Starting Over : Life 2.0 With God

Tom Clairmont
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The Podcast for those that have had their world turned upside down. Life has a way of throwing us curveballs—divorce, job loss, unexpected heartbreak, or even just the nagging feeling that we’re stuck. If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “What’s next for me?” or “How do I rebuild when everything feels like it’s fallen apart?”—this podcast is for you. Life 2.0 With God is a space where we tackle those tough, raw, and real questions head-on. Drawing from personal experiences, biblical truths, and practical wisdom, I’ll walk with you through the challenges of starting over and creating a fresh start filled with hope and purpose. This isn’t about having all the answers or sugarcoating the struggles—it’s about being honest with where we are and leaning on God to guide us forward. You’ll hear relatable stories, powerful lessons, and even conversations with people who’ve faced their own “starting over” moments and found the courage to rebuild. Whether you’re picking up the pieces of a broken relationship, navigating a career setback, or simply trying to figure out who you are in this next season of life, Life 2.0 With God is here to remind you that you’re not alone. Together, we’ll embrace the beauty of second chances and discover what it means to live a life full of hope, faith, and purpose. If this Podcast encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources, stories, and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com. Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

  1. 50. When You’re Doing Everything Right But Nothing Is Working

    4d ago

    50. When You’re Doing Everything Right But Nothing Is Working

    What do you do when you're making better decisions, trying to follow God, and putting in the effort, but the results you expected still aren't showing up? Episode Summary Have you ever felt like you're doing all the right things, making better choices, praying for wisdom, working hard, and trying to honor God, yet nothing seems to be improving? In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard discuss the frustrating reality of putting in a mountain of effort while seeing little or no visible progress. Together they explore unmet expectations, God's timing, hidden growth, perseverance, and how to recognize when God may be doing something different than what you originally expected. This conversation offers practical encouragement for anyone who feels discouraged because the results they're hoping for haven't arrived yet. What You'll Hear Why effort and results don't always move at the same paceHow unmet expectations can create frustration and discouragementThe difference between visible progress and hidden growthWhy God's goals for your life may differ from your goalsThe role of patience when nothing seems to be changingHow small decisions can affect long-term outcomesWhy perseverance matters during seasons of uncertaintyThe importance of seeking wise counsel when you're confusedLessons from ministry, business, relationships, and personal growthHow obstacles can become part of God's preparation process Why You Should Listen If you've ever found yourself wondering, "What am I missing?" or "Why isn't this working?", this episode speaks directly to that experience. You'll hear a practical discussion about expectations, faith, perseverance, and how to keep moving forward when results seem delayed or invisible. Why This Episode Matters Many people give up not because they're doing the wrong things, but because they don't see immediate results. This episode reminds listeners that growth often happens beneath the surface before it becomes visible. Sometimes the greatest progress isn't found in changed circumstances but in the person God is shaping you to become.  Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNNG1XRB Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in God through Jesus Christ with a simple prayer of faith https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod

    25 min
  2. 49: Starting Over in Your 50s or 60's

    May 22

    49: Starting Over in Your 50s or 60's

    What do you do when life changes in your 50s or 60s and everything you thought was stable suddenly isn’t? In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard unpack what it really means to start over later in life, not just externally with finances, career, or relationships, but internally with mindset, expectations, and faith. This conversation explores how God works through unexpected transitions, helping you rebuild your life with clarity, purpose, and a renewed perspective rooted in Scripture. What You’ll Hear Why starting over later in life is more about a structural shift than just changeHow losing stability can actually reveal what truly mattersThe danger of trying to rebuild your future using past thinkingHow to move forward step by step when you can’t see the full pictureThe role of faith, prayer, and seeking wisdom instead of quick solutions Why You Should Listen If you’re facing a major life transition after 50—whether it’s financial, relational, or personal—this episode will help you make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface. Instead of repeating common advice, this conversation gives you a clearer framework for rebuilding in a way that actually fits your current stage of life. Why This Episode Matters Many people believe they should be settling down later in life, not starting over. But when life takes an unexpected turn, it often requires a complete shift in thinking, not just action. This episode challenges the idea of stability as permanent and shows how God uses disruption to reshape direction, helping you rebuild stronger, wiser, and more aligned with your purpose. Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNNG1XRB Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in God through Jesus Christ with a simple prayer of faith https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod

    25 min
  3. 48: When You Feel Like You’ve Wasted Too Much Time

    May 13

    48: When You Feel Like You’ve Wasted Too Much Time

    Have you ever looked back and felt like too much of your life was spent in the wrong places, with the wrong priorities, or in seasons that didn’t seem to move you forward? In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk about regret, lost time, painful delays, and how God can still use the years that feel wasted to build wisdom, purpose, and a stronger future. What You’ll Hear Why regret can distort the way you see your pastHow God can use seasons that looked unproductiveWhy comparison can make you feel further behind than you really areThe difference between wasted time and preparation timeBiblical examples from Jacob, Moses, Caleb, and the IsraelitesHow God can restore finances, relationships, direction, and purposeWhy the better question is not “How much time did I lose?” but “What can I do with the time I have now?” Why You Should Listen If you’ve been carrying regret over past decisions, lost years, missed opportunities, or seasons where life didn’t go the way you hoped, this conversation will help you see your story differently. Tom and Paul offer honest life experience, biblical perspective, and practical encouragement for trusting God with the time you still have. Why This Episode Matters Many people quietly live with the fear that they’ve waited too long, made too many mistakes, or missed their chance to live with purpose. This episode matters because it reminds listeners that God can redeem what feels lost, reshape how they see the past, and help them move forward with wisdom instead of regret. Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNNG1XRB Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in God through Jesus Christ with a simple prayer of faith https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod

    28 min
  4. 47: How to Let Go of Control Without Losing Direction

    May 2

    47: How to Let Go of Control Without Losing Direction

    What do you do when you feel like everything depends on you holding it all together? In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard tackle the tension many men face when life feels uncertain and out of control. When relationships shift, finances tighten, and direction becomes unclear, the instinct is often to push harder, take control, and try to manage every outcome. But over time, that pressure becomes overwhelming. Tom shares personal experiences of trying to carry the weight of every decision, while Paul breaks down the difference between control and trust. Together, they explain why letting go is not about becoming passive, but about shifting from self-reliance to dependence on God. They also discuss real-life examples, including financial pressure, major life transitions, and the challenge of trusting God when the outcome is unclear. This episode reframes what it means to move forward. Direction doesn’t come from controlling every detail. It comes from aligning with God, taking the next step, and trusting Him with what you can’t see yet. What You’ll Hear Why men often feel responsible to hold everything togetherHow control creates pressure that leads to mental and spiritual exhaustionThe difference between letting go and giving upWhy submission to God is active, not passiveHow to move forward when you don’t have full clarityReal examples of trusting God in finances, decisions, and major life changesWhy taking one step matters more than having the full plan Why You Should Listen If you feel like the weight of your life is on your shoulders and you’re afraid to let go, this episode will help you reset your perspective. It offers practical, faith-based guidance on how to keep moving forward without trying to control everything. Why This Episode Matters Many men equate control with responsibility. But carrying everything alone leads to burnout, frustration, and fear. This episode matters because it shows a better way forward. One that still involves action, but removes the pressure of having to control every outcome. It reminds listeners that God is not asking them to carry the whole load, just to trust Him with the next step. Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNNG1XRB Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in God through Jesus Christ with a simple prayer of faith https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod Full Transcript Link: https://drive.google.com/file/d/1is_gDKfHpDPInEaiCzujYZa5PFpcM3vx/view?usp=sharing

    26 min
  5. 46: When You’re Tired of Starting Over Again and Again

    Apr 19

    46: When You’re Tired of Starting Over Again and Again

    What do you do when it feels like life keeps knocking you back to the beginning? In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk honestly about the deep exhaustion that comes from having to start over more than once. Not just the kind of tired that sleep fixes, but the kind that settles into your spirit and makes you wonder how many more times you can do this. Tom opens up about the frustration of rebuilding, making progress, and then watching life reset again. Paul brings insight into why repeated patterns can feel so defeating and why they may also reveal lessons, habits, beliefs, or expectations that still need to be addressed. Together, they explore the difference between starting over from scratch and starting over from experience, and why repeated setbacks do not mean God has abandoned the story. This episode also looks at biblical examples like Moses and Peter, both of whom had to keep getting up, keep learning, and keep letting God shape them through failure, delay, and redirection. The message is clear: life may feel repetitive, but God is not just repeating your pain. He is refining you through it. What You’ll Hear Why repeated setbacks feel heavier than a one-time failureHow emotional and spiritual exhaustion can build after multiple restartsThe difference between starting over from scratch and starting over with experienceWhy repeated struggles may reveal patterns, habits, or beliefs that need attentionHow God can use earlier failures to prepare you for later growthWhat Moses and Peter teach us about repeated resets and spiritual formationWhy feeling worn down does not mean your life is stuck Why You Should Listen If you’ve ever thought, “I can’t believe I’m here again,” this episode will meet you right where you are. It’s for the person who is emotionally drained, discouraged by repetition, and struggling to believe that anything different can still happen. This conversation offers biblical perspective, honesty, and hope for the person who feels worn out by starting over. Why This Episode Matters Many people can survive one hard reset. But when life keeps forcing new beginnings, it can wear down confidence, hope, and faith. This episode matters because it speaks to that deeper kind of fatigue. It reminds listeners that repeated setbacks are not proof that God is done with them. They may actually be part of how He is building wisdom, resilience, and a stronger foundation for what comes next. Bible Verses Featured Isaiah 40:29–31 (ASV) “He giveth power to the faint; and to him that hath no might he increaseth strength... they that wait for Jehovah shall renew their strength...” 2 Corinthians 4:16 (ASV) “Wherefore we faint not; but though our outward man is decaying, yet our inward man is renewed day by day.” Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNNG1XRB Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in God through Jesus Christ with a simple prayer of faith https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod

