Life and Love in Paris

Patricia Vilchez
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Welcome to Life and Love in Paris, your weekly rendezvous into the world of modern romance in the City of Lights. Join your host, Patty, every Friday as she shares personal stories, insights, and expert advice to help you navigate the dating scene with confidence and charm.

  1. 10/30/2025

    Ep. 36 Ten Pieces of Dating Advice I've Been Giving All Year long

    In this episode, I’m breaking down the ten pieces of dating advice I’ve been giving to everyone this year including my dear friends, my listeners, and honestly, to myself. From knowing what you want to not overanalyzing one date, to remembering that “he’s not the last man on earth.” It’s everything I wish I knew when I first started dating.-Next my favorite dating coaches and podcast:Evan Marc Katz: https://shorturl.at/BvraCU up podcast: https://shorturl.at/kCIRJMatthew Hussey: https://shorturl.at/a7EsQElliot Scott: https://www.instagram.com/elliotscottdating/ Natlie Lue: https://rb.gy/dtswdw 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

    11 min

  2. 10/23/2025

    Ep. 35 Why Do They Keep Having Sex With Me If They're Not Interested Or Don't Want The Relationship I Want?

    In this episode, I am sharing dating advice from the great Natalie Lue. Why do we keep sleeping with people who don’t want what we want? One of the hardest truths in modern dating: sex doesn’t equal love. I will unpack why emotionally unavailable partners keep coming back, and why we sometimes let them. Also, I will share a personal story about ego, self-worth, and the difference between being chosen and being wanted. It’s a conversation about waking up, letting go, and learning to choose yourself first. Natlie Lue: https://rb.gy/dtswdw 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

    11 min

  3. 10/16/2025

    Ep. 34-40 Life Lessons I Know at 40 (That I Wish I Knew at 20)

    For today ’s episode, I share the lessons from Mark Manson’s “40 Life Lessons I Know at 40” that truly resonate with me right now and that I think might be helpful to my listeners. Whether you’re 20, 30, or 40, this one will remind you that it’s never too late to start anything that you want to start. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/ PS: I am sorry I am for the two bits where the audio is distorted!

    14 min

  4. 10/10/2025

    2025 Plot Twist: It's All Character Development

    Bonus episode since we are in our feels! This short episode is called 2025 Plot Twist: It’s All Character Development. If 2025 has been dragging you through the mud too, know this: you’re not alone. In this conversation, I share my own setbacks from losing jobs to rejection to health scares ;  it’s felt like one hit after another. This is a reminder that even when life feels unfair, sometimes just surviving is enough. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

    6 min

  5. 10/09/2025

    Ep. 33 From Confusion to Clarity: Decoding Modern Dating-Part 2

    For today's episode, From Confusion to Clarity: Decoding Modern Dating Part 2. I’ll continue to answer the questions: 6. What does it mean when a guy says he misses me, but doesn't make plans to see me? 7. Why did he pull away after things were going so well? 8. Why does he keep coming back but still won't commit? 9. Why does he say we're exclusive but refuses to call me his girlfriend? 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

    11 min

  6. 10/02/2025

    Ep. 32 From Confusion to Clarity: Decoding Modern Dating

    In this episode, From Confusion to Clarity. I’ll unpack the most common questions women and even men ask themselves, like why he’s texting but not asking you out, or why he pulls away just when things were going great. Through my own experiences and insights from some of the sharpest voices in the dating space, we’ll decode the mixed signals and uncover the one truth that makes everything crystal clear. Jody Morse: https://medium.com/hello-love/5-things-i-learned-from-being-love-bombed-c6261422a41c 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

    16 min

  7. 09/25/2025

    Ep. 31 Love Is Not Enough

    In this episode titled “Love Is Not Enough”, I dive into one of Mark Manson’s most powerful essays about the limits of love. I will unpack the three harsh truths about love: why love doesn’t equal compatibility, why it doesn’t solve your relationship problems, and why it’s not worth sacrificing yourself.  Blogpost: https://markmanson.net/love 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠ 💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com Insta: https://www.instagram.com/lifeandloveinparis/

    12 min

  8. 09/18/2025

    Ep. 30 Your Actual Person

    For today’s episode, Your Actual Person, I’m diving into what it truly means to wait for  and recognize  the right partner. I’ll share the lessons I’ve learned from heartbreaks, almost-relationships, and chasing the wrong men, and how all of that shaped my clarity on what I actually deserve. This episode is about building the blueprint for your ideal match, setting unshakable standards, and living your best life while trusting that love will meet you at the right time. 📝 For more bite-sized content, check out my blog on Medium: ⁠https://medium.com/@pattu-v01⁠  💌 Got a story you’d like to share? I’d love to hear from you! Email me: pattu.v01@gmail.com

    9 min
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Welcome to Life and Love in Paris, your weekly rendezvous into the world of modern romance in the City of Lights. Join your host, Patty, every Friday as she shares personal stories, insights, and expert advice to help you navigate the dating scene with confidence and charm.

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    Patricia Vilchez
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