What happens when following Jesus starts to feel more like another thing on your to-do list than a relationship that brings you joy? In this episode of the Not Just Waiting Podcast, I'm joined by Em Tyler, founder of Grow & Go, pastor at heart, and author of The Power of Again: Come As You Are, Grow Your Faith, and Go the Distance with Jesus, releasing November 13, 2026. Em is passionate about helping ordinary, everyday Christians grow in their faith without getting caught up in pressure, performance, or the expectation to have everything figured out. Together, we talk about what it looks like to keep following Jesus when life doesn't go according to plan, when waiting feels long, and when your faith doesn't feel as joyful as it once did. Em shares honestly about leaving a life and community she loved in New Zealand, returning to the UK when she didn't want to, and walking through a season when she felt hurt, broken, and completely out of her depth. Her story is a reminder that God can still be at work in us, even when we're struggling to see the good in our circumstances. We also talk about the pressure many of us put on ourselves to be the “good Christian girl,” why we sometimes turn spiritual disciplines into expectations we have to perform, and how to make room for honesty when we're frustrated, disappointed, or even angry with God. In this conversation, we explore: Why following Jesus was never meant to be about pressure or performance. What to do when you're tired of waiting and wondering whether God hears you. How to be honest with God about your disappointment, doubt, and frustration. Why difficult seasons can shape our faith in ways we wouldn't choose for ourselves. How Scripture helps us remember who God is when our feelings tell us something different. What the stories of Hannah, Hagar, John the Baptist, and Paul teach us about being seen by God. Why you don't have to fix everything yourself or earn your way back into God's presence. How to rediscover joy, intimacy with Jesus, and the courage to keep going. If you've ever wondered whether you're doing enough, whether you should be further along in your faith, or whether God is still working in the middle of your waiting, this conversation is for you. You are not a lesser Christian because you're struggling. You don't have to pretend everything is fine. And you are not waiting alone. Connect with Em Tyler Learn more about Em's book, The Power of Again, and pre-order bonuses: https://thepowerofagain.com Explore her ministry, Grow & Go, and find her podcast and weekly devotions. A question to reflect on: Where might God be inviting you to come to Him honestly, release the pressure to get everything right, and believe again? If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who needs the reminder that she is seen, loved, and not forgotten. Subscribe to the Not Just Waiting Podcast for more honest conversations about trusting Jesus, navigating uncertainty, and learning to wait well and live fully.