Two Therapists At A Bar

Dale Pickett and David Buruchara
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Two sober therapists walk into a bar... and dive deep into mental health, relationships, and life's biggest questions.

  1. 2D AGO

    How To Receive Critical Feedback

    We’re back — first episode of 2026. In this episode, we catch up on what we’ve been up to during the break before diving into a topic that affects all of us: how to receive critical feedback. Why is it so hard to hear? How do you know when criticism is worth receiving — and when it’s not? And once you decide to take it seriously, how do you process it in a way that actually helps you grow instead of shutting you down?

    44 min

  2. 12/18/2025

    REPLAY: When Grief Breaks You (& What Comes After) with Gene Fought

    For the month of December, we’re replaying our top 5 episodes of the year—this one comes in at number 3: In this episode, we talk about the kind of grief that shatters a life—and what comes after. We’re joined by our very first guest, Gene Fought, who shares his story of unimaginable loss: the death of his daughter to suicide. Through his story, we explore what it means to grieve, whether there’s a wrong or right way to grieve, how faith and loss can coexist, and how to support others when they’re in the depths of pain. This is a raw, honest, and hopeful conversation about heartbreak and finding meaning after tragedy. Gene Fought works as an Intelligence Analyst for the Federal government, is the owner of Renzo Gracie Martinsburg, founder of the ⁠Grapple;4Life Foundation⁠, and serves as a Board Member and Public Policy Chair for the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP).

    1h 30m

  3. 12/11/2025

    REPLAY: The Brutal Truth About Marriage

    For the month of December, we’re replaying our top 5 episodes of the year—this one comes in at number 4: In this episode, we discuss the unfiltered truth about marriage and why it’s not for the faint of heart. We challenge the fairy tale narratives, explore why real love often feels like a battle, and reveal what makes it all worth it. Whether you're in the trenches of commitment or preparing for the road ahead, this conversation will help you navigate the struggles and come out stronger.

    1 hr

  4. 12/04/2025

    REPLAY: Modern Masculinity: What It Means to Be a Man in the 21st Century

    For the month of December, we’re replaying our top five episodes of the year—this episode one comes in at number five. Is masculinity under attack, evolving, or just misunderstood? What does it mean to be a man in the 21st century? In this episode, we break down masculinity, exploring how men have embodied manhood in the past, the role of rites of passage, and why masculinity vs. femininity is a false dichotomy. We also dive into the high-value man concept, toxic masculinity, and what’s really at stake for men today.

    1h 16m

  5. 11/27/2025

    What the Wild Teaches Men with Chachi Avirett

    In this episode, we sit down with Chachi Avirett, a wilderness guide and men’s mentor with more than 4,000 days spent leading men through the backcountry—physically and spiritually. We talk about why the wilderness has a unique power to shape men, what today’s culture gets wrong about masculine formation, and why most men’s retreats barely scratch the surface. Chachi shares the heart behind Training Ground Tennessee, how adventure creates space for identity and calling to emerge, and what he would tell men who feel “too old” for a program like his but still long for growth, depth, and challenge. Chachi Avirett has spent over 4,000 days guiding students and leaders through wilderness experiences that blend adventure, spiritual formation, and deep mentorship. With more than 22 years of ministry experience as both a youth and college minister, he’s devoted his life to helping young men discover their identity and calling in an environment where distractions fade, and character is forged. He and his wife, Grace, live just outside Cleveland, Tennessee, with their two children, Hope and Jonathan.

    1h 30m

  6. 11/20/2025

    Inside Gender Transition Medicine: An Anesthesiologist’s View with Dr. Tim Casias

    In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Tim Casias, an anesthesiologist whose training spans pediatrics, anesthesia, pediatric anesthesia, and pediatric chronic pain. Now the Director of Anesthesia at Aiken Regional Medical Center, Dr. Casias shares how his clinical experience led him into one of the most complex ethical debates in modern medicine: the use of anesthesia in gender transition surgeries. We talk through why he ultimately chose not to participate in these procedures—what he learned from years in pediatric and chronic pain medicine, the clinical concerns that informed his decision, and the ethical framework he applies to high-stakes situations. We also explore the striking differences between gender medicine in the U.S. and the rapidly changing standards in Europe, along with broader issues of medical culture, patient safety, and the pressures physicians face when cultural trends collide with clinical judgment. Tim Casias is an anesthesiologist and the current Director of Anesthesia at Aiken Regional Medical Center in Aiken, SC. He completed his medical training at the University of Colorado in 2009. He is trained and board certified in Pediatrics (Mercy Children’s Hospital, KS), Anesthesia (University of Colorado, CO), Pediatric Anesthesia and Chronic Pain with a focus on Pediatric Chronic Pain (Seattle Children’s Hospital). He was previously the Director of Pediatric Chronic Pain at American Family Children’s Hospital associated with the University of Wisconsin). He is currently practicing in adult general, OB, and cardiac anesthesia.

    1h 19m

  7. 11/13/2025

    Can You Be Friends with Your Therapist? - Part 2

    In this follow-up , we continue unpacking the unique relationship between therapist and client—why it can feel so personal, even deeper than friendship, and what makes it distinct. We talk about the qualities that make therapy such a powerful connection, and why clear boundaries don’t necessarily mean emotional distance. We also shift the conversation toward values in therapy—how they shape the process, what happens when values differ, and the therapist’s role in helping clients find clarity and alignment.

    1h 2m

  8. 11/06/2025

    Can You Be Friends with Your Therapist? - Part 1

    In this episode, we dive into one of the most common—and complicated—questions in therapy: Can you be friends with your therapist? We explore the importance of professional boundaries, what happens when therapy relationships get too personal, and why connection and boundaries both matter. We also talk about the unique challenges of living in a small town, where therapists and clients often cross paths at church, work, or in the community.

    1h 2m
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Two sober therapists walk into a bar... and dive deep into mental health, relationships, and life's biggest questions.

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  • Creator
    Dale Pickett and David Buruchara
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dale Pickett and David Buruchara
  • Show Website
    Two Therapists At A Bar