas, and unlock your financial potential. Your journey to empowerment starts here. https://www.linkedin.com/in/yasminbarlowmills/ On Her Terms Podcast https://www.instagram.com/onhertermspodcast/?hl=en Kicking The Door Down

  7. Mar 20

    Kicking the Door Down with Abbey Atkinson PHD: Sexual Harassment & The Glass Ceiling

    The gendered barriers that keep women—especially in leadership—stuck behind an invisible glass ceiling are more complex than ever. But what if the real challenge isn’t just overt discrimination, but the silent, systemic structures we often overlook? In this eye-opening episode, Debbie Airey and her recurring special guest, Dr. Abbey Atkinson PHD, unpack the unspoken biases, invisible obstacles, and political policies that sustain gender inequality in the workplace. You’ll discover why traditional diversity efforts fall short without addressing the deep-rooted structural issues. We break down the concept of the “magnifying glass ceiling”—where women are hyper-visible and invisible at the same time—and explore how the stereotypes of leadership often reinforce a system built for male dominance. From the impact of unconscious bias to the harm of tokenism, this episode dives into the subtle ways discrimination persists, even when no one’s saying a word. Key insights include: how leadership styles are misunderstood and judged through gendered lenses, the damaging myths around the Queen Bee theory, and the real costs of the “motherhood penalty” versus the “gardening leave” phenomenon. We examine critical policies like paternity leave and the dangerous erosion of women’s rights, and challenge the narrative around quotas, highlighting why fixed targets can do more harm than good—and how organizations can foster authentic, inclusive cultures instead. Why does it matter? Because until organizations recognize that gender issues are human issues, we’ll keep fighting a losing battle. This episode is essential listening for leaders, HR professionals, and anyone committed to creating workplaces where everyone can thrive—free from silent biases and systemic barriers.Abbey Atkinson is a leadership specialist and researcher passionate about dismantling gender inequalities in the workplace. Her insights come from years of experience working with organizations on diversity and inclusion. Get ready for a candid, data-driven conversation that will leave you questioning the status quo—and inspired to drive real change. Perfect for HR teams, executives, and allies seeking practical strategies to break down barriers and elevate voices traditionally held back.Join us to challenge the silent discrimination in your organization, and learn how to turn awareness into action—because the future of inclusive leadership depends on it. if you would like to work with Abbey, please reach out to her on the below linkedin profile: https://www.linkedin.com/in/abbey-atkinson-phd-88460257/ Kicking The Door Down

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