If feelings could talk

Karen Strober MSW

If Feelings Could Talk is a podcast dedicated to helping you navigate life’s emotional ups and downs through mindfulness, self-compassion, and emotional wellness. Hosted by Karen Strober, a seasoned DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) therapist with over 20 years of experience, each episode provides practical tools, insightful discussions, and expert guidance to help you manage emotions in healthier ways. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, or looking to cultivate more inner kindness, this podcast is your go-to resource for real, compassionate conversations on how to live a more balanced and mindful life. Tune in weekly for strategies to help you embrace self-acceptance, manage stress, and find peace within yourself—one step at a time.

  1. Jul 8

    S 2 EP 6 The areas of our lives we need to balance, to find peace and contentment

    In this episode, we're exploring one of the most important questions we can ask ourselves: What areas of my life need more attention, and what does true balance actually look like? Many of us spend so much time caring for our responsibilities, our careers, our families, and the expectations of others that we rarely stop to ask whether we're caring for ourselves in the process. Balance isn't about giving every part of your life equal time every day. It's about becoming aware of what feels neglected, what feels overwhelming, and what needs your attention in this season of life. Together, we'll gently reflect on the key areas that contribute to emotional well-being, including your physical health, emotional health, relationships, work and purpose, personal growth, rest, play, spirituality or meaning, finances, and the relationship you have with yourself. When one area begins to dominate while others are ignored, it's common to feel stressed, disconnected, anxious, or emotionally exhausted. Using principles from The CARE Practice™, I'll guide you through a compassionate process of slowing down, increasing self-awareness, and checking in with each area of your life without judgment. Rather than striving for perfection, we'll focus on creating a life that feels more intentional, grounded, and aligned with your values. You'll also be encouraged to notice where your inner critic may be influencing your choices telling you to work harder, do more, or put yourself last and learn how self-compassion can help you create healthier boundaries and more sustainable habits. This episode includes reflective questions and practical exercises to help you identify where your energy is going, where you may be feeling depleted, and one small step you can take to restore greater balance. Remember, meaningful change rarely comes from doing everything differently overnight. It comes from consistently making small, intentional choices that support your emotional well-being. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, or simply longing for a greater sense of peace, this conversation is an invitation to pause, reconnect with yourself, and create a life that nourishes you from the inside out. Because lasting peace isn't found in having a perfect life—it's found in living a life that reflects what truly matters to you. In this episode, you'll learn: Why balance is different from perfection.The essential areas of life that support emotional wellness.How to recognize when one area of your life is out of alignment.The role of self-compassion in creating lasting change.Simple ways to restore balance without becoming overwhelmed.How The CARE Practice™ can help you cultivate greater calm, awareness, resilience, and emotional well-being.If this episode resonates with you, be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who could use a little more peace and balance in their life. Feel. Reflect. Empower Yourself.  Karen Strober, MSW Mental Health Therapist & Emotional Wellness Expert Host of If Feelings Could Talk

  2. Feb 23

    S 2 E 5 From Actress to Therapist: Constance McCashin on Identity, Emotions & Eating Disorder Recovery

    In this powerful and deeply honest conversation, I sit down with actress-turned-therapist Constance McCashin to explore identity, emotional healing, and the complex world of eating disorders. Constance shares her journey from a successful acting career into becoming a therapist, and how that transition required emotional courage, reflection, and reinvention. Together, we talk about how identity shifts can impact our mental health and how disordered eating is often connected to deeper emotional needs, perfectionism, and a longing for control or belonging. In this episode, we discuss: • The emotional roots of eating disorders • How identity and self-worth become intertwined with food and body image • Reinvention in midlife and beyond • The role of compassion in recovery • Why emotions are not the enemy they are information This conversation is a reminder that eating disorders are not about food they are about emotion, identity, and unmet needs. Healing begins when we slow down, build awareness, and approach ourselves with compassion instead of judgment. If you or someone you love struggles with emotional eating, disordered eating patterns, or identity transitions, this episode offers insight, hope, and practical understanding. For more tools on emotional wellness, mindfulness, and self-compassion, explore my CARE Practice Method and listen to more episodes of If Feelings Could Talk. Because when we understand our emotions, we empower ourselves.

  3. 12/08/2025

    S 2 E 3 Imposter syndrome - How to own your own success and silence self doubt.

    Imposter Syndrome — How to Own Your Success & Silence Self-Doubt Do you ever catch yourself thinking, “Who am I to do this?” or worrying that one day people will “find out” you’re not as capable as they think? If so, you’re not alone — and you’re definitely not an imposter. In today’s episode, we’re breaking down the truth behind imposter syndrome and why so many smart, accomplished, emotionally aware people still struggle to believe in their own success. You’ll learn why self-doubt shows up, how it keeps you stuck, and most importantly… how to quiet that inner critic so you can finally own your strengths with confidence and clarity. Together, we’ll explore: ✨ Why high-achievers often feel “not enough” ✨ How childhood messages and old patterns feed self-doubt ✨ The emotional habits that reinforce imposter syndrome ✨ Practical mindfulness + self-compassion tools to shift your mindset ✨ How to recognize your real accomplishments and truly believe them If you’re tired of questioning yourself… if you’re ready to let go of the pressure to be perfect… and if you want to step into your life with more calm, confidence, and self-trust — this episode will support you every step of the way. Listen now and start owning the success you’ve already earned. Hosted by Karen Strober, MSW, Emotional Wellness Expert and creator of If Feelings Could Talk New episodes every week on mindfulness, self-compassion, and emotional regulation.

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If Feelings Could Talk is a podcast dedicated to helping you navigate life’s emotional ups and downs through mindfulness, self-compassion, and emotional wellness. Hosted by Karen Strober, a seasoned DBT (Dialectical Behavior Therapy) therapist with over 20 years of experience, each episode provides practical tools, insightful discussions, and expert guidance to help you manage emotions in healthier ways. Whether you’re struggling with anxiety, feeling overwhelmed, or looking to cultivate more inner kindness, this podcast is your go-to resource for real, compassionate conversations on how to live a more balanced and mindful life. Tune in weekly for strategies to help you embrace self-acceptance, manage stress, and find peace within yourself—one step at a time.