The Making of a Man

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The Making of a Man is the podcast for men who want to grow in biblical manhood, purpose, leadership, courage, emotional strength, and spiritual maturity. In this powerful, Christ-centered series, we explore what it means to become the man God designed you to be — a warrior, a protector, a servant leader, and a man of unshakable character.Whether you’re battling past wounds, navigating marriage and fatherhood, rebuilding your identity, or stepping into your God-given calling, this podcast gives you the tools, truth, and training you need.Each episode breaks down practical strategies for Christian men, including:•Overcoming past struggles and walking in healing•Strengthening your marriage and leading your home with integrity•Fatherhood, mentorship, and godly influence•Finding your mission, purpose, and calling•Winning spiritual battles and living with discipline•Restoring relationships, identity, and emotional healthFeaturing real conversations, biblical teaching, actionable battle plans, and powerful stories of transformation, The Making of a Man helps men rise up, take responsibility, and live with clarity, courage, and conviction.If you’re searching for a podcast on Christian manhood, identity, purpose, masculinity, faith, discipleship, healing, leadership, or spiritual warfare — you’ve found it.Step into the fight. Step into your calling.This is The Making of a Man.

  1. Loved While You Were Still Broken

    2D AGO

    Loved While You Were Still Broken

    How God’s Love Transforms You—and Refines Your Marriage What if the struggle in your marriage isn’t a sign something is wrong… but a sign God is doing something in you? In this episode, we go deep into one of the most foundational truths of the Christian life: God’s love is not based on your performance—it’s based on His character. While we were still sinners, Christ died for us. And that kind of love doesn’t just save us… it transforms us. But here’s where it gets real—the way you receive God’s love is the way you give it in your marriage. Walking through powerful Scriptures like Romans 5:8, 1 John 4:10, Ephesians 2:4–5, Psalm 103:10–12, Romans 8:38–39, and 1 Corinthians 13:4–7, this episode exposes the gap between how we’ve been loved… and how we actually love. You’ll also uncover: Why we struggle to love with patience, grace, and forgiveness How pride, fear, control, and unforgiveness create distance in marriage What Philippians 4:13 really means for daily life and relationships Why God’s purpose for marriage is not just happiness—but holiness How marriage becomes a tool God uses to refine your character and deepen your faith  This is more than a message about love: It’s a call to transformation.A call to leadership.A call to live from the love you’ve already been given. Because you are not fighting for love…You are living from it. Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    30 min
  2. The Stronghold Within

    APR 27

    The Stronghold Within

    Breaking free from Bitterness, Resentment and Unforgiveness In this powerful episode of The Making of a Man, we confront one of the most dangerous and overlooked battles men face—the strongholds of bitterness, resentment, and unforgiveness. These aren’t just emotions. They are fortified patterns of thinking that take root in the mind, shape your reactions, damage your marriage, and disrupt your relationship with God. Drawing from Bible (2 Corinthians 10:4–5), this episode breaks down how strongholds are formed, how the enemy uses deception to reinforce them, and why unresolved hurt turns into spiritual bondage. You’ll learn: How bitterness and unforgiveness become mental strongholds The enemy’s strategy for building lies in your thinking How these patterns impact your marriage, leadership, and identity The truth about forgiveness—what it is and what it is not A practical battle plan to tear down strongholds and walk in freedom  This episode also addresses mutual brokenness in marriage, helping both men and women recognize how strongholds show up differently—but affect both hearts. If you’ve been carrying unresolved hurt, struggling to forgive, or feeling stuck in patterns you can’t break—this episode will give you the clarity, truth, and tools to step into real freedom. You are not fighting for victory. You are standing from it. Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    49 min
  3. The Power of Forgiveness in Marriage

    APR 20

    The Power of Forgiveness in Marriage

    How Letting Go Restores Love, Unity, and Freedom  Forgiveness isn’t just a relationship issue—it’s a spiritual one. In this powerful episode of The Making of a Man – Battle Plan Series, we dive deep into what the Bible says about forgiveness, why it’s so difficult, and how it directly impacts your marriage, your heart, and your relationship with God. You’ll learn: What biblical forgiveness really means (and what it doesn’t) Why forgiveness is a decision—not a feeling  The price Jesus paid so we could be forgiven What you must give up in order to truly forgive How unforgiveness leads to bitterness, division, and spiritual bondage Practical steps to release the offense and walk in freedom How forgiveness restores unity, trust, and emotional connection in marriage This episode also dives into the powerful concept of mutual brokenness—recognizing that both husband and wife need grace, and how that perspective changes everything. If you’ve been holding onto hurt, resentment, or unresolved conflict in your marriage…This is your call to freedom.  Because forgiveness isn’t about letting them off the hook—it’s about taking yourself off the hook of living bound to the past.  Key Scriptures: Colossians 3:13, Ephesians 4:32, Matthew 6:14-15, Romans 12:19, Matthew 18:21-35, Hebrews 12:15  Battle Plan Takeaway: Release the debt. Surrender the offense. Walk in freedom.   Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    48 min
  4. Embracing Mutual Brokenness

