Backpacking Through ADHD

Tera Greenwood

Backpacking Through ADHD is your guide for navigating the twists and turns of ADHD parenting. Whether you’re just starting out or deep in the journey, this podcast offers practical tools, personal stories, and expert advice to help you and your family thrive. Explore the peaks, valleys, and unexpected paths of ADHD with resilience, support, and camaraderie to make the trek a little easier.

  1. 5d ago

    Becoming Together: Helping our Kids Understand Their ADHD

    How do we explain ADHD to our children in a way that builds confidence instead of shame? In this episode of Backpacking Through ADHD, we're continuing our Becoming Together series with one of the most important conversations we can have as parents: helping our kids understand how their amazing brains work. Instead of seeing ADHD as something that's "wrong," what if we helped our children see it as part of who they are—complete with incredible strengths, unique challenges, and endless potential? Together we'll explore: Why understanding ADHD builds confidence and self-awareness. How to explain executive functioning in language children can understand. Practical ways to help kids become their own best advocates. Why knowing their strengths is just as important as understanding their challenges. Simple conversations every family can start today. This week's Parent University features The ADHD Dude, Ryan Wexelblatt, and a practical family lesson designed to help your child recognize what helps their brain thrive. Whether you're raising a newly diagnosed child or simply looking for better ways to talk about ADHD, this episode will leave you with encouragement, practical tools, and a renewed reminder that our goal isn't to change our children—it's to help them understand themselves. Song of the Episode: The Middle by Jimmy Eat World Because the greatest gift we can give our children isn't helping them become someone else... It's helping them discover the incredible person they're already becoming.

  2. Jul 19

    Becoming Together: Teaching Social Skills Without Crushing Confidence

    Before we start teaching our ADHD kids social skills, maybe we need to ask a different question. What if the challenge isn't that they don't know how to be a good friend? What if they're simply missing the invisible social cues that so many of us take for granted? In this week's episode of Backpacking Through ADHD, we're continuing our five-part Becoming Together series by exploring how to help our children build social awareness without making them feel like they need to change who they are. Through a real moment from tennis practice, Tera shares the delicate balance of helping a child grow while fiercely protecting their confidence. You'll also hear insights from Parent University, featuring Ryan Wexelblatt (ADHD Dude), and learn this week's simple Family Lesson: The Detective Game—a curiosity-based way to practice noticing social clues together without shame or criticism. Whether you're parenting an ADHD child or you're an adult who's still learning these same lessons, this episode is a reminder that becoming isn't about becoming someone else. It's about becoming more fully yourself, one small step at a time. In this episode: Why social awareness is different from social skills How ADHD affects reading social cues A simple shift from correction to coaching Parent University: Ryan Wexelblatt (ADHD Dude) Family Lesson: The Detective Game Song of the Episode: Better Place – Rachel Platten If this episode resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with another family walking this trail. Together, we're becoming—one conversation, one lesson, and one connection at a time.

  3. Jun 29

    Becoming Confident: When You're "Too Much" and Still Worthy

    As the school year comes to an end, many ADHD kids aren't just counting down to summer—they're carrying the emotional weight of months spent trying to focus, fit in, regulate big feelings, and hold everything together. When that invisible backpack gets too heavy, emotions often spill over. What adults sometimes see as overreacting, defiance, or attitude may actually be a nervous system that's simply exhausted. In this heartfelt episode of Backpacking Through ADHD: Becoming, Tera speaks directly to the child who has ever wondered if they're "too much"—too emotional, too sensitive, too loud, or too difficult—and reminds them of a truth every child deserves to hear: You do not need to become smaller to deserve love. Together, we'll explore: Why the end of the school year can be especially challenging for ADHD kids How emotional exhaustion affects behavior The difference between being overwhelmed and being "too much" Why rejection and friendship struggles can feel so much bigger with ADHD How parents can see the child beneath the behavior What real confidence looks like for an ADHD brain Whether you're listening with your child or on your own, this episode is an invitation to replace shame with understanding and to remember that our hardest moments never define our worth. Song of the Episode: Brave – Sara Bareilles Because being deeply emotional doesn't make you too much. It makes you human. And you are still worthy.

  4. May 16

    Becoming Understood: What’s Really Happening Beneath ADHD Behaviors

    In this episode of Backpacking Through ADHD, Tera sits down with clinical psychologist and behavior analyst Dr. Katrina Ostmeyer for a powerful conversation about what’s really happening underneath ADHD behaviors. Together, they explore emotional regulation, the nervous system, perfectionism, masking, and the difference between defiance and dysregulation—especially in children who don’t yet have the words to explain what they’re feeling. Tera also shares personal parenting moments with Grayson, including a recent experience on the baseball field that left her questioning how parents are supposed to respond when behavior looks intentional on the outside, but feels like something deeper underneath. Dr. Katrina brings both professional expertise and lived experience as a parent of two neurodivergent children, creating a conversation that feels grounded, validating, and deeply human. This episode is for: Parents trying to understand what’s underneath big reactions Women navigating ADHD and emotional overwhelm later in life Anyone who has ever felt misunderstood in their struggles Because sometimes behavior isn’t about defiance. Sometimes it’s a nervous system asking for support. To learn more about Dr. Katrina Ostmeyer and Beyond the Individual, including virtual services, visit: www.beyondtheindividual.com Song of the Episode: “Human” – Christina Perri If this episode resonated with you, please follow, review, and share Backpacking Through ADHD with someone who might need this conversation too.

  5. May 11

    Becoming a Friend: Repair after the Impulse

    In this episode of Backpacking Through ADHD, we’re talking about something that happens fast, often, and sometimes leaves a mark we don’t know how to fix: what happens after the impulse. This conversation is especially for ADHD kids who have ever had a moment they wish they could take back… and for the parents and caregivers helping guide them through it. When emotions move faster than words, ADHD kids can react before they fully process what they’re feeling. But this episode isn’t about shame, blame, or “fixing” behavior. It’s about teaching something deeper: repair. Because friendship isn’t built on getting it right all the time. It’s built on noticing, reconnecting, and learning how to come back after hard moments. Throughout the episode, Tera shares practical language kids can use, ways parents can model repair at home, and gentle reminders that ADHD kids are not “bad friends” — they are learning a more complex version of friendship rooted in emotional awareness, empathy, and resilience. This episode is also deeply personal. Although Grayson isn’t joining Tera for this conversation, the episode is written for him knowing he’ll listen someday — making it feel like a heartfelt letter to him and to every child learning how to navigate connection, mistakes, and belonging. Song of the Episode: Brave — Sara Bareilles Because bravery isn’t always loud. Sometimes bravery is saying, “I’m sorry.” Sometimes it’s asking, “Can I try that again?” And sometimes bravery is simply choosing to come back into the moment after wishing you could run away from it. If this episode resonates with you, please follow, review, and share Backpacking Through ADHD with someone who may need this reminder today. Keep going. Keep practicing. Keep becoming.

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Backpacking Through ADHD is your guide for navigating the twists and turns of ADHD parenting. Whether you’re just starting out or deep in the journey, this podcast offers practical tools, personal stories, and expert advice to help you and your family thrive. Explore the peaks, valleys, and unexpected paths of ADHD with resilience, support, and camaraderie to make the trek a little easier.