In this episode of Unapologetically Wild, I explore what happens when you reach a new level of progress, but your expanded capacity makes you feel like you aren't moving fast enough. Prompted by a simple question—"Are you proud of how far you've come?"—I dive into the realities of the "messy middle." This is the phase where you've stepped out of survival mode, made calculated risks, and created a new baseline, yet you haven't quite reached the spaciousness, freedom, or income you ultimately desire. I break down why high-performing women constantly move the goalposts on their achievements and how comparing yourself to a future version of you keeps you feeling perpetually behind. I also share personal reflections on transitioning from 14 years of guaranteed military structure into the uncertainty of entrepreneurship, how to build internal safety when external outcomes aren't immediate, and why true progress often shows up internally (like setting boundaries, resting without guilt, or recovering faster) before it manifests externally. Whether you're feeling frustrated with your current timeline, learning to embrace uncertainty, or wanting to honor the distance you've traveled without sacrificing your big dreams, this episode is a powerful reminder that you are becoming the woman who can hold it all. In This Episode We Discuss: Recognizing the "messy middle": Life after survival modeWhy high-performing women struggle to acknowledge their own achievementsTransitioning from military certainty to holding safety in entrepreneurial uncertaintyWhy holding both certainty and uncertainty is crucial for growthInternal progress vs. external results: Setting boundaries, asking for support, and restingEvaluating your life data with a 90-day reset without catastrophizingHow measuring yourself against past versions of you builds self-trustReframing the question: What evidence proves you can hold your next level?Action Step: Identifying 3 pieces of evidence from the last 6 months that prove your growthProgram details for The Holistic Woman (6-week signature program starting September 14th)Upcoming Patreon Q&A and exclusive content inside The Wild InsiderKey Takeaway: Never sacrifice your big dreams, but don't make your current progress invisible simply because you haven't reached your final destination. True self-leadership is honoring the distance you've traveled while continuing to build the capacity to sustain where you're going. Connect & Share: The Holistic Woman (6-Week Program): Starts September 14th! An intimate group program focusing on mind, body, energy, and mindset support. DM me "HOLISTIC" on Instagram or visit my website to sign up!Patreon Community: Join The Wild Insider on Patreon ($5/month) for exclusive bonus episodes, behind-the-scenes chats, and our upcoming live Q&A session!Subscribe & Review: Follow Unapologetically Wild with Kadi on Instagram, subscribe on YouTube, and leave a 5-star rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts to support the show!Tell me in the comments below: What are 3 pieces of evidence from the last 6 months that prove you are becoming the woman who can hold where you're going? About Kadi Meet Kadi Sonntag, the unapologetically wild woman leading the charge on living life boldly and breaking free from the limits society tries to set. Born in Maitland in 1992 and raised in Newcastle, Kadi’s love for sports (anything but school!) started early. From swimming at a national level to competing in high jump at nationals and playing representative basketball, Kadi was always moving, growing, and pushing herself. In high school, she was the sports and school captain, proving leadership comes naturally. At 19, Kadi took a leap and joined the army, starting as an admin clerk and eventually becoming an army physical training instructor in 2019. She’s served on peacekeeping missions in the Middle East, taken part in exercises in Asia, and now holds the rank of sergeant. Talk about resilience! When she’s not leading in the military, Kadi’s got her sidekick—her dog Piper—and she’s all about empowering women to tap into their inner strength, unleash their wildest selves, and live unapologetically. Whether she’s playing for the Defence National Basketball Team or sharing her journey on Unapologetically Wild, Kadi is here to help women break free, find their power, and live on their own terms. Connect with Kadi: @kadi_sonntag