Connecting to Admired Leadership

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Twice a month, we take 30 minutes to connect leaders to Admired Leadership® content and our Admired Leadership® coaches. These sessions are specifically tailored for leaders who are craving universal, simple and actionable leadership content. Participants will leave the session with an understanding of Admired Leadership’s behavioral approach as well as valuable insights to implement immediately.

  1. Sep 22

    Know Your Worth

    Register for future sessions here. Key Highlights Talents are a subset of strengths — and the distinction matters: A true talent is something you're distinctively good at, get better at faster than most people, don't find exhausting to develop, and that energizes you when you do it. Strengths that drain you are actually weaknesses in disguise.Talk about impact, not traits: Saying "I'm a world-class listener" lands very differently than describing the specific outcomes your listening produces. Shifting from trait to impact is one of the simplest and most effective ways to communicate worth without sounding self-promotional.Your leader always has an appetite for four things: Talented people on your team, honest project and client updates, market intelligence, and organizational shifts they can't see from where they sit. Feeding those four things regularly is one of the most natural ways to demonstrate your worth without ever making it about you.When people brush you aside, check five things: Competence, honesty and candor, reliability, the respect you show others, and your availability to them. Being dismissed is rarely random — it usually traces back to one of these.Help your team see their own worth: Specific, detailed positive feedback — not vague praise — is what actually helps people understand what makes them distinctive. Name their talents explicitly. Many high performers have never heard it said out loud.Notable Quotes "It took me a lifetime." — Picasso, on the three-minute sketch that cost 40,000 francs."Talents are things where getting better at it doesn't feel like homework at all.""Weaknesses are also things you're really good at — that drain you.""Don't talk about the trait, talk about the impact.""People get burned out not because of the hours. They've ended up in roles where they're not playing to their strengths — not bringing their strongest and highest levels of worth to a role. That's when burnout happens."Featured Speakers John Schoew is a Managing Director and Executive Coach at CRA | Admired Leadership. Before coaching, John held senior leadership roles at Accenture, Honeywell, and Palantir, including leading Accenture's cybersecurity practice in North America. He brings a rare combination of real-world business experience and deep coaching expertise to his work with leaders across industries.Wes Bender is the host of the Connecting to Admired Leadership webinar series.Resources Mentioned Field Note: "Know Your Worth"

    Know Your Worth

  2. Sep 11

    Drift Demands Redirection

    Register for future sessions here. Key Highlights Drift doesn't announce itself: It happens quietly, in the gap between your intentions and your daily calendar. By the time most leaders notice it, the team is already significantly off course.Your calendar is your compass: A fast gut check — are your priorities on your calendar, or just everyone else's? If you can't find protected time for your most important work, drift has already set in.Subscription beats expectation-setting: Telling a complacent team what's expected of them rarely works. Getting them genuinely bought into a shared purpose — and clear on what's in it for them — is what actually moves people.Redirection starts with you: Changing other people's behavior is genuinely hard. Before trying to redirect your team, redirect yourself. Your own consistency and focus will do more to pull others back on course than any directive will.When drift is coming from above, tread carefully: Questioning a leader's direction in a group setting almost always backfires. In a strong one-on-one relationship, seeking clarity is fair — but the risk-reward calculation depends heavily on context.Notable Quotes "Drift is that idea that you're not paying attention to the massive purpose and that massive big rock you're working towards — and instead are just stuck in the day-to-day monotony.""Are you scheduling time for your priorities, or are other people's priorities filling your calendar? That's the gut check.""It's very difficult to get other people to change their behavior. Hard stop.""When we think about drift demanding redirection, it should always start with you.""Drift is passive. Redirection is futuristic — it's actionable. If I'm not being outwardly actionable, that's a problem."Featured Speakers Megan Kronen is a Managing Director at CRA | Admired Leadership. She leads the firm's Relationship Short Course and works across multiple industries advising senior leaders on relationships, strategy, and leadership development.Wes Bender is the host of the Connecting to Admired Leadership webinar series at CRA | Admired Leadership.Resources Mentioned Field Note: "Drift Demands Redirection"

