My Family Pod

Myerson Solicitors

Welcome to My Family Pod, the go-to podcast for anyone navigating family and relationship challenges in their life.  Each episode, hosted by Myerson’s Family Law experts, will explore the complexities around family life.  Whether you’re seeking advice on resolving disputes or simply aiming to create a more harmonious family structure, our experts are here to provide support and insights.  Tune in to explore interviews with professionals in the family space, offering practical guidance for listeners facing family struggles.  Find us on all major platforms, with new episodes dropping every month!     Connect with us:   LinkedIn: Myerson Solicitors  Instagram: @Myerson.Solicitors  Website: www.myerson.co.uk/ 

  1. 5d ago

    Family Law and Neurodiversity: Improving Access to Justice

    In the latest episode of My Family Pod, host Joe Ferguson, Associate Solicitor in the Family Team at Myerson, is joined by specialist Family Law Barrister Natasha Khalique of Exchange Chambers for an insightful discussion on neurodivergence in family law proceedings. Natasha’s practice spans private and international children law, financial remedy, Schedule 1 and ToLATA matters, and she has developed a nationally recognised specialism in cases involving neurodivergence. As an AuDHD practitioner herself, Natasha combines legal expertise with lived experience to provide highly attuned advocacy for neurodivergent clients in complex and sensitive cases. Drawing on her recently published book, A Practical Guide to Neurodivergence in Family Law, Natasha explores the practical realities of navigating the family justice system as a neurodivergent individual and the steps practitioners can take to improve access to justice. In this episode, Joe and Natasha discuss: • What neurodiversity and neurodivergence mean in practice • The common barriers neurodivergent individuals face in family court proceedings • Why legal language, procedure and court environments can create additional challenges • The benefits of alternative dispute resolution, including mediation and private Financial Dispute Resolution hearings • How clients can advocate for their own needs and request reasonable adjustments • The importance of practitioners identifying vulnerability early and throughout proceedings • The role of the “All About Me” document in supporting effective communication • The risks and opportunities of artificial intelligence for neurodivergent litigants • Natasha’s personal experience as a neurodivergent barrister and how it has shaped her practice • What progress still needs to be made across the family justice system This episode offers valuable insight for family law professionals, individuals involved in family proceedings, and anyone interested in improving inclusivity and accessibility within the legal system. 🎧 Listen now to gain a better understanding of how neurodivergence intersects with family law, and why tailored support can make a significant difference.

    46 min
  2. May 15

    Supported & Supervised Contact: Expert Guidance for Separated Families

    In this episode of My Family Pod, Sarah Whitelegge, Legal Director in the Family Team at Myerson Solicitors, is joined by Elaine Stokes, Director of Child Arrangement Resolutions, to discuss how specialist social work support can help families navigate child contact arrangements following separation. Together, they explore how supported and supervised contact arrangements work, when they may be needed, and how bespoke, child-focused interventions can help rebuild relationships, reduce conflict, and support positive outcomes for children. The conversation also covers the role of independent social workers, Section 7 reports, high-conflict parenting situations, relocation cases, safeguarding concerns, and practical ways families can be supported both inside and outside of court. Whether you are a separated parent, family professional, or simply looking to better understand child arrangement issues, this episode offers practical insight into how the right support can help families move forward. In this episode, we discuss: What supported and supervised child contact meansHow community-based and virtual contact arrangements workCommon misconceptions about supervised contactThe role of independent social workers in family proceedingsWhat Section 7 reports are and when they may helpSupporting children where relationships have broken downManaging safeguarding concerns and high-conflict parentingHelping children maintain relationships safelySupporting handovers and reducing parental conflictRelocation cases and assessing a child’s best interestsHow early intervention may help families avoid lengthy court proceedings Guest Elaine Stokes Director - Child Arrangement Resolutions https://childarrange.com/ Listen to My Family Pod If you would like to learn more about surrogacy law or other modern family issues, explore the full My Family Pod series where our family law specialists discuss the legal topics shaping families today. Learn more about Myerson Family Law: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

    27 min
  3. Apr 2

    Family Law Without Court: A Practical Guide to Mediation, Arbitration and Collaborative Solutions

