The Unfiltered CEO

IlluminEssence Creations

Welcome to The Unfiltered CEO, where we share real stories of the ups and downs of entrepreneurship. Your host, Abby Bradetich of IlluminEssence Creations, is a business owner, brand & web designer, visibility strategist, and embodiment mentor always down for a dance party. In this podcast, we’ll dive into the authentic experiences of owning a business that you don’t always see online - the highs, the lows, and every spicy bit in-between. We’ll cover mindset, online presence, business, embodiment, social media, brand, and so much more as we turn our unfiltered stories into inspiring, actionable takeaways. In my corner of the internet, we say f**k the rules, aren’t afraid to make moves, and care more about things feeling good than comparing to what else you see online. No matter what stage of business you’re in, you’re welcome here! So grab a glass of wine or get out for your daily walk, and let’s get into it, girl!

  1. 6d ago

    Your Revenue Isn't Telling You the Whole Story with Christy Bowie

    You can know exactly how much revenue your business is bringing in and STILL have no f*****g idea whether you're making the right decisions for its future 👀 Because understanding your finances isn't just about tracking what's coming in and going out. It's about knowing what those numbers actually MEAN, how to use them to make intentional decisions, and whether the business you're building is supporting the life you really want. This week I'm joined by Christy Bowie, founder of Christy Bowie Financial Solutions, where she provides CFO-level advisory services for service-based founders. And we're getting into everything from profitability and financial forecasting to money energetics, receiving support, and why more isn't always better. Because building a successful business isn't about endlessly growing, optimizing, and doing more. It's about having the clarity and confidence to make decisions that are actually aligned with YOU.   In this episode, we talk about: Christy's journey from corporate accounting to entrepreneurship and why she's passionate about helping women actually understand their business finances Why knowing your revenue isn't enough - and how to identify opportunities for growth that aren't limited by your time or capacity Using your financial numbers to make intentional decisions around growth, investments, and the future of your business instead of guessing and hoping for the best Why MORE doesn't always mean BETTER, and how to check in with what you actually want before making big business decisions Our experiences letting go of some of our highest-revenue-generating offers because they no longer aligned with where we wanted to go Navigating the natural highs and lows of entrepreneurship through financial projections, forecasting, and planning ahead The energetics of money and creating a greater sense of safety, trust, and nervous system regulation around your finances Why Christy recommends paying yourself a consistent monthly amount rather than a percentage of your revenue How Christy and her team approach financial conversations with their clients - being honest about the numbers while helping them see what's possible Why personalized support matters and how Christy's desire to make financial information more accessible inspired her to develop her own software Understanding when a strategic investment might be worth making, even if it doesn't necessarily look like the smartest move on paper Learning to receive support, ask for help, and recognize that you don't have to figure everything out on your own Letting go of the pressure to constantly optimize every part of your business and life - and giving yourself permission to have some f*****g fun Why there isn't always something to fix about yourself or your business when things aren't going exactly how you planned Christy's passion for endurance horseback riding, what competing looks like, and the role it's played in her life outside of business Connect with Christy on Instagram and her website Get a copy of her Founder Scorecard: a great intro into forecasting Learn more about her services The Operator: Luxe Bookkeeping and The Trailblazer: CFO Consulting   SPECIAL 34th BIRTHDAY OFFERS $134 Website + Sales Page Audit: For the founder getting website traffic but not enough inquiries or sales (or gearing up for a big launch), I'll give you a private video audit of one page with expert feedback on your positioning, messaging, copy + design, and the top 3 changes I'd make to help turn more visitors into clients 🔥 $340 Clarity + Strategy Session: Your business. My brain. Let's figure some shit out! Whether you're navigating an offer, business decision, messaging, visibility, or a bigger shift in how you're showing up, we'll spend 60 private minutes getting strategic, seeing things differently, and making some f*****g moves ✨ $3,400 3-Month Private Mentorship: For the woman ready to make some big moves and have me IN her corner while she does it, this 3-month mentorship combines monthly private coaching calls, ongoing Telegram support, and personalized strategy + identity work to help you lead, grow, and actually implement what's next 🦋 Only 2 spots available. All three birthday offers are available through October 30th or until spots sell out!🥳   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER THE SHIFT 30-Day Private Mentorship: For the woman who can feel something shifting in her business or life and is ready to get clear on what comes next, this 30-day private mentorship combines strategy, identity + embodiment to align who you’re being and what you’re building with where you actually want to go - and start f*****g moving toward it ❤️‍🔥 Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Limited to 7 total spots. re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases.   FREE RESOURCES Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

