Going The Distance with Go Long: Making Your Life Unapologetically Awesome

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Going the Distance asks hard-hitting questions to professionals, experts, and informed enthusiasts who are looking out for women over the age of 40. Go Long’s Jill Consor Beck doesn’t hold back and launches into each conversation with the goal to dispel myths, uncover life-hacks, and give the audience opportunities to find out how best to navigate their career, health, relationships, and much more. Topics range from fashion to menopause, from sex to religion, and from finance to divorce, all as they relate to living your best life as a woman over 40. But don't worry - men can listen, too.

  1. Sep 1

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Rebekah Bastian

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Rebekah Bastian, CMO at mpathic and author of Blaze Your Own Trail: An Interactive Guide to Navigating Life with Confidence, Solidarity, and Compassion, who traces her creativity and "delusional optimism" straight back to her free-spirited, artist mother. Rebekah still brings that creative streak into her workday — she admits to "literally being sitting here in a meeting, knitting a leg warmer right now." She's trying to unlearn the same over-involvement she inherited from her mom: "I should delegate more. I should step back more." She was, by her own account, "an absolute train wreck of a teenager" — and still hasn't found a clean answer for what her parents could have done differently. Resources mentioned: • Blaze Your Own Trail — https://www.amazon.com/Blaze-Your-Own-Trail-Interactive-ebook/dp/B07Y422NWF More about Rebekah: • Website — https://rebekahbastian.com/ • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/rebekahbastian/ More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Introduction to Rebekah and Being Purpose-Driven in Her Current Role 01:33 Following in Her Mom's Footsteps as an Artist 03:14 What Went Unacknowledged: A Family of Worriers 05:14 How She Uses Creativity to Bridge Both Personal and Professional Lives 07:00 Time-Boxing Work and Startup Motherhood 09:04 How She Thinks About Her Train Wreck Years As She Parents Her Kids 10:38 The Importance of Vulnerability, Crying, and Asking For Help 12:08 Closing Thoughts and Family Time at the Mariners Game

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Rebekah Bastian

  2. Aug 25

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Shelby Tutty

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Shelby Tutty, a certified perimenopause coach and author of two Substacks — The Periprofessional and Women's Health 365. Shelby says the caution her mother carried from childhood trauma — a near-drowning, a serious car accident, a miscarriage — got imprinted onto her, and it shaped her into the kind of parent who can't just relax at the playground. She still remembers her mother throwing her arm out to protect the kids in the front seat every time she had to stop short, and now catches herself repeating her mother's own warnings to her own kids, like "if it's brown and round, step around." She's still questioning whether she took it too far: "I wonder, did I go too far? Did I really imprint upon them?" Resources mentioned: • Women's Health 365 (Substack) — https://womenshealth365.substack.com/ • The Periprofessional (Substack) — https://theperiprofessional.substack.com/ More about Shelby: • Website — https://www.theperiprofessional.com/ • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/theperiprofessional/ • Services — https://theperiprofessional.substack.com/p/paid-services More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Introduction to the series and guest Shelby Tutty 02:42 When her mother said not to be afraid of men 04:41 Her mother's journey through independence and education in the 60s 08:04 Unseen burdens: trauma and resilience in her mother's life 11:12 Learning to ask for help: a personal transformation 14:36 Parenting imprints from her mother and if it went too far 16:30 Advice to her younger self and understanding her mother better after her passing 17:43 The devastation of losing everything of her mother's in a house fire