    Drift Demands Redirection

  3. Aug 28

    On Having Intellectual Integrity

    Register for future sessions here Key Highlights Intellectual integrity is about seeing reality on its own terms: The most common violation isn't arrogance — it's the subtle habit of conflating the way you want things to be with the way they actually are. Vision is about the future. Strategy and tactics have to be grounded in the present. Confidence and intellectual integrity aren't opposites: Leaders can be optimistic about where they're going while being realistic about what it takes to get there. That combination builds more credibility than false certainty ever will. Stay in the problem longer than feels comfortable: The instinct to jump to solutions is strong, but the leader's job is to make sure the problem is defined correctly before the group decides what to do about it. Surfacing and challenging assumptions is one of the most valuable things a leader can do in a meeting. Withhold your point of view as long as you can: The moment a leader shares their perspective, it constrains the entire conversation. Keeping questions neutral and staying curious preserves the full range of possible solutions. How you use AI reflects your intellectual integrity: Using AI to pressure-test your thinking is a high-integrity behavior. Using it to outsource your thinking — or to make a weak argument sound stronger — is the opposite. The best leaders use AI to think harder, not less. Notable Quotes "Intellectual integrity is about seeing the world as things are, not as you wish them to be." "Be optimistic about the future, but be realistic about what it's going to take to get there." "The second you insert your point of view, you've constrained the entire solution set." "You want AI to increase your cognitive load, not decrease it. If you're not thinking harder, something is probably not good." "We're not going to hope it into existence. To bring it into existence, we need to reckon with reality." Featured Speakers Matt Coyne is a Managing Director at CRA | Admired Leadership based in Chicago. A key driver of the firm's AI thinking and external communications — including the weekly Confluence newsletter and AI short courses — Matt brings sharp analytical thinking and a deep commitment to intellectual honesty to everything he does. Wes Bender serves as a facilitator and thought leadership coordinator at CRA | Admired Leadership, helping leaders connect great coaching conversations to the everyday moments that define their leadership. Resources Mentioned Field Note: "On Having Intellectual Integrity"

    On Having Intellectual Integrity

  4. Aug 18

    What Should I Discuss at my One-on-Ones?

    Register for future sessions here. Key Highlights Weekly one-on-ones aren't optional — they're how you keep everyone headed in the same direction: Without regular check-ins, people veer off course without anyone noticing until it's too late to course correct. The direct report should own the agenda: When leaders drive the meeting, it becomes a task list. When direct reports drive it, it becomes a conversation — and accountability follows naturally from people who helped shape the plan. The 10-10-10 structure: You go, I go, we go. Ten minutes for the direct report to lead, ten for the leader to share feedback and updates, ten to align on next steps together. It's a starting point, not a rigid formula. Status updates don't belong in one-on-ones: If the meeting is consumed by project updates, propose a weekly email instead. It frees the conversation for coaching, development, and the things that actually require dialogue. Large spans of control require more discipline, not less: If you have to reduce frequency, commit to the cadence and make each conversation richer. A monthly one-on-one that gets canceled sends a louder message than no one-on-one at all. Notable Quotes "If you're just telling someone what to do next, there's every chance they sit there and go, hmm — and then do whatever they were going to do anyway." "Imagine making your direct report feel like a task list. That's kind of what happens in a one-on-one that you drive." "We don't want a secret test. We want truly the encouragement and the attitude of — speak up." "If you do have to downshift the frequency, you've got to commit to it. And then you've got to commit to making it really rich." "What do you need from me right now — is it just to listen, or is it to intervene?" — one of the most useful questions a leader can ask. Featured Speakers Diana Hong is a Partner and Executive Coach at CRA | Admired Leadership, specializing in strategic communications and leadership advisory. With over 20 years of experience advising senior leaders, she brings sharp insight and practical wisdom to some of the most common — and most mishandled — leadership challenges. Matt Coyne is an Executive Coach at CRA | Admired Leadership team, hosting in place of Wes Bender for this session. Resources Mentioned Field Note: "What Should I Discuss at My One-on-Ones?"

    What Should I Discuss at my One-on-Ones?

