Two Therapists At A Bar

Dale Pickett and David Buruchara
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Two sober therapists walk into a bar... and dive deep into mental health, relationships, and life's biggest questions.

  1. 2D AGO

    REPLAY: The Brutal Truth About Marriage

    For the month of December, we’re replaying our top 5 episodes of the year—this one comes in at number 4: In this episode, we discuss the unfiltered truth about marriage and why it’s not for the faint of heart. We challenge the fairy tale narratives, explore why real love often feels like a battle, and reveal what makes it all worth it. Whether you're in the trenches of commitment or preparing for the road ahead, this conversation will help you navigate the struggles and come out stronger.

    1 hr

  2. DEC 4

    REPLAY: Modern Masculinity: What It Means to Be a Man in the 21st Century

    For the month of December, we’re replaying our top five episodes of the year—this episode one comes in at number five. Is masculinity under attack, evolving, or just misunderstood? What does it mean to be a man in the 21st century? In this episode, we break down masculinity, exploring how men have embodied manhood in the past, the role of rites of passage, and why masculinity vs. femininity is a false dichotomy. We also dive into the high-value man concept, toxic masculinity, and what’s really at stake for men today.

    1h 16m

  3. NOV 27

    What the Wild Teaches Men with Chachi Avirett

    In this episode, we sit down with Chachi Avirett, a wilderness guide and men’s mentor with more than 4,000 days spent leading men through the backcountry—physically and spiritually. We talk about why the wilderness has a unique power to shape men, what today’s culture gets wrong about masculine formation, and why most men’s retreats barely scratch the surface. Chachi shares the heart behind Training Ground Tennessee, how adventure creates space for identity and calling to emerge, and what he would tell men who feel “too old” for a program like his but still long for growth, depth, and challenge. Chachi Avirett has spent over 4,000 days guiding students and leaders through wilderness experiences that blend adventure, spiritual formation, and deep mentorship. With more than 22 years of ministry experience as both a youth and college minister, he’s devoted his life to helping young men discover their identity and calling in an environment where distractions fade, and character is forged. He and his wife, Grace, live just outside Cleveland, Tennessee, with their two children, Hope and Jonathan.

    1h 30m

  4. NOV 20

    Inside Gender Transition Medicine: An Anesthesiologist’s View with Dr. Tim Casias

    In this episode, we sit down with Dr. Tim Casias, an anesthesiologist whose training spans pediatrics, anesthesia, pediatric anesthesia, and pediatric chronic pain. Now the Director of Anesthesia at Aiken Regional Medical Center, Dr. Casias shares how his clinical experience led him into one of the most complex ethical debates in modern medicine: the use of anesthesia in gender transition surgeries. We talk through why he ultimately chose not to participate in these procedures—what he learned from years in pediatric and chronic pain medicine, the clinical concerns that informed his decision, and the ethical framework he applies to high-stakes situations. We also explore the striking differences between gender medicine in the U.S. and the rapidly changing standards in Europe, along with broader issues of medical culture, patient safety, and the pressures physicians face when cultural trends collide with clinical judgment. Tim Casias is an anesthesiologist and the current Director of Anesthesia at Aiken Regional Medical Center in Aiken, SC. He completed his medical training at the University of Colorado in 2009. He is trained and board certified in Pediatrics (Mercy Children’s Hospital, KS), Anesthesia (University of Colorado, CO), Pediatric Anesthesia and Chronic Pain with a focus on Pediatric Chronic Pain (Seattle Children’s Hospital). He was previously the Director of Pediatric Chronic Pain at American Family Children’s Hospital associated with the University of Wisconsin). He is currently practicing in adult general, OB, and cardiac anesthesia.

    1h 19m

  5. NOV 13

    Can You Be Friends with Your Therapist? - Part 2

    In this follow-up , we continue unpacking the unique relationship between therapist and client—why it can feel so personal, even deeper than friendship, and what makes it distinct. We talk about the qualities that make therapy such a powerful connection, and why clear boundaries don’t necessarily mean emotional distance. We also shift the conversation toward values in therapy—how they shape the process, what happens when values differ, and the therapist’s role in helping clients find clarity and alignment.

    1h 2m

  6. NOV 6

    Can You Be Friends with Your Therapist? - Part 1

    In this episode, we dive into one of the most common—and complicated—questions in therapy: Can you be friends with your therapist? We explore the importance of professional boundaries, what happens when therapy relationships get too personal, and why connection and boundaries both matter. We also talk about the unique challenges of living in a small town, where therapists and clients often cross paths at church, work, or in the community.

    1h 2m

  7. OCT 30

    Has AI Broken Education? (feat. Dr. Tron Wilder)

    In this episode, Dale and I sit down with Dale’s former graduate school professor, Dr. Tron Wilder, to explore the intersections of faith, education, and psychology in the age of AI. Tron shares his journey into academia and the challenges professors face as artificial intelligence reshapes the learning landscape. We also talk about his faith journey and how he reconciles his Christian worldview with the realities of teaching psychology at a faith-based university. It’s a thoughtful conversation about belief, purpose, and what it means to educate minds in a changing world. Dr. Tron Wilder is a professor and Director of the Undergraduate Psychology Program at Southern Adventist University near Chattanooga, TN. Currently on sabbatical, he’s completing clinical hours toward full licensure as a psychologist at the Chattanooga Autism Center. Before joining Southern in 2013, he worked for a decade as a school psychologist serving children with learning and developmental needs. Tron lives in downtown Chattanooga with his wife, Kristie—who teaches in Southern’s School of Social Work—and their two sons, Ace and Jude.

    1h 34m

  8. OCT 23

    When Does Selfishness Become Narcissism?

    In this episode, we unpack a tricky question: Is it selfishness, or is it narcissism? We explore where narcissism comes from, how it differs from ordinary self-interest, and why the word gets thrown around so loosely today. We also talk about how to recognize the difference in ourselves and others—and what can be done about it.

    1 hr
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Two sober therapists walk into a bar... and dive deep into mental health, relationships, and life's biggest questions.

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  • Creator
    Dale Pickett and David Buruchara
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dale Pickett and David Buruchara
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