  2. Oct 20

    Real-Time Reflections: 34 & Done With My Own B******t

    Tomorrow I turn 34, and apparently we're using this week's episode to process allllll the feelings about that in real time. 😂 I've always looked at my birthday as my own personal New Year - a chance to reflect on who I've become, what's changed, what I've created, and what I want for the year ahead. And while I have SO much to be grateful for and genuinely love about my life, I'm also navigating the reality that some things don't look quite how I imagined they would by this age. Especially in my business. This episode is a very real, very unfiltered look at the patterns I've been recognizing around worthiness, control, trust, and receiving - and the realization that I might be ready to break up with the version of myself who's been holding on so f*****g tightly to how everything needs to happen.   In this episode, I'm talking about: Turning 34, using my birthday as a personal New Year, and navigating the gap between the life I imagined and the one I'm actually living Feeling incredibly grateful for my life while still finding myself in the messy middle of some big shifts Revisiting my worthiness wound and recognizing how often I've looked to my business to prove my value What I've been learning about my undefined centers in Human Design and how that's helping me understand some of my patterns Why the same limiting beliefs keep showing up even when you thought you'd already worked through that shit Recognizing that taking action has become my safe place - and learning to question whether I'm acting from alignment or a need for control Why intentionally doing LESS has felt so uncomfortable, even when I know it's what I need Learning to trust myself, my work, and my business when things are going WELL - not just trusting that I can handle things when they're hard My relationship with receiving support and challenging the belief that I have to constantly DO something to deserve more How my eldest-daughter energy, perfectionism, over-planning, and need to be responsible for everything have followed me into entrepreneurship The parallels between reclaiming my freedom after my divorce and what I'm now ready to reclaim in my business Why I'm ready to draw a line in the sand, let go of the f*****g chokehold I've had on my business, and rewrite the rules - even if I don't know exactly what that looks like yet Because here's what I'm realizing: I don't have to wait for my circumstances to change before I decide to change how I'm showing up within them. I don't have to keep proving that I'm worthy, that my work is valuable, or that I'm doing enough. I don't have to keep taking action just to feel like I'm in control. And I definitely don't have to keep following rules I created for myself that no longer serve the woman I'm becoming. Maybe turning 34 is my line-in-the-sand moment. Maybe this is where I finally decide that I'm done doing business this way - even before I know what comes next. And maybe there's a version of that decision waiting for you, too. Where are you ready to draw your own f*****g line in the sand?   SPECIAL 34th BIRTHDAY OFFERS $134 Website + Sales Page Audit: For the founder getting website traffic but not enough inquiries or sales (or gearing up for a big launch), I'll give you a private video audit of one page with expert feedback on your positioning, messaging, copy + design, and the top 3 changes I'd make to help turn more visitors into clients 🔥 10 audits available. $340 Clarity + Strategy Session: Your business. My brain. Let's figure some shit out! Whether you're navigating an offer, business decision, messaging, visibility, or a bigger shift in how you're showing up, we'll spend 60 private minutes getting strategic, seeing things differently, and making some f*****g moves ✨ 5 sessions available. $3,400 3-Month Private Mentorship: For the woman ready to make some big moves and have me IN her corner while she does it, this 3-month mentorship combines monthly private coaching calls, ongoing Telegram support, and personalized strategy + identity work to help you lead, grow, and actually implement what's next 🦋 Only 2 spots available. All three birthday offers are available through October 30th or until spots sell out! 🥳   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER THE SHIFT 30-Day Private Mentorship: For the woman who can feel something shifting in her business or life and is ready to get clear on what comes next, this 30-day private mentorship combines strategy, identity + embodiment to align who you’re being and what you’re building with where you actually want to go - and start f*****g moving toward it ❤️‍🔥 Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Limited to 7 total spots. re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases. Embodied Expansion Retreat — September 23-26 2027 | Colorado mountains: For the woman who's ready to expand her business without leaving herself behind, this 4-day immersive experience brings together strategy, identity, embodiment, visibility, genuine sisterhood, and a whole lot of FUN so you can reconnect with yourself, own your leadership, and create what’s next from who you are NOW 🏔️ 4 early bird spots available.   FREE RESOURCES Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

