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  1. 8H AGO

    New Habits

    "Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new." (II Corinthians 5:17, NKJV) How much of our lives are controlled by habits? Probably more than we think. Whether we admit it or not, most of us are creatures of habit. A habit is a pattern of behavior that we develop by repetition. We have certain things we do each day or at certain times. Some of these are good habits, while others may not be so good. HEALTHY HABITS Because it is important to take care of my body, I have developed some habits that I feel are healthy. I brush and floss my teeth. I start my day with breakfast, take a multi-vitamin, and fasten my seatbelt. Yes, I will admit some habits are not as healthy, but let's not talk about skipping exercise and eating junk food. You have your own routines and habits as well. Perhaps you rise early for a morning jog, drink a healthy smoothie for breakfast, or treat yourself to a fancy coffee on the way to work. The word habit is not found in the King James Bible, although some versions do use it. Instead, we read the words custom and manner in some verses. But the word is implied in several places. When II Corinthians 5:17 tells us that we are a new creation in Christ, it indicates that we are changing our old habits of this world and are putting on new habits that will reflect and enrich our changed life. Colossians 3:1-17 repeats this theme. NEW LIFE, NEW HABITS What habits do we need to develop in our new life with God? Most of us would immediately say we must pray and read our Bibles, and that is true. Those two things are essential to our Christian walk, but there are more habits we need to build into our spiritual life. These include habits of devotion and dedication and include things such as: The habit of assembling with other believers. The habit of seeking God's will for our life. The habit of contributing — our time, our money, our talents. The habit of treating others with kindness and mercy. The habit of faithfulness. The habit of self-discipline. The habit of gratitude­ — to God and to others. This list isn't all-inclusive, but it may help reveal areas that need more of our focus. We form good habits by consistent repetition. They create space for God in our life and help us deepen our relationship with Him. "And whatever you do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through Him." (Colossians 3:17, NKJV) Reflection: What spiritual habits have helped you grow stronger as a child of God? What new habits should you add? Do you have an accountability partner? Devotion by Mary Loudermilk

    3 min
  2. 1D AGO

    A Revival of One

    Then Philip went down to the city of Samaria and preached Christ to them. And the multitudes with one accord heeded the things spoken by Philip, hearing and seeing the miracles which he did. (Acts 8:5-6, NKJV) Sounds of revival filled Samaria. As Philip preached, souls were saved. Miracles, healings, and deliverance from unclean spirits happened. Multitudes turned to the Lord in this time of spiritual awakening. Acts 8:8 says there was great joy in the city. With so much happening, it seems strange that an angel instructed Philip to leave the Samaritan revival and head south toward the desert. And yet, that is what Philip was told to do. Now an angel of the Lord spoke to Philip, saying, "Arise and go toward the south along the road which goes down from Jerusalem to Gaza." This is desert. (Acts 8:26, NKJV) The Search for Understanding What did Philip find along that desert road? An Ethiopian man sitting in a chariot. Philip was prompted to go near and join the man in the chariot. As Philip approached, he heard the man reading from a scroll of the prophet Isaiah. "Do you understand what you are reading?" Philip inquired. The man admitted that he did not. "How can I, unless someone guides me?" he asked. Then he invited the man of God into his chariot. Scripture doesn't say how long that Bible study lasted, but it was long enough for Philip to explain exactly who the prophet meant in Isaiah 53. It was long enough to tell the Ethiopian about Jesus and the way of salvation. And, it was long enough for the man to understand that his next step was baptism. "See, here is water. What hinders me from being baptized?" There was enough water in that dry place for Philip to baptize a hungry soul. Then, Philip was caught away by the Spirit, and the man continued on his way rejoicing at what he had experienced (verse 39). A Revival of One Philip went from a city-wide revival to meeting a lone man on a desert road. It seems small, insignificant even. But nothing orchestrated by God will ever be small and insignificant. It only means that sometimes God chooses not to reveal the full scope of what He is doing to us. We may never grasp the complete spiritual significance of that one "small" event. How many lives did that man touch when he returned home with a new understanding of the Scriptures? Remember, God often works behind the scenes to fulfill His plan and purpose. What seems small to us may be the beginning of something big in the spiritual realm. A seemingly random encounter, an unexpected phone call, a delay, a detour. Any of these "small" happenings may be God positioning us. Never underestimate what God can and will do when we listen to His voice and obey. Philip's willing obedience to leave a revival and head down a desert road brought truth to a seeking soul. He had no idea what or whom he might find, but he stepped out as directed. Are we willing to follow the promptings of the Lord, even if it means leaving behind something good for something unknown? Trust Him! "Teach me to do Your will, for You are my God; Your Spirit is good. Lead me in the land of uprightness." (Psalm 143:10, NKJV) Devotion by Mary Loudermilk