    In this episode of My Family Pod, partners Nicola Bright and Jane Tenquist, Head of Family Law, take a candid look at the realities of the family court process and explore the more effective alternatives available to separating couples. They discuss the increasing pressures on the court system, including delays, rising costs, last-minute cancellations, and the emotional toll on families. Crucially, they explain why court proceedings should often be viewed as a last resort rather than the default route. The episode provides a practical and informative guide to alternative dispute resolution options, helping individuals understand how they can resolve matters more efficiently, cost-effectively, and constructively. What We Cover The challenges within the family court system  Lengthy delays and limited judicial availability  Rising legal costs, often reaching significant sums  Hearings being cancelled at short notice  Inconsistent judicial experience in complex family matters  The emotional strain of contested proceedings Key risks when handling divorce without legal support  Financial claims remaining open despite divorce  The importance of securing a financial clean break order  Ensuring agreements meet fairness criteria under the law Alternative dispute resolution options explained Mediation  A cost-effective, structured process to resolve disputes  Encourages communication and cooperation  Options for shuttle mediation and child-inclusive mediation Private Financial Dispute Resolution (FDR)  A privately instructed judge provides an early case evaluation  Greater flexibility, time, and control compared to court  Higher likelihood of reaching a settlement sooner Arbitration  A binding decision made by a chosen expert  Faster, confidential, and highly flexible  Particularly useful where a definitive outcome is needed One Lawyer, Two Client Model (Resolution First)  A single solicitor acts for both parties  Streamlined, cost-effective, and collaborative  Suitable for couples with a strong foundation of trust and communication Collaborative Law  Four-way meetings involving both parties and their solicitors  Focus on constructive, non-confrontational negotiation  Access to additional professionals such as financial advisers where needed Useful links Jane Tenquist – Meet the team:  https://www.myerson.co.uk/people/jane-tenquist Nichola Bright – Meet the team:  https://www.myerson.co.uk/about/meet-the-team/nichola-brightMyerson Solicitors – Family mediation services:  https://www.myerson.co.uk/services/family-law/mediation

    30 min
  4. Mar 11

    Surrogacy Law Uncovered: Parental Orders, International Surrogacy and the Legal Risks Explained

    In this episode of My Family Pod, Myerson family lawyers Nichola Bright and Joe Ferguson are joined by Toby Craddock, Barrister at Deans Court Chambers, to explore the complex and evolving legal landscape of surrogacy in England and Wales. Surrogacy can offer a pathway to parenthood for many families, yet the legal framework governing it remains intricate and, in many respects, outdated. In this discussion, the panel explains how the law currently works, highlights common misconceptions, and considers how international surrogacy arrangements and potential legal reforms may shape the future of family law. The conversation provides practical insight into how parental orders operate, the risks involved in international surrogacy, and why obtaining early legal advice is essential for intended parents navigating this journey. What We Cover in This Episode The difference between adoption and surrogacy and why a genetic link is usually required for a parental orderThe legal position at birth in surrogacy arrangements and why the surrogate is initially recognised as the legal parentParental orders explained: what they are, why they are transformative, and the criteria the court applies when deciding whether to grant themKey legal requirements and time limits, including the six-month application windowConsent from the surrogate and why it remains a fundamental requirement in surrogacy casesInternational surrogacy arrangements, including the legal and practical risks of pursuing treatment abroadImmigration, nationality and travel complications that can arise following overseas surrogacyCosts, expenses and the legal distinction between altruistic and commercial surrogacy in the United KingdomRecent case law and real-world examples illustrating how the courts approach complex surrogacy disputesProposed surrogacy law reforms from the Law Commission, including a potential new pathway to legal parenthoodGlobal perspectives on surrogacy, including recent legislative changes in countries such as Italy Why This Episode Matters Although only several hundred parental orders are granted each year in England and Wales, surrogacy continues to grow as a route to parenthood. However, the law underpinning these arrangements relies on legislation that predates many modern family structures and medical advances. Understanding the legal framework, particularly where international arrangements are involved, is vital for intended parents, surrogates and professionals advising families. Guest Toby Craddock Barrister, Deans Court Chambers Toby specialises in family law with particular experience in surrogacy and modern family matters. In addition to his practice, he serves as Secretary to the Greater Manchester Family Law Bar Association and sits on the Manchester Family Justice Board. Listen to My Family Pod If you would like to learn more about surrogacy law or other modern family issues, explore the full My Family Pod series where our family law specialists discuss the legal topics shaping families today. Learn more about Myerson Family Law: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law

