Fractured Families Podcast Fighting Parental Alienation

Charity Marie

Navigating the emotional and legal challenges of parental alienation and high-conflict family dynamics, the Fractured Families Podcast provides a safe space for parents to share their stories, seek guidance, and find solidarity. Hosted by advocates passionate about children’s rights and family restoration, we dive deep into the untold realities of custody battles, false allegations, and the psychological toll of being alienated from your loved ones.Through heartfelt interviews, expert advice, and empowering discussions, we aim to shed light on the complexities of family court, the impact of narcissistic behavior, and strategies for resilience and healing. Whether you're a parent fighting to reconnect, a supporter seeking understanding, or someone searching for hope amidst the chaos, Fractured Families Podcast is here to inspire, inform, and support you on your journey.Tune in weekly for stories of courage, actionable tips, and a community that truly understands the fight to keep families whole.🌐 Follow: Fractured Families: YouTube | Buzzsprout🌐 @parentalalienationisreal:  | TikTok | Instagram | Facebook🎙️ Hosted by:  Charity Marie  ✉️  info@parentalalienationisreal.net#ParentalAlienation #ParentalAlienationisreal #FathersRights #MothersRights #ChildrensRights #CustodyChallenges #HealingFamilies #ParentalRights

  1. JAN 29

    FFP 68: The Parent They Learned to Hate

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net Episode Summary In this episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, Michelle Walters, an alienated mother from Florida, shares her deeply personal journey of losing meaningful relationships with her two children following divorce and coercive family dynamics. Michelle describes how a once close, involved, and loving family system unraveled through manipulation, control, and emotional conditioning, ultimately leading to severe parental alienation. She walks listeners through the confusion, grief, self-blame, and isolation that targeted parents often face, and the long, painful learning curve of understanding that normal parenting responses can backfire in an alienation dynamic. Michelle also shares how education, coaching, self-reflection, and community support became lifelines, and why she now sees parental alienation as generational child abuse that must be named, addressed, and stopped  Talking Points What parental alienation looks like in a “normal,” high-functioning familyHow control, financial power, and image management can mask abusive dynamicsSudden personality changes in children and the loss of empathy toward the targeted parentHow milestone moments (graduation, senior year, college transitions) are often weaponizedThe role of “ghosting,” interference, and loyalty conflicts in escalating alienationWhy targeted parents often don’t recognize alienation until it’s severeHow normal reactions become weaponized and used to reinforce false narrativesThe critical role of education, coaching, and unlearning instinctive parenting responsesThe emotional toll: shame, isolation, public judgment, and secondary traumaWhy parental alienation is not a “bad parenting” issue, but psychological child abuseThe importance of support systems, self-reflection, and rebuilding identity outside the childrenEnding the cycle so alienation does not pass to future generations Key Takeaways Children do not reject loving parents on their own  rejection is conditioned, not chosen.Alienation often escalates during separation and divorce, especially when one parent controls access, information, or resources.Normal parenting responses can worsen alienation in a coercive family system.Targeted parents must unlearn instinctive reactions and adopt counterintuitive strategies.Education and coaching are not optional  this cannot be navigated alone.Self-reflection is painful but necessary, even when the abuse is not the parent’s fault.Parental alienation is generational unless interrupted awareness is prevention.Healing begins with small steps: community, purpose, grounding, and reclaiming joy.This is not about blame it’s about protecting children from psychological harm👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP 📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents and fight for change. Don’t forget to like, share, and follow for more episodes. 🎙️ Let’s rebuild fractured families. Support the show