    4 min
  3. 2D AGO

    7 Reasons to Delight at God's Word

    When was the last time you heard someone exclaim, "I enjoy obeying your commands; I love them!"? Yet, this is exactly what David says multiple times in the Psalms. David's unwavering delight in God's Word was key to his relationship with God. From Psalm 119 (ESV), here are seven reasons to delight in God's Word: 1. The Word guards against sin. "I have stored up your word in my heart, that I might not sin against you" (verse 11). The Bible is infinitely valuable because it exposes sin, which separates us from God, so we can repent and return to Him. The reward of following God's law is salvation and eternal life. Delight in that! 2. The Word is wisdom. "Your testimonies are my delight; they are my counselors" (verse 24). The Bible is an advisor we can trust, a friend we seek for counsel. It's a delight to be guided by the source of all wisdom! 3. The Word inspires obedience. "Lead me in the path of your commandments, for I delight in it. Incline my heart to your testimonies" (verses 35-36). In other words, bend my heart submissively toward Your law, God, and "turn my eyes from looking at worthless things" (verse 37). This is how we stay on the trail of delight. 4. The Word is our source of delight. "I find my delight in your commandments, … I will lift up my hands toward your commandments, which I love" (verses 47-48). Both duty and delight are referenced repeatedly in Scripture. Duty has to do with what is owed: what we ought or should do. Delight isn't defined by what is owed, but rather by what is truly enjoyed at the deepest possible level. We love the Word of God because it is the source of our greatest pleasure and highest joy! 5. The Word softens our hearts. "Their heart is unfeeling like fat, but I delight in your law" (verse 70). We develop a deep sensitivity toward the character, the voice, and the plan of God when we study His Word. When we truly believe God is good and does good for us in every situation, we wouldn't trade His Word for "thousands of gold and silver pieces" (verse 72). 6. The Word carries mercy. "Let your mercy come to me, that I may live; for your law is my delight" (verse 77). When we fail, the Bible breathes words of compassion and forgiveness into our soul. God's tender mercy toward us is cause for grateful delight. 7. The Word strengthens in times of trouble. "If your law had not been my delight, I would have perished in my affliction" (verse 92). When we feel like suffering is going to destroy us, God's promises bring comfort and hope. During a season of waiting for deliverance, God's Word sustains us with joy. Today's Reflection What difficulty with delight does Paul confess when he writes: "For I delight in the law of God … but I see in my members another law waging war against the law of my mind and making me captive to the law of sin" (Romans 7:22-23, ESV)? How would you paraphrase these words of Paul from your own experience? Does Psalm 119:9-16 describe your relationship with the Word of God? What areas do you need to improve? What would change in your life if you looked to God's Word as the source of all delight? TODAY'S DEVOTIONAL WAS WRITTEN BY JULIE LONG