    42 min
  5. Jan 21

    Mediation, Not Court: How Separating Families Can Resolve Conflict Constructively

    In this episode of My Family Pod, Jane Tenquist, Head of Family Law at Myerson Solicitors, is joined by Maura McKibbin, accredited family mediator and family separation specialist, to demystify family mediation and explain how it can help separating couples resolve issues without going to court. Together, Jane and Maura explore what mediation really involves, when it works best, and how it fits alongside legal advice. The conversation offers practical guidance for separating couples, parents, and anyone considering alternatives to court proceedings. In this episode, we discuss: What family mediation is and how it differs from the court processWhen mediation can be used during separation and divorceWhy mediation is voluntary, confidential and future-focusedHow the mediation process works in practice, from initial meetings to joint sessionsThe role of solicitors alongside mediation and why legal advice remains essentialManaging power imbalances, including differences in financial knowledge or confidenceWhen mediation may not be suitable and what alternative options are availableHow mediation can support parents in creating practical, child-focused arrangementsThe involvement of children in mediation and when child-inclusive mediation may be appropriateCosts, funding options, legal aid and the mediation voucher schemeJane and Maura also discuss how mediation can help parents improve communication, reduce conflict, and build sustainable co-parenting arrangements that adapt as children grow and circumstances change. This episode is particularly helpful for separating couples who want to understand their options clearly and make informed decisions about how best to resolve financial and parenting issues. About the guest Maura McKibbin is an accredited family mediator and family separation specialist based in Altrincham. She supports individuals and couples through separation by providing a structured, neutral and supportive environment to resolve financial and parenting matters outside of court.  Useful links Jane Tenquist – Meet the team:  https://www.myerson.co.uk/people/jane-tenquist Myerson Solicitors – Family mediation services:  https://www.myerson.co.uk/services/family-law/mediation  Maura McKibbin – Family mediation and separation support:  https://mauramckibbin.com

    46 min
  6. 10/29/2025

    The Co-Parenting Method: Raising Happy Kids After Separation with Marcie Shaoul

    🔍 Episode Overview: In this episode, family lawyer Joe Ferguson is joined by Marcie Shaoul, certified coach and author of The Co-Parenting Method: Six Steps to Raise Happy Kids After Separation and Divorce. Together, they explore how separated parents can move from conflict to collaboration, with practical tools for managing emotions, setting boundaries, and putting children’s needs first. The discussion also highlights how Marcie’s framework is helping both families and professionals rethink what effective co-parenting looks like. Together they discuss: Why developing a long-term mindset is essential to successful co-parentingHow to manage strong emotions and avoid communication “flare-ups”The importance of healthy boundaries and mutual respectThe difference between co-parenting and parallel parenting — and when each approach is appropriateHow small shifts in behaviour can transform family dynamics and reduce conflictHow practitioners can use The Co-Parenting Method as an early-intervention tool to support clients outside the courtroom🧠 Key Takeaways: Co-parenting isn’t about friendship — it’s about creating a stable, low-conflict environment where children can thrive.A calm, child-focused approach reduces emotional fallout and helps children feel secure across both homes.The Co-Parenting Method gives parents a clear, six-step framework to communicate effectively and make lasting, child-centred decisions.Professionals can recommend the book and online programme to empower clients early in their separation journey.📚 Resources & Links: Learn more about Myerson Family Law: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-law Discover The Co-Parenting Method: https://thecoparentingmethod.com Buy the book: The Co-Parenting Method: Six Steps to Raise Happy Kids After Separation and Divorce (available on Amazon and major retailers) 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe to My Family Pod on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favourite podcast platform. Don’t forget to rate and review to help others discover the show! 💼 Keywords & Topics: Family Law, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Parenting After Separation, Communication, Emotional Regulation, Boundaries, Parallel Parenting, Child Wellbeing, Mediation, Parenting Plans, Family Coaching, Resolution, Conflict Reduction, Myerson Solicitors