    APR 13

    Embracing Mutual Brokenness

    How Humility, Grace, and Truth Strengthen Your Marriage and Defeat the Enemy Most marriages don’t fall apart overnight…They erode—slowly, quietly—when pride replaces humility and grace disappears. In this episode of The Making of a Man, we dive into the powerful and often misunderstood concept of mutual brokenness—what it means, what it doesn’t mean, and why it is essential for both husband and wife. Grounded in Romans 3:23, this conversation unpacks the truth that both spouses stand equally in need of God’s grace—and how embracing that reality can transform your marriage from a place of tension and division into one of healing, trust, and unity. You’ll learn: What mutual brokenness really looks like in a biblical marriage Why it does not excuse sin—but changes how we address it How pride, defensiveness, and blame quietly destroy connection The enemy’s strategy to divide your marriage—and how to fight back What happens when one spouse refuses humility—and how to respond Practical steps to build a culture of grace, truth, and growth in your home Featuring insights from trusted voices like Timothy Keller and Craig Groeschel, this episode challenges you to stop focusing on your spouse’s flaws—and start surrendering your own heart before God. Because marriage isn’t about finding the right person…It’s about becoming the right person—together. If you’re ready to move your marriage from frustration to transformation…from division to unity…This episode is your battle plan. Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    37 min
  5. The Verdict Is In

    APR 6

    The Verdict Is In

    Breaking Free from the Fear of Judgment and the Trap of Pride Many men don’t realize it—but the fear of judgment is shaping how they live, lead, and love. It shows up in what we don’t say. In the parts of ourselves we keep hidden. In the image we work hard to protect. In this episode of The Making of a Man, we go beneath the surface to uncover the real issue: The fear of judgment isn’t just insecurity—it’s pride in disguise.  Through personal reflection, biblical truth, and practical application, this episode explores: Why the fear of man is a trap that keeps you stuck How pride drives us to manage our image instead of live in truth The “judgment gap” and how assumptions create division in relationships Why vulnerability is essential for real connection in marriage How gospel humility sets you free from self-preoccupation And how understanding your identity in Christ changes everything Scripture reminds us that “there is no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1). That means the verdict over your life has already been declared. You are not living for approval—you are living from it. If you’ve ever struggled to be fully known… to be honest about what’s really going on inside… or to lead with truth instead of image—this episode will challenge and equip you to step out of hiding and into freedom. It’s time to take off the mask. Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    32 min
  6. The Fight for Unity

    MAR 30

    The Fight for Unity

    How to Close the Gaps, Lead with Agape Love, and Guard Your Marriage from Division  Episode Description  In this episode of The Making of a Man — Battle Plan Series, we move from awareness to action. In the last episode, we exposed how the enemy works through small gaps—unspoken tension, miscommunication, and emotional distance—to create division in marriage. But identifying the problem is only the beginning.  This episode is about the plan. How do you actively rebuild unity once it’s been strained? And how do you protect it so it doesn’t slowly break down again? We walk through what it looks like to: Close gaps quickly before they turn into deeper dividesTake ownership instead of waiting on your spouseReestablish connection through intentional, daily actionsGuard your marriage from subtle but real threatsKeep God at the center as the source of lasting unityAt the core of it all is agape love—a love that doesn’t depend on feelings, but chooses commitment, forgiveness, and leadership even when it’s hard. This is not about perfection. It’s about responsibility. It’s about leadership. It’s about becoming the man God has called you to be in your marriage. Because unity doesn’t happen by accident. It’s built. It’s restored. And it’s protected.  Battle Plan Focus: You are not fighting for unity—you are fighting from it. So lead with intention. Forgive quickly. And protect what God is building.     Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    33 min
  7. The Enemy Inside the Marriage