  5. Jul 21

    The 5-3-1 Rule and Social Fitness

    Register for future sessions here. Key Highlights Social fitness is a discipline, not a personality: Being good at relationships isn't something you're born with — it's something you practice. Treating it like physical fitness, with intention and consistency, is what separates leaders who build lasting influence from those who don't. The 5-3-1 rule: Five meaningful connections a week for breadth, three close relationships nurtured daily for depth, and one hour of quality conversation a day. The hardest — and most important — is the one. With prickly people, lead with curiosity: When warmth isn't being reciprocated, shift to genuine curiosity. Learn about the people, places, passions, and defining moments that shaped who they are. That's how connection starts. Influence breaks down in three places: The message, the style, or the relationship. When influence is off, one of those three is usually the culprit — and a transactional relationship is often the one leaders overlook. In efficiency-driven cultures, your discipline matters more: When the organization isn't reinforcing relationships, the accountability falls on you. Treat relational touchpoints as non-negotiables on your calendar — because canceling them sends a message too. Notable Quotes "The relationship is the conversation, and the conversation is the relationship." "If the relationship is hard, that means you're probably doing it right." "We have a strategy for pretty much everything else in business. Why not for relationships?" "It's not the system that undermines authenticity — it's the execution." "Your own personal discipline matters more in environments that don't support it — because the accountability is on you." Featured Speakers Mallory Stacey is a Managing Director in the Leadership Practice at CRA | Admired Leadership. Known for her rare ability to make people feel genuinely connected, Mallory brings both warmth and rigor to her coaching — and is a living example of what intentional relationship-building looks like in practice. Wes Bender serves as a facilitator and thought leadership coordinator at CRA | Admired Leadership, helping leaders connect great coaching conversations to the everyday moments that define their leadership. Resources Mentioned Field Note: The 5-3-1 Rule and Social Fitness

    The 5-3-1 Rule and Social Fitness

  6. Jul 17

    The Difference Between Motivation and Inspiration and Why It Matters

    Register for future sessions here. Key Highlights Motivation pushes, inspiration pulls: Motivation is an external driver — material reward, urgency, even fear. Inspiration is internal. It elevates people toward something they didn't think they could achieve and sustains performance long after external incentives run out. Inspiration is not a personality — it's a behavior: The most inspirational leaders have no common personality profile. What they share is intentionality. Everything that matters in leadership has to be deliberate. Trust is the foundation of every relationship: The degree of trust you have with someone is a function of your credibility, reliability, and relational depth — divided by your self-orientation. The more it's about you, the less trust you build. The best teams are player-led: The most dominant teams in sports history weren't led by the GOAT — they were led by someone in the jersey who held people accountable, inspired from within, and made the leader's role smaller over time. A leader's job is to make themselves obsolete: The goal is a team that moves toward the objective without waiting for permission. You get there by building people's capacity to decide and act — one conversation at a time. Notable Quotes "There are three buttons you should never push as a leader: snooze, panic, and easy." "The way to do hard things is actually pretty simple — just start doing hard things." "The only time you swim in somebody else's lane is when you're not swimming in the same direction." "Inspiration is not a personality. Everything you do as a leader that really matters has to be intentional." "The way we know we've succeeded as leaders — and as fathers — is when they say 'see ya' and they're gone and they don't need us." Featured Speakers Eric Springer is an Executive Coach at CRA | Admired Leadership with five years at the firm and 28 years of prior military service, retiring as a Colonel from the Air Force. A former Division I athlete, Eric brings a rare combination of operational discipline and genuine warmth to his coaching — and has a gift for making leadership principles land in both professional and personal life. Wes Bender serves as a facilitator and thought leadership coordinator at CRA | Admired Leadership, helping leaders connect great coaching conversations to the everyday moments that define their leadership. Resources Mentioned Field Note: The Difference Between Motivation and Inspiration and Why It Matters