  3. Oct 13

    Looking Successful Isn't the Same as Making Money with Allie Blair Dorman

    There's a BIG difference between looking like you're running a successful business and actually building one that's profitable, sustainable, and supports the life you want to live. And sometimes the things keeping you from making more money have a whole lot less to do with your actual numbers than you think 👀 This week I'm joined by Allie Blair Dorman, Bookkeeper, Business Consultant, and self-proclaimed cool accountant, for a conversation that goes WAY beyond bookkeeping. We're talking money, pricing, branding, boundaries, breaking old patterns, and why owning a business might just be one of the biggest personal growth journeys you'll ever go on. Because your finances, your mindset, your messaging, and the way you show up in your business are a whole lot more connected than you might realize.   In this episode, we talk about: Allie's unconventional journey into bookkeeping, learning finances the hard way, and eventually building her own business How COVID became a turning point for her health, family, and entrepreneurship Why so many of us grow up knowing absolutely nothing about money, taxes, debt, or investing Learning to charge more, stop overworking, pay off debt, and build a business that actually makes money The difference between looking successful and actually being profitable Why Allie's approach is "bookkeeping AND" - supporting clients with the bigger business decisions and challenges behind their numbers Understanding the difference between being able to afford something and whether it's actually a smart investment for your business Why rebranding isn't just about getting a new logo - and why new visuals won't magically fix your positioning, messaging, or sales problems What happens when you finally start charging prices that reflect the value of your work How underpricing impacts your confidence, workload, and the kinds of clients you attract Why Allie charges for discovery calls and how to decide whether that approach makes sense for your business The difference between how we show up for low-ticket versus high-ticket investments How entrepreneurship forces us to confront old patterns around money, relationships, boundaries, and self-worth Letting go of feeling responsible for your clients' actions and results Unlearning the roles we've taken on throughout our lives and breaking negative financial cycles Why having support can help you separate emotions from business decisions Why you shouldn't have to CONVINCE someone to work with you - and how your positioning + messaging should be doing the heavy lifting before they ever inquire Sharing your pricing upfront so fear, shame, or old undercharging habits don't take over the sales conversation Why your own business shouldn't always be the last thing on your to-do list The importance of community over competition and building genuine relationships within your industry Getting your business foundations in place BEFORE you feel like you can afford to Why people buy from PEOPLE - and how being relatable, approachable, and judgment-free helps attract the right clients Our thoughts on fear-based marketing tactics and why you don't need to scare people into working with you The difference between pain-point marketing and dream-creation marketing - and how to communicate the actual TRANSFORMATION your work creates Connect with Allie on Instagram, Facebook, and her website   SPECIAL 34th BIRTHDAY OFFERS $134 Website + Sales Page Audit: For the founder getting website traffic but not enough inquiries or sales (or gearing up for a big launch), I'll give you a private video audit of one page with expert feedback on your positioning, messaging, copy + design, and the top 3 changes I'd make to help turn more visitors into clients 🔥 10 audits available. $340 Clarity + Strategy Session: Your business. My brain. Let's figure some shit out! Whether you're navigating an offer, business decision, messaging, visibility, or a bigger shift in how you're showing up, we'll spend 60 private minutes getting strategic, seeing things differently, and making some f*****g moves ✨ 5 sessions available. $3,400 3-Month Private Mentorship: For the woman ready to make some big moves and have me IN her corner while she does it, this 3-month mentorship combines monthly private coaching calls, ongoing Telegram support, and personalized strategy + identity work to help you lead, grow, and actually implement what's next 🦋 Only 2 spots available. All three birthday offers are available through October 30th or until spots sell out!🥳   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER THE SHIFT 30-Day Private Mentorship: For the woman who can feel something shifting in her business or life and is ready to get clear on what comes next, this 30-day private mentorship combines strategy, identity + embodiment to align who you’re being and what you’re building with where you actually want to go - and start f*****g moving toward it ❤️‍🔥 Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Limited to 7 total spots. re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases. Embodied Expansion Retreat — September 23-26 2027 | Colorado mountains: For the woman who's ready to expand her business without leaving herself behind, this 4-day immersive experience brings together strategy, identity, embodiment, visibility, genuine sisterhood, and a whole lot of FUN so you can reconnect with yourself, own your leadership, and create what’s next from who you are NOW 🏔️ 4 early bird spots available.   FREE RESOURCES Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

