Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Adam Alvarez; Pris Alvarez

Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

  1. 3d ago

    When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No — Listener Q&A

    When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No — In this Quickie episode, Adam and Pris tackle two real listener questions: What do you do when you cross a boundary in the heat of the moment? And what happens when you and your partner just don't want the same things in the lifestyle? Listener Zoya sent a voicemail asking how to stay present in her agreements when things get hot and heavy — and Adam and Pris get real, personal, and surprisingly funny about it. Then a TikTok follower asks about navigating mismatched wants in a couple. Spoiler: you've got more in common with them than you think. In This Episode: Why "horny brain" is real and what to do about it How to set up a rescue signal with your partner The power of the debrief — before AND after Why slow is a superpower in the lifestyle Mismatched interests as a couple — normal or dealbreaker? Connect With Us: 🌐 beyond-monogamy.com — Episodes, show notes, voicemail & anonymous confessional 📻 fullswapradio.com — Live every Thursday 2PM & 7PM Central Upcoming Events: 🎉 Beyond Monogamy at Club Eden – San Antonio | June 20 @ 9PM Central | Membership required: members.edenclubs.com 🎰 Naughty N'Awlins | July 8–14 | New Orleans | beyond-monogamy.com for details ❄️ Krazy Winter Nights – Kansas City | Feb 19–21, 2027 | Code: BEYOMONO This Episode's Sponsor: Snoozy Intimacy Gummies — A vegan, all-natural blend of cannabinoids and aphrodisiacs designed to get you in the mood. Fruit-infused, made in the USA, 30-day satisfaction guarantee. Get 15% off at snwbl.io/snoozy/ADAM89158

    37 min
  2. 6d ago

    Myrina & Tristan of The Accidental Swingers on Jealousy, Aging, and Naughty Nawlins

    This week on Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris sit down with Myrina and Tristan from The Accidental Swingers — and yes, the name is exactly as real as it sounds. These two didn't plan to become swingers. They didn't plan to start a podcast either. And yet here we are. In this episode, they share the full origin story, how they accidentally stumbled into the lifestyle (hint: Uber rides, a dance floor, and a very confused neighbor couple), and what they've learned about jealousy, emotional connection, and aging in the ENM community. Myrina also serves as the Naughty Headmistress for Naughty Nawlins — one of the largest lifestyle events in the world — and gives us the inside scoop on what to expect for 2026. In This Episode: The wild origin story behind The Accidental Swingers name How a secret audio diary became a podcast with thousands of listeners Real talk on jealousy — what it feels like, how to navigate it Menopause, aging, and keeping the lifestyle alive through life's curveballs Everything you need to know about Naughty Nawlins 2026 Accidental Swingers Discord community for Naughty attendees Follow The Accidental Swingers: 🌐 accidentalswingers.com 🎙️ Listen to the Podcast 📺 YouTube | 🐦 Twitter/X | 📸 Instagram 👍 Facebook | 🎵 TikTok 🎬 IMDB 📅 Naughty Nawlins 2026 | July 8–12 | New Orleans naughtyneworleans2026.com Watch the Naughty Guide to Naughty New Orleans live stream and past guides on The Accidental Swingers YouTube channel! 💬 Join The Accidental Swingers Community on Discord! discord.gg/3ShRz8BRn (If the link has expired, email myrina@accidentalswingers.com and she will get you a fresh one.) Don't have Discord? No problem — just create a free account and you're in. Once inside, you'll have limited access until you work through the information channels and click the right buttons. Start in the #-welcome channel, then head to #-further-instructions to introduce yourself in the #-2026-meet-the-group channel and unlock all the Naughty Nawlins 2026 channels. 👩 Ladies: Sign up with your own account and profile, then DM Myrina once you're in the group and she will add you to the private Women's Only Chat Group! 🎉 JOIN US LIVE! Beyond Monogamy at Club Eden San Antonio — June 20th! Grab your Club Eden membership at their website and come party with us! 🎶 Krazy Winter Nights | Kansas City | Feb 19–21, 2027 Presented by Full Swap Radio. Use code BEYOMONO for your discount! 💻 Sponsored by SDC.com — The world's largest online community for open-minded adults. Sign up at sdc.com and use code 38236. 📻 Full Swap Radio — Live streams every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central. fullswapradio.com 🌐 Everything Beyond Monogamy: beyond-monogamy.com Drop your confessions anonymously — we read every single one!

