The Mr. Menopause Show

Tafiq Akhir | Mr. Menopause

Welcome to The Mr. Menopause Show, your go-to source for reliable menopause and healthy aging support. Hosted by Tafiq Akhir. Certified and award winning menopause and healthy aging strategist, educator, host, and best selling author known as Mr. Menopause. Why Subscribe or Listen? If you're feeling confused, overwhelmed, or unsupported in your menopause journey, this show is for you. Each week, Tafiq tackles the mental, physical, emotional, and social aspects of menopause with candid discussions, expert advice, and practical solutions. What You’ll Find Here: • Eye-opening education on symptoms, treatments, and strategies • Lifestyle tips for fitness, nutrition, sleep, intimacy, and more • Her Menopause Story: real women sharing real experiences • Conversations with experts and real-life menopause stories • Ask Mr. Menopause: your questions, answered • Supportive, no-fluff guidance with a whole lot of heart Whether you're in perimenopause, menopause, or postmenopause, or supporting someone who is, this show delivers the truth, tools, and empowerment you deserve. New episodes weekly on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and iHeartRadio. Subscribe and take the mystery out of menopause one episode at a time. #MrMenopause #MenopauseSupport #MenopauseAwareness #TheMrMenopauseShow #HealthyAging

  1. Are You In Menopause? Why Your Body Feels Unfamiliar and What It Actually Means

    2D AGO

    Are You In Menopause? Why Your Body Feels Unfamiliar and What It Actually Means

    Most women don't wake up one day knowing they're in menopause. What usually comes first is a quiet sense that something feels off. The body doesn't respond the way it used to. Symptoms feel scattered, inconsistent, or hard to explain. Questions start forming late at night. Is this aging? Is something wrong? Or could this be menopause? In this episode of The Mr. Menopause Show, Tafiq Akhir aka Mr. Menopause, explains why menopause rarely announces itself clearly and why so many women miss it in the beginning. Instead of showing up as one obvious symptom, menopause often reveals itself through patterns across multiple systems including sleep, mood, anxiety, energy, joints, digestion, memory, and emotional regulation. This conversation focuses on why so many women feel disconnected from their bodies during menopause and how lack of education leads to self doubt, fear, and misplaced blame. You'll learn why menopause is not a single symptom, why most women experience only a subset of symptoms, and why many common experiences are never associated with menopause at all. Rather than offering another checklist, this episode provides context, clarity, and validation. It explains how recognizing patterns instead of isolated symptoms can help restore confidence and reduce anxiety. Menopause is not about ignoring symptoms or accepting discomfort. It's about understanding what's happening so informed decisions become possible. If you have been wondering whether what you are experiencing counts, and whether it matters, this episode helps you stop guessing and start understanding. Resource: If you want an accurate, non-biased and objective place to look up what you're experiencing, the book Decoding the 80 Symptoms and Side Effects of Menopause exists as a reference you can return to whenever questions arise. It was written so you don't have to read it cover to cover. You can go directly to what's happening in your body right now and better understand what to do next. Learn more here: https://www.tafiq.com/80-symptoms-book The Mr. Menopause Show is your go to source for reliable menopause and healthy aging support.

    9 min
  2. Menopause Joint Pain and Bone Loss Explained (It’s Hormonal, Not Aging)

    FEB 11

    Menopause Joint Pain and Bone Loss Explained (It’s Hormonal, Not Aging)