  4. Oct 6

    Money Follows Energy: Sales, Self-Belief, & Becoming the Woman Who Receives More with Sabrina Victoria

    What if selling more wasn’t about finding the perfect strategy or saying the perfect words... but actually f*****g BELIEVING in the value of what you’re selling? This week I’m joined by Sabrina Victoria, Business Mentor and Sales Expert, for a conversation about the energetics of sales, money, identity, receiving, and what happens when you fully own your power behind what you do. Because making more money isn’t only about what YOU get to have — it’s about the value you exchange, the people you impact, the money you can pour back into your community, and what becomes possible when you stop shrinking your desire for MORE. This conversation is your reminder that selling doesn’t have to mean convincing someone, performing, or becoming the loudest person in the room. Believe in what you do. Own the f*****g value of it. Let yourself receive. And stop waiting for someone else to give you permission to step into the woman you’ve already decided you want to be.   In this episode, we talk about: Sabrina’s journey into entrepreneurship, her background in door-to-door sales, and how she eventually started her podcast + business Breaking her leg at the beginning of COVID and what that season taught her How Sabrina now helps women strengthen their sales skills while owning their power + passion Why money is an energetic exchange — and how YOUR energy impacts your sales and income The challenge of expressing your energy online versus in person and how to create more connection through a screen What “money follows energy” actually means and how to create more momentum instead of unknowingly slowing it down The energetic difference between playing to win vs. trying not to fail Why you don’t have to be the loudest, boldest, or biggest personality in the room to be f*****g GOOD at sales What matters more than being loud: actually being passionate and excited about what you’re offering The disconnect I’ve experienced between my real-life energy and how I was expressing myself online — and what I changed to close that gap Using networking and community as an opportunity to practice talking about what you do and strengthen your sales skills Reframing sales as an exchange of VALUE instead of simply asking someone to give you money Why receiving more allows you to GIVE more — and why we need to stop acting like wanting more money automatically makes us greedy Making the mindset shift from feeling uncomfortable “taking” to understanding the relationship between receiving + giving Why so much of your money and sales work ultimately comes back to identity What Beyoncé can teach us about embodying the higher version of ourselves (because obviouslyyyy 😂) Why making the DECISION is often the identity shift — instead of waiting until some unidentified future moment when you finally feel qualified or ready Giving yourself permission to DO THE DAMN THING before you have external validation Removing words like “just” and “only” from the way you talk about yourself and your work — and CLAIMING YOUR F*****G POWER instead Why coaching, accountability, community, and having people who will lovingly call you on your b******t can help you maintain the energy you want to lead from Looking at your experiences through the lens of “what can this teach me?” instead of staying stuck in victim mentality Sabrina’s experience leaning into feminine energy after initially being skeptical of it Creating the masculine structures in your business that allow you to actually experience more feminine flow Looking at what MORE money could make possible for your family, community, clients, and the impact you want to create Why money amplifies who you already are — and wanting more of it doesn’t make you a bad f*****g person Investing in yourself, your support, and your business so you can actually build and lead the business you want Connect with Sabrina on Instagram and website   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER THE SHIFT 30-Day Private Mentorship: For the woman who can feel something shifting in her business or life and is ready to get clear on what comes next, this 30-day private mentorship combines strategy, identity + embodiment to align who you’re being and what you’re building with where you actually want to go - and start f*****g moving toward it ❤️‍🔥 Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Limited to 7 total spots. re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases. Embodied Expansion Retreat — September 23-26 2027 | Colorado mountains: For the woman who's ready to expand her business without leaving herself behind, this 4-day immersive experience brings together strategy, identity, embodiment, visibility, genuine sisterhood, and a whole lot of FUN so you can reconnect with yourself, own your leadership, and create what’s next from who you are NOW 🏔️ 4 early bird spots available.   FREE RESOURCES Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

  5. Sep 29

    There Is No F*****g Blueprint: Parenting, Business, & Remembering You’re Human Too with Ashlyn Mesta

