Leadership Huddle with Geoff Welch

Geoff Welch

Leadership Huddle is a resource for developmental leaders who value communicating clearly, helping others smash limiting beliefs, and drawing the best work from themselves and those they lead.  Covering topics related to personal and developmental leadership, self-management,  delegation, and healthy mindsets, Geoff Welch uses each episode to help leaders like you enrich their people and build winning teams.

  1. 3d ago

    No one cares about what you want

    Here’s a really paradoxical way to get more of what you want.Stop focusing on what you want. Okay, not completely, but when it comes to a negotiation or when you are trying to elicit the help you need to get where you want to go, you are probably too focused on yourself.Remember, you are the hero of your story, but you're just a supporting cast member in theirs.Your goals and desires are central to your story, but they could literally be a distraction in their story.Here’s a simple change in thinking that will fundamentally improve how you negotiate and how you ask for help: ask yourself WHAT DO THEY WANT?We are so concerned with our own hopes and dreams that we focus more on trying to convince someone to want what we want or love what we love and we fail to consider that our goals are a side quest for them.When you take even just a few minutes to consider what is important to THEM, what they care about, you will be able to craft an ask (or an argument) that is far more likely to make sense to them.The goal is not to manipulate, but to find alignment. The goal is to find the area of your Venn diagrams that overlap.OPPORTUNITY FOR ACTION: The next time you need help or need to make a compelling argument, pause for a moment to reflect on what the other party wants. What are they trying to accomplish? What matters to them? Every ask or argument will improve when you focus less on YOUR desired outcome and more on their interests.My free PDF, “The 5 Secrets of Impossibly Effective Teams,” will show you the simple leadership moves that help teams unlock their full potential and deliver outsized results, without burning out. Grab your copy now at geoffwelch.com/secrets

  2. Oct 18

    The secret to success is simple

    Success means a lot of different things to a lot of different people, but there is one simple practice that will increase the likelihood of success no matter how you define it.Do what you say you will do.Not what you promise to do. Not what you swear on the lives of your children you will do. Not what you make a solemn oath to do.Just do what you say you will do.When you tell someone you’ll be there at 9:00, be there at 9:00.When you tell someone you’ll finish the report this week, finish the report this week.When you tell someone you want to meet for coffee, meet for coffee.When you tell your boss you’ll hit the sales goal, hit the sales goal.When you tell your people you’ll find a solution to a problem that drives them crazy, find a solution.And when you tell yourself you’ll hit the gym, take the trip, or enroll in the class, do it.(Truly, breaking commitments to yourself opens the door to failure in every aspect of your life.)Does this mean you can’t renegotiate terms when circumstances change? Of course not.It means that you will proactively renegotiate those terms instead of just letting things slide.This isn’t just a matter of “virtue” or “goodness,” it’s a matter of trust.Trust with others and trust with yourself.When you do what you say you will do you become a person who others believe in…and most importantly…who you believe in. You don’t necessarily have to be better, smarter, and faster to win.But you do have to do what you say you will do.TRY THIS: Become impeccable with your word. Hold yourself accountable to your agreements, even when others won’t. Proactively renegotiate terms when things change. Watch what happens.My free PDF, “The 5 Secrets of Impossibly Effective Teams,” will show you the simple leadership moves that help teams unlock their full potential and deliver outsized results, without burning out. Grab your copy now at geoffwelch.com/secrets

  3. Oct 11

    You aren’t prepared for what comes next

    This one is a little bit embarrassing.I started playing the drums when I was 12. The son of a drummer and pianist, I suppose it was only a matter of time.38 years later I am a competent drummer who is very comfortable with what I can (and can’t) do with the instrument.It feels good to be good at something but, if I’m really honest with myself, I haven’t actually improved as a drummer in about 20 years.That feels astonishing to me.Being a drummer is an important part of who I am and the idea that 20 years could pass while simply treading water seems crazy.But it’s really just a matter of priorities, and growing as a drummer felt less important once I achieved a certain level of proficiency.That might sound cocky, or woefully shortsighted, but there it is.I did some quick math last night and if I had spent 1 hour per day for 38 years focused on developing as a drummer I would have logged nearly 14,000 hours of growth.I’m fully convinced that the gap between me (and anyone, really) and being a truly great drummer, is that 14,000 hours of development. Well, not 14,000 specifically, but doing a little focused work over and over for years and decades. Doing 14,000 hours of work seems like a crazy commitment looking forward.But looking back, an hour a day doesn’t seem like a whole lot relative to the progress it would unlock.For you, dear reader, this is a reminder that there will be moments when being “good enough” or “better than most” as a leader feels like an opportunity to rest.But there is always something new to learn and there will always be a new challenge around the corner ready to test your abilities.This is not a call to “grind” or otherwise develop a relentless obsession for more.This is a call to never expect today’s skills to carry you through tomorrow’s problems and to invest in consistent growth that compounds over time.You don’t need to acquire 14,000 hours of growth this year or even this decade.But don’t discount what a few hours of learning and development each week can become over the course of a career.TRY THIS: What is a skill you’d like to improve or something you want to learn more about? Could you take a class at a local university? Find an online course? Engage with a coach? Learn more on YouTube?Ask yourself every single week: What did I learn this week? What should I be learning next week?Consistency over intensity…My free PDF, “The 5 Secrets of Impossibly Effective Teams,” will show you the simple leadership moves that help teams unlock their full potential and deliver outsized results, without burning out. Grab your copy now at geoffwelch.com/secrets

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Leadership Huddle is a resource for developmental leaders who value communicating clearly, helping others smash limiting beliefs, and drawing the best work from themselves and those they lead.  Covering topics related to personal and developmental leadership, self-management,  delegation, and healthy mindsets, Geoff Welch uses each episode to help leaders like you enrich their people and build winning teams.