    4 min
  4. 3D AGO

    3 Essentials of Celebration

    God built into Israel's calendar about thirty days of feasts per year. Add the weekly Sabbaths, and the total celebration time comes to around eighty days of feasting and rest annually. God is serious about celebration! When God mandated celebration among His people in the Old Testament, He used three Hebrew words: hâlal, châgag and shâbath. At the dedication of Jerusalem's rebuilt wall in Nehemiah 12 (ESV), these three essentials of celebration are included. Celebration Keeps God Central Nehemiah's celebration plans included instruments and singers filling the air with triumphant praise. The people sang and offered sacrifices to God with praise that centered their hearts on the source of their joy (verse 27). God is both the reason and the focus of our celebration. Without celebration we lack the strength we need to face life's greatest challenges and opportunities. In the middle of a day of celebration, we read this familiar phrase in Nehemiah 8:10: "The joy of the Lord is your strength." Celebration holds the key to the strength we desperately need—the Lord. And, it is powerful when it is habitually practiced. Paul wrote, "Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice" (Philippians 4:4). Celebration Claims God's Promises Nehemiah organized the people into two choirs that marched in different directions around the wall encircling the city (verses 31-39). Symbolic walking by faith to receive God's promises is a familiar concept in Scripture. In Genesis, God told Abraham to walk through the land and "I will give it to you." Joshua was told that "every place" his foot "tread upon" was his. God's people were instructed to walk around Jericho before the walls of the city fell and they conquered it. Claiming God's promises are necessary to a life of victory. When we keep celebrating by faith, we surround our lives with hope (Romans 15:13). Celebration Culminates in Rest After they walked around the wall (verse 38), they went into the house of God (verse 40). They gave "great sacrifices" and entire families rejoiced with "great joy" (verse 43). This is the crowning moment of the celebration. The sound of rejoicing was so loud it could be heard far and wide. When we are partnering with God on something and it gets done, God wants us to celebrate! He loves to take time to sit back and enjoy what has been accomplished (Genesis 2; Exodus 15; Revelation 19). Learning to celebrate the goodness of God releases overflowing joy that points others to our great God who always causes us to triumph. Building margin into our lives for rejuvenation through celebration also allows God to give us rest from our adversaries. God uses our celebration to silence the enemy (Nehemiah 6:16). Satan and his followers have nothing to say when God does a great work in and through otherwise weak people! TODAY'S REFLECTION: What can you learn about practicing the discipline of celebration from Israel's dedication of the wall? Have you walked around a situation by faith and claimed the promises of God? Have you prayed your way around every aspect of it, surrounded it in celebration, and asked God to give it to you? In what ways has God challenged you to live a life of celebration? TODAY'S DEVOTION WAS WRITTEN BY JULIE LONG

    4 min
  5. 4D AGO

    Present is Better Than Perfect

    "Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil." — Epistle to the Ephesians 5:15–16 (ESV) Sweet friend, motherhood can feel like a race we never signed up to run. There are meals to cook, laundry to fold, emails to answer, practices to attend, and a calendar that seems to fill itself. We live in a culture of hurry—and if we're not careful, hurry becomes the rhythm of our hearts. When we rush through our days, we often miss the sacred invitations hidden inside them. The little voice that says, "Mom, watch this." The quiet nudge of the Holy Spirit calling us to pause. The opportunity to choose connection over completion. Sometimes the people we love most begin to feel like interruptions instead of our ministry. But what if the very moments we're tempted to rush past are the holy ground God has prepared for us? Present parenting isn't about perfection. It's about posture. It's choosing to be unhurried, relaxed, and attentive—trusting that God will help us steward both our time and our hearts. Five ways to practice being present 1. Come Away and Be Refreshed When we ignore our limits, we quickly find ourselves depleted and overwhelmed. And exhausted hearts struggle to love well. Even fifteen quiet minutes can restore a weary soul. Step away. Breathe deeply. Open your Bible. Whisper a prayer. Sit with Jesus. His presence is not a luxury—it is our lifeline. When we choose His presence, even the washing of dishes becomes worship. He longs to do everyday life with us. 2. Create Boundaries for Technology Our devices promise connection but often steal it. Social media, texts, and notifications can quietly pull us away from the people right in front of us. Technology isn't the enemy—but unguarded use can be. Set gentle boundaries. Designate device-free times or spaces in your home. Show your children what it looks like to value people over screens. Log fewer minutes online and savor more moments face-to-face. 3. Practice the Ministry of Listening There is something deeply affirming about being truly heard. When we stop, look into our children's eyes, and listen, we are saying, "You matter." Put down what you're holding. Make eye contact. Ask open-ended questions. If you cannot engage immediately, kindly explain when you will—and then follow through. Listening builds trust. Presence builds security. Conversation builds connection. 4. Prioritize One-on-One Time Even ten uninterrupted minutes a day with each child can strengthen their sense of belonging. It doesn't have to be elaborate. Read a book. Take a short walk. Sit on the edge of their bed and talk. These small investments often yield beautiful fruit—greater joy, improved behavior, and deeper connection. 5. Release Unrealistic Expectations So often our overwhelm comes not from motherhood itself, but from the expectations we've placed upon it. What if productivity looked different? What if success meant: I quieted my soul before the Lord. I loved my family well. I trusted God with what went unfinished. When we simplify our agenda, we strengthen our trust. God is sovereign over our schedules. Nothing surprises Him. Nothing is wasted in His hands. A Gentle Reminder The true gifts of life lie in the moment. That is why we call it the present. Today is not just something to survive—it is something sacred to steward. today's reflection Take a quiet moment with the Lord and reflect: Am I choosing presence and peace, or worry and distraction today? What is God gently whispering to my heart right now? What do I need to lay down, turn off, or set aside in order to be fully present with my family? Friend, you do not have to parent in a rush. The same God who entrusted these children to you will equip you to love them well—one unhurried moment at a time. TODAY'S DEVOTIONAL WAS WRITTEN BY JULIE LONG