    There are approximately 8 billion opinions about how you're "supposed" to parent... but nobody knows your kid, your family, or YOU better than you do. This week I'm joined by Ashlyn Mesta, a Family Consultant who supports parents and families through life transitions with more clarity and confidence, for a really honest conversation about parenting, childhood, trauma, family dynamics, and trusting yourself through all of it. And even if you're not a parent yet (hi, me 👋🏼), there is SO much in this conversation about understanding yourself, unpacking what you learned growing up, navigating hard emotions, and letting go of the idea that there's one "right" f*****g way to do life. This conversation is such a good reminder that you don't need to outsource every f*****g decision to an expert, an Instagram post, a parenting book, or somebody else's opinion. Learn. Ask questions. Get support when you need it. Take what resonates. But at the end of the day, you know yourself. You know your family. And you get to trust that.   In this episode, we talk about: How Ashlyn's experience growing up + her parents' divorce led her into family consulting Why she quickly realized that supporting kids means supporting the entire family system How so many of our beliefs, patterns, and ways of processing emotions begin in childhood My own family's experience navigating childhood trauma and going to therapy at a young age Why families often need individualized support beyond the resources they're automatically given Remembering that parents are f*****g HUMAN too - and knowing your own limits matters Letting your kids see you work through hard emotions and regulate yourself instead of trying to appear perfect Why the parent's needs matter too and finding compromises that support the entire family How Ashlyn supports kids from early childhood through teenage years, specifically during periods of transition Creating boundaries and safety measures without doing absolutely everything for your kids Learning to trust what you've taught your kids as they become more independent Why you should take parenting advice with a grain of salt - every kid is different Supporting shy or slow-to-warm-up kids without trying to make them someone they're not Why developmental milestones are guidelines, not the f*****g law How a child's environment can impact their behavior and development Our thoughts on screen time, food, boundaries, and some of Ashlyn's spicier parenting opinions Giving yourself permission to parent differently than the examples you've seen around you Why becoming a parent doesn't mean your child has to become your entire identity The importance of having honest conversations about parenting and having kids instead of only hearing "it's the best thing you'll ever do!" Conversations my husband and I have had as we think about having a family someday - and what Ashlyn wishes she and her husband had discussed beforehand Why knowing yourself before having kids matters - and how parenting will probably show you even MORE of yourself anyway How becoming a parent can bring old trauma back to the surface in new ways (and why growing a business can do the exact same thing) The reality that healing doesn't necessarily mean your old shit disappears forever - you get better at recognizing and working through it Trusting yourself and what you're feeling in parenting, business, and life Taking the time to make sure something actually feels aligned before immediately jumping into action Connect with Ashlyn on LinkedIn   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER THE SHIFT 30-Day Private Mentorship: For the woman who can feel something shifting in her business or life and is ready to get clear on what comes next, this 30-day private mentorship combines strategy, identity + embodiment to align who you’re being and what you’re building with where you actually want to go - and start f*****g moving toward it ❤️‍🔥 Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫 Design & Marketing Power Sprint: For the founder who knows exactly what she needs done but doesn't have the time or desire to DIY it, this focused intensive helps you bring high-impact design, copy, and marketing projects to life - fast ⚡   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Limited to 7 total spots. re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases. Embodied Expansion Retreat — September 23-26 2027 | Colorado mountains: For the woman who's ready to expand her business without leaving herself behind, this 4-day immersive experience brings together strategy, identity, embodiment, visibility, genuine sisterhood, and a whole lot of FUN so you can reconnect with yourself, own your leadership, and create what’s next from who you are NOW 🏔️ 4 early bird spots available.   FREE RESOURCES Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

