Dirty Laundry with Ollie

Olivia DeBoer

Dirty Laundry with Ollie is a podcast that elevates personal stories and supports women in trusting themselves again. Through honest storytelling, gentle psychoeducation, and meaningful conversation, each season explores themes like identity, motherhood, relationships, healing, and personal growth. This is a space to unlearn the noise, reclaim your voice, and build community. My hope is that every woman who listens feels grounded, seen, empowered, and confident in who she already is. Together, we are healing out loud.

  1. Aug 11

    BODY IMAGE: The Girl with Perfect Hair: Body Image, Perfectionism, Fashion, Running and Freedom with Andrea Kuivinen | S07E58

    Body image is something almost all of us have wrestled with in one way or another. Throughout this season, we’re sharing honest stories, conversations, and practical resources that explore the many layers of our relationship with our bodies—from food and movement to identity, self-worth, healing, and hope. My prayer is that these episodes help you feel less alone, challenge the narratives you’ve carried, and remind you that your value has never been defined by the way you look. Today’s conversation is with my friend, Andrea. Andrea is a runner, works in the fashion industry, and is someone I’ve known to be incredibly driven. She’s always had that type-A, high-achieving energy, and like so many women, she’s spent a lot of her life navigating the pressure to look a certain way, perform a certain way, and be a certain way. In this episode, Andrea shares her journey with body image, confidence, perfectionism, and the ways those stories started much earlier than most people realize. We talk about getting up before sunrise to put on makeup before swim practice, the messages we absorb about beauty and worth, and what it looks like to slowly untangle yourself from those expectations. What I love most about this conversation is that it isn’t about arriving at some perfect destination. It’s about learning to take up space, trust yourself, and move toward wholeness one step at a time. Whether you’ve ever struggled with body image, felt trapped by perfectionism, or found yourself constantly chasing the next version of yourself, I think you’ll find pieces of your own story in Andrea’s. Links:  Dirty Laundry Links Be a Guest on the Podcast Book a FREE Therapy Consult  Connect with Andrea Work with Andrea

  2. Jul 29

    MOTHERHOOD: The Heart of a Lioness: Carrying Grief, Holding Faith, and Choosing Life with Lisa Price | S06E57

    There are some conversations that stay with you long after the microphones are turned off. This is one of them. Today, I’m sitting down with Lisa Price, founder of Bereaved Together, and we talk about something no parent ever imagines having to navigate—the loss of a child. Lisa shares the story of losing her daughter, the heartbreak that followed, and what it has looked like to keep living, loving, and mothering through it all. We talk about EMDR therapy, faith, the questions that don’t always have answers, and the reality of holding joy and grief in the same hand. We also talk about what it’s like to raise her son while continuing to love, honor, and parent a daughter who is no longer physically here. What I loved most about this conversation is that Lisa doesn’t try to tie grief up with a neat little bow. She speaks honestly about the messiness of it, the loneliness of it, and the ways God has met her in places she never wanted to be. Whether you’ve experienced the loss of a child, another significant loss, or you’re simply trying to better understand someone you love, I think you’ll find something here. This conversation is tender, honest, heartbreaking, hopeful, and such a beautiful reminder that love doesn’t end when someone dies. So take a deep breath, settle in, and join me as we hold space your yet another beautiful story about love. Links Mentioned in Today's Episode: Dirty Laundry Links Book a FREE Therapy Consult  Connect with Lisa

  3. May 19

    MOTHERHOOD: Growing Up Brave: Motherhood, Body Image, “Balance” and Everything In Between with Reja Basyyoni | S06E52

    Welcome back to Dirty Laundry with Ollie—this season is all about motherhood. The beautiful parts, the messy parts, and everything we don’t usually say out loud. Around here, we don’t fold it up neatly, we air it out. Real stories, honest conversations, and reminders that you’re not alone in this. So wherever you’re listening from, take a breath… this is motherhood, aired out.  I am SO excited to have Reja back in the studio. If you haven’t listened to her first episode, I would highly recommend you circle back to Season 05 Episode 36. I know you will be inspired and encouraged by her story.  Today, Raja and I talk honestly about motherhood, grief, body image, and the quiet pressure to hold everything together perfectly. We unpack why work-life balance is a faulty structure, how perfectionism sneaks into our bodies and our parenting, and what it looks like to invite our children into our grief without asking them to carry it for us. This conversation is grounding, gentle, and deeply encouraging—a reminder that grace matters more than getting it right. Whether you’re navigating loss, trauma, or the everyday weight of motherhood, this episode is an invitation to soften, release unrealistic expectations, and trust that you’re doing more than enough. On Dirty Laundry with Ollie, this episode covers:     •    Why “balance” is often an illusion—and what to aim for instead     •    Body image, self-compassion, and releasing perfectionism in motherhood     •    How to include children in grief without placing the burden on them     •    Navigating work, motherhood, and identity with more grace     •    Encouragement for anyone walking through grief, trauma, or transition Links: Dirty Laundry Links⁠  ⁠Reja’s Instagram⁠  ⁠Reja’s Website⁠  ⁠Free Mobility Work with Reja⁠

  4. May 5

    MOTHERHOOD: Holding the Baby and Honoring the Story: Infertility, Endometriosis, Body Image, and Motherhood with Maria Layton Armstrong | S06E51

    Trigger warning: This episode contains conversations about infertility and pregnancy. Hello, this is Ollie, and welcome to Dirty Laundry with Ollie. A podcast that elevates personal stories and supports women in trusting themselves again, unlearning the noise, reclaiming their voice, and living from a place of wholeness, not pressure. Each season, we explore unique and meaningful topics through honest storytelling and shared lived experience, weaving in gentle psychoeducation, tangible tools, and moments of lightness. This is a space to build community, soften division, and remind us how deeply connected we really are. My hope is that every person who shares and every one who listens feels the quiet strength of their own story, honors the resilience they already carry, and feels grounded, seen, and whole – exactly as they are, and confident in where they’re going. Before we begin, I just want to acknowledge that if you are currently walking through infertility, conversations that sound like “happy endings” can feel deeply triggering. Please take care of your heart. If this isn’t the right time to listen, it is more than okay to press pause and come back next week. There is no pressure here. My hope is that this space feels encouraging and uplifting — and if today that means choosing not to listen, that is completely valid. You are seen, exactly where you are. Maria Layton Armstrong first joined us during our infertility season and now she’s back, holding her baby girl in her arms. In this tender conversation, we talk about the quiet coexistence of grief and joy, endometriosis, infertility into motherhood, body image after pregnancy, answered prayers, and what motherhood means on the other side of longing. If you’re navigating timelines, trust, or the tension of “both/and,” this one will gently hold you. This is Dirty Laundry with Ollie. And together, we are healing out loud. Links: Dirty Laundry Links Listen to Maris’s Infertility Journey here  Maria’s Instagram

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Dirty Laundry with Ollie is a podcast that elevates personal stories and supports women in trusting themselves again. Through honest storytelling, gentle psychoeducation, and meaningful conversation, each season explores themes like identity, motherhood, relationships, healing, and personal growth. This is a space to unlearn the noise, reclaim your voice, and build community. My hope is that every woman who listens feels grounded, seen, empowered, and confident in who she already is. Together, we are healing out loud.