    Menopause Joint Pain and Bone Loss Explained (It’s Hormonal, Not Aging) Are your joints hurting more than they used to? Are you feeling stiff, unstable, or hesitant to move because your body no longer feels reliable? If you have been told this is just aging, wear and tear, or something you have to accept, this episode explains what is really happening. In this episode of The Mr. Menopause Show, certified and award winning menopause educator Tafiq Akhir, also known as Mr. Menopause, breaks down how hormonal changes during perimenopause and menopause directly impact bone density, joint health, inflammation, and injury risk. Many women are never told that estrogen plays a critical role in maintaining bone strength, collagen production, joint cushioning, and muscle support. When estrogen declines, bone loss can accelerate, joints can become inflamed, and everyday movement can start to feel painful or unsafe. These changes are not random, and they are not simply part of getting older. This episode explains why falls, fractures, joint pain, stiffness, and loss of confidence in movement are often connected to unaddressed hormonal shifts, not a failing body. It also explores how muscle loss, inflammation, stress hormones, and lack of strength training compound the problem when menopause is ignored. In this episode, you will learnWhy menopause increases the risk of bone loss and fracturesHow estrogen affects joints, collagen, and inflammation- Why joint pain during menopause is often misdiagnosed or dismissed - How strength training protects bones, joints, balance, and independence - What lab tests and scans actually matter for menopause bone and joint health - Why early awareness can prevent long term damage and loss of mobility This is not about fear. It is about understanding your body well enough to advocate for it and support it before injury becomes the wake up call. ABOUT THE MR. MENOPAUSE SHOW The Mr. Menopause Show is your go to source for reliable menopause and healthy aging support. Each episode provides clear, compassionate, evidence based education to help women understand what is happening in their bodies during perimenopause and menopause. The show focuses on menopause symptoms, hormone changes, self advocacy, and practical education designed to reduce confusion and support informed decision making. #Menopause #MenopauseJointPain #BoneLoss #Osteoporosis #Perimenopause #MenopauseEducation #WomensHealth #HormonalHealth #MrMenopause

    18 min
  3. 80 Menopause Symptoms Most Women Are Never Told About

    FEB 4

    80 Menopause Symptoms Most Women Are Never Told About

    Have you ever gone to your doctor with symptoms that feel unfamiliar, alarming, or completely out of character, only to be told everything looks fine? If you're a women between the ages of of 40 and 60, and feel confused, dismissed, or unsure about what's happening in your body, this episode will help you understand why. Most women are taught to expect hot flashes, night sweats, and mood swings. What almost no one talks about is that there are over eighty documented symptoms of menopause, many of which don't feel hormonal at all. These symptoms often show up unexpectedly and can make women question their health, their mental state, or their intuition. In this episode of The Mr. Menopause Show, certified and award-winning menopause educator Tafiq Akhir, also known as Mr. Menopause, explains why so many menopause symptoms are misunderstood, why being told everything looks fine does not mean nothing is happening, and how lack of menopause education creates unnecessary fear and stress. This episode covers how hormonal changes during menopause can affect the nervous system, digestion, skin, sleep, mood, and overall well being. It also explains why having clear language for your symptoms matters and how understanding menopause helps you advocate for yourself with confidence. If you want to see the complete list of all eighty documented menopause symptoms, the first section of my book is available for free at https://tafiq.com/free-chapters WATCH NEXT: Before taking your symptom list to your doctor, it's important to know whether she/he is actually trained in menopause care. Watch this next episode where I break down the five questions every woman should ask her doctor about menopause and what to do if your doctor cannot answer them clearly. https://youtu.be/czjpEcOTGEQ?si=ifm9Qmxf7xjbdMaJ ABOUT THE MR. MENOPAUSE SHOW: The Mr. Menopause Show is your go to source for reliable menopause and healthy aging support. Each episode provides clear, compassionate, evidence based education to help women understand what's happening in their bodies during perimenopause and menopause. The show focuses on menopause symptoms, hormone changes, self advocacy, and practical education designed to reduce confusion and support informed decision making. New episodes build on one another so viewers can continue learning, gaining clarity, and moving forward with confidence throughout their menopause journey. #Menopause #MenopauseSymptoms #Perimenopause #MenopauseEducation #WomensHealth #HormonalHealth #MrMenopause #MenopauseSupport

