Wed and Worth It

Melissa Duerr
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Having transparent conversations revolving around budget and the wedding planning journey with newly married brides & couples who invested in their wedding day and asking the question "Was it worth it? "

  1. 11/12/2025

    015. Wedding Bills, Travel Thrills: How to Maximize Your Credit Card Points

    Planning your wedding and dreaming of a free honeymoon? In this episode, we’re breaking down how to maximize your credit card points while planning your big day — from paying vendors strategically to booking travel like a pro. We’ll share our favorite points hacks for engaged couples, the best cards to use for wedding expenses, and how to turn that dream honeymoon (or family trip) into a reality using rewards you already have. Connect with Ricky: The Luxury Honeymooner Course Roame Travel @theluxuryhoneymooner Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    1h 6m

  2. 10/15/2025

    014. A 30k Plan to An 80k Reality: A Mexico City Destination Wedding Full of Family, Food and Experiences

    What happens when your $30K wedding budget turns into $80K? This New York couple planned their destination wedding in Mexico City from afar — juggling time zones, family flying in from the Philippines, and a catering team so good even Vogue took notice. In this episode, we talk about what really goes into planning a wedding overseas, how to balance food, family, and finances, and why sometimes the best memories come from going a little (okay, a lot) over budget. Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    58 min

  3. 06/19/2025

    013. Rain, Guests & Real Numbers: Inside a $180K Newport Wedding

    In this episode of Wed and Worth It, Melissa sits down with Morgan, a 2023 bride and the creator of Vows N Vibes, a refreshingly honest wedding planning community on Instagram. Morgan walks us through her wedding journey—from an unforgettable proposal in Brooklyn to the charming coastal celebration in Newport, Rhode Island. We dive into the realities of budgeting, the emotional rollercoaster of planning, and how Morgan prioritized meaningful guest experiences while balancing cost. From swapping bands last-minute to coordinating yoga classes for guests, Morgan shares the wins, lessons, and moments that made it all worth it. If you're planning a wedding or just love a good story, this one’s packed with practical gems and feel-good vibes. Follow Morgan: https://www.instagram.com/vows.n.vibes/ Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    1 hr

  4. 06/05/2025

    012. A $400K Tappan Hill Wedding: Broadway Vibes and a Surprise Drone Show on NYE

    In this unforgettable episode of Wed and Worth It, Melissa chats with newlyweds Siobhan and Bobby about their dazzling New Year’s Eve wedding in Westchester County. With a budget that expanded from $100K to $400K, the couple prioritized a Broadway-caliber band, phenomenal food, and an emotional, personalized guest experience—including a surprise 10-minute drone show. From vintage chairs to espresso martinis at midnight, this celebration was a masterclass in weaving personal meaning into every detail. If you're planning a wedding that’s anything but ordinary, this one’s for you. Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    51 min

  5. 05/15/2025

    011. $300K in Philly: A Bold, Artistic, Multicultural Celebration

    In this vibrant and deeply thoughtful episode of Wed and Worth It, Melissa chats with Seets about her November wedding in Philadelphia—a celebration that blended Indian and Chinese cultures, bold artistic inspiration, and some serious color. From eloping in their living room with eight friends to a $300K event planned over 18 months, Seets shares the emotional, logistical, and creative highs and lows of pulling off a truly intentional, multicultural celebration. With priorities like guest comfort, photography, and a mood board inspired by Gustav Klimt, she didn’t just plan a wedding—she designed an experience. She also drops one of our favorite lines to date: “Never let your wedding be more beautiful than your marriage.” Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    43 min

  6. 05/01/2025

    010. Grown, Glam, and Sexy: Renee’s $130K Luxe Mountain Wedding

    In this heartfelt and hilarious episode of Wed and Worth It, Melissa sits down with Renee, a newlywed who shares the incredible 22-year journey that led to her luxe mountaintop wedding in West Virginia. From high school science class to long-distance love and a surprise proposal in Santorini, Renee walks us through every detail—from their black-tie ski resort venue to hiking Machu Picchu on their honeymoon (and yes, even adopting a stray kitten along the way). She shares budget realities ($130K including honeymoon), major wins, regrets, and honest advice for anyone planning a wedding they want to remember forever. This one is packed with laughter, real talk, and a gentle reminder to make your wedding day YOURS. Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    58 min

  7. 04/17/2025

    009. Big Island Wedding Planning with Sunshower Weddings: What You Need to Know

    Planning a wedding in Hawaii? On this episode of Wed and Worth It, we chat with Kate from Sunshower Weddings, a Big Island wedding planner with a background as a venue owner (and even a lawyer!). She shares the reality of planning destination weddings, the biggest budgeting mistakes couples make, and why hiring a planner with logistical expertise is a game-changer. From breaking down the hidden costs of a Hawaii wedding to revealing her dream wedding trend (hint: it's all about the caterpillar table ), Kate spills it all. If you're dreaming of a Hawaii wedding or just love a behind-the-scenes look at high-end planning, this one’s for you! Connect with Kate: https://sunshowerweddings.com/ Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    52 min

  8. 04/03/2025

    008. From Elopement to $400K Kiawah Island Wedding: Taylor’s Story

    In this episode of Wed & Worth It, Taylor shares her experience planning a destination wedding on Kiawah Island while navigating family expectations, budgeting, and the unexpected twists that come with wedding planning. From eloping in Nantucket to crafting a wedding that felt more like a luxe dinner party than a traditional event, Taylor dives into what mattered most to her and her husband—and what she wishes she had done differently. Plus, she spills the details on a florist fiasco, why she skipped a bridal party, and how she found the perfect balance between high-end details and laid-back vibes. Was it worth it? Listen in to find out! Connect with Melissa ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@MelissaIvyPhotography⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@WedandWorthit⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://melissaivy.com/

    1 hr
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Having transparent conversations revolving around budget and the wedding planning journey with newly married brides & couples who invested in their wedding day and asking the question "Was it worth it? "

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  • Creator
    Melissa Duerr
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Melissa Duerr
  • Show Website
    Wed and Worth It