    56 min
  7. 10/03/2025

    Tech, Safety & Co-Parenting: Inside Our Family Wizard

    How can technology support healthier co-parenting, and what happens when it’s misused? 🔍 Episode Overview: In this episode, family lawyer Joe Ferguson is joined by Katie Deans from Our Family Wizard to explore the role of technology in family law. From tackling the risks of call spoofing and AI-powered abuse to building safer, more effective communication between separated parents, the conversation shines a light on both the challenges and opportunities that digital tools bring to co-parenting. Together they discuss: How abusers exploit tools like call spoofing and voice cloning, and how families can protect themselvesWhy accountability and transparency are key to effective co-parenting communicationThe features that make Our Family Wizard a trusted tool for parents and professionals, including ToneMeter® and AI-powered message redraftingOptions for child, third-party and professional accounts, and how these support wider family networksPricing, fee waivers and accessibility, ensuring the app is available to all families who need it 🧠 Key Takeaways: Technology can be misused in abusive situations — but it can also create safer spaces for co-parenting communication.Features like uneditable messaging, timestamped calls and ToneMeter® help parents remain accountable and child-focused.Our Family Wizard offers flexibility, from affordability options to professional access, making it a valuable tool in family law practice. 📚 Resources & Links: Learn more about Myerson Family Law: https://www.myerson.co.uk/personal/family-lawExplore Our Family Wizard: www.ourfamilywizard.co.uk 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe to My Family Pod on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favourite podcast platform. Don’t forget to rate and review! 💼 Keywords & Topics: Family Law, Co-Parenting, Divorce, Technology in Family Law, Domestic Abuse, AI Voice Cloning, Call Spoofing, Parental Communication, Accountability, Our Family Wizard, ToneMeter, Parenting Plans, Legal Tech, Child Contact, Family Disputes, Professional Access

    31 min
  8. 07/28/2025

    Divorces, Millions & Money Trails: Inside the World of Forensic Accountants

    What really happens when divorce lawyers team up with financial detectives to uncover hidden assets, shady spending, and the truth behind business valuations.  🔍 Episode Overview: When it comes to divorce, it's not just about the family home or savings, business interests can be some of the most complex and contested assets in the process.  In this episode, family lawyer Nichola Bright explores the critical role that forensic accountancy plays in financial settlements on divorce, especially where business valuations are concerned. Joined by expert forensic accountants Natalie Jones and Jack Clitheroe from Begbies Traynor, the discussion delves into: What forensic accounting really involves and how it differs from traditional accountingHow businesses are valued during a divorce and what methods are used (e.g., earnings-based vs. net asset-based)The role of Single Joint Experts (SJE) and shadow accountants in financial disputesKey considerations in minority shareholdings and lifestyle analysisRed flags for hidden assets or unusual spending patternsReal-world examples including agricultural and family-run businessesHow forensic insight helps manage client expectations and drive fair outcomes 🧠 Key Takeaways: Forensic accountants bring invaluable problem-solving skills and financial insight to divorce cases involving complex assets.Early involvement of a forensic accountant can help close the information gap between spouses particularly when one partner runs the business.Business valuation isn't just about numbers; it involves context, control, market comparisons, and sometimes, digging into past financial conduct.Forensic accountants play both independent and advisory roles to support solicitors and protect client interests. 📚 Resources & Links: Learn more about Myerson Family Law Services: www.myerson.co.ukConnect with Begbies Traynor Group: www.begbies-traynorgroup.comExplore guidance on business valuations in divorce and when to seek expert input 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Subscribe to My Family Pod on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or your favourite podcast platform. Don’t forget to rate and review! 💼 Keywords & Topics: Family Law, Divorce, Finances on Divorce, Forensic Accountancy, Divorce Lawyer, Business Valuation, Minority Shareholding, Hidden Assets, Divorce Settlements, Single Joint Expert, Shadow Accountant, Matrimonial Finances, Director Loan Accounts, Lifestyle Analysis, Cryptocurrency in Divorce, Farming Businesses, Contentious Valuations, Court Proceedings, Family Business Disputes

    34 min

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Welcome to My Family Pod, the go-to podcast for anyone navigating family and relationship challenges in their life.  Each episode, hosted by Myerson’s Family Law experts, will explore the complexities around family life.  Whether you’re seeking advice on resolving disputes or simply aiming to create a more harmonious family structure, our experts are here to provide support and insights.  Tune in to explore interviews with professionals in the family space, offering practical guidance for listeners facing family struggles.  Find us on all major platforms, with new episodes dropping every month!     Connect with us:   LinkedIn: Myerson Solicitors  Instagram: @Myerson.Solicitors  Website: www.myerson.co.uk/