    10 min
  4. How Tafiq Akhir Became Mr  Menopause | Origin Story

    JAN 28

    How Tafiq Akhir Became Mr Menopause | Origin Story

    WHO IS MR. MENOPAUSE? Tafiq Akhir, aka "Mr. Menopause," is a certified menopause and healthy aging educator and strategist who has worked in women's health for over 20 years. He was named Menopause Specialist of the Year 2024 and is recognized in Who's Who in America 2025. WHY DID A MAN BECOME A MENOPAUSE SPECIALIST? Tafiq's journey began during a snowstorm in Cleveland, Ohio, over 30 years ago when he witnessed his mother struggling with severe menopause symptoms; hot flashes, weight gain, and declining health, without proper medical support or education. His mother passed away at age 52, and Tafiq believes many of her illnesses were linked to unmanaged menopause. This experience inspired him to become "the resource she never had." WHAT QUALIFIES HIM AS A MENOPAUSE EXPERT? Tafiq's expertise comes from: 20+ years of hands-on experience in women's health Specialized certification in menopause and healthy aging Author of "Decoding the 80 Symptoms and Side Effects of Menopause" Host of The Mr. Menopause Show podcast Evidence-based education grounded in research and client results HOW MANY MENOPAUSE SYMPTOMS ARE THERE? There are more than 80 recognized symptoms and side effects of menopause, not just hot flashes and mood swings. These symptoms affect the entire body because estrogen and progesterone influence nearly every system: brain, heart, bones, joints, gut, and nervous system. WHY DO WOMEN STRUGGLE TO GET MENOPAUSE CARE? Most medical professionals receive minimal education on menopause during their training. Many medical programs briefly cover menopause or skip it entirely, leaving both women and healthcare providers without adequate knowledge for comprehensive care. WHAT IS TAFIQ'S APPROACH TO MENOPAUSE EDUCATION? Mr. Menopause provides: Clear, evidence-based menopause education Objective, non-biased guidance grounded in research Reliable, vetted resources for symptom management Strategic support to help women advocate for themselves No fear-based messaging or unproven claims IN THIS EPISODE YOU'LL LEARN: The personal story that led Tafiq to menopause education Why menopause education requires specialized expertise, not lived experience How the medical system fails women during menopause Why understanding your symptoms changes everything What qualifies someone as a menopause expert   📖 FREE RESOURCE: Read the first 2 chapters of "Decoding the 80 Symptoms and Side Effects of Menopause" https://www.tafiq.com/free-chapters 🎙️ RELATED EPISODES: - 5 Questions Every Woman Should Ask Her Doctor About Menopause https://youtu.be/czjpEcOTGEQ ABOUT THE MR. MENOPAUSE SHOW: The Mr. Menopause Show provides evidence-based menopause education without noise or guessing; just clear, compassionate, research-backed information to help women understand what's happening in their bodies during perimenopause and menopause. CONTACT & RESOURCES: 📚 Book: "Decoding the 80 Symptoms and Side Effects of Menopause" 🌐 Website:https://www.tafiq.com/ FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS: Q: Can a man be a menopause expert? A: Yes. Menopause expertise is built on clinical training, research knowledge, and professional experience—similar to how cardiologists don't need heart attacks to treat heart disease. Q: What are the 80 symptoms of menopause? A: Menopause affects the entire body, causing symptoms like hot flashes, brain fog, joint pain, heart palpitations, digestive issues, sleep disruption, anxiety, unexplained weight gain, and many others. Q: Why don't doctors know about menopause? A: Most medical training programs provide minimal education on menopause, leaving healthcare providers unprepared to offer comprehensive menopause care.  #MenopauseEducation #MrMenopause #TafiqAkhir #MenopauseSymptoms #WomensHealth #HormoneHealth #Perimenopause #MenopauseSupport #HealthyAging #MenopauseSpecialist

    9 min
  5. What to Eat During Menopause

    JAN 21

    What to Eat During Menopause

    If menopause has made food confusing, weight stubborn, and energy unpredictable, this episode will help you understand why. In this episode of The Mr. Menopause Show, I break down what’s really happening in your body during menopause and how hormonal changes affect blood sugar, metabolism, muscle, fat storage, and energy. You’ll learn why eating the same way you always have may no longer work and what to focus on instead. This is not a diet. This is not restriction. This is about understanding how your body works now. You’ll learn: Why menopause changes how your body responds to food Why protein matters more than ever during this stage of life How blood sugar swings make menopause symptoms worse Why fat is not the problem and which fats support your body How gut health and fiber affect hormones and energy Why diet culture makes menopause harder, not easier If you’re tired of guessing what to eat and blaming yourself for changes you don’t understand, this episode will help you reconnect the dots and approach menopause with clarity instead of frustration. Your Next Step If this episode helped you understand what’s been happening in your body and you’re tired of guessing what to eat, you’ll want to check out Episode 40, where I share my free masterclass, Stop Suffering Through Menopause. Watch here: https://youtu.be/rlWxLUiU4kQ?si=OWGWSicJFmoITvxK Before you watch Episode 40, make sure you subscribe to the channel so you don’t miss future episodes designed to help you understand your body and navigate menopause with confidence. See you there. About The Mr. Menopause Show I’m Tafiq Akhir, also known as Mr. Menopause. I’m a certified and award winning menopause and healthy aging educator, author, and host of The Mr. Menopause Show. This channel is dedicated to providing clear, evidence informed menopause education so you can understand what’s happening in your body and make informed decisions without fear, confusion, or guesswork. Common Questions This Episode Answers What should I eat during menopause? Why am I gaining weight during menopause even though I eat the same? How does menopause affect metabolism and blood sugar? Why do menopause symptoms feel worse after meals? Is dieting harmful during menopause? Subscribe for Weekly Menopause Education New episodes every Wednesday focused on menopause awareness, symptom clarity, nutrition, hormone changes, and long term health.