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Shelby Tutty

  3. Aug 20

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Liz Ward, MS, RDN

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Liz Ward, MS, RDN — a dietician and author of The Menopause Diet Plan. Liz credits her mother's insistence on balanced meals and family dinner — "if one egg is good, three eggs are better," a colorful plate on the table every night no matter her mother's work schedule — for shaping how she fed her own three kids. When her mother got sick in her late 80s, three years of doctor's appointments and hospital calls fell to Liz while she was going through perimenopause herself and raising three teenagers, a pattern she attributes to "I was the female" and admits she still doesn't fully know why she took it on. We get into what her mother's own trade-offs cost her, the impact of her grandparents on her today, and what Liz would tell her three daughters about not worrying their way through motherhood the way she did. Resources mentioned: • The Menopause Diet Plan — https://www.amazon.com/Menopause-Diet-Plan-Managing-Happiness/dp/0593135660/ • Liz's Substack — https://substack.com/@menopausenutrition • Liz's previous appearance on Going the Distance — https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e3hZdNso07g&t=1084s More about Liz: • Author page — https://www.amazon.com/stores/Elizabeth-M.-Ward/author/B001HPCT92 • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/menopausedietplan More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Intro to the series: welcoming back Liz Ward 02:26 Liz's Mom as the Para-Dietician 05:21 Dinner on the Table Every Night, No Matter the Chaos 09:12 Living the Sandwich Generation Dream 11:47 Her Own Career Trade-Off: Falling Behind on Technology and Face Time 13:54 How Liz's Grandparents Set the Standard for Self-Sufficiency 17:11 When Liz Told Her Mother She Was Pregnant with Kid #2 Four Months After Kid #1 19:11 Lessons Learned From the Trenches of Motherhood

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Liz Ward, MS, RDN

  4. Aug 13

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Sonni Abatta

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Sonni Abatta, author of 'News for Normies', and host of the 'We Gotta Talk' podcast. Sonni credits her mother's gratitude, relentless work ethic, and growth mindset for shaping who she is today. On dinner breaks from her news anchor job, Sonni would rush home to nurse her baby to sleep before heading back to the newsroom — until her mother, watching her run herself into the ground, told her flatly one night: "Quit your job." We get into what she's doing to unlearn the instinct of "always being busy" and the need to keep filling every open moment instead of allowing time to recharge. Resources mentioned: • News for Normies (Substack) — https://sonniabatta.substack.com/ • Sonni's previous appearance on Going the Distance — https://youtu.be/M0nruFbM6ng More about Sonni: • Website — https://wegottatalk.com/ • Podcast — https://wegottatalk.com/podcast-show/ • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/sonniabatta/ More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Intro: Welcoming Back Sonni Abatta 03:35 How Her Mother's Work Ethic Shaped Her 06:25 The Well-Oiled Machine: Mom Never Asked for Help 08:31 What She's Consciously Carried Forward 10:44 "Quit Your Job": The Pivotal Career Moment 13:19 Realizing She'd Already Checked the Box 15:24 Immigrant Roots: Why Work Ethic Wasn't a Luxury 17:20 Underselling Herself and "You'll See Someday"

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Sonni Abatta

  5. Aug 12

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Kim Oser

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Kim Oser, founder of Game Plan Organizing, about how her mother's perfectionism shaped both her business and the way she copes with stress. She talks about how her mother's need for perfection turned into a business built leveraging the opposite mindset. Kim opens up about the shift that happened during COVID, when she went from occasional helper to the child managing her parents' finances, travel, and technology. She talks about what she's still unlearning as a self-described "headstrong" entrepreneur — that asking for help doesn't mean losing control — and how her mother's high bar has followed her impacts her dating life. Resources mentioned: • Blog — https://kimoser.substack.com/ More about Kim: • Website — https://www.gameplanorganizing.com • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/gameplanorganizing/ More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Intro: Welcoming Back Kim Oser 01:52 Perfectionism and Her Organizing Business 03:51 What Her Mom Modeled: Order, Control, and Stress 05:39 Coaching Her Mom to Let It Roll 07:44 What Asking for Help Actually Gives Her 09:41 Fix-It Girl: Navigating Tech and Travel for Her Parents 11:16 Sibling Dynamics and the COVID Caregiving Pivot 14:13 What Her Mother Carried Unacknowledged 15:52 How Her Mom's Influence Shows Up in Dating