    51 min
  2. JAN 15

    FFP 67: My Children Were Taught I Was the Devil

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net Episode Summary  Peter Young shares the harrowing story of how his family was overtaken by a secretive, cult-like religious leader who slowly infiltrated his marriage, parenting, and identity as a father. Over nearly two decades, his wife became increasingly devoted to this man, known to the family as “Uncle Robert”, who positioned himself as the ultimate authority on faith, morality, and truth, eventually supplanting Peter as husband and father in the family system  When Peter began questioning the cult leader’s influence, his wife left with their three youngest children and began a campaign of psychological and emotional destruction, telling the children Peter was “a devil,” “a liar,” and “just a sperm donor.”  Through court intervention, a Guardian ad Litem investigation, and a courageous decision to expose the cult’s influence, Peter eventually regained custody of his children and removed them from the cult’s control. His story powerfully illustrates the deep psychological overlap between cult coercion and parental alienation, both rely on fear, isolation, identity destruction, and loyalty enforcement. Today, Peter continues to heal, parent, and share his story through his memoir Stop the Tall Man, Save the Tigers and his advocacy work  Talking Points1. Cult Control Inside a Family The cult leader (“Uncle Robert”) positioned himself as the only authority on God, truth, and moralityFamily members were taught to distrust outsiders, churches, professionals, and even each other2. How Cult Dynamics Turned Into Parental Alienation Peter’s wife became more loyal to the cult leader than to her husbandOnce Peter questioned the cult, he became framed as spiritually dangerous3. Psychological Terror Used on Children Children were forced to witness their mother verbally destroy their fatherThey were taught religious doctrines to justify rejecting him 4. The Legal System Finally Intervened A Guardian ad Litem identified extreme psychological abuse and cult influenceThe court ordered no contact between the children and the cult leader5. Healing, Recovery, and Long-Term Parenting Some children recovered quickly, others still strugglePeter remains focused on loving them without retaliatingKey Takeaways Parental alienation and cult behavior use the same psychological tools: fear, isolation, identity destruction, and loyalty enforcement Children don’t reject parents on their own—they are taught to do it through coercionAlienation is a form of psychological abuse even when there is no physical harmCourts can get it right when professionals recognize cult-like influenceReunification is possible, but it requires courage, documentation, and expert interventionIsolation is the most dangerous warning sign—when a parent or child is cut off, control is growing👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP How to contact Peter: 406-404-4984 authorpeteryoung@gmail.com www.authorpeteryoung.com 📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents an Support the show

    49 min
  3. JAN 8

    FFP 66: All I can do now is show up

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net 🎙️ Episode SummaryFractured Families Podcast – Matthew Gordon This episode follows the real-life story of Matthew Gordon, an alienated father who spent over six years and $120,000 in family court only to lose meaningful access to his son despite no evidence of abuse or wrongdoing. Matthew describes how the alienation began during his marriage when his wife became involved with their son’s coach. What started as manipulation inside the home escalated into full legal and psychological warfare once the divorce began. He explains how his son was slowly conditioned to distrust him, culminating in a court-submitted letter that was secretly typed by the mother, used by the judge to justify stripping Matthew of custody, without Matthew ever seeing the letter or being allowed to respond  Today, Matthew’s 17-year-old son refuses to see or speak to him, is failing in school, and is emotionally cut off, classic outcomes of alienation. Yet Matthew continues to show up to every game, every court-ordered pickup, and every opportunity to remind his son that he is loved and wanted. This episode exposes how family courts reward manipulation, ignore coercion, and financially devastate loving parents while children suffer in silence. 🧠 Talking Points1. How Alienation Begins 2. Children Being Turned Against a Parent 3. Legalized Coercion 4. False Narratives & Public Smearing 5. The Emotional Toll on the Child 6. The Financial Destruction of Targeted Parents 🔑 Key Takeaways  Alienation is not a family conflict — it is psychological child abuse.Courts routinely reward the more deceptive parent.Children show distress through school failure, withdrawal, and emotional shutdown.Targeted parents are silenced, bankrupt, and erased without evidence.Consistent presence matters, children remember who kept showing up.Faith, purpose, and support are survival tools for targeted parents.👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP 📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents and fight for change. Don’t forget to like, share, and follow for more episodes. 🎙️ Let’s rebuild fractured families. Support the show