    53 min
  3. May 27

    Killer P***y: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an Ambulance

    What happens when a perfectly normal lifestyle club night suddenly goes sideways — and someone ends up leaving in an ambulance? That's exactly what happened to Adam & Pris this past weekend, and they're holding absolutely nothing back in this week's Quickie. It started as a fun night at the club — good friends, some friendly competition between cubbies, and seriously enthusiastic playtime. Then things took a wild, unexpected turn. One person in their crew ended the night with EMTs, an ER visit, and a wife asking the most legendary question ever uttered at a lifestyle club: "Did you kill my husband?" Spoiler: Pris did not kill anyone. But it absolutely led to a real, honest conversation about lifestyle safety — hydration, knowing your limits, medical conditions, drug and alcohol use at clubs, and what it actually means to look out for each other in this community. In This Quickie: The full, unfiltered story of the night everything went sideways What actually caused the medical emergency (hint: it was NOT Pris) How Club Eden's staff handled it — and handled it beautifully Real talk on lifestyle safety: hydration, heat, drugs, alcohol & underlying health conditions Adam asking Pris THE most uncomfortable question on the walk to the van Why nurses secretly run the swinging world 🎙️ This episode is brought to you by 3Fun — the app built for couples and singles who want to connect with like-minded people. It's easy, low-pressure, and it actually works. We're not just saying that. 👉 Download 3Fun here → 📍 Come hang with us LIVE! We'll be at Club Eden in San Antonio on June 20th. You'll need a Club Eden membership to get in — don't wait on that. Full details at the Events tab on our website. 🎉 Crazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, MO | February 19–21, 2027. Tickets at fullswapradio.com. Use code BEYOMONO for a discount. 📻 Live every Thursday at fullswapradio.com — 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central. Come see us. 🏠 Home base is beyond-monogamy.com — full episodes, quickies, blog, video clips, guest lineup, merch, events, and our 100% anonymous confessional. Drop your story. Zero judgment. You just might end up on a Quickie of your own. Loved this episode? Hit follow, leave us a five-star review on Apple or Spotify, and share it with someone who needs a wild story in their life today. They will not be disappointed.

    31 min
  4. May 24

    More Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary Every Couple Needs to See | Dillon Birdsall & Spark Erotic

    What if somebody finally made the documentary that explains ethical non-monogamy the way it always should have been explained? No sensationalism. No clipboard outsiders. Just real people, real experts, and real community — with humor baked in. This week, Adam & Pris sit down with the three-person creative team behind More Than Monogamy: director Dillon Birdsall of All the Birds LLC, and Urvashi & Kama from Spark Erotic — award-winning erotic filmmakers with 25 films and 11 years in the game. In this episode: How infidelity led Urvashi & Kama into ENM — and why it worked Dillon's origin story: virgin → sex club faster than anyone expected Why they ditched the titillation and went full sex-ed Polyamory vs. polygamy — the confusion that's still hurting the community Jealousy as an early warning system, not just a villain Compersion confessions from all three guests (Pris drops some truth bombs) How Spark Erotic is redefining ethical erotica — from both male and female perspectives Why the kink section got cut (and why that was the right call) The five-year journey — including the mental health walls Dillon had to climb through to finish it 👉 Watch the first 12 minutes FREE and buy the full film for just $10 at morethanmonogamy.com 📍 Everything Beyond Monogamy: beyond-monogamy.com — every episode, the Confessional, merch, guest bios, and our full events calendar. 📺 Catch us live every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM Central at fullswapradio.com. 🎉 Meet us IRL — Friday, June 20th at 9 PM: We'll be at Club Eden San Antonio. Club membership required — get yours sorted before you roll up! ❄️ Krazy Winter Nights — Kansas City, Feb 19–21, 2027. Use code BEYOMONO for your discount. 🔥 Sponsor: This episode is brought to you by SDC.com — the world's largest online community for open-minded adults. Create your profile, explore, and connect with like-minded humans living their lives just like us. Sign up at sdc.com | Code: 38236

    1h 11m
  5. May 20

    Wandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival Guide

    Feeling lost in the lifestyle? You're not alone — and this Quickie is proof. This week, Adam and Pris crack open a confessional from a listener known as Wandering Aimlessly — a woman new to the lifestyle whose husband just changed the entire playbook on her. She came in wanting a bi experience while he watched. Now he wants to play with other women. Cue the jealousy spiral she didn't see coming. In this episode: Why jealousy is NOT the villain — and how to actually navigate it The communication you absolutely must have BEFORE your first experience How to approach women when you're brand new and bi-curious The "kid in a candy store" guy mentality and how the lifestyle humbles men fast Newbie + newbie pairings: Adam and Pris hilariously disagree on this one Predatory couples — what they look like and how to spot them before they spot you Whether you're brand new or a few steps in, this one is for every couple who has ever felt completely lost and too scared to ask the questions they really need answered. You're not wandering aimlessly. You're just getting started. 🌐 Home Base: www.beyond-monogamy.com Drop your 100% anonymous confessional, browse full episodes, quickies, merch, video clips, and our event tab. 📺 Catch Us LIVE: fullswapradio.com Every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central alongside a killer lineup of podcasters in the adult space. 🎟️ EVENTS: June 20 — Club Eden | San Antonio, TX Adam & Pris are live and in person. Come find us. Membership required — all details at beyond-monogamy.com. February 19–21, 2027 — Crazy Winter Nights | Kansas City, MO This will sell out. Use code BEYOMONO at fullswapradio.com and grab your tickets early. 💼 SPONSOR: Alvarez & Co. Tax preparation and bookkeeping — yes, run by Adam and Pris. We contain multitudes. Mention you're a listener for a discount. We've seen things. We will not judge. If you're getting anything out of this show, hit follow, subscribe, and drop a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. Share this episode with somebody who needs it. Costs you nothing. Means everything to us.

