The Marriage Magnet Podcast

Nechama Phillips

This show is your ultimate guide to becoming and attracting the love you deserve. Hosted by Nechama, a life and relationship coach for women, this show empowers growth-minded, high value women to elevate their dating journey, attract the right one, create a thriving marriage and become the best version of themselves along the way. Through practical advice, inspiring client success stories and thoughtful conversations in each episode, Nechama unpacks the mindset shifts and actionable strategies that transform the self & relationships: leading to effective dating and happy, healthy marriages.

  1. 5D AGO

    26. Lyric Breakdown of "Someone You Loved" by Lewis Capaldi: What Codependency Looks Like In Relationships, Marriages and Breakups

    Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Quiz for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: This lyrics breakdown takes a closer look at “Someone You Loved” by Louis Capaldi—and what sounds like a simple breakup song starts to reveal something much deeper. What if the real pain isn’t just missing a person… but losing the version of you that existed inside their love? What if “I need somebody to heal” isn’t romantic at all—what if it’s a red flag? We unpack the subtle line between support and dependence, why certain connections feel like oxygen, and how this same dynamic can quietly show up in dating and even long-term marriages. You’ll leave with powerful questions to reflect on—about chemistry, identity, vulnerability, and what it really means to feel secure in love—plus a quick invitation to learn more about the Marriage Magnet Method program and the Aligned Attraction course by Nechama."Gray" Divorce article: https://ifstudies.org/blog/divorce-in-decline-about-40-of-todays-marriages-will-end-in-divorce Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.

    20 min
  2. FEB 2

    25. Marriage Expectations vs. Reality: Debunking Myths on Intimacy and Communication with Orthodox Therapist Lauren Hofstatter

    Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a free resource for you on connecting better with him: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:Nechama interviews Lauren Hofstatter (@theorthodoxtherapist on IG) Orthodox Jewish therapist and she shares crucial insights into marriage within the Orthodox community. We discuss common misconceptions about dating and marriage, the ongoing effort required for a successful relationship, and how women can prepare themselves before marriage to build healthy, happy, lasting relationships. This episode emphasizes the importance of self-awareness, communication, and proper education on one's biology, challenging the fairy tale narrative many have about marriage. Listen until the end for valuable advice directed towards single women, highlighting the benefits of premarital counseling and continuous self-work for the life and love you deserve. //CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Email: hello@nechamaphillips.com Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off/ // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    42 min
  3. JAN 19

    24. Almost Engaged, Then Dumped: My Journey to Self-Discovery & Purpose In Singlehood

    Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Interested in applying MMM? Book a free consultation call here: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a new free resource for you: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:How do you find purpose without getting your biggest heart's desire, marriage and family? In this heartfelt episode, we delve into why pedestalizing marriage and family as life's ultimate goals might be limiting your true potential. Instead of treating these life events as mere boxes to check off, we discuss the importance of living purposefully in the present, using your current experiences to fulfill your mission. Discover how you can become the woman you aspire to be, right now, regardless of your marital status.💡 Ready to unlock your true potential and live a life full of meaning and love? Watch this episode to find out how! If you're a single woman feeling like your life is on pause, learn how working with me as your coach can help you embrace your current circumstances and prepare you for the love and happiness you deserve. Just book a free call with me here to see if we're a good fit: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall // CONNECT:Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.

    31 min
  4. JAN 5

    23. Going Viral: The Truth Behind Our Marriage's Unspoken Rules feating my husband Yehuda Phillips

    Aligned Attraction Course (self-guided) is out now!! Use the code "MMPODCAST" to get $300 off as a thank you for being here!! https://realization.thrivecart.com/aligned-attraction/?coupon=MMPODCAST Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Already know you're interested in MMM? Book a free consultation call to apply: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a new free resource for you: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: Nechama Phillips and her husband Yehuda delve into the unspoken rules that guide their marriage and how they make it work. They discuss various responsibilities, highlight the importance of mutual understanding, and share insights on how they navigate conflict resolution. With topics ranging from household chores to personal growth, this candid conversation aims to provide valuable lessons for couples aiming to create their own harmonious dynamic. Don't miss their tips on fostering a supportive and loving relationship, as well as Nechama's latest coaching program for single women seeking a successful dating journey. // CONNECT:Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    50 min
  5. 12/08/2025

    22. The Masculine and Feminine Dance: Polarity Insights for Women Dating For Marriage, featuring Yehudah Kamman

    Join the waitlist for my course on chemistry vs. compatibility coming soon: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/chemistry-compatibility Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Already know you're interested in MMM? Book a free consultation call to apply: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a new free resource for you: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: In this illuminating conversation, host Nechama Phillips welcomes Yehudah Kamman, (@men_of_integrity_ life) a leading relationship and polarity coach, for a profound take on the concept of polarity in relationships. Yehuda shares valuable insights on the importance of emotional and financial leadership in a marriage, the impact of societal norms on women's roles, and the necessity for men to step up as dependable partners. The episode delves into the struggles modern women face in balancing masculine and feminine energies, especially in the context of dating and marriage. Yehuda also offers practical advice for women to maintain high standards and find a man who meets their emotional and practical needs. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to create a balanced and fulfilling relationship for marriage. // CONNECT:Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.