    5 min
  6. 5D AGO

    The Hinges of Destiny

    "Choices are the hinges of destiny." – Edwin Markham As women of faith—mothers, mentors, grandmothers, and spiritual sisters—we carry a beautiful responsibility: shaping the hearts of the next generation. One of the greatest gifts we can offer the young women in our lives is guidance in making wise, God-honoring decisions. Whether you are parenting a teen daughter, discipling a college student, or investing in a young woman at church, here are four devotional anchors to help her make wise decisions. Wisely Obey God's Word "This Book of the Law shall not depart from your mouth, but you shall meditate in it day and night…" — Joshua 1:8 (NKJV) When young women ask, "What should I do?" gently redirect them to a deeper question: "Who is God shaping me to become?" God is far more concerned with her character than her calendar. A heart rooted in Scripture develops steady discernment. When she meditates on God's Word, it becomes her compass, her guardrails, and her source of courage. As women, we model this first. Let her see you turning to Scripture before reacting. Let her witness your obedience. A life saturated in the Word aligns thoughts, attitudes, and decisions with the heart of God. Identify God's Gifts "For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works…" — Ephesians 2:10 (NKJV) Every young woman is handcrafted by God with purpose. Her talents, passions, and personality are not accidental—they are intentional brushstrokes from the Creator. Help her: Notice what energizes her. Recognize where others affirm her strengths. Explore new opportunities that stretch her faith. Sometimes gifts are discovered through trying something new. Encourage her to cultivate what God has planted within her. Seeds grow when tended. Remind her that her calling is less about platform and more about faithfulness. Seek Godly Counsel "Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future." — Proverbs 19:20 (ESV) No young woman should walk alone. She needs spiritually mature voices—women who love God and speak truth with grace. Create space for her to build relationships with trusted mentors. Intergenerational friendships within the body of Christ are powerful. A teachable heart paired with wise counsel produces discernment. When counsel aligns with Scripture, her gifting, and the quiet confirmation of the Holy Spirit, it often affirms God's direction. Establish Godly Desires "In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make straight your paths." — Proverbs 3:6 (ESV) Surrender is the pathway to peace. The world tells young women to chase personal fulfillment; Christ invites them to pursue His will. Encourage her to pray boldly and surrender fully: "Lord, shape my desires." "Not my will, but Yours." A decision bathed in prayer and guided by the Spirit brings lasting joy. As James reminds us, when we lack wisdom, we can ask God—and He gives generously. today's Reflection Use these questions to guide conversations with the young woman in your life—or to reflect on your own decisions: What does Scripture say about this? Have you sought the Lord in prayer, and do you sense His peace? Will this decision draw you closer to Christ? How will this choice impact others? What do trusted spiritual mentors advise? When we intentionally disciple young women to make wise decisions, we help secure not just their future—but their faith. And that is a legacy worth building. TODAY'S DEVOTIONAL WAS WRITTEN BY JULIE LONG

