Married Not Married

Julius and Jamell
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Still married after 25+ years, and the other divorced after 14 years! Join Julius and Jamell each week as they dive into the unique dualities of marriage and divorce. With humor, honesty, and raw vulnerability, they unpack the mental pain of divorce and the hardships of marriage. Tough questions like, How is life after divorce? What led to the decision to divorce? What keeps a marriage strong? Is there a secret to staying married? Through raw conversations, thought-provoking debates and personal stories, this podcast offers relatable insights into love, commitment, and starting over.

  1. 07/24/2025

    "Ghost-Proof & Growing Pains"

    In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius steps boldly into emotional maturity, he’s no longer haunted by the woman who ghosted him and has finally confronted the feelings that lingered. It’s healing, it’s honest, and it’s a major step forward. Meanwhile, Jamell opens up about the quiet shifts that come with long-term love, namely, the emotional and physical rollercoaster of his wife navigating pre-menopause and menopause. From mood swings to misunderstood signals, he talks about learning to adjust, support, and grow through the changes instead of running from them. It’s a vulnerable and grown-up conversation about how love evolves, bodies change, and ghosts eventually lose their grip.

    1h 5m

  2. 07/10/2025

    "Ghosts Don’t Travel, But They Text: Beach Days & Unfinished Business"

    After a much-needed two-week break, Julius and Jamell return with fresh experiences and even fresher perspective. Julius sets out on his first vacation as a single man, enjoying the thrill of solo freedom—until, just before heading home, a haunting message shows up from the woman who ghosted him months ago. Meanwhile, Jamell reflects on what it meant to travel without his wife and how distance sometimes sharpens clarity. Together, the duo unpacks what it really means to move on, why some ghosts come back, and how to know when to respond—or leave the past on read.

    1h 3m

  3. 06/19/2025

    "Her Sixth Sense Don’t Miss: Miles Apart, She Still Knows"

    In this eye-opening episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell dive into the power of a woman’s intuition—how that unexplainable “knowing” shows up in relationships, especially when things start to feel off. They unpack the hard line when it comes to adultery and why there’s absolutely no room for it in a committed relationship. Jamell even shares how his wife’s sixth sense kicks in so strong, she can call out his vibe from another country. From gut feelings to emotional accountability, this episode is all about honoring trust and respecting that deep inner radar most women carry like a superpower.

    50 min

  4. 06/12/2025

    "Ghosted by the One I Ghosted: The Full Circle Fadeout"

    In this heartfelt continuation from Episode 22, Julius finally opens up about a long-lost heartbreak woven through years of missed chances and unexpected encounters. It all started with a girl he left hanging before prom—back when they were “just friends.” Years later, fate brings her back into his life as his son’s preschool teacher. And after his divorce, he takes a shot at redemption… only to find the tables turned. As the story unfolds, Jamell digs even deeper—challenging what love really means, how timing shapes our connections, and whether the past ever truly stays in the past. This episode delivers laughs, vulnerability, and the kind of real talk that leaves you thinking long after it’s over.

    1h 30m

  5. 06/05/2025

    "Same Pain, New Name"

    In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius opens up about the raw heartbreak of dating after divorce—and how the playbook he once used no longer works in today’s game. Vulnerable and frustrated, he shares how much the dating world has changed and why it's hitting harder than expected. Jamell doesn’t sugarcoat it either. He lays down the hard truth about men who rush into new relationships too soon—only to find themselves in the exact same emotional mess, just with a different name and face. New woman, same damn problems. This episode is honest, unfiltered, and full of those real talk moments every divorced man (and woman) needs to hear.

    1h 4m

  6. 05/22/2025

    "Crib, Chaos & Commitment: When Children Shake the Foundation"

    In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell explore how the arrival of kids can flip the script on a marriage. What was once date nights and quiet mornings becomes diaper duty and sleepless nights—and not every couple is prepared for the shift. Jamell doesn’t hold back as he shares his frustration with how some men react under parenting pressure, while also dropping some priceless wisdom his therapist gave him that helped reshape his approach to marriage and fatherhood. This one’s for the parents, the soon-to-bes, and the couples navigating love in the middle of Lego land.

    1h 15m

  7. 05/15/2025

    "Slurred Lines & Side-Eye Vibes"

    After a couple of drinks, Julius and Jamell get too honest about the fine line between open communication and stepping on landmines. Jamell may have talked himself into the doghouse, and Julius picks up on some serious energy from Jamell’s wife. From miscues to misreads, they explore how even the best intentions can backfire—and how a little liquid courage doesn’t always help.

    1 hr

  8. 05/08/2025

    "In Trust We Crumble: What Trust Built, Doubt Destroyed"

    In this episode of Married Not Married, Julius and Jamell peel back the layers of one of the most essential—but fragile—pillars of any relationship: trust. What does trust really mean? How is it built, and how is it broken? For Julius, the absence of trust was the quiet force that ultimately unraveled his marriage. Together, they examine the ways trust is earned, protected, and sometimes lost—forever.

    57 min
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Still married after 25+ years, and the other divorced after 14 years! Join Julius and Jamell each week as they dive into the unique dualities of marriage and divorce. With humor, honesty, and raw vulnerability, they unpack the mental pain of divorce and the hardships of marriage. Tough questions like, How is life after divorce? What led to the decision to divorce? What keeps a marriage strong? Is there a secret to staying married? Through raw conversations, thought-provoking debates and personal stories, this podcast offers relatable insights into love, commitment, and starting over.

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  • Creator
    Julius and Jamell
  • Years Active
    2024 - 2025
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Julius and Jamell
  • Show Website
    Married Not Married