  6. Sep 22

    Real-Time Reflections: My Reality Hasn’t Caught Up Yet

    There’s a weird-ass space that exists when you know you’ve changed internally... but your external reality hasn’t fully caught up yet. And sheeesh, have I been living in it 😂 In this month’s Real-Time Reflections episode, I’m taking you behind the scenes of what’s been happening in my business and life lately - from wrapping up my free 4-week mastermind and launching a brand new private mentorship offer, to the response to my winter retreat, starting my own 6-month Human Design + Astrology mentorship, getting ready for Costa Rica, and navigating some very real mindset wobbles around the goals I haven’t hit this year. Because as much as I believe in strategy (and you KNOW I f*****g do), so much of what I’ve been experiencing lately has reminded me that growth requires more than knowing the right thing to do. There’s the strategy... and then there’s becoming the woman who can actually hold the standard, make the decision, trust herself, and lead from that place. This one is a very real-time look at what expansion actually feels like when you’re inside of it - not six months later when you can package it into a pretty lesson and tell everyone how it all worked out.   In this episode, I’m talking about: Reflections from my free 4-week mastermind, why I created it, and some of the shifts I’ve watched happen inside the room The positioning + messaging work we’ve done alongside the energetic + embodiment work required to actually hold that positioning Why I believe the magic happens when we stop separating the strategic and energetic sides of business What this kind of support looks like inside Magnetic By Nature Mastermind - including a peek at our Tuesday Hot Seat Coaching My unfiltered thought that sometimes you don’t need more eyes on your business - you need to figure out why the eyes already there aren’t converting What I look at when a sales page or website is getting views and clicks without generating sales or inquiries The positioning, messaging, design strategy, hierarchy + structure that can impact conversions One of the biggest mistakes I see people make with sales pages Why I only have 2 copy + design spots remaining this year for anyone wanting a new sales page or website before 2027 The response to my January winter retreat in Colorado and the unexpected idea it helped spark Why I created THE SHIFT, my new 30-day private mentorship, and how I intentionally designed it to recreate some of the clarity, reconnection, coaching + movement that happens at my retreats Why the end of the year can be such a powerful time to reconnect with yourself and get clear on where you’re actually going before throwing another giant f*****g to-do list at January The major pivot I’ve experienced in my own business - and why I’m seeing so many other women in a similar season of change Connecting with so many incredible women IRL at Inevitable Live in Denver How full life has been lately between my husband’s birthday, concerts, our upcoming Costa Rica anniversary trip, and intentionally creating a lighter client load around all of it Starting my 6-month Human Design + Astrology mentorship with Nina Chin and how I’m already integrating what I’m learning into the way I support my clients My intention to slow the f**k down toward the end of the year instead of immediately racing toward whatever comes next Why I treat my birthday like my own personal New Year - and use it to reflect on who I’ve become over the previous year Learning to sit in the uncomfortable space between instead of trying to force myself out of it What it looks like when your internal reality has expanded before your external reality has caught up The reality that I haven’t hit some of the goals I wanted to hit this year - and the mindset wobbles that have come with that Why growth and expansion feel a whole lot like building a muscle: expansion, contraction, expansion again Revisiting some of my own worthiness shit (thank youuuu, eclipse season 😂) and intentionally reconnecting with myself so I can lead from the energy I actually WANT to lead from instead of slipping back into default   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER THE SHIFT 30-Day Private Mentorship: For the woman who can feel something shifting in her business or life and is ready to get clear on what comes next, this 30-day private mentorship combines strategy, identity + embodiment to align who you’re being and what you’re building with where you actually want to go - and start f*****g moving toward it ❤️‍🔥 Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫 Design & Marketing Power Sprint: For the founder who knows exactly what she needs done but doesn't have the time or desire to DIY it, this focused intensive helps you bring high-impact design, copy, and marketing projects to life - fast ⚡   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Limited to 7 total spots. re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases. Embodied Expansion Retreat — September 23-26 2027 | Colorado mountains: For the woman who's ready to expand her business without leaving herself behind, this 4-day immersive experience brings together strategy, identity, embodiment, visibility, genuine sisterhood, and a whole lot of FUN so you can reconnect with yourself, own your leadership, and create what’s next from who you are NOW 🏔️ 4 early bird spots available.   FREE RESOURCES Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

  7. Sep 15

    This Or Something Better: Self-Trust, Embodiment, & Finding Beauty in the Unexpected with Dr. Rachel Kapustka