    36 min
  6. May 18

    No Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDx Health

    div]:bg-bg-000/50 [&_pre>div]:border-0.5 [&_pre>div]:border-border-400 [&_.ignore-pre-bg>div]:bg-transparent [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.standard-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pl-2 [&_.progressive-markdown_:is(p,blockquote,ul,ol,h1,h2,h3,h4,h5,h6)]:pr-8"> _*]:min-w-0 gap-3 standard-markdown"> Adam and Pris sit down with Dr. Andy Kogelnik — MD, PhD, and infectious disease specialist — to tackle the thing the lifestyle community talks about but rarely does consistently: STI and hormone testing. Between clinic appointments, waiting rooms, insurance paper trails, and plain old anxiety, the system has built more barriers than most people can realistically clear. Dr. Andy built ProDx Health to fix that. Dr. Andy's credentials are serious: MD from Emory, PhD in bioengineering from Georgia Tech, fellowship training in infectious diseases at Stanford, and founder of the Open Medicine Institute. He took the same lab infrastructure he built during COVID and turned it into a CLIA-certified, doctor-reviewed, at-home testing service with 24–48 hour turnaround. No appointment. No waiting room. No insurance claim. The episode breaks down how the kits actually work — a fingertip-sized blood collection device and simple swabs that test for up to 13 pathogens at once, including Mycoplasma genitalium (MGEN), an increasingly common STI most doctors don't even test for. Dr. Andy also explains why oral and rectal sites need separate swabs — something virtually no primary care doctor orders — and how to choose the right panel for your risk level. The conversation takes a surprising turn into PASS certification — the gold standard used by the adult film industry. ProDx is the first lab ever to offer PASS-certified home testing, complete with facial verification and molecular profiling to prevent sample substitution. It's a level of rigor most clinics don't come close to matching. Privacy gets a full treatment too: no medical record, discreet plain-white-box packaging, fully anonymous ordering, and built-in group result sharing for event organizers and play partners. Adam and Pris close with a promise: they're doing the test live on a future episode. Consider this part one. Key Takeaways 42% of STIs present with zero symptoms — testing is the only way to know Most primary care doctors run panels too narrow for people with multiple partners MGEN is rising and requires 2+ weeks of antibiotics — and most doctors skip testing for it Oral and rectal sites need separate swabs — genital/urine tests alone will miss infections ProDX uses a tiny shoulder patch device — no clinic, no phlebotomist, no big needle First lab to achieve PASS certification for home-collected samples Fully anonymous — no insurance trail, discreet packaging, group sharing built in About Dr. Andy Kogelnik MD from Emory, PhD in bioengineering from Georgia Tech, fellowship in infectious diseases at Stanford. Founder of the Open Medicine Institute. Built ProDx Health from COVID-era mobile lab infrastructure. ProDx offers 9 STI panels and 11 hormone panels with CLIA certification and 24–48 hour results. This Episode Is Brought to You by SDC.com Over 25 years connecting open-minded adults. Make a profile and go explore — no judgment, just like-minded humans living their best lives. 👉 sdc.com — Use Code: 38236 Links & Resources prodxhealth.com — All kits getpro13.com — The Pro13 Kit sdc.com — Sponsor / Code: 38236 pass-certified.org — PASS Certification info beyond-monogamy.com — Episodes, merch, events & The Confessional fullswapradio.com — Stream live Upcoming Event 📍 June 20th — Beyond Monogamy at Club Eden, San Antonio, TX Get tested first. With a 24–48 hour turnaround, you'll have results well before the party. 😉 The Beyond Monogamy Confessional Anonymous. No filter. Adam & Pris read every single one. 👉 beyond-monogamy.com If this episode helped you, send it to your play partners, drop it in your group chats, post it in your lifestyle groups. This conversation makes the whole community better. ⭐ Subscribe on Spotify | Apple Podcasts | Leave us a 5-star review