    44 min
  4. 12/08/2025

    FFP 65: Behind the Curtain with A Family Law Attorney

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net 🎙️ Podcast Summary In this powerful episode of the Fractured Families Podcast, attorney Shawn Philbert pulls back the curtain on how parental alienation, false allegations, and court delays devastate families, and what targeted parents can do to protect themselves. Drawing from years of high-conflict litigation experience, Shawn explains why labeling someone as an “alienator” can backfire in court, why urgency is everything, and how false abuse allegations are increasingly weaponized during custody battles. He also exposes serious failures in court enforcement, the financial ruin caused by dual criminal and family proceedings, and how many parents unknowingly hire the wrong legal representation. This episode equips targeted parents with practical legal strategies, mindset shifts, and red flags to watch for when choosing attorneys, experts, and parenting coordinators, all with the child’s best interest as the central focus.  🗣️ Talking Points  1. Fighting Alienation Without Using the Term Why saying “parental alienation” can harm your caseFocusing on conduct instead of labels2. Urgency Is Everything Why delays destroy parent-child bondsEmergency motions for non-compliance3. False Allegations as a Legal Weapon Weaponization of abuse claims in custody battlesThe devastating impact of criminal allegations on family court4. Why Court Enforcement Is Failing Children Court orders without enforcement harm familiesSelf-help behavior by alienating parents5. Choosing the RIGHT Lawyer (Not Just a “Big Firm”) Why most clients never get the lawyer they thought they hiredThe importance of knowing your legal “village”6. The Truth About Experts in Alienation Cases Why experts slow down cases and inflate costsHow judges often rely on facts, not labels7. The Trap of “Sudden Cooperation” Before Trial Why alienating parents often pretend to cooperate right before trialHow parents get trapped in endless cycles of litigation✅ Key Takeaways  Do not lead with the term “parental alienation” in court, lead with facts and child impact.Delays benefit the alienating parent and harm the child, act quickly.False allegations are being used strategically and with little consequence.Court orders mean nothing without real enforcement.A large law firm does NOT guarantee strong representation.You must know exactly who is working on your case, not just the firm name.Experts are not always necessary and often inflate litigation costs.Sudden cooperation right before trial is often manipulation.👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP 📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net How to reach Shawn Philbert https://www.smplaw.ca/www.SMPLaw.ca  SMPLawTeam@smplaw.ca Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents and fight for change. Don’t forget to like, share, and follow for more episodes. 🎙️ Let’s rebuild fractured fami Support the show

    49 min
  5. 12/01/2025

    FFP 64: Inside the Mind of an Alienated Child

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net ✅ SUMMARYIn this interview, Kai shares his deeply personal experience as an alienated child who grew up under the influence of a stepmother who slowly undermined his connection with his father and extended family. He describes how, as a young boy craving maternal warmth, he bonded intensely with his stepmother, only to later realize that he was being manipulated, isolated, and indoctrinated with false beliefs about his father. Kai recounts the subtle and overt tactics used to control him: secrets, fear-based messaging, parentification, financial manipulation, and pressure to align with the stepmother in family conflict. He describes how her escalating conflicts with his father created a chaotic and often unsafe environment. Over time, Kai slowly reconnected with his father, supported by his grandparents, and recognized the manipulation he had experienced. Now as a young adult, he reflects on the ongoing alienation of his siblings and fears for their emotional development, safety, and future. His insight becomes a powerful warning about generational cycles of alienation and the long-term damage it causes. ✅ TALKING POINTSKai explains how lacking a maternal figure made him especially vulnerable to bonding quickly with his stepmother.Subtle Grooming & Control The stepmother used conversations, secrets, and fear-based scenarios to influence Kai.Exposure to Adult Conflict Kai recalls constant arguments, financial stress, legal battles, and adult disclosures he was not developmentally equipped to process.Separation & False Allegations When the relationship dissolved, Kai and his brother were suddenly cut off from the younger siblings.Identity Conflict & Realignment Kai shares the internal confusion and guilt as he began questioning what was real.Ongoing Alienation of Younger Siblings Lily is aware something is wrong and expresses longing for her father and brothers.Impact on Mental Health Lily expressing suicidal thoughts reflects the severe psychological burden she carries.✅ KEY TAKEAWAYS1. Alienation Often Begins Subtly and Feels Like Love at First Children may bond intensely with an alienating parent because the manipulation begins with affection, attention, and approval. 2. Children Are Conditioned Through Stories, Secrets, and Fear Alienating parents often weaponize adult information, fear-based messaging, and loyalty conflicts to rewrite a child’s reality. 3. False Allegations Are a Common Escalation Tactic Coached memories and CPS involvement can be used strategically to sever the child’s attachment to the targeted parent. 4. Alienation Damages Sibling Bonds The separation from siblings is a profound wound that can last a lifetime. 👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP 📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net how to reach Kai InstaGram: Kaimurphy250 Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents and fight for change. Don’t forget to like, share, and follow for more episodes. 🎙️ Let’s rebuild fractured families. Support the show