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Kim Oser

  6. Jul 29

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Danielle Hughes

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Danielle Hughes about how her mother's discipline and go-getterness shaped her into the reliable one. Danielle opens up about watching her mom finish a degree over twelve years, working nights and days to put herself through school while carrying the emotional load of the house alone. She talks about what she's had to unlearn as a business owner and single mom — that you don't have to do everything yourself — and how her mother, after 30 years of marriage, left her dad without telling a soul beforehand, not even her own sister. Tune in to hear what it took for Danielle to unlearn that pattern herself. Resources mentioned: • Blog — https://www.morethanwordscopy.com/blog More about Danielle: • Website — https://www.morethanwordscopy.com/ • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/in/daniellehughes/ More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Intro: Danielle and Jill's Connection 02:06 Mom's Strict Parenting and the Disciplinarian Model 04:49 What Her Mom Carried Unacknowledged 08:16 Did Her Mom Ask for Help? 09:49 The Hidden Divorce: No Confiding, Even in Friends 11:47 Longest Thing to Unlearn: Doing It All Alone 13:29 The Fix-It Girl Pattern 16:11 Mom's Fitness at 77 vs. Dad's Passivity 17:57 Divide-and-Conquer on Parent Care

  7. Jul 29

    What She Taught Me: Talking with Devin Fuller

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Devin Fuller about how her mother shaped her into being a very empathetic person. Devin opens up about growing up in a house where dinner was sacred — cooked from scratch, every night, no phones, no TV — and how her mother carried that full load without ever asking for help. She talks about what she's had to unlearn as a new mom herself, and the one thing her mother waited decades to give herself that Devin isn't willing to wait for. More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works• Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Introduction 01:36 A Mother's Sensitivity: Gift and Burden 05:59 The Nightly Dinner Ritual 08:08 Margarita Night: Her Mom's One Escape 09:02 What Devin Is Unlearning 13:05 The Inflection Point: Mom Swimming for Herself 16:26 Mom Finishing a PhD With Two Kids at Home

  8. Jul 29

    What She Taught Me: Dita Guth

    In this episode of What She Taught Me by Go Long, Jill Consor Beck talks to Dita Guth about how her mother's emotional absence shaped her into becoming a nurturer. Dita opens up about growing up the only child of a socialite mother who could recite the difference between a shrimp fork and a dinner fork but couldn't show up emotionally. Dita talks about what she chose to consciously unlearn as a mom herself, and the words her mother waited until her literal death bed to finally say — words Dita isn't willing to make her own daughter wait decades to hear. More about Jill & Go Long: • Sign-up for Go Long's newsletter — https://golong.substack.com/subscribe • Learn more about Go Long — https://www.golong.me/how-it-works • Instagram — https://www.instagram.com/justgolong/ • Facebook — https://www.facebook.com/justgolong • LinkedIn — https://www.linkedin.com/company/go-long/ Jump to: 00:00 Introduction 01:05 Nomadic Upbringing, Julia Child, and 400 Chickens 03:39 Gen X Women's Undefined Career Paths 05:23 Only Woman in '90s NY Kitchens 07:10 Amsterdam Wine Bar Dreams to Pop-Up Queen 10:37 20 Rocky Years With Her Mom 12:39 The Call: Cardiac Arrest, DNR, and a Lucid Goodbye 14:26 Negotiating With the Hospital to Let Her Go 17:43 Breaking the Chain Through Therapy and Journaling 20:57 Mentoring Women, Raising Her Daughter, Asking for Help

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Going the Distance asks hard-hitting questions to professionals, experts, and informed enthusiasts who are looking out for women over the age of 40. Go Long’s Jill Consor Beck doesn’t hold back and launches into each conversation with the goal to dispel myths, uncover life-hacks, and give the audience opportunities to find out how best to navigate their career, health, relationships, and much more. Topics range from fashion to menopause, from sex to religion, and from finance to divorce, all as they relate to living your best life as a woman over 40. But don't worry - men can listen, too.

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