    The Difference Between Motivation and Inspiration and Why It Matters

  7. Jun 26

    At the Intersection of AI, Leadership & Communication

    Register for future sessions hereKey Highlights Good coaching is advisory, not just reflective: The most effective coaching doesn't just ask questions and hold up a mirror — it tells you what to do. Specific, behavioral recommendations are what actually move people forward. ALEX knows things other AI tools don't: Built on 2 million words of proprietary CRA | Admired Leadership content, ALEX surfaces specialized knowledge on topics like communicating change, conflict management, message design, board dynamics, and motivation — knowledge that generic AI simply doesn't have. Deployment strategy determines adoption: Organizations that hand ALEX to everyone at once see the same low uptake as any unsolicited software rollout. The ones seeing 80% engagement start with their most enthusiastic users and let adoption spread laterally from there. AI is creating a skills erosion problem nobody is talking about: When AI handles the hard work, people stop developing the judgment and pattern recognition that comes from doing it themselves. Leaders need to be deliberate about which skills require ongoing reps — and protect those. The future of talent development is apprenticeship: As AI takes on more of the work, on-the-job learning through doing is no longer enough. Leaders will need to think of themselves as mentors to apprentices — and most organizations aren't built for that yet. Notable Quotes "AI won't replace you. The person using AI better than you will replace you." "Alex doesn't have true conviction. It does not truly care about you. It may act like it cares about you — but it is not laying awake at night thinking about you." "Engage Alex on your hardest problems. It will quickly tell you when it's out of its depth." "If AI is making the decisions you otherwise would make, those are decisions you have never made — and it slows down how much you develop expertise." "You can't scale me to 7,000 people. That's where there's power in a solution like this." Featured Speakers Alan Nelson is Co-Managing Partner at CRA | Admired Leadership, with over 30 years advising some of the most consequential leaders and organizations in the world — from Fortune 500 companies to multilateral institutions like the World Bank and IMF. A key architect of ALEX and a licensed pilot, Alan brings the same precision to leadership development that he brings to everything else: specific, behavioral, and grounded in 40 years of what actually works. Wes Bender serves as a facilitator and thought leadership coordinator at CRA | Admired Leadership, helping leaders connect great coaching conversations to the everyday moments that define their leadership.

    At the Intersection of AI, Leadership & Communication

  8. Jun 16

    Delivering a Tough Message in the First Two Sentences

    Register for future sessions here Key Highlights Not all tough messages are the same: Performance conversations, unwanted decisions, and feedback delivered upward each carry different dynamics and require different preparation — knowing which type you're in shapes how you approach it Avoidance is a leadership problem first: When leaders delay or soften tough messages, they're not protecting the relationship — they're eroding it, and everyone around them notices The breadcrumb drop: The best leaders prime the conversation before it happens — a simple heads-up that you want to discuss something gives the other person time to prepare emotionally, so they don't feel blindsided or ambushed Don't bury the lead: Loading a tough message with context and excuses before delivering it actually undermines the feedback — by the time it lands, the other person has already been handed a justification for their behavior Reframe confrontation as care: The leaders who are best at this have stopped thinking of feedback as something they do to someone and started thinking of it as something they do for someone — clarity is an act of respect Notable Quotes "Clarity is really an act of care — being able to deliver a message cleanly, directly, with genuine compassion is more respectful to the other person." "People can smell intent from a mile away — if I'm smelling intent that's like, this person just wants me to feel bad, I'm gonna show up in that conversation differently." "The first time they give the feedback is the first time they've heard it out loud themselves." "You're hurting their feelings if you're not giving them feedback." "The only way you get better at this sort of thing is by actually doing it — it may not always feel good, but that's how you become a master at it." Featured Speakers Katie Angstadt is a Partner at CRA | Admired Leadership, specializing in executive coaching and strategic communications. With 18 years at the firm, she brings deep experience advising senior leaders across industries on some of their most consequential conversations — including the ones they've been putting off. Katie used Alex to prepare for this very session, pressure-testing her thinking and making sure she wasn't leaving anything on the table. Wes Bender serves as a facilitator and thought leadership coordinator at CRA | Admired Leadership, helping leaders connect the dots between great coaching conversations and the everyday moments that define their leadership. Resources Mentioned Field Note: "Deliver a Tough Message in the First Two Sentences"

    Delivering a Tough Message in the First Two Sentences
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