    29 min
  6. 45: When You Feel Left Behind In Life

    Apr 8

    45: When You Feel Left Behind In Life

    Have you ever looked around and quietly wondered why it feels like everyone else is moving forward while you’re standing still? In this episode of Starting Over | Life 2.0 With God, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk honestly about the pain of feeling left behind in life. Whether it’s relationships, career progress, finances, healing, or purpose, this conversation speaks to that quiet ache that shows up when other people seem to be doing better, moving faster, or finding their breakthrough before you do. Tom and Paul unpack how comparison often hides grief, how status and identity can distort the way we see ourselves, and why God is not measuring your life by someone else’s timeline. They also talk about the danger of social media comparison, the pressure to feel important in the eyes of others, and the difference between looking successful and actually being at peace. This episode is a reminder that slow doesn’t mean stuck, delay doesn’t mean denial, and just because your season looks quiet doesn’t mean God is doing nothing. What You’ll Hear Why comparison often grows out of grief, not jealousyHow social media and status can distort the way you see your own lifeWhy feeling left behind doesn’t mean you’re failingThe difference between titles, roles, and true identityHow God works in unseen ways during quiet seasonsWhy your life is not on the same timeline as anyone else’sHow waiting seasons can actually be preparation, not punishment Why You Should Listen If you’ve been struggling with comparison, discouragement, or that quiet feeling that life is passing you by, this episode will meet you right where you are. It offers a faith-based perspective that helps you breathe, reset, and stop measuring your worth by someone else’s pace. Why This Episode Matters A lot of people feel ashamed for not being further along by now. But this episode reminds listeners that God is not in a hurry, and He is not overlooking their story. What feels like delay may actually be preparation. What feels unseen may still be deeply important. This conversation matters because it helps listeners stop comparing, start trusting, and recognize that God is still at work even when life feels slow. Bible Verses Featured Habakkuk 2:3 (ASV) “For the vision is yet for the appointed time… though it tarry, wait for it; because it will surely come, it will not delay.” Psalm 27:14 (ASV) “Wait for Jehovah: Be strong, and let thy heart take courage; Yea, wait thou for Jehovah.” Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNNG1XRB Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in God through Jesus Christ with a simple prayer of faith https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod

    29 min
  7. 44: Why Do I Need God to Start Over?

    Mar 29

    44: Why Do I Need God to Start Over?

    “Reinvent yourself.” “Take control of your life.” “Design the future you want.” “Build the life you deserve.” A lot of people believe starting over is mainly about working harder, planning better, and rebuilding life through personal determination. But in this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard challenge that mindset with a much deeper question: do we really understand how involved God already is in the process of our lives? Through honest conversation, biblical perspective, and personal reflection, this episode explains why starting over with God is not about giving up responsibility, but about recognizing that we were never fully in control to begin with. Tom and Paul talk about the limits of self-reliance, the reality of God’s sovereignty, and how crisis often exposes just how much we need divine direction, healing, and transformation. This conversation also makes a clear distinction between general spirituality and the specific Christian message of hope, salvation, and new life through Jesus Christ. What You’ll Hear Why culture teaches self-reliance while Scripture teaches dependence on GodHow life crises expose how little control we really haveWhy God has been involved in your story, even when you did not recognize itHow painful events can become places where God brings healing and directionWhy starting over with God is about transformation, not just recoveryThe difference between trying to rebuild life alone and being led by GodHow the six phases of starting over can help bring clarity and structure to a difficult season Why You Should Listen If you’ve ever wondered whether you really need God to rebuild your life, this episode will help you think more clearly about that question. It’s especially helpful for listeners who feel overwhelmed, spiritually uncertain, or stuck in a difficult season and need a stronger foundation than just effort and willpower. Why This Episode Matters Starting over can feel heavy when you think everything depends on you. This episode matters because it shifts that burden. It reminds listeners that God is not distant, unaware, or late. He is present, sovereign, and already at work. Instead of asking only, “How do I fix my life?” this conversation helps listeners begin asking, “How is God leading me through this next chapter?” Full Transcription: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1YwmUZ6Ju2trqPomtNgEVNrcBWnQE_RPvs6cKMpISnew/edit?usp=sharing Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FNNG1XRB Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in God through Jesus Christ with a simple prayer of faith https://tinyurl.com/asalvationprayer Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod

    34 min
  8. 43: Waiting On God or Taking Action? How To Know The Difference

    Mar 22

    43: Waiting On God or Taking Action? How To Know The Difference

    One of the hardest parts of starting over is knowing what to do next. Do you wait on God and trust His timing, or do you step out and take action in faith? In this episode, Tom Clairmont and Paul Berard talk honestly about that tension many believers face during uncertain seasons. Whether you’re dealing with career change, financial rebuilding, relationship questions, or fear about the future, this conversation gets right to the heart of what makes discernment so difficult. Tom and Paul unpack the difference between faithful waiting and fear-based hesitation, and they also talk about the danger of rushing ahead without God’s direction. Through personal stories, practical insight, and biblical encouragement, this episode reminds listeners that waiting is not the same as doing nothing, and action is not always the same as obedience. Sometimes God asks us to pause. Sometimes He asks us to move. And often, clarity comes after we take the next faithful step. What You’ll Hear Why so many believers struggle to know when to wait and when to actThe difference between godly waiting and fear-driven inactionHow rushing ahead can create problems, even with good intentionsWhy God often gives the next step instead of the full planHow peace, prayer, and wise counsel help with discernmentThe role fear plays in decision-making during uncertain seasonsWhy obedience usually comes before clarity, not after it Why You Should Listen If you’ve been stuck between wanting to move forward and being afraid to make the wrong decision, this episode will meet you right where you are. It offers biblical perspective, honest conversation, and reassurance that you’re not the only one who struggles with timing, uncertainty, and fear about the future. Why This Episode Matters A lot of people stay stuck because they’re afraid of moving too soon, while others make painful mistakes because they rush ahead. This episode matters because it speaks to that very real in-between place. It reminds listeners that God is not trying to confuse them or set them up to fail. He is shaping trust, building character, and leading one step at a time. Like the Podcast? Go deeper with the book on Amazon- HERE Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. Be on the weekly encouraging email list: https://subscribepage.io/QoLunB Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior into your life for healing and salvation? Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE. Join the 'Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God' Facebook community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/startingoverwithgod

    33 min
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The Podcast for those that have had their world turned upside down. Life has a way of throwing us curveballs—divorce, job loss, unexpected heartbreak, or even just the nagging feeling that we’re stuck. If you’ve ever found yourself asking, “What’s next for me?” or “How do I rebuild when everything feels like it’s fallen apart?”—this podcast is for you. Life 2.0 With God is a space where we tackle those tough, raw, and real questions head-on. Drawing from personal experiences, biblical truths, and practical wisdom, I’ll walk with you through the challenges of starting over and creating a fresh start filled with hope and purpose. This isn’t about having all the answers or sugarcoating the struggles—it’s about being honest with where we are and leaning on God to guide us forward. You’ll hear relatable stories, powerful lessons, and even conversations with people who’ve faced their own “starting over” moments and found the courage to rebuild. Whether you’re picking up the pieces of a broken relationship, navigating a career setback, or simply trying to figure out who you are in this next season of life, Life 2.0 With God is here to remind you that you’re not alone. Together, we’ll embrace the beauty of second chances and discover what it means to live a life full of hope, faith, and purpose. If this Podcast encouraged you, take the next step by visiting www.newlifewithgodpodcast.com. There, you’ll find additional resources, stories, and tools to help you navigate life’s challenges and rebuild with faith and purpose. Share this episode with someone who may need a reminder that they’re not alone. Let’s inspire hope and show that with God’s grace, even the most broken seasons can lead to a beautiful new beginning. If you'd like a copy of Tom's book "Starting Over: Life 2.0 With God', visit www.thestartingoverbook.com. Do you want to know God and receive Jesus as Savior? His death paid the price for your sins. Put your trust in Him with a simple prayer of faith HERE.

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