    8 min
  6. The Menopause + Heart Connection

    JAN 14

    The Menopause + Heart Connection

    Heart health is one of the most overlooked and misunderstood parts of menopause. In this episode of The Mr. Menopause Show, I break down the menopause heart connection and explain why cardiovascular risk becomes more relevant during and after the menopause transition, even for women who had no prior heart concerns. Many women are never told that heart disease risk is generally lower earlier in adulthood, yet becomes the number one cause of death for women later in life. Instead, heart related symptoms are often missed, misattributed, or dismissed because they don't look like the classic warning signs most people recognize. In this conversation, I explain what's happening in the body during menopause, how hormone changes affect the cardiovascular system, and which heart related symptoms deserve attention during menopause, even when they don’t fit the classic warning signs. This is one of the areas I go deeper into in my book, Decoding the 80 Symptoms and Side Effects of Menopause, especially the heart related symptoms many women are never warned about. Learn more about the book here: https://www.tafiq.com/80-symptoms-book If this episode helped connect some dots for you, know that you are not alone and nothing about what you're experiencing is random. For a deeper conversation about what happens after menopause, including balance, health, and confidence beyond the change, watch my episode Post-menopause Decoded: Balance, Health, and Confidence Beyond the Change. Watch here: https://youtu.be/3BncG0mlBbc This show is designed to educate, clarify, and empower women with evidence based menopause and healthy aging information, without fear, confusion, or dismissal. Subscribe to The Mr. Menopause Show for weekly conversations that help you better understand what your body is telling you and what to do next. - Disclaimer: The information shared in this episode is for educational purposes only and is not intended to diagnose, treat, or replace medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding your individual health concerns.

    8 min
  7. Beyond Hot Flashes: Your Gut’s Role in Menopause Wellness

    JAN 8

    Beyond Hot Flashes: Your Gut’s Role in Menopause Wellness

    If menopause symptoms feel unpredictable, disconnected, or impossible to manage, this episode explains why. Most women are told menopause is about declining estrogen. What they are rarely told is how gut health directly influences how menopause symptoms show up, including hot flashes, brain fog, mood swings, sleep disruption, inflammation, and stubborn weight changes. In this episode of The Mr. Menopause Show, certified and award winning menopause and healthy aging strategist Tafiq Akhir breaks down the overlooked role of the gut in menopause wellness. You will learn how estrogen is metabolized through the digestive system, why gut imbalance can intensify symptoms, and why treating symptoms one by one often fails. This conversation goes beyond bloating and digestion. It connects the gut to emotional health, cognitive clarity, metabolic changes, and inflammation during menopause, helping you understand why symptoms feel connected even when they are treated separately. Inside this episode, you will learn: How the gut influences estrogen metabolism during menopause Why gut imbalance can worsen brain fog, anxiety, and mood swings The hidden inflammation link behind many menopause symptoms How food, stress, sleep, and movement affect gut health in midlife Simple daily habits that support gut health without extreme diets 👉 Watch the related episode on mental and emotional health during menopause: • https://youtu.be/_5bjYHX2lR4?si=_3ZZ96GLe8dN17RQ If this episode helped you connect the dots, there is also a deeper resource available. 📘 Decoding the 80 Symptoms & Side Effects of Menopause If you are tuning before January 12, pre order your copy now. If you are tuning after January 12, get your copy today. 👉 https://www.tafiq.com/preorder-80-symptoms-book This episode is for women who want to stop guessing, understand what is happening in their bodies, and move forward with confidence and informed support.     -----------------     Educational and Medical Disclaimer The information shared in this program is provided by Tafiq Akhir, certified and award winning menopause and healthy aging educator, author, and host of The Mr. Menopause Show, through Tafiq’s Physiques LLC/Mr. Menopause®. This content is for educational and informational purposes only. It is intended to increase awareness and understanding of menopause, healthy aging, and related lifestyle considerations. It is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, or prevent any medical condition, and it should not be considered medical advice. Always consult with a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical concerns, symptoms, medications, or treatment decisions. Never disregard or delay seeking professional medical advice because of information presented in this program. By viewing or participating in this program, you acknowledge that you are responsible for your own health decisions and that any actions taken are made in partnership with your healthcare provider. Copyright and Content Use Disclaimer All content presented in this program, including video, audio, written materials, graphics, frameworks, concepts, and language, is the intellectual property of Tafiq’s Physiques LLC/Mr. Menopause® and is protected by copyright and trademark laws. No part of this program may be copied, recorded, reproduced, distributed, shared, posted, sold, licensed, or used for commercial or public purposes, in whole or in part, without prior written permission from Tafiq’s Physiques LLC/Mr. Menopause®. Unauthorized use, reproduction, or distribution of this content is strictly prohibited and may result in legal action. Viewing this program does not grant permission to reuse or repurpose any portion of the content in any format.