    41 min
  6. 11/25/2025

    21. The Shidduch System Pros and Cons Vs. Dating "Naturally" - Which Option Is Better For You?

    NEW COURSE Coming Soon, Learn More Here: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/chemistry-compatibility Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Already know you're interested? Book a free consultation call to apply: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a new free resource for you: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode:In this insightful episode, we dive deep into the pros and cons of dating through the traditional Shidduch (matchmaking) system for frum (religious and Orthodox) single women versus meeting someone naturally. Nechama shares her personal experiences and discusses the advantages, like clear intentions and aligned values, along with the drawbacks, such as lack of real communication skills and pressured timelines. The episode also emphasizes the importance of staying open to both methods, understanding that each comes with its own set of challenges and blessings. Nechama encourages listeners to navigate their dating journey with clarity, confidence, and self-awareness to ultimately attract the right man for a happy and fulfilling marriage. This is a must-listen for women committed to finding their life partner intentionally and mindfully, whether they're a fan of the Shidduch world or not! // CONNECT:Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/Email: hello@nechamaphillips.comInstagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off// SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    26 min
  7. 11/03/2025

    20. How to Balance Attraction and Values Alignment for Religious Single Women Dating For Marriage

    NEW COURSE Coming Soon, Learn More Here: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/chemistry-compatibility Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program (MMM) for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Book a free consultation call to apply to MMM: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a new free resource for you: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: Get ready for many lightbulb moments that change the way you think and feel in your dating life! There's a common struggle many women face in their dating journeys: the balance between chemistry and compatibility. Nechama discusses the myths and societal pressures, particularly in religious communities, that make women feel they must choose between attraction and aligned values. She reflects on her personal experiences and announces an upcoming transformational course designed to help women cultivate worthiness, understand healthy chemistry, and find a spiritually aligned and fulfilling marriage. Learn more about this course here: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/chemistry-compatibility Jump on the waitlist to be the first to access this life-changing course here: https://realization.kit.com/chemistry-compatibility-waitlist // CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites:- Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsynCode: NECHAMA10 for 10% off- 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off// SHOP my AMAZON Storefront:https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3Some links may be affiliate links.

    25 min
  8. 10/23/2025

    19. How To Manifest Your Soulmate Effortlessly with Manifestation Expert Ayelet Polonsky

    Single and want to do this important work? Learn about the Marriage Magnet Method Program for single women: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a78vZS6oBI0 Already know you're interested? Book a free consultation call to apply: https://calendly.com/thisisrealization/mmmconsultationcall Grab my Ultimate Clarity Checklist ($18) for Confident Dating Decisions: https://realization.thrivecart.com/the-ultimate-clarity-checklist/ BRAND NEW Free Resource for single women "Deep Dating": https://realization.ck.page/6549f9efc5 Married and want to better your communication with your husband? I have a new free resource for you, grab it here: https://realization.kit.com/4e3dbea78b About this episode: Why does manifesting love sometimes seem so elusive? Join us as we dive deep with manifestation expert and healer, Ayelet Polonsky, on the Marriage Magnet Podcast. Discover her incredible journey from living in India to a transformative soul calling in Israel, along with actionable insights on how to align yourself to attract the love you deserve. Whether you're feeling stuck in your dating life or on the path to self-discovery, this episode uncovers the intricate balance between faith and action in manifestation. Learn the crucial role of inner work, self-worth, and divine timing when it comes to attracting your future husband!. This is a must-listen for anyone ready to become the vessel that can truly hold and attract their soulmate. // CONNECT: Website: https://www.nechamaphillips.com/ Instagram: @nechamaphillips This podcast is also available in audio form only on all podcast platforms. //Affiliate Favorites: - Zenagen Hair Growth Products: https://zenagen.com/ Code: NECHAMAP20 for 20% off - Maya's Place (Modest Fashion): https://mayasplaceny.com/?ref=77pa0ldsyn Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off - 7th Day Shine Shabbos Makeup (Natural, Mineral Makeup): https://www.7thdayshine.com?aff=9 Code: NECHAMA10 for 10% off // SHOP my AMAZON Storefront: https://www.amazon.com/shop/nechamamusic?ref=cm_sw_em_r_inf_own_nechamamusic_dp_yT0UUeuS2MKi3 Some links may be affiliate links.

    47 min
5
out of 5
12 Ratings

About

This show is your ultimate guide to becoming and attracting the love you deserve. Hosted by Nechama, a life and relationship coach for women, this show empowers growth-minded, high value women to elevate their dating journey, attract the right one, create a thriving marriage and become the best version of themselves along the way. Through practical advice, inspiring client success stories and thoughtful conversations in each episode, Nechama unpacks the mindset shifts and actionable strategies that transform the self & relationships: leading to effective dating and happy, healthy marriages.

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