    There’s so much wisdom available to us when we stop trying to think our way through everything and actually learn to listen - to our bodies, our intuition, and what feels true for us. This week I’m joined by Dr. Rachel Kapustka, chiropractor and co-owner of Realm Chiropractic, for a conversation that goes so far beyond chiropractic. We talk about entrepreneurship, athletics, motherhood, movement, embodiment, navigating unexpected seasons of life, and learning to embrace the things that make us different instead of wishing they were another way. This conversation is such a beautiful reminder that you don’t have to follow someone else’s version of what life, business, health, or success is supposed to look like. You get to listen to yourself, stay open to what might be available, move through the whole messy-ass journey, and trust the wisdom that’s already there.   In this episode, we talk about: How Rachel was “chosen by” chiropractic and her journey from chiropractic school to building a business with her husband Rachel’s experience raising a deaf son, adapting their family life to support him, and misconceptions around the Deaf + ASL communities My own experience growing up with a mom who is hard of hearing Embracing what makes us unique and finding beauty in all of life — not only the parts we label as “good” Staying open to what you can receive and living with a “this or something better” mentality Selling their chiropractic practice in Durango, starting over in Denver, and eventually expanding into a second practice The creativity, self-expression, challenge, and constant evolution we get to experience as business owners How being an athlete prepares you for entrepreneurship - and why learning to enjoy the journey matters just as much as reaching the next goal Rachel’s experiences with sports, injury, and discovering that she was, in fact, not invincible 😂 My own journey through sports before eventually finding dance How movement helps us reconnect with ourselves, shift our energy, and process emotions we can’t always think our way through Why there is so much more wisdom available to us than what’s happening inside our heads How both of us incorporate movement and embodiment into the work we do Rachel’s holistic approach to chiropractic care across all ages and her belief in collaborating with other healthcare providers Looking beyond symptoms to understand what might actually be happening at the root Honoring what feels true to YOU, trusting that so many of the answers are already within you, and feeling confident enough to fully embrace your own uniqueness Connect with Dr. Rachel on her Instagram and Realm's Instagram + website   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Limited to 7 total spots. re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases. Embodied Expansion Retreat — September 23-26 2027 | Colorado mountains: For the woman who's ready to expand her business without leaving herself behind, this 4-day immersive experience brings together strategy, identity, embodiment, visibility, genuine sisterhood, and a whole lot of FUN so you can reconnect with yourself, own your leadership, and create what’s next from who you are NOW 🏔️ 4 early bird spots available.   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫 Design & Marketing Power Sprint: For the founder who knows exactly what she needs done but doesn't have the time or desire to DIY it, this focused intensive helps you bring high-impact design, copy, and marketing projects to life - fast ⚡   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   FREE RESOURCES You know I’m here for YOU and your success. And that includes offering a few different free resources to help you get there! Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). The Bold Expression Toolkit - Your no-fluff, full-body yes to showing up online like the powerhouse you are. Think: scroll-stopping Canva templates, juicy content prompts, mindset + embodiment practices, and personalized feedback from a pro — all wrapped in a Notion dashboard designed to help you stop holding back and start saying what you really want to say. Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

  8. Sep 8

    It's Just Business: Big Dreams, Bold Boundaries, & Becoming Your Next-Level Self with Tina Floersch & Kailee Nauman

