According to....

Temi Asenuga

Let’s talk life—raw, real, and unfiltered. On According To...., we dive into life’s big and small moments—adulthood, relationships, self-care, faith, money, and even gaming (Call of Duty, anyone?). Whether we’re breaking down social media trends, discussing family and friendships, or asking if school’s a scam, no topic is off-limits. It’s all about growth, laughter, and honest conversations on love, stress, spirituality, and the pressure to keeping it together. So, take a break, manifest your dreams, and join me as I yap about it all—one relatable chat at a time.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    According to Dotty | EP 07

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! According to Dotty | EP 07 - "Dating Me Is Like Honey" He said if someone told him he'd be doing music he'd be like "what are you talking about?" 😭 On this episode of According to Dotty, we get into the REAL gist. My guest talks about why people think he's proud, how we are actually a little bit similar, and of course we had to do a little - December-bizzy ma diry gan... And then he dropped the line of the episode: "Dating me is like honey. Everything go dey sweet for your life." "Just know that one day you sef go turn crazy ex" "If every ex in your life is bad, WRAP IT UP." We laughed, we sang, we sipped and we kept it real. You don't want to miss this one. In this episode: 00:00 Intro 01:12 If someone told me I'd be doing music... 04:30 People think maybe I'm proud 09:45 We're a little bit similar actually 12:40 That one Davido song - enjoyment? 18:30 December-bizzy breakdown 29:30 That crazy ex talk + Wrap it up 35:00 Dating me is like honey 🍯 Watch Next: Full Playlist: According to Dotty- https://music.apple.com/us/artist/dotty/1744582059 Let's Connect: Subscribe: @AccordingtoTemi Instagram: @temi.asenuga / @shadesoftemmy TikTok: @temi.asenuga For bookings/collabs: hello@temiasenuga.com If you enjoyed this, please LIKE, COMMENT your favorite quote, and SUBSCRIBE — it helps more than you know! #AccordingToDotty #AccordingToTemi #DottyPodcast #AfrobeatsPodcast #NaijaPodcast #DatingTalk #CrazyEx # Davido #NigerianPodcast #IndianapolisPodcast #TemiAsenuga

    According to Dotty | EP 07
  2. Oct 28

    I Stayed After He Cheated On Me 10 Times... Emotionally Trapped? | EP 06

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Hey Lovelies! ❤️ In Episode 6 of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we’re talking about something I know a lot of us have been through but don’t always talk about openly — staying after being cheated on and feeling emotionally trapped 😭 I talk about my own experience staying with a guy who cheated on me about 10 times, why I felt like I couldn’t leave, my Lagos confession (yes, I slept with a guy I worked with while I was there), and how that whole season taught me about boundaries, healing, loyalty, and self-worth. We’re also getting into feminism, being judged as a woman, being young, turned & single, and learning how to stop writing your story around someone who keeps hurting you. ❤️ Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk! Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE ❤️ And tell me below: Have you ever stayed after being cheated on? What helped you finally walk away? I Stayed After He Cheated On Me 10 Times... Emotionally Trapped? | EP 06 | According To… Temi Asenuga ⸻ ❤️ ACCORDING TO… ❤️ 🎙️ Send in your Tea Time stories/questions: accordingtotemi.com Subscribe to the podcast on YouTube: @accordingtotemi 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts: accordingtotemi.com ⸻ ❤️ MY SOCIALS ❤️ Instagram: @temi.asenuga TikTok: @temi.asenuga YouTube: @ShadesOfTemi Portfolio: temiasenuga.com ⸻ 🎥 Camera: DJI Osmo Pocket 3 ✂️ Editing: CapCut & Canva

    I Stayed After He Cheated On Me 10 Times... Emotionally Trapped? | EP 06
  3. Oct 21