    47 min
  6. 11/13/2025

    FFP 63: How One Parent Survived the Unthinkable

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net SUMMARYAlejandro shares an emotional and deeply troubling account of how parental alienation consumed his family following his wife’s cancer diagnosis. After years of being the primary caregiver, he suddenly lost his children when his mother-in-law abducted them, used false allegations, manipulated court processes, and exploited a vulnerable, terminally ill parent. His story exposes systemic failures—law enforcement dismissing kidnapping as a “civil issue,” courts approving actions without proper service, judges ignoring legal protections, and property theft occurring alongside the loss of his children. Despite losing contact for nearly two years, facing fabricated narratives, and enduring legal corruption in two countries, Alejandro continues fighting through international Hague proceedings and federal filings. His message to other targeted parents is one of endurance, faith, and refusing to give up—because children, even when alienated, still rely on the targeted parent to keep fighting. TALKING POINTS1. The Beginning: Loving Family & Sudden Crisis Alejandro describes a once-strong 17-year marriage and deep bond with his two young sons.2. The Turning Point: Interference & Abduction His mother-in-law repeatedly violated boundaries and initiated covert alienation.3. System Failure & Court Corruption Alejandro was never properly served because his contact information was intentionally changed by opposing counsel.4. International Legal Battle Alejandro filed a Hague Convention case for the return of his children.Despite laws that prohibit custody changes during Hague actions, the judge proceeded anyway.5. The Children’s Indoctrination His sons have been coached to fear him, reject him, and repeat false narratives.6. A Father’s Resolve Despite nearly two years without contact, he refuses to stop fighting. KEY TAKEAWAYS1. Severe Alienation Often Begins Quietly Subtle behaviors—sleeping arrangements, fear-based cues, exaggerated reactions, laid the foundation for later coercive control. 2. Lack of Legal Safeguards Harms Children Police and courts frequently mislabel abduction and coercive control as “civil matters,” leaving children unprotected. 3. False Allegations Are Powerful Tools Protection orders based on fabricated claims can sever parent-child relationships instantly. 4. Court Misconduct Intensifies Trauma Failure to notify parties, ignored affidavits, and conflicts of interest can derail justice entirely. 5. Alienated Children Repeat What They’ve Been Taught When kids are isolated and indoctrinated, they lose the ability to recall their own experiences. 6. Persistence Is Essential Alejandro’s resilience shows the critical importance of continuing the fight, even when the system fails. 7. Hope Remains Alienated children often reunify later in life once the psychological manipulation lifts. 👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP 📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents and fight for change. D Support the show

    43 min
  7. 11/06/2025

    FFP 62: The Story of a Lithuanian Father’s Loss

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net 🎙️ Episode Summary In this deeply moving episode of Fractured Families, Charity speaks with Mindaugas Kadūnas, a father from Lithuania who shares his harrowing experience of parental alienation, false allegations, and systemic failure. Mindaugas recounts the devastating impact of false sexual abuse allegations, emotional manipulation, and a court system that failed to protect his child from psychological harm. Despite multiple psychological evaluations confirming maternal emotional abuse and alienation, authorities dismissed his concerns, and his daughter remains estranged and fearful. Through grief, fear, and disbelief, Mindaugas continues to fight for justice and awareness. His message is one of perseverance and solidarity with other targeted parents: “If you’re going through this, hold on. Reach out. You’re not alone.” 💬 Talking Points 1. The Beginning How Mindaugas met his wife during a mountain climbing trip while both were exiting previous marriages.2. Family Life and Hope The early joy of fatherhood and the deep bond with his daughter.3. Manipulation and Control The turning point during the building of their home: control over property, finances, and emotional dependency.4. The Breaking Point His attempt to redefine the relationship (open marriage suggestion) led to explosive retaliation.5. The Alienation Begins Immediate narrative shift: he became “the bad guy” and “a danger.”6. False Allegations His wife fabricated sexual abuse accusations, resulting in panic attacks and criminal investigations.7. Systemic Failures Lithuanian child services repeatedly ignored court-verified findings of abuse.8. Complete Estrangement He has not seen or spoken to his daughter in over three and a half years.9. The Emotional Toll Long-term psychological impact: panic attacks, despair, and disbelief at institutional apathy.10. Message to Other Parents “Hold on. I’ve been in a dark place. There is light ahead.”🧩 Key Takeaways Parental alienation is emotional abuse. It destroys trust, identity, and attachment between a child and a loving parent.False allegations are often weaponized in high-conflict custody cases, and even when disproven, the stigma remains.Recovery and awareness are possible through connection, advocacy, and global understanding of alienation dynamics.Systemic change is needed worldwide to protect children from being used as tools of control and revenge.👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP   📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net   Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents and fight for change. Don’t forget to like, share, and follow for more episodes.   🎙️ Let’s rebuild fractured families.  #FracturedFamiliesPodcast #parentalalienationisreal   #FamilyCourtReform #ParentalRights #ChildCustody #Resilience #HopeAndHealing #Podcast #parentalalienation Support the show

