On this episode of Campfire Convos Podcast, John joins me to talk about his experience with gambling addiction, recovery, and what happened after his years as a competitive athlete. John shares how sports betting grew from occasional wagers into constant gambling, the moment he lost $12,000 in a single day, the financial and relationship consequences, and the support that helped him start rebuilding. We also talk about the transition out of college sports, obsessive and addictive tendencies, family support, counseling, Gamblers Anonymous, and ways people can seek help. This is one person’s lived experience—not a claim that athletes generally develop gambling problems or a substitute for professional care. Some comments about betting apps are the speakers’ personal impressions and are not presented as verified claims about specific companies. Connect with Guest! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/theoddsandreality/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/jbonatesta Connect with Me! Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/campfireconvospodcast/ Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61576114107409 If gambling is affecting you or someone you care about, support is available: National Problem Gambling Helpline: Call or text 1-800-MY-RESET https://1800myreset.org Find a Gamblers Anonymous meeting: https://gamblersanonymous.org/find-a-meeting/ Find virtual Gamblers Anonymous meetings: https://gamblersanonymous.org/virtual-meetings/ CHAPTERS 00:00 Welcome to Campfire Convos 00:37 Gambling, betting apps, and the rush 02:41 Recognizing when gambling becomes a problem 03:36 Constant checking and chasing winnings 05:22 The $12,000 turning point 07:24 Stopping, family support, and debt 10:01 What helped John move forward 12:29 The host’s experience with gaming and addictive habits 16:23 Why someone has to want to stop 18:07 Gambling began at a young age 20:48 Betting apps, promotions, and personal experiences 26:08 Gambling ads, young people, and the next generation 28:39 Counseling, Gamblers Anonymous, and recovery 29:59 The scale of John’s gambling losses 33:28 Becoming an advocate and finding support 39:07 Athlete identity, obsession, and transition 42:10 Competition, baseball, and the drive to improve 47:00 Golf, gambling, and life after sports 48:23 Family, parenting, and being present 51:00 What “recovery” means to John 54:10 Missing the rush—and finding a new direction 56:12 Helping athletes prepare for life after sports 1:00:11 Addictive and obsessive tendencies 1:04:04 Question for former athletes and listeners 1:06:40 Repairing relationships 1:09:02 Expectations, parenting, and sports 1:14:13 Encouragement, pressure, and supporting kids 1:17:14 Talking with someone who doesn’t see a problem 1:19:37 Closing conversation 1:20:53 Thanks for listening Subscribe to Campfire Convos Podcast for more honest conversations around the fire. Campfire Convos Podcast, gambling addiction recovery, problem gambling story, gambling recovery podcast, sports betting addiction, online gambling, gambling debt, recovery journey, former college athlete, athlete identity after sports, life after college sports, gambling and family, Gamblers Anonymous, gambling counseling, addictive personality, obsessive personality, gambling support, personal recovery story