    Have Relationships Become Too Transactional? | EP 05

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Hey Lovelies! ❤️ In Episode 5 of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we’re asking a question that I think a lot of us need to sit with: Have relationships become too transactional? 👀 Are we building genuine connections with people, or are we only showing up when there’s something to gain? From friendships to romantic relationships, we’re talking about reciprocity, expectations, keeping score, and whether we’ve started treating relationships like business deals. 😭 Is it wrong to expect people to show up for you the way you show up for them? Should every relationship be 50/50, or is love sometimes about giving without expecting something in return? ❤️ Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk! Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE ❤️ And tell me below: Do you think relationships have become too transactional, or is it simply about knowing your worth and protecting your energy? 👇🏽 Have Relationships Become Too Transactional? | EP 05 | According To… Temi Asenuga ⸻ ❤️ ACCORDING TO… ❤️ 🎙️ Send in your Tea Time stories/questions: https://accordingtotemi.com/ Subscribe to the podcast on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@accordingtotemi 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts: https://accordingtotemi.com/ ⸻ ❤️ MY SOCIALS ❤️ Instagram: @temi.asenuga TikTok: @temi.asenuga YouTube: @ShadesOfTemi Portfolio: https://temiasenuga.com/ ⸻ 🎥 Camera: DJI Osmo Pocket 3 ✂️ Editing: CapCut & Canva

    Have Relationships Become Too Transactional? | EP 05
  4. Oct 14

    GIRL CODE: Are There Rules to Friendship? 👀💋 | EP 04

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Hey Lovelies! ❤️ In this episode of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we’re getting into something every girl has probably had an opinion about at some point — GIRL CODE! 👀💅🏽 We’re talking about friendships, loyalty, boundaries, betrayal, and all those unspoken rules that apparently every girl is supposed to know. But are these rules actually common sense, or are we just making them up as we go? 😭😂 From dating your friend’s ex to keeping secrets, being a girl’s girl, and knowing when loyalty crosses the line, we’re getting into the conversations that might just have the group chat divided! 🤭 And of course, you already know Tea Time ☕️ is where things get even more interesting! Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk! ❤️ Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE! ❤️ And tell me below: What’s one girl code you believe should NEVER be broken? 👀👇🏽 Temi Asenuga ⸻ ❤️ ACCORDING TO… ❤️ 🎙️ Send in your Tea Time stories/questions: https://accordingtotemi.com/ Subscribe to the podcast on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@accordingtotemi 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts: https://accordingtotemi.com/ ⸻ ❤️ MY SOCIALS ❤️ Instagram: @temi.asenuga TikTok: @temi.asenuga ⸻ #AccordingToTemi #GirlCode #GirlsGirl #GirlTalk #Friendship #Podcast #TeaTime

    GIRL CODE: Are There Rules to Friendship? 👀💋 | EP 04
  5. Oct 7

    I’m Only 22…. Why Do I Feel Like I’m Running Out of Time? | EP 03

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Hey Lovelies! ❤️ In Episode 3 of According To… with Temi Asenuga, we’re talking about something I feel like a lot of us in our 20s can relate to — feeling like we’re somehow running out of time even though we’re still so young 😭 I talk about the pressure to have everything figured out — school, career, relationships, money, content, life in general — and why it can feel like everyone else is moving faster than you. We’re also getting into comparison, feeling behind, putting unrealistic timelines on ourselves, and learning how to give ourselves a little more grace while we figure life out. ❤️ Grab a drink, get comfortable, and let’s talk! Don’t forget to LIKE, COMMENT & SUBSCRIBE ❤️ And tell me below: Do you ever feel like you’re running out of time? I’m Only 22… Why Do I Feel Like I’m Running Out of Time? | EP 03 | According To… Temi Asenuga ⸻ ❤️ ACCORDING TO… ❤️ 🎙️ Send in your Tea Time stories/questions: https://accordingtotemi.com/ Subscribe to the podcast on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@accordingtotemi 🎧 Listen on Spotify & Apple Podcasts: https://accordingtotemi.com/ ⸻ ❤️ MY SOCIALS ❤️ Instagram: @temi.asenuga TikTok: @temi.asenuga YouTube: @ShadesOfTemi Portfolio: https://temiasenuga.com/ ⸻ 🎥 Camera: DJI Osmo Pocket 3 ✂️ Editing: CapCut & Canva

    I’m Only 22…. Why Do I Feel Like I’m Running Out of Time? | EP 03

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Let’s talk life—raw, real, and unfiltered. On According To...., we dive into life’s big and small moments—adulthood, relationships, self-care, faith, money, and even gaming (Call of Duty, anyone?). Whether we’re breaking down social media trends, discussing family and friendships, or asking if school’s a scam, no topic is off-limits. It’s all about growth, laughter, and honest conversations on love, stress, spirituality, and the pressure to keeping it together. So, take a break, manifest your dreams, and join me as I yap about it all—one relatable chat at a time.