    MAR 23

    The Enemy Inside the Marriage

    Subtitle: How the Enemy Turns Small Gaps Into Deep Divides Episode Description: Most marriages don’t fall apart overnight. They drift. In this episode of The Making of a Man – Battle Plan Series, we take a hard look at what’s really happening beneath the surface when connection starts to fade. If God designed marriage to produce holiness, then we need to recognize that there is an enemy actively working to prevent that. And he rarely attacks in obvious ways. Instead, he works through subtle fractures: miscommunication, assumptions, unspoken expectations, emotional withdrawal, and unresolved hurt. Over time, those small issues create distance. And if left unaddressed, that distance turns into division. This episode builds directly on our last conversation about God’s purpose for marriage and exposes what happens when conflict, brokenness, and the “judgment gap” are not handled biblically. We’ll break down: Why your spouse is not the real enemyHow division quietly starts and growsThe progression from misunderstanding to isolationThe role pride plays in both husbands and wivesWhat the enemy ultimately wants for your marriageAnd God’s counter strategy for restoration and unityThis is a call to men to step into leadership—not through control, but through humility, responsibility, and obedience to God. Because while both husband and wife share responsibility in a healthy marriage, transformation often begins when one person chooses to go first. The enemy doesn’t need to destroy your marriage overnight… he just needs you to stay disconnected long enough. But when a man steps in and leads the way God designed—what the enemy meant to divide, God can restore. Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    29 min
  8. The Real Purpose of Marriage: Why God Uses It to Shape You

    MAR 16

    The Real Purpose of Marriage: Why God Uses It to Shape You

    Why God uses marriage to refine character, grow humility, and reflect the love of Christ Most people walk into marriage believing the goal is happiness. If we find the right person, love each other enough, and work hard at the relationship, everything should fall into place. But when conflict shows up and the happiness fades, many couples begin to wonder if something is wrong. In this episode of The Making of a Man, we explore a powerful biblical truth that many couples never hear when they stand at the altar: God’s primary purpose for marriage is not happiness—it’s holiness. Marriage has a way of exposing things in us we didn’t even know were there—pride, selfishness, fear, control, and unhealed wounds. But those exposures are not accidents. They are often part of the refining process God uses to shape our character and transform our hearts. We’ll talk about: Why struggle in marriage doesn’t necessarily mean something is wrongHow marriage reflects the covenant love between Christ and the ChurchWhy conflict can actually become a tool for spiritual growthThe danger of the “judgment gap” inside relationshipsHow humility, grace, and forgiveness strengthen a marriage over timeA practical battle plan for husbands who want to lead their marriage with Christ-like loveMarriage is more than a relationship—it’s a spiritual partnership designed to shape us, refine us, and ultimately reflect the love of Christ. When we begin to see marriage through that lens, even the difficult seasons begin to take on new meaning. Because God may be using those moments to do some of His most important work in both of your lives. Send us Fan Mail Christian marriage, God’s love unconditional, Biblical love 1 Corinthians 13, Marriage and holiness, Christian husband leadership, Love like Chris, Marriage transformation, Faith and relationships, Romans 5:8 meaning, God’s grace and forgiveness, Marriage struggles Christian perspective, Biblical roles in marriage, Spiritual growth in marriage, Overcoming resentment in marriage, Christian podcast for men, The Making of a Man podcast

    39 min
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The Making of a Man is the podcast for men who want to grow in biblical manhood, purpose, leadership, courage, emotional strength, and spiritual maturity. In this powerful, Christ-centered series, we explore what it means to become the man God designed you to be — a warrior, a protector, a servant leader, and a man of unshakable character.Whether you’re battling past wounds, navigating marriage and fatherhood, rebuilding your identity, or stepping into your God-given calling, this podcast gives you the tools, truth, and training you need.Each episode breaks down practical strategies for Christian men, including:•Overcoming past struggles and walking in healing•Strengthening your marriage and leading your home with integrity•Fatherhood, mentorship, and godly influence•Finding your mission, purpose, and calling•Winning spiritual battles and living with discipline•Restoring relationships, identity, and emotional healthFeaturing real conversations, biblical teaching, actionable battle plans, and powerful stories of transformation, The Making of a Man helps men rise up, take responsibility, and live with clarity, courage, and conviction.If you’re searching for a podcast on Christian manhood, identity, purpose, masculinity, faith, discipleship, healing, leadership, or spiritual warfare — you’ve found it.Step into the fight. Step into your calling.This is The Making of a Man.

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  • Creator
    Mike Judd
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2026
  • Episodes
    47
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © 2026 The Making of a Man
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    The Making of a Man