    5 min
  7. 6D AGO

    Maybe God is Working Right Now

    Maybe next year will be different, I thought as one difficult season came to a close. Maybe next year I wouldn't have to fight so hard or struggle so much. Maybe next year I wouldn't be so sick and could spend more time with my family. Maybe next year I would meet the man God has for me instead of listening to the lies that I would always be alone. Maybe next year I would finally have victory over depression instead of feeling defeated. Maybe next year the financial strain would ease. Maybe next year I wouldn't have to say goodbye to someone I loved. It is easy, after a hard season, to focus only on the pain behind us. Many hardships filled the past year—sickness, financial strain, loss, and long periods of waiting when I wanted to move forward. I fought battles I never imagined I would face. Yet in those same battles, God gave me strength I never knew I had. It is tempting to say "good riddance" to a difficult year and hope a new one will fix everything. But we do not know what God is doing while we are in the middle of the struggle. I once heard an evangelist share about a year of hardship he and his wife endured. At the time, it sounded only sad. Later, he realized God had been cultivating their faith. The struggles were not wasted — they were preparation. God was refining them as gold, preparing them for a work they could not yet see. We often ask, "What good can come from this?" because we cannot see God's plan. Yet God uses hard seasons to make us more like Christ. If we desire to grow spiritually, there will be times we do not understand. Job experienced this confusion. He asked God questions, not because he had done wrong, but because he was hurting. Scripture reminds us: "Although affliction cometh not forth of the dust, neither doth trouble spring out of the ground; Yet man is born unto trouble, as the sparks fly upward. I would seek unto God, and unto God would I commit my cause: Which doeth great things and unsearchable; marvellous things without number." (Job 5:6–9) Life is hard. We are not promised an easy path, but we are promised a faithful God — One who said He would never leave nor forsake us. Sometimes the struggle itself is part of His work in us so that we can later help someone else walking the same road. During my own season of spiritual battle, I felt overwhelmed and weak. Circumstances seemed bigger than me, but I was reminded that God is bigger than anything I face. Even when finances were uncertain and work was inconsistent, God still provided what we needed. In the middle of the desert, He was still faithful. So instead of saying, "Maybe next year will be different," perhaps our prayer should be, "Lord, help me trust You in this season and make me a light to someone else." There may be someone God places in your life who is hurting in the same way you once did. Because you have walked through the valley with Christ, you will know how to point them to hope. "For He Himself has said, 'I will never leave you nor forsake you'" (Hebrews 13:5.) Rather than wishing away the hard seasons, we can trust that God is working even there — in the good, the bad, and the painful — shaping us into people who reflect His faithfulness. TODAY'S DEVOTIONAL WAS WRITTEN BY REBBECCA HORNER.

    4 min
  8. MAR 3

    Motherhood is My Ministry

    Last month, while shopping, I saw a shirt I just had to have. It read, "Motherhood is my ministry." So often, as mothers, we can feel overlooked and unimportant in the church because we are not always able to help in visible ways. But when we begin to view motherhood as our ministry, we realize we are preparing our children for the great things God will do in their lives. Eleven years ago, I became the mother of twin girls. Before they were born, I was very active in various church ministries. I had the freedom to serve because I did not yet have little ones depending on me. When I became a mother and chose to be a stay-at-home mom, everything changed. I watched many women in my church serve faithfully, and I often felt I should be doing more. I wanted to help and be a blessing, yet I felt motherhood was preventing me from serving God's kingdom. I looked at my sisters in the Lord who were able to participate in church activities and felt useless. I prayed, "God, what can I possibly do for You? What can I do for Your kingdom when I am so busy raising my babies?" I thought there was no ministry in changing diapers, making bottles, and caring for little ones — but I was wrong. I slowly realized that my ministry was already in my home. I was ministering to my children, teaching them about God and His truth. Being a mother was not keeping me from ministry — it was my ministry. In fact, it was the greatest ministry I would ever have outside the walls of the church. Proverbs 1:8— "Listen, my son, to your father's instruction and do not forsake your mother's teaching." I began to understand how important my role as a mother truly was. My children were looking to my husband and me to show them the way of the Lord. The ministries I admired at church were valuable, but teaching my children about the God we serve was even more important. Psalm 139:13–14— "For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother's womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made." In the kingdom of God, mothers are essential. We nurture, comfort, teach, guide, and, especially in the teenage years, become counselors and shoulders to cry on. If you are a mother with small children and feel you cannot do much at church because you are caring for your precious babies, think again. You have a ministry — perhaps the most important one you will ever have. When you change a diaper, make a bottle, or cuddle your child, you are showing a powerful witness of God's grace, love, and mercy. Through your daily life, you teach your children the way to God. Your prayers, reading Scripture together, and worship in your home show them that faith is not just something practiced at church but lived every day. I do not have to be visibly active in church to be important. I am important to God, to my husband, and to my children. They see me live out my faith, and for that reason, my children are my ministry — and I will never be ashamed of it. I serve them daily and encourage them to love, pray, forgive, and pursue God. I remind them there is Someone they can run to besides their parents — and His name is Jesus. Proverbs 31:25–28— "She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue… Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her." If you are a mother feeling isolated because you cannot serve at church in the ways you once did, remember this: every day you are raising your children to know Jesus, you are serving God. Your children — young or grown — are watching. They hear your prayers, see your faith, and learn from your example. They see more than we realize. We are the witnesses our children need. So remember: motherhood is your ministry, and what a beautiful ministry it is. I may never sing at a large conference or preach at a women's gathering, but the most important calling I have is to lead my children to Jesus. today's devot...

    5 min

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