    14 min
  8. Stop Suffering Through Menopause | Masterclass | 40th Episode

    12/31/2025

    Stop Suffering Through Menopause | Masterclass | 40th Episode

    Menopause should not feel confusing, overwhelming, or isolating. Yet so many women are told everything is normal while their quality of life quietly declines. In this final episode of the year, certified and award winning menopause and healthy aging educator Tafiq Akhir, known as Mr. Menopause, shares his foundational masterclass: Stop Suffering Through Menopause This episode explains why menopause symptoms often feel unpredictable, why advice conflicts, and why so many women struggle without clear answers. Whether you are new to menopause education or have been following the show, this episode brings clarity to what is really happening in your body and why understanding changes everything. In this episode/masterclass, you will learn: • What menopause really is and how it differs from perimenopause • Why symptoms feel connected but are rarely explained that way • Common myths that keep women confused or dismissed • How understanding your body restores confidence and clarity This episode is for women who: • Feel confused by symptoms like brain fog, sleep disruption, mood changes, or hot flashes • Have been told their symptoms are normal without explanation • Want clear, evidence based menopause education • Are ready to stop guessing and start understanding   What happens at the end of this masterclass At the conclusion of this training, you will have the option to take the next step based on your needs: Menopause Made Simple Experience™ A structured, on demand education experience designed to help you understand your body, your symptoms, and your menopause journey with clarity and confidence. 👉 Tafiq.com/the-menopause-made-simple-experience Diet Free Academy For women who want deeper support with hormonal weight changes, metabolism, and long term body composition during menopause. 👉 Schedule a clarity call:Tafiq.com/clarity-call   🎧 Watch or listen to Episode 40 of The Mr. Menopause Show 🌐 MrMenopauseShow.com

    53 min

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Welcome to The Mr. Menopause Show, your go-to source for reliable menopause and healthy aging support. Hosted by Tafiq Akhir. Certified and award winning menopause and healthy aging strategist, educator, host, and best selling author known as Mr. Menopause. Why Subscribe or Listen? If you're feeling confused, overwhelmed, or unsupported in your menopause journey, this show is for you. Each week, Tafiq tackles the mental, physical, emotional, and social aspects of menopause with candid discussions, expert advice, and practical solutions. What You’ll Find Here: • Eye-opening education on symptoms, treatments, and strategies • Lifestyle tips for fitness, nutrition, sleep, intimacy, and more • Her Menopause Story: real women sharing real experiences • Conversations with experts and real-life menopause stories • Ask Mr. Menopause: your questions, answered • Supportive, no-fluff guidance with a whole lot of heart Whether you're in perimenopause, menopause, or postmenopause, or supporting someone who is, this show delivers the truth, tools, and empowerment you deserve. New episodes weekly on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and iHeartRadio. Subscribe and take the mystery out of menopause one episode at a time. #MrMenopause #MenopauseSupport #MenopauseAwareness #TheMrMenopauseShow #HealthyAging