    You don't become the next version of yourself - or your business - by doing everything exactly the way you've always done it. This week I'm joined by Tina Floersch and Kailee Nauman, designers, co-hosts of the Branded & Booked Podcast, and two of the women behind Inevitable Live happening in Denver next week. We get into creativity, community, boundaries, collaboration, big-ass dreams, and all the personal growth that inevitably comes with building a business. This conversation is such a good reminder that growth isn't just about finding the next strategy or working harder. Sometimes it's about dreaming bigger, letting people support you, protecting what matters, and giving yourself permission to evolve into the person your next level actually requires.   In this episode, we talk about: Tina and Kailee's individual journeys into design and entrepreneurship Trusting the journey and following where the energy is taking you Why so many designers start with photography - and the beauty of being a multifaceted creative How Tina and Kailee went from becoming friends to moving to Orlando, starting a podcast, and collaborating on offers and ideas The importance of having entrepreneur and creative friends who actually GET IT Building community with other women business owners and what I've loved about doing that here in Colorado The unexpected amount of personal growth that comes with entrepreneurship Why your branding gets to show people who the f**k you actually are Our spicy opinions on personality-infused branding and creating an online presence that feels like YOU Taking unnecessary pressure off yourself and your business Setting boundaries with clients and protecting your time, energy, and mental health The reminder that almost nothing is actually urgent - sometimes, it's just business Why holding boundaries is ultimately better for everyone involved Learning not to take feedback, criticism, or client responses personally - especially as a creative How Tina and Kailee became involved in co-hosting Inevitable Live with Aubrianna Kay What they're doing differently with the event and the community they're creating around it Giving yourself permission to dream BIG without immediately asking, "Okay, but how am I actually going to do that?" How leading in-person experiences changes YOU, too Balancing business and your actual f*****g LIFE - and creating the boundaries that allow you to enjoy both How we accidentally recreate people-pleasing patterns inside businesses we literally started to create more freedom 😂 Asking for help, talking through what's coming up, and investing in support instead of trying to figure everything out alone Why you can't DIY yourself to success The identity shifts that come with growth Connect on Instagram: Tina, Kailee, Branded & Booked Podcast Get your ticket to Inevitable Live: September 17 & 18 | Denver, CO Listen to the Branded & Booked Podcast   Magnetic By Nature Business Mastermind with Abby: For the woman who's done everything she's "supposed" to do but knows she's capable of more, this mastermind blends identity, embodiment, visibility, and business strategy to help you own what already makes you magnetic and build a sustainable 6-figure business because of it 🦋 3 spots left at $777/month before pricing increases.   2027 RETREATS Aligned Momentum Winter Retreat — January 14-17, 2027 | Estes Park, CO: For the woman who wants to start the year aligned instead of forcing herself into New Year hustle mode, this intimate 4-day retreat blends identity + vision work, business strategy, masterminding, coaching, embodiment, content creation, connection, and winter FUN so you can get clear on what you actually want and create momentum that feels natural ❄️ Final dates + details coming THIS WEEK - DM me on Instagram if you want first dibs! re: treat with Abby x Nina — May 19–23, 2027 | Wilmington, NC: A five-day beach house experience for women who know life isn't something to arrive at - it's something to LIVE. Think ocean swims, deep conversations, dance parties, creative breakthroughs, and plenty of space to reconnect with yourself, your desires, and the parts of you that have gotten lost in all the doing 🌊 2 founding spots left before price increases. Embodied Expansion Retreat — September 23-26 2027 | Colorado mountains: For the woman who's ready to expand her business without leaving herself behind, this 4-day immersive experience brings together strategy, identity, embodiment, visibility, genuine sisterhood, and a whole lot of FUN so you can reconnect with yourself, own your leadership, and create what’s next from who you are NOW 🏔️ 4 early bird spots available.   WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER Private Mentorship: For the female founder who's built something incredible and is ready to lead at an even higher level, this intimate 1:1 partnership combines deep strategic guidance with identity and embodiment work to help you close the gap between where you are and where you know you're capable of going 🔥 Brand, Copy, & Web Design: For the woman whose online presence no longer reflects the depth of her work or the vision she's building, we'll create a brand and website that communicates your value clearly, builds trust instantly, and finally feels like you💫 Design & Marketing Power Sprint: For the founder who knows exactly what she needs done but doesn't have the time or desire to DIY it, this focused intensive helps you bring high-impact design, copy, and marketing projects to life - fast ⚡   Payment plans + Affirm available for all offers. → Check out my website for more ways to work together and connect!   FREE RESOURCES You know I’m here for YOU and your success. And that includes offering a few different free resources to help you get there! Website Hero Copy Prompts - Your no-BS guide to writing a website header that hooks in less than 7 seconds — complete with fill-in-the-blank prompts, click-worthy CTA ideas, and a quick vibe check so your home page feels like you (not some cookie-cutter template). The Bold Expression Toolkit - Your no-fluff, full-body yes to showing up online like the powerhouse you are. Think: scroll-stopping Canva templates, juicy content prompts, mindset + embodiment practices, and personalized feedback from a pro — all wrapped in a Notion dashboard designed to help you stop holding back and start saying what you really want to say. Sign up for my Newsletter - Where you’ll get first access to any other new resources and opportunities to work with me, PLUS tips, strategies, and stories for how to navigate the online space in a way that feels good.   Support my show! I would love you foreverrr if you subscribe, rate, and review my podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify to show your support of the show. Share to your stories and tag me so I can see you tuning in! 🫶🏻   → Connect with me on Insta: @abbybradetich for alllll the juicy things @theunfilteredceopod for the podcast!

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Welcome to The Unfiltered CEO, where we share real stories of the ups and downs of entrepreneurship. Your host, Abby Bradetich of IlluminEssence Creations, is a business owner, brand & web designer, visibility strategist, and embodiment mentor always down for a dance party. In this podcast, we’ll dive into the authentic experiences of owning a business that you don’t always see online - the highs, the lows, and every spicy bit in-between. We’ll cover mindset, online presence, business, embodiment, social media, brand, and so much more as we turn our unfiltered stories into inspiring, actionable takeaways. In my corner of the internet, we say f**k the rules, aren’t afraid to make moves, and care more about things feeling good than comparing to what else you see online. No matter what stage of business you’re in, you’re welcome here! So grab a glass of wine or get out for your daily walk, and let’s get into it, girl!