    47 min
  7. May 17

    Disney World, Swingers, and a Wild Night at the Florida Tree House Lifestyle Club

    Adam and Pris just got back from a week-long Florida trip — Disney World with the kids by day, and a night at the Florida Tree House lifestyle club that completely blew their minds. This episode covers all of it: the rides, the food, the play, a very forward woman who gave Adam the blueprint he never knew he needed, and a real conversation about feeling unsexy when life is piling up. Show Notes Disney World Recap Yes, World — not Disneyland (Adam got corrected fast). Six miles a day in brutal humidity. Pris goes deep on the layered kettle corn with chocolate drizzle, M&Ms, and cookie crumbles. Adam eats a turkey leg solo during the parade and has zero regrets. Adam also takes a 100mg gummy before entering the park, panics when security dogs appear at the gate, and nearly bails. He recovers. They ride Tron first. Swingers at Disney Full lifestyle groups organized specifically around Disney trips exist and are thriving. Pris was pineapple-spotting all week. They also debate Disney-themed club nights — Pris draws a firm line. Adam is less opposed. Florida Tree House — Full Venue Breakdown Hidden on private acreage 45 minutes from the city. ID check-in, locked gates at 10pm, indoor playrooms stocked with everything you need (you flip your own sheets), a massive screened-in pool deck, fire pits, BDSM stations, hot tub, sunroom playroom with an 8-person shower, two treehouse playrooms with green/red occupancy signs, a swing bed under the tree, and a vintage firetruck gutted and converted into a play space. Also potluck — someone brought fried chicken. The Play They played twice. A man watching said no when invited, then came back later clearly regretting it. Another approached mid-scene asking for a turn — Pris shut it down cleanly. Management was actively watching rooms all night. Pris shares honest thoughts about single men at lifestyle events. "Slutty Behavior" — A Real Conversation A woman at the end of the night was aggressively flirtatious in a way that finally gave Adam the blueprint to explain what he's been trying to tell Pris for years. Pris grabbed the bags in the moment. Afterward — she got it. New chapter unlocked. Not Feeling Sexy Adam is 30 pounds up. Pris is in mommy makeover consultation territory. They get honest about showing up in the lifestyle when life stress, finances, and fatigue are all hitting at once — and why they went out anyway. Coming Up Naughty N'awlins in July. A spicy Wednesday quickie confessional episode dropping soon. 🎟️ BM LIVE — June 20th, Club Eden San Antonio: beyond-monogamy.com 🌴 Florida Tree House: thefloridatreehouse.fun 📻 Full Swap Radio: fullswapradio.com 🌐 Beyond Monogamy: beyond-monogamy.com 🩺 Sponsored by ProDx Health — Discreet at-home STI testing. Code BEYOMONO for your discount. 👉 Sign up at ProDx Health ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Leave us a review, subscribe, and share the show!

    56 min
  8. May 13

    How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)

    Your profile is your first impression — and Adam & Pris have seen some impressively bad ones. On today's Quickie, they break down exactly what makes a swinger and ENM profile actually attract the right people — and what sends everyone running. In this episode: Why your cover photo being a ceiling fan is costing you connections The face pic debate — privacy vs. actually getting matches What a great bio actually looks like (and what "ask me anything" says about you) Full-body shots, filters, and the danger of catfishing your way into a meetup Why "open to anything" tells people nothing — and specificity is actually sexy The unsolicited explicit opener — just don't Tips for men, tips for couples, and a reminder that there's a lid for every pot --- 🔥 Sponsored by 3Fun If you're building a profile, you need the right app to put it on. 3Fun is built for couples and singles in the lifestyle who want to connect with like-minded people — and it actually works. Easy to use, low pressure, and way less awkward than figuring it all out on your own. 👉 Download 3Fun here --- 📅 Upcoming Event: Adam & Pris will be at Club Eden in San Antonio, TX on June 20th at 9:00 PM. Membership required — visit Club Eden's website to register. Details on the Events tab at beyond-monogamy.com. 📻 Also streaming live on: fullswapradio.com --- 🌐 Find us everywhere: Episodes | Video Clips | Blog | Merch | Guest Bios | Anonymous Confessional 👉 www.beyond-monogamy.com Love the show? Leave us a review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts — it helps people find us and means the world to us. We might even send you some merch! 🙌

    31 min
4.6
out of 5
27 Ratings

About

Welcome to the wild, honest, and hilarious world of Beyond Monogamy—a podcast where longtime lifestyle couple Adam & Pris spill the tea (and sometimes the lube) on all things ethical non-monogamy. From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place. Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy. 🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday. 🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com

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