    38 min
  8. 10/30/2025

    FFP 61: Its A Marathon, Not a Sprint

    If you want to share your story, please send an email to info@parentalalienationisreal.net 🎙️ Episode Summary In this powerful and emotional episode of The Fractured Families Podcast,  sits down with Jahan Lovecraft, a father from Maine who shares his harrowing story of being erased from his young son’s life. Jahan recounts how a series of false allegations and legal failures led to a complete severance of his relationship with his four-year-old boy. His story exposes the deep dysfunction within the family court system, the misuse of protection orders, and the devastating impact of coercive control. Jahan discusses the events that began with leaving a toxic home environment, only to face shocking accusations and a system that refused to hear evidence — even when psychological evaluations showed the truth. He describes how Maine’s new LD 670 law, recognizing coercive control as abuse, gives him hope for justice and accountability. 💬 Key Talking Points How It Began:Mold contamination forced the family to leave their home.Within weeks, Jahan’s spouse abruptly left, made allegations of abuse, and filed a Protection from Abuse (PFA) order.Legal System Failures:Default judgment granted due to missed court notifications.Judges ignored key evidence, including psychological evaluations and documented proof of the mother’s mental health struggles.Systemic breakdown in Maine’s family court processes — no accountability, lost paperwork, and judicial apathy.Coercive Control and the New Law (LD 670):Jahan’s case is one of the first to leverage LD 670, which classifies coercive control and manipulation as abuse.His pending grievance against the opposing lawyer for unethical conduct may invalidate prior rulings.Erasure, Not Just Alienation:Complete cutoff from communication with his son for over a year.His ex-wife moved to Utah, using fear narratives and false claims to justify the separation.Total erasure of father and paternal family from the child’s life.Resilience and Self-Representation:Importance of learning court procedures, filing motions, and representing oneself (“Go pro se”).Encouragement to observe court hearings to understand biases and strategy.🧠 Key Takeaways The system often fails fit parents: Courts frequently disregard valid evidence and psychological reports.Coercive control is a form of abuse: Maine’s LD 670 law could set precedent for other states.Documentation matters: Keep every record, message, and evaluation — they may become critical evidence.Self-care is survival: The legal process is emotionally brutal; taking breaks is vital to staying grounded.Persistence wins: Justice is slow, but knowledge and perseverance are key to reclaiming parental rights👉 Be my guest! Share your story and join the fight for awareness by signing up here: https://tally.so/r/w710AP 📲 Follow Charity: https://www.facebook.com/ParentalAlienationisReal https://www.tiktok.com/@parentalalienationisreal https://www.instagram.com/parentalalienationisreal/ info@parentalalienationisreal.net Together, we can amplify the voices of alienated parents and fight for change. Don’t forget to like, share, and follow for more episodes. 🎙️ Let’s rebuild fractured families. Support the show

    33 min

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Navigating the emotional and legal challenges of parental alienation and high-conflict family dynamics, the Fractured Families Podcast provides a safe space for parents to share their stories, seek guidance, and find solidarity. Hosted by advocates passionate about children’s rights and family restoration, we dive deep into the untold realities of custody battles, false allegations, and the psychological toll of being alienated from your loved ones.Through heartfelt interviews, expert advice, and empowering discussions, we aim to shed light on the complexities of family court, the impact of narcissistic behavior, and strategies for resilience and healing. Whether you're a parent fighting to reconnect, a supporter seeking understanding, or someone searching for hope amidst the chaos, Fractured Families Podcast is here to inspire, inform, and support you on your journey.Tune in weekly for stories of courage, actionable tips, and a community that truly understands the fight to keep families whole.🌐 Follow: Fractured Families: YouTube | Buzzsprout🌐 @parentalalienationisreal:  | TikTok | Instagram | Facebook🎙️ Hosted by:  Charity Marie  ✉️  info@parentalalienationisreal.net#ParentalAlienation #ParentalAlienationisreal #FathersRights #MothersRights #ChildrensRights #CustodyChallenges #HealingFamilies #ParentalRights